Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Ladies...

    What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?

    Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽‍♂️

    I kinda like when he doesn’t flirt at all and I can tell he just likes me as a human. I’m way more likely to fall for a guy who is a really good friend first

    Is friendzoning ever a problem? Asking because of a friend

    Absolutely it is, i get friendzoned all the time

    I get friendzoned all the time as well. I do it to myself before the other has a chance to. Less chance of rejection. ;)

    Jeez you gonna show them all the secret handshake too?
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Joeyd727 wrote: »
    I'm a friendzoner. I dunno why I do it but I do. I wanna touch your butts but then I put you in the zone and that never happens

    I would make you touch my butt and THEN friendzone you.
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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Joeyd727 wrote: »
    I'm a friendzoner. I dunno why I do it but I do. I wanna touch your butts but then I put you in the zone and that never happens

    maybe you feel jaded and don't wanna put in the effort? I get that.

    OMG you just made me realize how jaded this place leaves me some time 🙈😂
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies...

    They say nothing makes you want a man more than when he fzs you... True?
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?

    Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽‍♂️

    I don't even know if I like the flirting anymore. Its more of how I feel when I am with him.
    But I guess I always responded more to the goofy approach. Like if he throws out some of the worst cheesiest pickup lines out there (the "clean" ones, tho) I would totally laugh and melt a lil'.... 🥰 and probably hang around to see if he has more or see what else he might say. I like the goofy sweet guys. ❤

    I've been trying for several hours now to come up with a witty response, so when you say hang around, I hope you mean for a long time 🙈😂...

    I think you're just all kinds of adorable ❤️
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    Ladies...

    They say nothing makes you want a man more than when he fzs you... True?

    False. If he hasn't shown interest (where I was perhaps hoping he would), I'd keep it moving. No questions asked... Why dwell? And then if he came back around, he'd be blocked for having potentially played games. Why "friendzone" if you, ultimately, had intent? Is this Grade 5, bro? And, yes, he'd be a "bro," at best, forever.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    spade117 wrote: »
    spade117 wrote: »
    Men-

    Do you truly not care if/when people judge you or don’t like you or is it part of some guy code that you’re not supposed to show it

    Edited for clarity: by “don’t like you” I mean when anyone, man or woman, child or honey badger, dislikes who you are as a human. I don’t mean when they aren’t romantically interested

    I truly do not care. For me, my age/experience has not changed this. It has always been that way.

    How do you treat people when you realize they don’t like you?

    As far as I know, no different. I have no idea if someone doesn't like me. I don't ask.

    I suppose if people are around me, they at least tolerate me. And if anyone doesn't, they would not be around me anymore.

    I want to learn how to idgaf like this

    It really isn't that difficult.

    True
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    Joeyd727 wrote: »
    I'm a friendzoner. I dunno why I do it but I do. I wanna touch your butts but then I put you in the zone and that never happens

    maybe you feel jaded and don't wanna put in the effort? I get that.

    OMG you just made me realize how jaded this place leaves me some time 🙈😂

    yep, it happens
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,127 Member
    Men, how do you feel about height differences and how tall are you?
    Something I’ve noticed: short men (under 5’8) have no problem being with a woman who is much taller. While tall men (over 6ft) seem to prefer very short women (5’5 and under).
    The same thing in reverse seems to go for women. I’ve heard my friend who is 4 ft 8 snub a guy for being short. He was 5’8, a whole foot taller than her! lol
    And I was once told by a guy I wasn’t his type because I am too tall. He was 6’2 and I am 5’8. Cracked me up. Bullet dodged.

    I prefer to be at least a couple inches taller - I’m only 5’11 - just seems weird if she’s taller idk why 🤷‍♂️
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    Ladies...

    They say nothing makes you want a man more than when he fzs you... True?

    False. If he hasn't shown interest (where I was perhaps hoping he would), I'd keep it moving. No questions asked... Why dwell? And then if he came back around, he'd be blocked for having potentially played games. Why "friendzone" if you, ultimately, had intent? Is this Grade 5, bro? And, yes, he'd be a "bro," at best, forever.

    It was a tounge and cheek question... And I admire the hell out of your opinion on it ❤️
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Ladies...

    Is it a deal breaker if I can't get through any of the LOTR movies without 😭😭😭...
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    They say nothing makes you want a man more than when he fzs you... True?

    Lmao
    Always want the unattainable...... 😂😂


    ETA: serious response though.....
    If I like a guy, I like a guy. If he friend zones me, doesn't change the fact that I still like him..... just something I would need to get over. 🤷‍♀️
    Why you so insightful
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    They say nothing makes you want a man more than when he fzs you... True?

    Lmao
    Always want the unattainable...... 😂😂


    ETA: serious response though.....
    If I like a guy, I like a guy. If he friend zones me, doesn't change the fact that I still like him..... just something I would need to get over. 🤷‍♀️
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    They say nothing makes you want a man more than when he fzs you... True?

    Lmao
    Always want the unattainable...... 😂😂


    ETA: serious response though.....
    If I like a guy, I like a guy. If he friend zones me, doesn't change the fact that I still like him..... just something I would need to get over. 🤷‍♀️
    Why you so insightful

    Ikr... ❤️
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,230 Member
    Ladies...

    Is it a deal breaker if I can't get through any of the LOTR movies without 😭😭😭...

    Never seen them. But.....I definitely don’t mind seeing a man cry every now and again.
  • Mrsindepenant1
    Mrsindepenant1 Posts: 196 Member
    edited March 2020

    Okay, I think he can choose better in the celebrity crushes department but his choice not mine lol. [/quote]

    A better celebrity crush than Gal Gadot ???

    His celebrity crush isn’t gal gadot lol it’s Lady Gaga.
    I don’t know what’s gone wrong with my reply not coming up right....
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    edited March 2020
    Ladies...

    Is it a deal breaker if I can't get through any of the LOTR movies without 😭😭😭...


    BAHAHA

    Is it a deal breaker if I have to do a marathon and get mad at any interruptions??? 😬🤷‍♀️

    (Like movie marathon..... not like a running one. Lol)
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Is it a deal breaker if I can't get through any of the LOTR movies without 😭😭😭...


    BAHAHA

    Is it a deal breaker if I have to do a marathon and get mad at any interruptions??? 😬🤷‍♀️

    (Like movie marathon..... not like a running one. Lol)

    Do I have to watch it with you or can I go cut the grass and wash the car?
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Is it a deal breaker if I can't get through any of the LOTR movies without 😭😭😭...

    Never seen them. But.....I definitely don’t mind seeing a man cry every now and again.

    I think I have a problem 😭😂😭
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Is it a deal breaker if I can't get through any of the LOTR movies without 😭😭😭...


    BAHAHA

    Is it a deal breaker if I have to do a marathon and get mad at any interruptions??? 😬🤷‍♀️

    (Like movie marathon..... not like a running one. Lol)

    Is it a deal breaker if I have to get up every... 20m, to use the restroom because I've drank too much tea wine and caffeine? 🙈😬
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Is it a deal breaker if I can't get through any of the LOTR movies without 😭😭😭...


    BAHAHA

    Is it a deal breaker if I have to do a marathon and get mad at any interruptions??? 😬🤷‍♀️

    (Like movie marathon..... not like a running one. Lol)

    Do I have to watch it with you or can I go cut the grass and wash the car?

    Only if you remove your shirt while performing these tasks
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Is it a deal breaker if I can't get through any of the LOTR movies without 😭😭😭...


    BAHAHA

    Is it a deal breaker if I have to do a marathon and get mad at any interruptions??? 😬🤷‍♀️

    (Like movie marathon..... not like a running one. Lol)

    Do I have to watch it with you or can I go cut the grass and wash the car?

    Only if you remove your shirt while performing these tasks

    Won't you be watching lotr?
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    Ladies...

    Which do you prefer on a guy?

    Boxers, briefs, boxer briefs... Or something else

    Boxer briefs
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Is it a deal breaker if I can't get through any of the LOTR movies without 😭😭😭...


    BAHAHA

    Is it a deal breaker if I have to do a marathon and get mad at any interruptions??? 😬🤷‍♀️

    (Like movie marathon..... not like a running one. Lol)

    Is it a deal breaker if I have to get up every... 20m, to use the restroom because I've drank too much tea wine and caffeine? 🙈😬

    Yes. Yes it is. Especially during the last movie.
    Watch your water intake. 😜
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Ladies...

    Is it a deal breaker if I can't get through any of the LOTR movies without 😭😭😭...

    (tee hee!)
    LOTR - wtf you crying about?!
    ...I mean "there, there" *shoulder pats*
    *looks away towards the wall and bites tongue to not evil cackle laugh*
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Ladies...

    Is it a deal breaker if I can't get through any of the LOTR movies without 😭😭😭...

    (tee hee!)
    LOTR - wtf you crying about?!
    ...I mean "there, there" *shoulder pats*
    *looks away towards the wall and bites tongue to not evil cackle laugh*

    This works... Just don't look at me and pretend you don't notice 🙈...

  • XxFunctionalStrengthxX
    XxFunctionalStrengthxX Posts: 2,466 Member
    Ladies...

    What are some flirting techniques guys do that you enjoy?

    Push pull, picking on you, overly flattering, pretending he's too busy for you, role-playing, pretending to be jealous or shy and coy... Just, a few examples 🤷🏽‍♂️

    I kinda like when he doesn’t flirt at all and I can tell he just likes me as a human. I’m way more likely to fall for a guy who is a really good friend first

    Is friendzoning ever a problem? Asking because of a friend

    Absolutely it is, i get friendzoned all the time

    I get friendzoned all the time as well. I do it to myself before the other has a chance to. Less chance of rejection. ;)

    Jeez you gonna show them all the secret handshake too?

    No, because then that'd be letting them into the club... :p
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,127 Member
    Is it a deal breaker if I’ve never seen LOTR 🤷‍♂️ but I’ll binge some Harry Potter like a mah fugga
  • threewins
    threewins Posts: 1,455 Member
    edited March 2020
    Is it necessary for your woman to cook? Would a tortilla and cheese microwaved in the oven suffice?


    *microwaved in the oven...now that takes skill :#

    I've never cared about whether a woman I dated could cook or not.

    However...

    After living almost 20 years in total with two women who couldn't drive I've decided that being able to drive is one of my dating criteria (unless due to medical reasons). I never liked having to go out to buy my own birthday cake. One year one of those women baked a birthday cake which was really nice.