Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    Guys,

    What is your opinion on women that carry extra weight? Does size matter? Do you like a lean body? Curvy? Apple? Pear? Thicc? Other?

    To seriously answer the question tho, let's look at Stephenie Buttermore...

    After getting competitive lean she decided that she was going to go the next year, not fighting food and just eat whatever she wanted to...

    The idea was to see if once you stop fighting it, you stop craving it... And will eventually become one of those people who can just live normally without any anxiety about food, without access weight gain...

    As you can see, she did gain weight... But my point was, personally... I think she looks better on the right after gaining some weight 🤷🏽‍♂️...

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    This all being said... I wouldn't start telling women to gain weight... There's another fitness personality I follow named Scooby and he says, for guys, he would never recommend anyone start "bulking" because losing weight can be very difficult and if you gain it, you may have a helluva fight getting it off... And with the state of American health... We should always do what we can to eat wise and exercise...

    Never give up on yourself and just say *kitten* it 🤷🏽‍♂️...
    But don't get down on yourself either because beauty is all in the eye of the tiger or something 🐯

    Okay I'm done 😂

    I'm glad you posted this.
    I fluctuate like this at different times of the year depending on my goals (leaning out or building muscle mass).
    I definitely am less self conscious than I used to be about it. As long as I feel great in my own skin, it really doesn't matter if I'm lean AF or a curvy goddess.
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,168 Member
    Guys:
    When do you know the time is right to bring a girl home to the family? ...


  • Diatonic12
    Diatonic12 Posts: 32,344 Member
    Guys:
    When do you know the time is right to bring a girl home to the family? ...

    One size does not fit all. There's a fair amount of wiggle room here. Guys who bring girls home to the family usually mean business and care a great deal about you. Those who don't care about introducing you to their closest friends...the handwriting is on the wall. Get out while the gettin' is good and move onto someone who does want to do all of the above if you're in it for the long haul.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Guys:
    When do you know the time is right to bring a girl home to the family? ...


    My mom/ dad/ bother and extended fam - idc - would introduce any woman to them at any time. My kids however at least 5-6 mths. I don’t want to bring a women into their lives unless I thought it was something that might stick 🤷‍♂️

    Perfect
  • that_night_in_paris
    that_night_in_paris Posts: 457 Member
    Guys:
    When do you know the time is right to bring a girl home to the family? ...

    When mom couldn't make it to the butcher shop in time.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    Guys:
    When do you know the time is right to bring a girl home to the family? ...


    ideally never
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,168 Member
    Guys:
    When do you know the time is right to bring a girl home to the family? ...

    When mom couldn't make it to the butcher shop in time.

    So...soon. I'm meating your mom soon then?🤗
  • Wondering what men think of women with large muscles/large boob combo. Maybe with smaller arms, shoulders and lats than the picture. Asking for a friend. 🤣

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  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 4,858 Member
    Wondering what men think of women with large muscles/large boob combo. Maybe with smaller arms, shoulders and lats than the picture. Asking for a friend. 🤣

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    Little too muscular for me . Hell I wish I had her quads lol .. a little defined is cool .. and I admire the work that takes - just not my thing /
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,402 Member
    Wondering what men think of women with large muscles/large boob combo. Maybe with smaller arms, shoulders and lats than the picture. Asking for a friend. 🤣

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    She Looks Amazing


    .... and she scares me.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 4,858 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    Wondering what men think of women with large muscles/large boob combo. Maybe with smaller arms, shoulders and lats than the picture. Asking for a friend. 🤣

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    Little too muscular for me . Hell I wish I had her quads lol .. a little defined is cool .. and I admire the work that takes - just not my thing /

    I respect your disagree 😉
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    Wondering what men think of women with large muscles/large boob combo. Maybe with smaller arms, shoulders and lats than the picture. Asking for a friend. 🤣

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    I'm not a man but I give mad respect for the amount of work and time it takes to achieve this. I will also add that I have seen pics of women who are more muscular than this but are 5'2 and 125lbs. So while she looks really big, in reality she may actually be much smaller than she appears. I always find it interesting how society will accept muscles on men but on women, they somehow "are not very feminine".

    I say that if you want a body like that, it really doesn't matter what men think. At the end of the day, it's you that has be happy in your own skin. It's your body, build it to look the way you want.
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    Guys:
    When do you know the time is right to bring a girl home to the family? ...


    Didn't have much experience in this. I simply saw the girl and got married. Everybody seems happy.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,587 Member
    Wondering what men think of women with large muscles/large boob combo. Maybe with smaller arms, shoulders and lats than the picture. Asking for a friend. 🤣

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    She's gorgeous, undoubtedly...

    Are muscles like this a turn off... Definitely not
    Are they attractive... Definitely yes

    But for me personally, there is a sweet spot that she has just gone beyond if you can understand what I'm saying...

    Nothing wrong with that... It's the same way for guys and muscle too...
  • that_night_in_paris
    that_night_in_paris Posts: 457 Member
    edited May 2020
    Wondering what men think of women with large muscles/large boob combo. Maybe with smaller arms, shoulders and lats than the picture. Asking for a friend. 🤣

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    What I'm thinking is...
    What photographer thought it was a good idea to shoot on the rooftop of an auto parts store at high noon with the smoggy hills of Bakersfield as a scenic backdrop?
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,587 Member
    Wondering what men think of women with large muscles/large boob combo. Maybe with smaller arms, shoulders and lats than the picture. Asking for a friend. 🤣

    s5mkxhra1b6z.jpg
    What I'm thinking is...
    What photographer thought it was a good idea to shoot on the rooftop of an auto parts store at high noon with the smoggy hills of Bakersfield as a scenic backdrop?

    OMG I totally thought she was at the beach until reading your post 😂
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 4,858 Member
    Wondering what men think of women with large muscles/large boob combo. Maybe with smaller arms, shoulders and lats than the picture. Asking for a friend. 🤣

    s5mkxhra1b6z.jpg

    She's gorgeous, undoubtedly...

    Are muscles like this a turn off... Definitely not
    Are they attractive... Definitely yes

    But for me personally, there is a sweet spot that she has just gone beyond if you can understand what I'm saying...

    Nothing wrong with that... It's the same way for guys and muscle too...

    You said this much better than I did lol -