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  • mikmakmary
    mikmakmary Posts: 42 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    Not a dating site.

    But those who have put a lot of work into their physique like/want to show it. And they get a lot of support from it too. You will also see those types of pictures in the Success Stories thread.

    You will naturally get a few people who just want to post a pic for attention or appreciation for their appearance that has nothing to do with fitness..... but that seems fairly normal as well. 🤷‍♀️

    I think it will be pretty common here though. If I worked hard and got a bikini ready body, I would be posting pics left and right. 😁
    But I'm not there yet. So I just post memes.... 🤣[/quote

    I understand what you're saying TinaK. But I'm talking about women who have their abundant cleavage on full display with nothing else going on in the photo. I guess it's an attention thing. :) Thanks for your reply
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,510 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    Not a dating site.


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  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys:

    Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
    Or
    For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?

    Ive known one man who liked when I was ogled. Something about knowing that they wanted me but he had me. To each his own, but I found it difficult to get used to. It made me feel not valued.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    Not a dating site.


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    Just like the bar is not a speed dating event. 😏
  • mikmakmary
    mikmakmary Posts: 42 Member
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    Not a dating site.

    But those who have put a lot of work into their physique like/want to show it. And they get a lot of support from it too. You will also see those types of pictures in the Success Stories thread.

    You will naturally get a few people who just want to post a pic for attention or appreciation for their appearance that has nothing to do with fitness..... but that seems fairly normal as well. 🤷‍♀️

    I think it will be pretty common here though. If I worked hard and got a bikini ready body, I would be posting pics left and right. 😁
    But I'm not there yet. So I just post memes.... 🤣[/quote

    I understand what you're saying TinaK. But I'm talking about women who have their abundant cleavage on full display with nothing else going on in the photo. I guess it's an attention thing. :) Thanks for your reply

    Mostly, yes, you got it. Even normal selfies got me unwanted attention. I dread to think of what kind of attention the cleavage selfies get lol

    @mikmakmary

    Indeed all the way @eatpolerepeat ! Some of the comments are astounding... but to each their own - live and let live etc. etc. Thank you for your opinion. :)
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    Ladies and Gents...

    Spend the day in the City or spend the day in nature with your SO?

    I'm more of a City guy tbh but I'd do both depending on the weather 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Pre covid of course

    Idc as long as there’s a plan. I don’t want to drive around (unless driving around is the plan) with neither of us knowing what to do
  • mikmakmary
    mikmakmary Posts: 42 Member
    edited May 2020
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

    I think I might very well adopt a photo of an insect, like you have, for my profile photo like you have as well ,to deter any unwanted attention haha!
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

    I think I might very well adopt a photo of an insect, like you have, for my profile photo like you have as well ,to deter any unwanted attention haha!

    I’m trying to appeal to a certain subset
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,510 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

    This is pretty much true.



    by the way.... what are you wearing ?? B)
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys:

    Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
    Or
    For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?

    My retirement fund, my business.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

    This is pretty much true.



    by the way.... what are you wearing ?? B)

    I am completely naked under my clothes. 😘
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

    This is pretty much true.



    by the way.... what are you wearing ?? B)

    I am completely naked under my clothes. 😘

    Me too 😮

    I hate when we show up wearing the same thing!
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

    I think I might very well adopt a photo of an insect, like you have, for my profile photo like you have as well ,to deter any unwanted attention haha!

    I’m trying to appeal to a certain subset

    Dis me.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,524 Member
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys:

    Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
    Or
    For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?

    Lady in the streets - and freak in da sheets right ?? Modest is hottest 😂 - 🤷‍♂️ - I think there is a happy medium maybe
  • mikmakmary
    mikmakmary Posts: 42 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    👀 For reference purposes, to flag the abhorrent offenders, and as a responsible MFPer, please indicate ALL such threads. The community thanks you for your service to the cause...

    Agree! And I also see you are flaunting your beautiful hair. Great choice of photo
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

    I think I might very well adopt a photo of an insect, like you have, for my profile photo like you have as well ,to deter any unwanted attention haha!

    I’m trying to appeal to a certain subset

    Dis me.

    You’re my subset. 🤗
  • mikmakmary
    mikmakmary Posts: 42 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

    I think I might very well adopt a photo of an insect, like you have, for my profile photo like you have as well ,to deter any unwanted attention haha!

    I’m trying to appeal to a certain subset

    Entomologists perhaps?
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,524 Member
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

    I’m just here for the recipes and noods 😏🤷‍♂️

    Any success with the latter?

    Not so much - but I got goals damnit !
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited May 2020
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

    I think I might very well adopt a photo of an insect, like you have, for my profile photo like you have as well ,to deter any unwanted attention haha!

    I’m trying to appeal to a certain subset

    Entomologists perhaps?
    Someone who appreciates a feisty temper and a tendency to take over. Even better if they can debate whether the sting is in the tail or the tongue.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,524 Member
    edited May 2020
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    mikmakmary wrote: »
    I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering.... :)

    I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.

    I’m just here for the recipes and noods 😏🤷‍♂️

    Any success with the latter?

    Not so much - but I got goals damnit !

    Off to the cleavage thread with you 😏

    On it 🏃
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys:

    Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
    Or
    For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?

    Ive known one man who liked when I was ogled. Something about knowing that they wanted me but he had me. To each his own, but I found it difficult to get used to. It made me feel not valued.

    I like both 😂😂😂but overall I prefer a guy to appreciate that i got dolled up for him. Commenting that my skirt is too short or my cleavage is out there burst my sexy bubble.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys:

    Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
    Or
    For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?

    Ive known one man who liked when I was ogled. Something about knowing that they wanted me but he had me. To each his own, but I found it difficult to get used to. It made me feel not valued.

    I like both 😂😂😂but overall I prefer a guy to appreciate that i got dolled up for him. Commenting that my skirt is too short or my cleavage is out there burst my sexy bubble.
    Yes, good point
  • mikmakmary
    mikmakmary Posts: 42 Member
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys:

    Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
    Or
    For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?

    Ive known one man who liked when I was ogled. Something about knowing that they wanted me but he had me. To each his own, but I found it difficult to get used to. It made me feel not valued.

    I like both 😂😂😂but overall I prefer a guy to appreciate that i got dolled up for him. Commenting that my skirt is too short or my cleavage is out there burst my sexy bubble.

    Would you say though, that it's either one or the other on dates (eg cleavage or legs)?
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,285 Member
    edited May 2020
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    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    Guys:

    Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
    Or
    For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?

    My retirement fund, my business.

    I read this to mean many things 😂 and I agree with all


    That was my "funny feminist" side. Don't worry, it's not you. It generally doesn't translate well as a category of humour at the best of times.

    In real life, on a date, a bouncer "complimented" the guy I was with on my looks. Not me...but my date!? The guy thanked him!? One of the oddest *kitten* dude conversation exchanges I've witnessed in my life. Also, consequently, I started getting interested in feminist ideologies soon thereafter 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,393 Member
    PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »
    My best assets are probably my kindness and sarcasm. But physically...would you cover up some if you knew you SO preferred it.

    My only visible asset is my extensive footwear collection :D and I can't see any justification for hiding that.

    I spend half the year covered from chin to toe in multiple layers because of the weather, don't ask me to cover up anything once I can comfortably expose skin to the elements!

    I used to work with a woman whose husband preferred her covered from neck to wrist to ankle (no religious or ethnic/cultural rationale) and she complied. It was a little odd.

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