The iMago Relationship Advice thread
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I can’t recall if I’ve ever spoken to you before iMago, but since you are obviously the relationship guru here on MFP...
Are ultimatums wise? Should I propose them to get what I want? Is this a reasonable strategy?
they're okay as long as you're 100% prepared to NOT get the response you want.
like lets say you're demanding he do something you want or "else", you best be prepared for the "else" to happen before you make the ultimatum. if you're not ready for that then don't do it.3 -
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I can’t recall if I’ve ever spoken to you before iMago, but since you are obviously the relationship guru here on MFP...
Are ultimatums wise? Should I propose them to get what I want? Is this a reasonable strategy?
they're okay as long as you're 100% prepared to NOT get the response you want.
like lets say you're demanding he do something you want or "else", you best be prepared for the "else" to happen before you make the ultimatum. if you're not ready for that then don't do it.
This sounds very reasonable. I was hoping it would be less reasonable.3 -
if the day comes and you can't decide on what type of outfit/bikini to wear to impress him, then just basically take whatever the skimpiest one you have and then find something smaller and hopefully that'll make him putty in your hands even if he's stoically trying to resist still.I can’t recall if I’ve ever spoken to you before iMago, but since you are obviously the relationship guru here on MFP...
Are ultimatums wise? Should I propose them to get what I want? Is this a reasonable strategy?
they're okay as long as you're 100% prepared to NOT get the response you want.
like lets say you're demanding he do something you want or "else", you best be prepared for the "else" to happen before you make the ultimatum. if you're not ready for that then don't do it.
This sounds very reasonable. I was hoping it would be less reasonable.
whats the ultimatum? we're in the trust tree here so dont be afraid to speak on it4 -
I mean, if everyone wants advice on being notoriously shameless and vulgar... prolly a bad idea tbh. I’m basically the worst. 😂4 -
_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »
I mean, if everyone wants advice on being notoriously shameless and vulgar... prolly a bad idea tbh. I’m basically the worst. 😂
The world needs more of this, i think we can all agree2 -
_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »
I mean, if everyone wants advice on being notoriously shameless and vulgar... prolly a bad idea tbh. I’m basically the worst. 😂
“The worst” seems to be celebrated around here, I think
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Reckoner69_lmao wrote: »_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »
I mean, if everyone wants advice on being notoriously shameless and vulgar... prolly a bad idea tbh. I’m basically the worst. 😂
“The worst” seems to be celebrated around here, I think
I know, i’m crushing so hard rn. SO hard4 -
_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »
I mean, if everyone wants advice on being notoriously shameless and vulgar... prolly a bad idea tbh. I’m basically the worst. 😂
How would you feel about a collab with @Caporegiem because that would be 😍3 -
_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »
I mean, if everyone wants advice on being notoriously shameless and vulgar... prolly a bad idea tbh. I’m basically the worst. 😂
How would you feel about a collab with @Caporegiem because that would be 😍
Only if he lets me use his tools...2 -
_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »
I mean, if everyone wants advice on being notoriously shameless and vulgar... prolly a bad idea tbh. I’m basically the worst. 😂
How would you feel about a collab with @Caporegiem because that would be 😍
Only if he lets me use his tools...
He has really been lacking at sharing pics of his wood lately but maybe we can get him to show up2 -
_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »
I mean, if everyone wants advice on being notoriously shameless and vulgar... prolly a bad idea tbh. I’m basically the worst. 😂
How would you feel about a collab with @Caporegiem because that would be 😍
Only if he lets me use his tools...
He has really been lacking at sharing pics of his wood lately but maybe we can get him to show up
If you talk to him - tell him Tyrone is looking for him.1 -
_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »_DisasterDoll_ wrote: »
I mean, if everyone wants advice on being notoriously shameless and vulgar... prolly a bad idea tbh. I’m basically the worst. 😂
How would you feel about a collab with @Caporegiem because that would be 😍
Only if he lets me use his tools...
He has really been lacking at sharing pics of his wood lately but maybe we can get him to show up
If you talk to him - tell him Tyrone is looking for him.
Will do 💃🏼1 -
I'm in the process of scheduling a kayaking date with a guy I've been out with a few times. He said he may have to return the 2nd kayak he has to its owners before we get together. I suggested we sit laps and the response was something along the lines of "It would be tight, but I'm not opposed to it." NOT OPPOSED instead of CLIMB ON?!
Is this guy bad at flirting or has any interest he had disappeared? Should I wait until he gets settled in and head at him like that hippo vid that was shot with the iPhone?
i'd say he did everything right if you're still confused as to what he wants exactly.
so i'd say nothing. just wait until the day of and wear some kind of skimpy bottoms and ask him to help you into the kayak and see who breaks first.
Disappointed you advised on the wearing of any bottoms whatsoever.
Sheesh, you get what you pay for, I guess.3 -
I can’t recall if I’ve ever spoken to you before iMago, but since you are obviously the relationship guru here on MFP...
Are ultimatums wise? Should I propose them to get what I want? Is this a reasonable strategy?
they're okay as long as you're 100% prepared to NOT get the response you want.
like lets say you're demanding he do something you want or "else", you best be prepared for the "else" to happen before you make the ultimatum. if you're not ready for that then don't do it.
But this is ACTUAL good advice. Again... NOT what I signed up for when clicking this thread. Harumphf.4 -
if the day comes and you can't decide on what type of outfit/bikini to wear to impress him, then just basically take whatever the skimpiest one you have and then find something smaller and hopefully that'll make him putty in your hands even if he's stoically trying to resist still.I can’t recall if I’ve ever spoken to you before iMago, but since you are obviously the relationship guru here on MFP...
Are ultimatums wise? Should I propose them to get what I want? Is this a reasonable strategy?
they're okay as long as you're 100% prepared to NOT get the response you want.
like lets say you're demanding he do something you want or "else", you best be prepared for the "else" to happen before you make the ultimatum. if you're not ready for that then don't do it.
This sounds very reasonable. I was hoping it would be less reasonable.
whats the ultimatum? we're in the trust tree here so dont be afraid to speak on it
Oh dang . . . *kitten* 's getting real. Well if we are in a trusty tree . . . I don't actually have one thought up, but if I did it would be around him going back to therapy/working on his anxiety and mental health or else . . . I, I dunno what I would do.
AH!! I just brought the thread down...sorry folks. This has been a fun distraction during work . . . I mean during my work breaks. Don't mean to be a downer.4 -
I'm in the process of scheduling a kayaking date with a guy I've been out with a few times. He said he may have to return the 2nd kayak he has to its owners before we get together. I suggested we sit laps and the response was something along the lines of "It would be tight, but I'm not opposed to it." NOT OPPOSED instead of CLIMB ON?!
Is this guy bad at flirting or has any interest he had disappeared? Should I wait until he gets settled in and head at him like that hippo vid that was shot with the iPhone?
i'd say he did everything right if you're still confused as to what he wants exactly.
so i'd say nothing. just wait until the day of and wear some kind of skimpy bottoms and ask him to help you into the kayak and see who breaks first.
Disappointed you advised on the wearing of any bottoms whatsoever.
Sheesh, you get what you pay for, I guess.
depends on how willing you are to catch a charge for public indecency4
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