Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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eatpolerepeat wrote: »eatpolerepeat wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »mikmakmary wrote: »I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering....
I think it’s a validation and flirting site, especially in chit chat, more than a dating site.
I’m just here for the recipes and noods 😏🤷♂️
Any success with the latter?
Not so much - but I got goals damnit !
Off to the cleavage thread with you 😏
On it 🏃2 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys:
Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
Or
For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?
Ive known one man who liked when I was ogled. Something about knowing that they wanted me but he had me. To each his own, but I found it difficult to get used to. It made me feel not valued.
I like both 😂😂😂but overall I prefer a guy to appreciate that i got dolled up for him. Commenting that my skirt is too short or my cleavage is out there burst my sexy bubble.2 -
Yes, good pointPlentyofProtein00 wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys:
Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
Or
For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?
Ive known one man who liked when I was ogled. Something about knowing that they wanted me but he had me. To each his own, but I found it difficult to get used to. It made me feel not valued.
I like both 😂😂😂but overall I prefer a guy to appreciate that i got dolled up for him. Commenting that my skirt is too short or my cleavage is out there burst my sexy bubble.
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys:
Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
Or
For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?
Ive known one man who liked when I was ogled. Something about knowing that they wanted me but he had me. To each his own, but I found it difficult to get used to. It made me feel not valued.
I like both 😂😂😂but overall I prefer a guy to appreciate that i got dolled up for him. Commenting that my skirt is too short or my cleavage is out there burst my sexy bubble.
Would you say though, that it's either one or the other on dates (eg cleavage or legs)?0 -
snipPlentyofProtein00 wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys:
Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
Or
For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?
My retirement fund, my business.
I read this to mean many things 😂 and I agree with all
That was my "funny feminist" side. Don't worry, it's not you. It generally doesn't translate well as a category of humour at the best of times.
In real life, on a date, a bouncer "complimented" the guy I was with on my looks. Not me...but my date!? The guy thanked him!? One of the oddest *kitten* dude conversation exchanges I've witnessed in my life. Also, consequently, I started getting interested in feminist ideologies soon thereafter 🤷🏿♀️
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »My best assets are probably my kindness and sarcasm. But physically...would you cover up some if you knew you SO preferred it.
My only visible asset is my extensive footwear collection
and I can't see any justification for hiding that.
I spend half the year covered from chin to toe in multiple layers because of the weather, don't ask me to cover up anything once I can comfortably expose skin to the elements!
I used to work with a woman whose husband preferred her covered from neck to wrist to ankle (no religious or ethnic/cultural rationale) and she complied. It was a little odd.2 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys:
Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
Or
For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?
My retirement fund, my business.
I read this to mean many things 😂 and I agree with all
That was my "funny feminist" side. Don't worry, it's not you. It generally doesn't translate well as a category of humour at the best of times.
In real life, on a date, a bouncer "complimented" the guy I was with on my looks. Not me...but my date!? The guy thanked him!? One of the oddest *kitten* dude conversation exchanges I've witnessed in my life. Also, consequently, I started getting interested in feminist ideologies soon thereafter 🤷🏿♀️
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That is weird. Then again i have complimented women on a nice catch. Equally weird I guess1 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys:
Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
Or
For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?
My retirement fund, my business.
I read this to mean many things 😂 and I agree with all
That was my "funny feminist" side. Don't worry, it's not you. It generally doesn't translate well as a category of humour at the best of times.
In real life, on a date, a bouncer "complimented" the guy I was with on my looks. Not me...but my date!? The guy thanked him!? One of the oddest *kitten* dude conversation exchanges I've witnessed in my life. Also, consequently, I started getting interested in feminist ideologies soon thereafter 🤷🏿♀️
That is weird. Then again i have complimented women on a nice catch. Equally weird I guess [/quote]
Then again, I believe in telling women that they look great.Not in a leering sort of way. I've seen women whose style I admire and if we are in close proximity, I will say just that. Everyone likes a compliment that is heartfelt. Somehow compliments mean more coming from a woman TO another woman. Just my humble opinion.1 -
mikmakmary wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys:
Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
Or
For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?
Ive known one man who liked when I was ogled. Something about knowing that they wanted me but he had me. To each his own, but I found it difficult to get used to. It made me feel not valued.
I like both 😂😂😂but overall I prefer a guy to appreciate that i got dolled up for him. Commenting that my skirt is too short or my cleavage is out there burst my sexy bubble.
Would you say though, that it's either one or the other on dates (eg cleavage or legs)?
Exactly...in my mind tastefully done...either show a little leg OR a little cleavage. And high heels shouldnt be worn with really short dress or shorts.2 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »mikmakmary wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys:
Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
Or
For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?
Ive known one man who liked when I was ogled. Something about knowing that they wanted me but he had me. To each his own, but I found it difficult to get used to. It made me feel not valued.
I like both 😂😂😂but overall I prefer a guy to appreciate that i got dolled up for him. Commenting that my skirt is too short or my cleavage is out there burst my sexy bubble.
Would you say though, that it's either one or the other on dates (eg cleavage or legs)?
Exactly...in my mind tastefully done...either show a little leg OR a little cleavage. And high heels shouldnt be worn with really short dress or shorts.
https://youtu.be/oE4MPCgUIek 2 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »mikmakmary wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »TwitchyMacGee wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys:
Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
Or
For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?
Ive known one man who liked when I was ogled. Something about knowing that they wanted me but he had me. To each his own, but I found it difficult to get used to. It made me feel not valued.
I like both 😂😂😂but overall I prefer a guy to appreciate that i got dolled up for him. Commenting that my skirt is too short or my cleavage is out there burst my sexy bubble.
Would you say though, that it's either one or the other on dates (eg cleavage or legs)?
Exactly...in my mind tastefully done...either show a little leg OR a little cleavage. And high heels shouldnt be worn with really short dress or shorts.
Yes - this. I wore both (young and dumb!) and got way too much unwanted attention. Now I choose legs, as I personally feel there is a subset I'd prefer to appeal to
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This conversation makes me wanna break all the shoulds3
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TwitchyMacGee wrote: »This conversation makes me wanna break all the shoulds
I do this at times. Especially if I'm dating someone who bosses me. Or tries to boss me. 3 -
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mikmakmary wrote: »I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering....
Better... 😏
😂
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mikmakmary wrote: »I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering....
Not a dating site.
But those who have put a lot of work into their physique like/want to show it. And they get a lot of support from it too. You will also see those types of pictures in the Success Stories thread.
You will naturally get a few people who just want to post a pic for attention or appreciation for their appearance that has nothing to do with fitness..... but that seems fairly normal as well. 🤷♀️
I think it will be pretty common here though. If I worked hard and got a bikini ready body, I would be posting pics left and right. 😁
But I'm not there yet. So I just post memes.... 🤣3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »mikmakmary wrote: »I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering....
Not a dating site.
But those who have put a lot of work into their physique like/want to show it. And they get a lot of support from it too. You will also see those types of pictures in the Success Stories thread.
You will naturally get a few people who just want to post a pic for attention or appreciation for their appearance that has nothing to do with fitness..... but that seems fairly normal as well. 🤷♀️
I think it will be pretty common here though. If I worked hard and got a bikini ready body, I would be posting pics left and right. 😁
But I'm not there yet. So I just post memes.... 🤣
And please don’t stop2 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »mikmakmary wrote: »I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering....
Not a dating site.
But those who have put a lot of work into their physique like/want to show it. And they get a lot of support from it too. You will also see those types of pictures in the Success Stories thread.
You will naturally get a few people who just want to post a pic for attention or appreciation for their appearance that has nothing to do with fitness..... but that seems fairly normal as well. 🤷♀️
I think it will be pretty common here though. If I worked hard and got a bikini ready body, I would be posting pics left and right. 😁
But I'm not there yet. So I just post memes.... 🤣
And please don’t stop
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TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »mikmakmary wrote: »I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering....
Not a dating site.
But those who have put a lot of work into their physique like/want to show it. And they get a lot of support from it too. You will also see those types of pictures in the Success Stories thread.
You will naturally get a few people who just want to post a pic for attention or appreciation for their appearance that has nothing to do with fitness..... but that seems fairly normal as well. 🤷♀️
I think it will be pretty common here though. If I worked hard and got a bikini ready body, I would be posting pics left and right. 😁
But I'm not there yet. So I just post memes.... 🤣
And please don’t stop
This. 😍😘3 -
@mikmakmary @TwitchyMacGee Compliments are great...when they are directed to me as opposed to talking at me, in my presence, as if I were a pet.
But, yes, I also commend my friends on their "catches" in private and in half-jest with an awareness that they'll likely share the compliment with their S/O in private.
Yet, perhaps I'm just overly sensitive about my *kitten*4 -
TwitchyMacGee wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »mikmakmary wrote: »I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a secondary type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering....
Not a dating site.
But those who have put a lot of work into their physique like/want to show it. And they get a lot of support from it too. You will also see those types of pictures in the Success Stories thread.
You will naturally get a few people who just want to post a pic for attention or appreciation for their appearance that has nothing to do with fitness..... but that seems fairly normal as well. 🤷♀️
I think it will be pretty common here though. If I worked hard and got a bikini ready body, I would be posting pics left and right. 😁
But I'm not there yet. So I just post memes.... 🤣
And please don’t stop
This. 😍😘1 -
@mikmakmary @TwitchyMacGee Compliments are great...when they are directed to me as opposed to talking at me, in my presence, as if I were a pet.
But, yes, I also commend my friends on their "catches" in private and in half-jest with an awareness that they'll likely share the compliment with their S/O in private.
Yet, perhaps I'm just overly sensitive about my *kitten*
Exactly. I had a friend whose boyfriend was super smart, hot and all that. I was happy for her and told her so. He lived out of town and she wanted me to meet him. I said sure - why not? She had us over for dinner, as she wanted my opinion on him after the fact. The problem arose was that he told her he found me more interesting than her, and that she was "simple" compared to "intriguing" me. For the record, I've never been seen as intriguing ,at least in my knowledge....2 -
mikmakmary wrote: »@mikmakmary @TwitchyMacGee Compliments are great...when they are directed to me as opposed to talking at me, in my presence, as if I were a pet.
But, yes, I also commend my friends on their "catches" in private and in half-jest with an awareness that they'll likely share the compliment with their S/O in private.
Yet, perhaps I'm just overly sensitive about my *kitten*
Exactly. I had a friend whose boyfriend was super smart, hot and all that. I was happy for her and told her so. He lived out of town and she wanted me to meet him. I said sure - why not? She had us over for dinner, as she wanted my opinion on him after the fact. The problem arose was that he told her he found me more interesting than her, and that she was "simple" compared to "intriguing" me. For the record, I've never been seen as intriguing ,at least in my knowledge....
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys:
Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
Or
For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »mikmakmary wrote: »I'm new here. So please forgive me for asking. This is not a judgment. I was in the selfie thread, and I've seen so many people putting their "goods" on display. (eg: Ladies with their chest and men with no underwear on in shorts) Is this a type of dating site or a common thing on this website? For the record - I'm not a prude. I'm just wondering....
Better... 😏
😂
Touche! " with the accent that I can not access at the moment"1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »mikmakmary wrote: »@mikmakmary @TwitchyMacGee Compliments are great...when they are directed to me as opposed to talking at me, in my presence, as if I were a pet.
But, yes, I also commend my friends on their "catches" in private and in half-jest with an awareness that they'll likely share the compliment with their S/O in private.
Yet, perhaps I'm just overly sensitive about my *kitten*
Exactly. I had a friend whose boyfriend was super smart, hot and all that. I was happy for her and told her so. He lived out of town and she wanted me to meet him. I said sure - why not? She had us over for dinner, as she wanted my opinion on him after the fact. The problem arose was that he told her he found me more interesting than her, and that she was "simple" compared to "intriguing" me. For the record, I've never been seen as intriguing ,at least in my knowledge....
How does one post a meme? Asking for a friend?1 -
mikmakmary wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »mikmakmary wrote: »@mikmakmary @TwitchyMacGee Compliments are great...when they are directed to me as opposed to talking at me, in my presence, as if I were a pet.
But, yes, I also commend my friends on their "catches" in private and in half-jest with an awareness that they'll likely share the compliment with their S/O in private.
Yet, perhaps I'm just overly sensitive about my *kitten*
Exactly. I had a friend whose boyfriend was super smart, hot and all that. I was happy for her and told her so. He lived out of town and she wanted me to meet him. I said sure - why not? She had us over for dinner, as she wanted my opinion on him after the fact. The problem arose was that he told her he found me more interesting than her, and that she was "simple" compared to "intriguing" me. For the record, I've never been seen as intriguing ,at least in my knowledge....
How does one post a meme? Asking for a friend?
@mikmakmary
No spaces...
#protip 😎
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SoHowLongIsThisGonnaTake wrote: »Wondering what men think of women with large muscles/large boob combo. Maybe with smaller arms, shoulders and lats than the picture. Asking for a friend. 🤣
I admire her effort, dedication and strong will to achieve this body type.
I don't find it attractive, on women or men - but I appreciate the discipline required to achieve it.
and about the (probably) augmented boobs - they look pretty great - and well fitted, altho unproportionate, which seems common in this discipline of body building/fitness modeling - no judgement intended
Personally, I prefer a 'softer' look to the boobs - a softer look in general1 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys:
Do you like your girlfriend/so flaunting her assests?
Or
For her to keepassets? Up/conservative for your eyes only?
I think he would like me to be generally pretty, well kept to the public, but show it all to him -exclusively1 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »Rn I'd totally choose a day in San Francisco over a day in Yosemite
To be fair...SF is an amazingly fun city, the only one I'd choose over a "nature" hike (which I love the most)
...been there twice and no other city compares to it - so far - its small but super cool
BART - fun to ride - especially as a tourist! (thinking I should checkout the TO subway system on a day off for fun!)
...if I was less shy I'd show pics
there was a fun street performer with a little dog and I got a great pic!
Also Alcatraz! Touristy to you I'm sure, a super fun boat ride and tour to me!
**Tip anyone going to SF - bring a wind breaker3
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