Less Alcohol - OCTOBER 2020 - One Day at a Time (Try a Sober October)
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lilann1961 wrote: »Happy Monday! Checking in!
Goal: 4 days of alcohol
Oct 1: AF
Oct 2: two sour beers (this was planned)
Oct 3: went on a party bus to celebrate a birthday! It included dinner at an italian restaurant and a cocktail bar. I had never been on one before, and was the oldest on the bus (Birthday girl turned 29...I am 40). It was fun! And I drank a lot. Totally planned, and may have totally solidified the rest of the month being AF LOL.
Oct 4: AF
I believe I have finally gotten past the hurdle of wanting a glass of wine after work. I just don't crave it anymore. Saturday may have proven my tolerance is high, but my weight is high and I at pasta.
I know I have read on here before that it is common to crave sweets when not drinking alcohol on the regular. I NEVER craved sweets (think ice cream, cake, cookies), but lately have definitely had more of a sweet tooth. I have been able to keep those cravings in check and stay within my calories if I do eat a sweet, but working hard to keep this from becoming the next habit.
Small steps like eliminating just one drink craving such as a glass after work is a huge step forward. Sometimes it takes a while for your body to adjust to not having the calories from alcohol. That is why we get those sweet cravings.2 -
OCTOBER 11th
7 days AF
4 days A
So far, so good one day at a time.........5 -
Ah...@dawnbgethealthy....you really don't wanna know about scrapple.
After you butcher your hog & make hams, roasts, bacon, sausage....gather up the rest of the scraps, boil 'em up with spices and cornmeal, pour into a small loaf pan & chill. Slice and fry up crisp. Skip the work and buy it in the refrigerated section of your market. Never buy scrapple in a can[beyond nasty, IMHO].
TOLD ya you really didn't wanna know....
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Day 4 AF done. Feels like day 14 though. It's dragging. Got in an hour run today and surprised the legs still work and joints don't hurt.
Desperately craving crispy thin pizza and sparking rose, imagine that? Will try a nap to see if it passes.
Dawn: Happy Canadian Thanksgiving!! Enjoy your tasty dinners....
Doxmum: hope all is good in your world.....!1 -
Kept our promise and no alcohol this evening so that I could hit my targeted 4 AF days for the week! YEAH!
Oct accountability: 4/11 days AF
This week: 4 AF days
Goal: AF days 4 per week / 16 per month; limit 1-2 glasses per day
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forestdweller1 wrote: »Ah...@dawnbgethealthy....you really don't wanna know about scrapple.
After you butcher your hog & make hams, roasts, bacon, sausage....gather up the rest of the scraps, boil 'em up with spices and cornmeal, pour into a small loaf pan & chill. Slice and fry up crisp. Skip the work and buy it in the refrigerated section of your market. Never buy scrapple in a can[beyond nasty, IMHO].
TOLD ya you really didn't wanna know....
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What an education! Really, I have never heard of it, nor have I seen it in a store. Curious about what kind of spices that go into it.
I wonder about the consistency and the taste.
You obviously like it if you ordered it for delivery.
Love the learning something new every day : - )3 -
I am Dawn and live in South East British Columbia. I am 60.
My goal remains the same as it has been for quite some time, 16-20 AF days per month.
I do it kind of diary style:
Thursday October 01 - AF - I did manage 17AF days for September even though I drank every single day (moderately) of my birthday week while away. I have to wean myself off of that path.
Friday October 02 - AF - I really felt like having drinks though.
Saturday October 03 - Drinks. I did flirt with the idea of an AF October...for a minute. Not yet, and not sure if ever I will want to be joining the sober squad.
Sunday October 04 - AF - Really going to try to get back to having at least 2AF days in a row this month.
Monday October 05 - AF - Planned Mojitos Tuesday or Wednesday before the Mint is finished for the year.
Tuesday October 06 - AF - No Mojitos for me today, I was exhausted when I got in from work.
Wednesday October 07 - Various Mojitos, Strawberry Mint, Orange Mint, Chocolate Mint, and mixtures of them.
Thursday October 08 - AF - Aiming for 2 in a row.
Friday October 09 - AF - Thanksgiving weekend here, so I will be eating a lot of stuffing, gravy, turkey etc. for 3 days. I have a pumpkin loaf for breakfasts even though I rarely eat stuff like that. I may have drinks this weekend, not sure.
Saturday October 10 - AF - First day of 3 of eating turkey, stuffing, potatoes gravy etc., not enough calories left for even a Grand Marnier tonight. Either I will have to eat less stuffing potatoes and gravy the next 2 days, or I will have to be AF to keep within my calorie count.
Sunday October 11 - 2 drinks. Scrapped the idea of Thanksgiving dinner again tonight, I will have it tomorrow. I had decided by about noon today that it was going to be a drinks, pizza, wings kind of evening. I worked very hard in the yard, seeing the forecast that today was going to be the last sunny day and that it was going to go to minus 2 (Celsius) this week. Photos to come of course.
Rolling total: 8 AF days out of 11 days so far.3 -
Sunday evening here. Its been a rainy weekend without a lot of activity. A friend came for dinner last night and we split a bottle of really good wine. Then, my husband and I played board games and I had two more cocktails. He totally won because I was buzzed! Lesson learned.
Today we went to a friend's house for a pumpkin carving affair. She had her garage all opened up and the kids had so much fun. She had cracked a bottle of bubbly and it was tempting but having just had alcohol last night I knew that I would regret it. I drank sparkling water. I am so proud of myself because I really wasn't feeling the pumpkin carving and the wine would have been it a bit more enjoyable. Or would it have? Is that my old way of thinking?
Either way I am glad I didn't indulge.
Oct 1: 2 drinks
Oct 2: 6 drinks
Oct 3: 4 drinks
Oct 4: AF
Oct 5: AF
Oct 6: AF
Oct 7: AF
Oct 8: 3 drinks
Oct 9: AF
Oct 10: 4 drinks
Oct 11: AF
So far in Oct: 6/11 days AF6 -
4 days AF/1 day A....caved to my pizza and fizzy wine craving Sunday night. I guess I was bored and just wanted a boost. Feel fine this morning but drained of all energy. There's always a price to pay....
Today is a new AF day and an opportunity to get my energy back. I have to look forward to creating better things.
Expect Success and Nothing Less5 -
I’ve been quilting and digging in the yard. We need to remove the dirt from our flower beds and bring in top soil.
AF 5 out of 11 days.3 -
Warning: long post ahead.
Oct 1-7: 12ish drinks, 4 AF days
Oct 8: AF
Oct 9: 1 beer
Oct 10: 2 wine
Oct 11: 1 wine
Had all my drinks this weekend, guess I'm AF through the weekdays this week. Beer with baseball on Friday night, rose with sushi for takeout night, and red wine with pizza on Sunday. Saturday was frustrating. Husband did that thing where he pours a drink I didn't ask for and sets it in front of me. I frikkin hate that he does this. I know for him it's an intimacy/bonding thing so dumping it would feel like me rejecting him, but FFS. He didn't switch vacation mode off and he's back to free-pouring on days that end in Y, so I think I've got an ugly conversation coming up in the near future. I know a couple of other people here have husbands that struggle with alcohol (probably in a dependent kind of way) - I wish us all the strength and compassion we need to cope with it.
To answer @MissMay 's question and to give some background, I've got 2-level degenerative disc disease that causes pain in my back, leg, and foot. On my worst days, I have shooting pain through my butt and thigh, my foot is so numb I can't feel it, and shifting wrong makes my low back feel like it's on fire. On those days I can barely get out of bed to go to the bathroom. The only exercise I can do without inflaming my back is walking, and I can't do that every day or I risk too much debilitating leg pain.
I've been on MFP a looooong time. I joined in 2010 to lose 20 lbs of college weight. I ended up losing 30 lbs and felt amazing. I got into running. I got into powerlifting. I was toned, I felt great in a swimsuit, I'd rent dresses from Rent The Runway and feel like a model wearing them. I was so proud of my body. Then around the time husband and I got married in 2014, my foot started going numb while I was running. Then I started having pain in my hip. Got told it was just bursitis, got a local injection and did some Airrosti treatment, got new running shoes, and kept doing all this high-impact stuff despite the pain. I can't imagine the damage I did for 2 years before I got properly diagnosed, at which point I was told I had to quit almost everything. Walking, elliptical, and upper body machine weights were the only things I was allowed to do. I tried that, but I hated it, and truth be told it was just too depressing to be in the gym seeing people doing the things I couldn't do. Also, it all hurt. I basically quit exercising altogether, but I was still eating like I was running 5Ks every day. And as the pain got worse, so did the drinking. Advil is a joke. The strongest painkiller they'd give me was Tramadol, which I took once and vowed to never take again because the side effects were brutal. Green stuff isn't legal where I am and CBD wasn't everywhere yet, so alcohol became the main pain relief.
3 1/2 years of useless conservative care and expensive experimental treatments later, Covid hit. It took me, like, 2 days of lockdown to fully embrace the sweatpants life. I stopped wearing makeup, I stopped wearing pants without elastic in them (if I wore pants at all...), I got into the showering-every-other-day routine. The extra free time was spent with wine and Netflix. Well, I did re-organize the house and try learning Dutch and stuff, so I wasn't totally useless, but those things usually came with wine, too. I got into this mindset that my body was trash so I'd treat it like trash. Husband didn't help; his way of dealing with Covid was to free-pour vodka for 6 hours every night. We were supposed to go on vacation in August, but our AirBnB cancelled on us the day of because the previous renter brought in bedbugs. We cried. We drank. Husband asked if I wanted to just do a staycation, and I cried harder because I didn't want to be seen in a swimsuit by the other condo residents. The shame of my body hit me full-force that day, and I grieved for everything I'd lost. But I think husband finally saw just how bad of shape I was in mentally. Thus he suggested we cut way back on alcohol, and I ended up here.
I started with 40 lbs to lose to get to a comfortable weight and 50 to get to my fit weight. I'm down 7ish lbs, and I've lost a half-inch off my waist and an inch off my hips and bust. I spent this weekend with moisturizers, tweezers, nail polish, newly-organized makeup, and hair styling tools (I NEED A HAIRCUT AGH) to show myself that I can look good, even at this weight. I wore a dress and heels for our takeout dinner. I'm trying to get my sweatpants-free days to be at least as numerous as my AF days - 6/12 days sweatpants free so far this month.10 -
I am Dawn and live in South East British Columbia. I am 60.
My goal remains the same as it has been for quite some time, 16-20 AF days per month.
I do it kind of diary style:
Thursday October 01 - AF - I did manage 17AF days for September even though I drank every single day (moderately) of my birthday week while away. I have to wean myself off of that path.
Friday October 02 - AF - I really felt like having drinks though.
Saturday October 03 - Drinks. I did flirt with the idea of an AF October...for a minute. Not yet, and not sure if ever I will want to be joining the sober squad.
Sunday October 04 - AF - Really going to try to get back to having at least 2AF days in a row this month.
Monday October 05 - AF - Planned Mojitos Tuesday or Wednesday before the Mint is finished for the year.
Tuesday October 06 - AF - No Mojitos for me today, I was exhausted when I got in from work.
Wednesday October 07 - Various Mojitos, Strawberry Mint, Orange Mint, Chocolate Mint, and mixtures of them.
Thursday October 08 - AF - Aiming for 2 in a row.
Friday October 09 - AF - Thanksgiving weekend here, so I will be eating a lot of stuffing, gravy, turkey etc. for 3 days. I have a pumpkin loaf for breakfasts even though I rarely eat stuff like that. I may have drinks this weekend, not sure.
Saturday October 10 - AF - First day of 3 of eating turkey, stuffing, potatoes gravy etc., not enough calories left for even a Grand Marnier tonight. Either I will have to eat less stuffing potatoes and gravy the next 2 days, or I will have to be AF to keep within my calorie count.
Sunday October 11 - 2 drinks. Scrapped the idea of Thanksgiving dinner again tonight, I will have it tomorrow. I had decided by about noon today that it was going to be a drinks, pizza, wings kind of evening. I worked very hard in the yard, seeing the forecast that today was going to be the last sunny day and that it was going to go to minus 2 (Celsius) this week. Photos to come of course.
Monday October 12 - AF. Mars is supposed to be viewable tomorrow night, and then not again like this until 2035. Just saying.
Rolling total: 9 AF days out of 12 days so far.4 -
My sister joined us for a new Eggplant Lasagna recipe from wellplated.com. One bottle of red wine for 3 people. 2 glasses for me this evening. Love that I'm sticking to 2 glasses and not disappointed that there is not another glass. ALSO that we only opened 1 bottle this evening!
Oct accountability: 4/12 days AF
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@dawnbgethealthy & @shorepine I'm in central Texas and it's only now cool enough to camp (in my opinion). It's still in the high 80's and low 90's here! It never really feels like fall here but I was raised in PA so I do appreciate a beautiful, chilly fall.
You changed your profile pic again. Beautiful flower. How is October treating ypu so far?
Awwwwww thanks @MissMay I'm doing well...I read, enjoy the pictures, hug and like but just not saying much. I'm doing good, though, staying as positive as possible... We postponed camping until this weekend and I'm looking forward to it. I guess no new news is good news. I love this group of ladies and its' leader. Thanks for thinking of me...4 -
@chocolate_owl ....I am quadruple hugging your entire last post...but absolutely HOWLING at drink learning Dutch . Like, I could have done it SOBER ??????
@dawnbgethealthy ... My Daddy's mother made her own scrapple at their farm next door, onion-celery-bay leaves cooked with the meat, and mace-sage-ginger-marjoram-black pepper added with the corn meal. It's like asking "what does sausage taste like", no ?? When my mother and grandmother stopped speaking when I was 5, my mother had to buy her scrapple from the market. SO much family drama, LOL. Texture ?? If you have ever had leftover homemade polenta or cornmeal mush, and sliced it next day to fry...that's it.
I've never made my own scrapple, but my mother had her revenge by teaching me how to make goetta. Ground pork, ground beef, steel cut oats, lots of spices. Mouth now watering, wondering if I can make goetta with venison ?? Same deal, chill in loaf pan, slice & fry.
Okay, already, @dawnbgethealthy !!!! Pulled some frozen turkey breast & sweets & kale & made a bit of bread stuffing for dinner !! Yum!! Happy Over The Border Thanksgiving .
Our family tradition has always been that the family with the newest house [ or latest move-in ] hosts the Thanksgiving dinner that year. That's led to quite a bit of hopping from state to state over the years. This year will end that since there isn't anyone who is in a position to welcome "outsiders".
No more Chianti left in that weekend bottle, no more enthusiasm for a trek down to the wine cellar to bring up another. Wishing I hadn't done it in the first place. Wow, "uncorker's remorse".
Thanks for the continuing thread @MissMay . And if there is anyone who has poked a toe into the pool, and backed away...c'mon in..the water's fine .
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OH..and @Doxmum ...come BACK !! I NEED SOMEONE TO BOUNCE MY SNARK OFF OF !!!3
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Hey everyone. Wow, this sure has been educational with regards to scrapple! To think I have lived over four decades on this earth and never once heard of such a thing. The description of it sounds delicious, but the name scrapple seems a bit horrid. Like stuff scraped off the floor. Or people "scrapping" over whose scrapple is better.
Anyway, also @chocolate_owl I hugged your post too. I am so sorry for your pain! I also totally relate to your weight loss struggle. I lost 30 pounds with calorie counting in my 20s and then kept it off for a long time (6 years). I got married and had kids and now I also have somewhere between 40-50 pounds to lose. I lost 10 pounds over this past winter on MFP, but then covid hit and I gained it all back plus a few extras. I'm like you, I just said "F it", donned the yoga pants, and kind of quit logging. The one thing I have stuck with is paying attention to my alcohol intake and making sure my drinking days never exceed the non-drinking days. My husband isn't much help either. He drinks beer everyday and isn't supportive of my AF goals. He buys me alcohol I like, always offers me something, etc.
I recently kind of woke up out of my stupor about weight loss and I have had a good 8 days or so in a row of logging and really paying attention to my food. As a result I am down 4 lbs now. I am feeling really motivated. Being AF a lot of the time will only help!
The day isn't over but I'm giving myself my AF day because I know I won't drink tonight. I'm not feeling like it at all.
Oct 1: 2 drinks
Oct 2: 6 drinks
Oct 3: 4 drinks
Oct 4: AF
Oct 5: AF
Oct 6: AF
Oct 7: AF
Oct 8: 3 drinks
Oct 9: AF
Oct 10: 4 drinks
Oct 11: AF
Oct 12: AF
So far in Oct: 7/12 days AF
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@shorepine I'm there with you on losing it in 2019 and then regaining that loss during the spring. Also I'm really proud of you tackling the weight now in your 40s. I wish I had not given up ... most of my weight came after kids and during my 40s when I just threw up my hands and let work, stress, kids, etc be my priority focus ... not giving myself the time and attention I needed.
Love your goals and determination ... more AF than A in the month!
CONGRATS on the recent weight loss and downward trend4 -
NOTE TO SELF & Sharing my thoughts : Sorry for the rambling but it was on my mind this morning. It is all about focus and not forgetting that I'm in this to change habits and discover how to live at a lower weight day to day, month to month, year to year. I have always had an official WI day (currently Mondays). Over the years I've tried Fridays because it gave me the freedom to let loose on the weekend and then make it up on the weekdays. I've had Sunday WW meetings that kept me accountable on Saturday night. I've tried Wednesdays because many times it is my lowest WI for the week. Mondays though just seem to hold me in check over the weekend and let me reflect on the week to come.
But in August I decided to join a few challenges (some I joined in 2019 when losing back then). What I discovered was that each challenge helped to focus me every day because I'm accountable for WI and ending a round at random intervals. No longer tied to just my "official Monday WIs".
- Just Give Me 10 Days - 10 days is great! More than a week. Never ends on the same day of the week. Gives me the opportunity to tackle the number on the scaled daily and refresh/reset my thinking on a regular basis.
- 2020Lose 52 Pounds in 52 Weeks Challenge - There it is... a weekly official WI with a note to self on the success of the past week and what challenges I'm facing for the next week.
- 100 Days of Weighing In - Longer range view that I can set a target on the scale and work towards whittling down the bigger goal. Daily WIs with weekly WI on Saturdays (notice again a different day of the week examine my progress).
- Less Alcohol monthly thread One Day at a Time - Tackling an issue that reduces my resistance to staying in control of what else I might consume while drinking or afterward. Also those extra calories are not needed in my daily life!
- 12 week challenge starting Aug 26th - Least active group but gives me a shorter perspective than the overwhelming large number I'm tackling to lose and it is longer than a week or 10 days but shorter than 52 weeks or 100 days. AND I'm able to check in weekly on Tuesdays which again helps me continue to examine and focus.
Taking the time in the mornings to reflect, drink my coffee, note the progress and post ... gets me headed in the right mindset for the rest of the day.
Thank you for challenges!8 -
@forestdweller1 how about head cheese(not that I have or would ever eat it)? Looks like we grew up on the same side of the tracks. Want not, waste not🙄
October 13th
9-AF
4-A
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@chocolate_owl I am so sorry for all you have endured with your health. 💙💙💙
And I am raising my hand and waving 👋 it for also having a husband that buys, pours hands me alcoholic drinks that I did not want. Although I am not that graceful and do pour them down the drain when he is not looking. He considers alcohol is to bring joy for every reason imaginable and cures all sorrows.
Double sided sword.5 -
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4 days AF/2 days A. Not ideal but yesterday was a holiday and family around me in celebration mode.
@chocolate_owl extra big hugs for you....you have a lot of power inside your strong self and can use it to bring your best self forward. You deserve happiness and success. Get that new hairstyle you want!
This year was the major pits but it's already October and time to look ahead and make good things happen and become the healthiest we can be.
I have some spinal disc degeneration (from prolonged sitting at work as per chiropractor) and occasional right hip bursitis that acts up (from muscle strength imbalance as per physical therapist). All my doctors and chiropractor tell me to lose as much weight as possible now to reduce pressure on joints, discs, etc. so I can continue exercising into my older age. They even want me a bit underweight now to get ahead of the game. Hydration and anti-inflammatory diet. As you know, degeneration is not reversible but they tell me if I work at it, I can slow or prevent future degeneration. Trying!!!
My husband had bad knee arthritis pain and the orthopedic doctor told him he needed surgery, but he instead decided to lose weight, about 60 lbs, and all problems are long gone. Ten years went by and he runs 5 plus mile trail runs daily at warp speed for his age. Convinced me that weight loss is the best way to go compared to the alternatives: pain, surgery, scary prescription pain killers. Weight loss works!6 -
Nothing in the house this evening so WATER it is!
Oct accountability: 5/13 days AF7 -
@forestdweller1
Goetta sounds really good to me, and I would definitely try Scrapple if the opportunity arose.
@globalhiker
Yes, weight loss does help with the joints. So does a CBD rub.
Personally, just having turned 60, I want to be as fit and healthy as possible over the next 10 years, which includes getting to and maintaining an optimum body weight. Definitely not there yet, but getting there.
@Lilylady3k
I totally agree with you about being on different threads that end on different days. You and I are on several together. It is that much needed motivation on certain days to not have those drinks, or chips, or whatever.5 -
Just caught up on you all...scrapple, head cheese, and more. I grew up with this stuff too, and actually remember liking cow’s tongue.
Hugs and strength for all the health issues, but glad we seem to be keeping Covid at bay.
DH is a heavy drinker. Focusing on moderation and even having AF beer and mocktails are things he is watching me do, but will never join me. He doesn’t undermine me, or pour me drinks graciously. But he never says “way to go” or mentions my weight loss (#30+). My success makes him feel bad about his very overweight alcoholic body. I’ve FINALLY learned that’s not my problem. I want to be healthy. But it’s taken me age, experience, therapy, and Alanon to put myself first. Don’t wait until your 50s ladies! You deserve to be good to yourself, for yourself!
{Sorry if that got a little preachy / self-righteous ~ Sometimes I have a soapbox}5 -
I am Dawn and live in South East British Columbia. I am 60.
My goal remains the same as it has been for quite some time, 16-20 AF days per month.
I do it kind of diary style:
Thursday October 01 - AF - I did manage 17AF days for September even though I drank every single day (moderately) of my birthday week while away. I have to wean myself off of that path.
Friday October 02 - AF - I really felt like having drinks though.
Saturday October 03 - Drinks. I did flirt with the idea of an AF October...for a minute. Not yet, and not sure if ever I will want to be joining the sober squad.
Sunday October 04 - AF - Really going to try to get back to having at least 2AF days in a row this month.
Monday October 05 - AF - Planned Mojitos Tuesday or Wednesday before the Mint is finished for the year.
Tuesday October 06 - AF - No Mojitos for me today, I was exhausted when I got in from work.
Wednesday October 07 - Various Mojitos, Strawberry Mint, Orange Mint, Chocolate Mint, and mixtures of them.
Thursday October 08 - AF - Aiming for 2 in a row.
Friday October 09 - AF - Thanksgiving weekend here, so I will be eating a lot of stuffing, gravy, turkey etc. for 3 days. I have a pumpkin loaf for breakfasts even though I rarely eat stuff like that. I may have drinks this weekend, not sure.
Saturday October 10 - AF - First day of 3 of eating turkey, stuffing, potatoes gravy etc., not enough calories left for even a Grand Marnier tonight. Either I will have to eat less stuffing potatoes and gravy the next 2 days, or I will have to be AF to keep within my calorie count.
Sunday October 11 - 2 drinks. Scrapped the idea of Thanksgiving dinner again tonight, I will have it tomorrow. I had decided by about noon today that it was going to be a drinks, pizza, wings kind of evening. I worked very hard in the yard, seeing the forecast that today was going to be the last sunny day and that it was going to go to minus 2 (Celsius) this week. Photos to come of course.
Monday October 12 - AF. Mars is supposed to be viewable tomorrow night, and then not again like this until 2035. Just saying.
Tuesday October 13 - Drinks. I have only had a sip of one so far, and am breaking my own rules: keep 2 AF days in a row, don't drink when stressed. I worked 12 hard hours today and went out twice to have a smoke...and it was *kitten* snowing!! Argh, way too early. So glad that I killed myself in the yard on the weekend having seen the weather report. We have an election in this province coming up, and the debate is on tonight in around 25 minutes. Having a few drinks, wings and pizza (believe it or not way less calories than the turkey dinner leftovers that I was planning). Stress was gone with the first sip. Didn't even wait the 6 minutes, was thinking of drinks already in hour 9 of my work day. Can't say that I am regretting it at all.
Rolling total: 9 AF days out of 13 days so far.2 -
@Samand303 - Love your soapboxing! Putting myself first has always been a goal that I tried during my 30s 40s and 50s .. now as I approach 60 in a couple of weeks I decided that my focus is me. I can't fix anyone else (adult kids, DH, my sister, my brother, my mother) anymore if I don't do something for me first. I've decided I'm not going to live my 60s like I did my 40s and 50s. I'm going to let my 60s be the new 30s for me LOL
@dawnbgethealthy - It is nice to see you on some of the threads too!
Election ... my county had "technical difficulties" with their computers. Seems the dates were not set correctly and they had to reprogram them since the early voting was moved up a week. Also some polling places had only 1 working. Long lines, people dehydrated, some in line for up to 7 hrs. I'm so glad that I decided to wait until they get the kinks worked out. Oh and the ongoing battle with drop off ballot boxes in Texas ... Harris County for Houston gets only 1. I'm very glad that I have a polling station just outside my neighborhood that I walk past daily walks ... I can slip in easily when I see things are working smoothly.6 -
Just caught up on you all...scrapple, head cheese, and more. I grew up with this stuff too, and actually remember liking cow’s tongue.
Hugs and strength for all the health issues, but glad we seem to be keeping Covid at bay.
DH is a heavy drinker. Focusing on moderation and even having AF beer and mocktails are things he is watching me do, but will never join me. He doesn’t undermine me, or pour me drinks graciously. But he never says “way to go” or mentions my weight loss (#30+). My success makes him feel bad about his very overweight alcoholic body. I’ve FINALLY learned that’s not my problem. I want to be healthy. But it’s taken me age, experience, therapy, and Alanon to put myself first. Don’t wait until your 50s ladies! You deserve to be good to yourself, for yourself!
{Sorry if that got a little preachy / self-righteous ~ Sometimes I have a soapbox}
You don't have to apologize for speaking your mind. I have come to the conclusion that I can not help someone(my hubs) that does not want help OR believes he has no problem.
I do so applaud your self help encouragement.
"WAY TO GO"🤗7 -
globalhiker wrote: »4 days AF/2 days A. Not ideal but yesterday was a holiday and family around me in celebration mode.
@chocolate_owl extra big hugs for you....you have a lot of power inside your strong self and can use it to bring your best self forward. You deserve happiness and success. Get that new hairstyle you want!
This year was the major pits but it's already October and time to look ahead and make good things happen and become the healthiest we can be.
I have some spinal disc degeneration (from prolonged sitting at work as per chiropractor) and occasional right hip bursitis that acts up (from muscle strength imbalance as per physical therapist). All my doctors and chiropractor tell me to lose as much weight as possible now to reduce pressure on joints, discs, etc. so I can continue exercising into my older age. They even want me a bit underweight now to get ahead of the game. Hydration and anti-inflammatory diet. As you know, degeneration is not reversible but they tell me if I work at it, I can slow or prevent future degeneration. Trying!!!
My husband had bad knee arthritis pain and the orthopedic doctor told him he needed surgery, but he instead decided to lose weight, about 60 lbs, and all problems are long gone. Ten years went by and he runs 5 plus mile trail runs daily at warp speed for his age. Convinced me that weight loss is the best way to go compared to the alternatives: pain, surgery, scary prescription pain killers. Weight loss works!
I am not a fan of surgery or drugs. Losing weight and possibly being a hair below what some people think I should weigh also keeps me active and doing circles around those half my age. (61years young)
Also investing in KT tape which to me is a magical application that pulls the irritated nerve up off my knee cap so that I can enjoy life without pain.
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