WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MARCH 2021
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Annie, so sorry you are hurt, but clearly Stephen wasn't good enough for you and the universe is clearing the way for someone better in your life.
Friends are coming for a visit this afternoon. They are the ones who spend most of the year in California and I send them their mail. They are the ones who were the breeder for Brandy and Sasha. Jake has cleaned up the garage and will back the car out and place our patio chairs in wide spaced circle so we can visit even if it's raining. The last time they came months ago we stood in the driveway and talked. This morning Jake got up early and took the dogs out for their before breakfast walk before my alarm went off. I got to lie in bed and enjoy the snooze function. Barbie in NW WA 5 -
"Get to do"s and "chose well"sChose well: BP, 40 mins vacuuming, 40 mins cleaning bathrooms, email w/fire chief, gave R the gift of listening.
Bonus: 2 loads laundry, car coffee klatsch/wave watching with T.
Get to do: take BP, dogs to powerline, call D re: sticky keyboard, Norton and windows updates, call S, fire district: input 2019 call sheets into NFIRS, work with chief on equipment letter, substance abuse policy, NFIRS mutual aid and other missing details, call Credit union re: credit card, ask for boots donator contact info, appreciation letter or certificate to boots donator, index mutual aid files; FM Cu, watch STAS Day 20, make experimental almond paste, declutter sideboard, practice new dances (Do Your Thing, Pure Movies to Wine, Beer, Whiskey, I ain’t never gonna love nobody but Cornell Crawford (Alley cat), A Little Less Broken, One Margarita, I’m so used to being broke, All Night, Nothing but You, Blame it on my beating heart, Homesick); finish mulching flowerbed, invest another 10 minutes in prepping living trust, Freddie’s for complete series TDAP <$48, get Shingrix vaccine, find and configure a screen time popup, figure out where to plant the last of the naked lady bulbs, and soon as it warms up above 50 and dries out below 60% humidity I’ll tape and spray paint those rusted areas of Aunt Elsie’s stove. Reconcile Joe’s EOB’s Thrivent shows only 2263.48 so far, next BGBS ask Terry about GB’s FD firetruck tax levy – contacts, media, advocate???, Reward: inventory seeds, plan this spring’s garden, wishlist replenishments, First week in April: call Wild Rivers (541 247 3514) for dog wash/nail trim appointments.
Mindful March:
19: Cultivate a feeling of lovingkindness to others today: R.
20: Celebrate the international day of happiness: https://www.dayofhappiness.net/
Happiness: Do something for your own happiness - make time to do something you really enjoy, get moving outside, learn something new or write down three things you’re grateful for.
Kinder: Do something for someone else - donate to a food bank or charity, text or call someone to tell them what you appreciate about them, volunteer in your local community.
Together: Share the International Day Of Happiness with others and help more people get involved in the day and thinking about ways to promote happiness and mental health. Reverting
Welcome @cclark351! Would you let us know what you’d like to be called and your general locale? What is a “push bike”? Brava for 5 miles!
Debby in VA Stunning bloom, surprising snow :noway:
Lisa imho Poland is more appealing than anywhere in the middle east… what does he do in the service? Your meditations on contradictory thoughts/feelings gave me a gentle smile, especially about both missing your mini-Godzilla sounds and relishing the peace.
Terri WOW!
Heather “delighted” and “exhausted” well said and well done. ((hugs)) for the sudden, sad reminder of your loss. Love the pic of Shirley at 9 or 10, what a beautiful, young, fashionista she was. “gilet” Heather you continue to expand my British vocabulary. I’d call that a vest
Carol, I’ve been watching the Monterey Bay’s sea otter cam for peace and calm before taking my blood pressure. This morning there were at least 4 adults, and it looked like a baby on mama’s breast, being groomed, fed, and taught to swirl in the water. Lowest blood pressure reading yet
Fae ya gonna patent and market that bandeau/bralette combo?
Annie I hear ya’ about Teddie’s toes and mats. I’d slacked off grooming Tumble’s double coat, and it’s taken 2.5 hours to get her to a minimally matted stage, will take more hours to get her to where she should be. She does NOT look like this now! :laugh:Does your father need you to support him with your mother, or can you withdraw to the sidelines? Steven’s loss :brokenheart:
You’re better off.
Katla What Flea and Machka said. “…not actually aware of the emergency room visit” is so very worrisome. Hope you decide to discuss with your doctor soon. How about a pic of your Keeshond? I stopped taking Tumble to the groomer during the pandemic as we had to stand too close together. (Had some bad experiences in the past and will not leave her alone with any groomer.) To be honest, the groomer’s area was so chaotic and cluttered it made me anxious. Me, the clutter Queen?!? :laugh:. Sorry your Chinese takeout was disappointing. :sick:
Vicki “… not letting the little things become big things…” wise words.
Rebecca wish you’d had the second guy the first blood draw. What a difference competence makes. When the company’s done with the branches at yours, send them on down to us.
Tracey good on you for monitoring those accounts closely. That is why I prefer to use a credit card, not a debit card, for online purchases. Gives me more leverage in case of “glitches”. OMG that was quite an injury. Grateful her eye missed the bolt.
Machka “New Zealand!” Bon voyage!
Barbie “enjoy the snooze function”? Now that’s being in the moment for sure
SuziQ has been on my mind lately, has anyone heard from her?
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
March: leaner/stronger/kinder than January and February.
daily: sit with Joe: 19, weigh: 19; steps>5627=3543 vits=19, log=19, CI<CO=16, CI<250<CO=10, Tumble=17 Shadow=15 mfp=19 outside=11 up hill=10
wkly: BB&B, T’ai Chi=4 or SWSY or wii=6 x5= rx=2 dance= clean 60 mins=3.25 packwalk=2, wt=2/28:142.4, 3/7:144.4 waah! :sad:, 3/14:140.7 :bigsmile:, 3/21 , 3/28 , 3/31 .
mnthly: board mtg=1, grant=1 , 21 plan= bonus: AF=8 play=7 sew= waist=42.5
2021: choose to be leaner/stronger/kinder NOW1 -
Good day to all.
The skies are really dark here on this first day of spring. It's also early and already windy. This winter has been very unusual. It's been cool, but also much more windy than ever, which makes it feel even colder.
Annie-Sorry to hear about Steven.
There is someone more suited to you out there somewhere.
Allie-Your body just needs time to straighten itself out. It'll get there. Patience, Grasshopper (for those of you who weren't a child of the 80s, that is from the movie Karate Kid).
Lisa-I certainly understand the conflicted feelings. I get that way when I visit family. I love seeing them and spending time there, but it's exhausting. When I return home, I'm relieved and sad.
Trying to do very little today. For some reason, my body seems to hate me right now. My knee won't stop hurting. Now I can't stand for very long or my hips start aching, badly. My thumb seems to slightly improving, but last night I sliced some reasonable gashes in my other thumb and index finger with a kitchen tool. Ok, that was stupid, but I cannot figure out how I hurt my knee or why my hips are hurting. At this rate, I will never be able to try golf again. Ugh.
Start Rant - And why is it so hard to find good bandaids? The ones that stick are a pain to get on. All of the others fall off the moment a droplet of water hits them. And why do they insist on putting those little dot sized ones in the boxes. They are a total waste! If I cut myself, I do it well and the slice is far bigger than that dot will cover. Everyone should collect those little dot ones and give them to the vaccination centers to put over the injection sites. That little hole doesn't need a real one. A dot will do. - End Rant
Anyway, I'm headed to so more sitting. I'm sure my back side will start hurting soon too.
Tina in CA5 -
cityjaneLondon wrote: »Thank you all for your good wishes about my friend.
She appears in both volumes of my memoir.
When I was a child I adored her. She was the one who sparked my interest in German, as both her parents were German. Her father was a Jewish refugee.
We lost touch when our children were young. I'm not sure why. It hurt at the time.
I decided a couple of years ago to find her again, but there was no trace of her anywhere, quite unusual these days. I did know her husband's name and that he had been in the church, so it wasn't hard to find him and I emailed him through his organisation.
It was then I found out from him about this terrible disease. He let me know a few months later that she had died.
So, it was strange when his face popped up as a Friend suggestion on Facebook (I only have a few Friends) Must be from the email contacts. Out of interest I decided to see what he was up to. Then I saw the photos. Strangely, she hadn't changed much from when I knew her. The disease began to claim her in her 50s. She died in her late 60s. But, of course, you can see it in her eyes.
She was one of the most vibrant and beautiful people I have ever known. I was envious of her, (a theme here?) because the boys all flocked round her. But I truly loved her. When we moved to different counties at 8 years old we continued to go to stay with each other, all through our teenage years. We would get on the London train at age 9.
So, my friends, seize the day! Make the most of your every minute. Life is not a rehearsal.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
I love that last line!!
I tell people all the time, if you are thinking about someone, CALL THEM-you may not get another chance to do it.
I found out the hard way.
I had a best friend from the first day of 5th grade when we moved to a new school. Laurie and I were in school together, hung out all the time, went to college and took the same classes. Both of us taught pre-school at the same time(but not at the same place, as I had gotten married and moved away for a while. Then I started doing daycare at home and talked her into doing it too- just across town from me. We talked all the time but if her husband was home, he would listen in on the other phone. So annoying.
Anyways, one Sunday afternoon I kept thinking I needed to call her(by this time I had moved an hour away and was visiting my parents). I was going to call but didn't want to deal with her husband listening in. I said, "I will call Laurie tomorrow". Early the next morning I got a call from my other best friend, Laurie had passed away suddenly the night before. IF I had called her, I might have been able to talk her into going to the doctor sooner- She waited too long-blod clot to her heart is what her sister told me later(I was told it was a heart attack by my other friend)
SO, now, if I think about someone, I stop and call or email or text them right then. No putting it off anymore. It has been over 20 yrs since she passed away at the young age of 38, leaving three young kids and now five cute grandkids.
Same with my dad- so suddenly, they are gone for good.
Dont have regrets
Do not wait, You just never know.
Debbie
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Barbara: I am less skilled than most at posting photos. My "face" today is Schooner. He is getting up there in years, but is doing well. He is now 14 years old and he still looks great. Last fall he had cancer surgery on his behind. He is now cancer free, happy and energetic.
Katla in NW Oregon3 -
Happy Spring!
Machka your post about silence was the first thing I saw just now. The funny thing is I just had told my husband that I am going in to SIT for a few! No radio, no tv, just the sounds of my small wind chimes chiming from the ceiling fan and the sounds of the laundry going. Peaceful.....
Lisa I loved your statement about two contradictions at the same time. It is so true!
Annie Hugs!
We are back to spring like days and winter nights in Ohio. Layering is the only way to go. No change for my husband's eyes. We made it there and back safely in spite of icy rain. Was at work early on Tuesday to try to get some things done-haha. After work took husband to his massage, waited for him at work doing stuffs, drove him home, and went back to work until midnight. I love the ability to email folks with both estimates and to let them know their equipment is ready for pick up. That was a time saver on Wednesday. Those who's email I didn't have finally got called late Wednesday afternoon. I cooked easy dinner Wednesday night and hit the bed early. Overslept Thursday-oops. Still to work on time, just not much get done time in the morning. Thursday night made white chicken chili and cleaned kitchen. Friday, again tried to get things done early at work, but husband had other ideas-grumble. I did throw a tantrum or two Friday at work. They were minor, but included some foot stomping. I can only do so many things at the same time, just saying......and your stuff isn't always more important than what I am currently doing-huff. Last night we went to the local burger place for supper after work. I brought husband home and went back to work. I only worked until 10. Most of the folks I emailed last night picked up their mowers today-yay! I worked for about 90 minutes this morning on project for work. Then I made my SIL call the deliveries and other repairs this morning. We were slow then slammed. Kind of like traveling in rush hour traffic, breeze along then slam on the brakes. Maybe I need to realize that I really am the boss and act accordingly. Most of our customers think I am
Got laundry going this morning and sheets changed. As crazy as last weekend was I never got that done-no judging-lol! More laundry to do, need to do bills, deposits, more work paperwork, pick up a trailer (borrowing from friend)for taking things to farmhouse tomorrow. Tomorrow is cleaning farmhouse and putting away stuffs we took out. We are taking some furniture we have back down. Have to measure for replacement furniture for living room. My oldest daughter is meeting us there to help. Would love to be home at a decent time but about 2 hour drive away. It will be interesting to see if SIL makes it down.....supposedly her ex is bringing her down. 
While I stay out of other's relationships, that one is just strange to me.
I reckon I have sat long enough. Love you ladies!
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Kylia still crazy in Ohio1 -
Michele-you can plat amaryllis outside,but I love to have it in the house.I cut it back when the blooms are dead and it continues to grow.That same plant has two flowers today.
It brings a little brightness to my day.I have other plants in the house,most waiting for truly warm days to go outside and stay out.
Debby in Va0 -
Stat for the day-
Walk w/family- 2hrs 22min 37sec, 3.41ap, 175elev, 91ahr, 113mhr, 8.11mi= 729c
Strava app = 962c
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Kylia ~ You are one busy lady! I really admire your energy.
Annie ~ Sorry about the break up with Stephen.
Carol in GA1 -
Did a Lunar Flow Yoga DVD today. The plan for tomorrow is to do a Firm Cardio Overdrive DVD
Anne DE – I’m so very sorry
Tina – I think giving the vaccination sites those dot bandaids is a great idea – especially if they have a pattern on them and not just those boring old beige ones they have.
Debbie – that is so very sad about your friend. That’s why every time I’d leave my father’s (when he was older) I always said “I love you”. Then one time I couldn’t but I was so glad that the time before I had.
Went to church twice while we were in FL. Today I think I’ll go to church here. First time in a year. But now that I’ve had the vaccine, I feel a LITTLE bit better. I guess we shall see…..
Now I’m thinking about Easter, not sure what we’re going to do. Just got an email saying that they’re having a bilingual mass (I don’t like them) at 10 unless there’s inclement weather, then it’ll be at 9. What do they call inclement weather? Probably any precipitation. Now to me, inclement weather would include cold temps or high winds because I have no desire to sit in either. And what happens if they meet the max. number of people allowed in the church? I have a feeling that our pastor wouldn’t bother, but I don’t know about the pastor at the only other Catholic church around here. So what to do? Well….I guess time will just have to tell.
Michele NC
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Hey all! Happy Saturday! Whew! What a week! Because my work week began on Tuesday, my "brain calendar" has been a day off all week. I have been sleeping great this week, though; so tired and trying to catch up on sleep lost during my time in Texas. I always have a hard time sleeping in "strange" places. The bed at my daughter's was comfortable enough, but I always wake up a few times just because I am not in my own bed/house. Anyway, I woke up this morning with a sinus headache. I was also out of coffee. SO...I showered and headed out to do my shopping. I made it through two of my stops, but ended up coming home before I could do my last two shops; because I felt sick. Once I got the groceries put away, I went back to sleep and slept for three more hours. I feel a bit better, but have taken some meds and had my coffee and a bit of soup. I had planned to do nothing this weekend, fully aware that I needed time to just do nothing. Funny how our bodies tend to force us into doing nothing if we don't take action quickly enough.
My daughter just vibered me. As soon as I answered she held up the phone to Miguel. Biggest smile and wave; his whole body excited to see "Gaga". He was my constant companion in Texas. Up early with me, walking with me, on my hip or lap during outings. Joaquin was never like this with me. He is now and probably always will be firmly attached to mama. But it was equally nice to hear that Joaquin was upset to see that "Grandma and Uncle Colin" went back to Michigan. After arriving home from daycare on Monday, walking through the house and finding we were gone; he then woke up Tuesday and went around the house looking for us again and was extremely upset that we weren't there. I got to chat a bit with Joaquin during our viber call. He got bit a few times by some fire ants while playing in the front yard. Poor guy! He said, "the ants are angry!" lol Someone is coming on Monday to treat their yard. They had an appointment scheduled for a few weeks ago, but then the snowstorm hit.
Lisa-I totally understand where you are coming from in regards to missing the "chaos" that little ones bring; but really cherishing the quiet. It is a mixed bag, for sure! I don't remember how old Levi is...is he about Miguel's age? Maybe a little older? (1 1/2 year old) Because yes, Miguel is like a one man demolition crew. That age is exhausting!
Katla- glad you are feeling better! Schooner is adorable!
Machka- Your shoreline pics are fantastic! I hope you are able to visit NZ and still remain in a bubble. Also, thanks for the article on busy people needing quiet. That is definitely me.
Carol- I bet you will enjoy the Spanish on Duolingo! There are so many words in English that the Spanish and French equivalents are very similar.
Tracey- Your daughter is lovely; devil's horn and all! lol I have a bump in the middle of my forehead. It doesn't hurt, but it has been there for many years. Doctor's always ask about it. I don't remember ever banging my head hard enough to produce a bump, but I wonder if it could have been a result of my son's kickboard coming up from under my jaw (causing some major jaw pain and a cracked molar). Anyway, I tell my kids that it is my unicorn horn growing in. lol
Heather- Brava! On the finishing up of this installment of your memoirs and your web page! Loved the birthday pics of Bea and love the relationship you have with your DDIL!
Terri- Love the garden pics! LOoks like growing things activates your poetry, as well! Sweet little verse!
Debby VA- Good to see you posting again!
Allie- So good to see you up and around; remember to put yourself FIRST!!
Tina- (((hugs))) Forgive me if I giggle a bit about your statement regarding your body being against you. lol Come Wednesday this past week, I was whining and thinking the same. I over did it, physically, on this trip and my body is definitely calling me out on it. I am now, making a plan of baby steps to get me where I want to be physically. I absolutely HATE the fact that I can't walk more than five miles in a day without my ankles and knees objecting LOUDLY!
Annie ((((hugs)))) to you! Sorry about the end of the relationship. I have always compared "trying on men" to trying on jeans; you can wear any pair you want, but sooner or later, it will rub, chafe, pinch and be altogether uncomfortable. Best to find the best fit possible than waste your time in something that you really just want to be rid of.
Fae - Love your bra work around! Great show of ingenuity.
Barbie- Glad you got to use that snooze button! Enjoy your time with your friends!
I think that's all I have in my fuzzy brain for now. ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)2 -
Kylia- Are you near Hocking Hills Park?0
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Good news! Got my first Moderna shot yesterday. Took ibuprofen before any pain or symptoms could set in. (My dentist always recommended this strategy before major work on my teeth.) Today, I have NO after effects; not even a sore arm. Second jab in 4 weeks.
Happy first day of spring to my Northern Hemisphere friends. 🌷🌼🌻🌺🌸 We have warm sunshine today. Snow due tomorrow. Typical March weather here.
Stay well. We can do this.
Rori
Flowing from minute to minute
Colorado Foothills8 -
Just starting my journey. Since coming back I have gone from 224 to 118 but making my goal to be at 216 by March 30 may not happen.
I am not on the forums very much. Please, everyone friend me and we can all cheer each other on! I have 100 pounds to lose so will be here for a good long time! I accept all friend requests.3 -
Rori: Congratulations on your first vaccination!!!! Our son and DDIL also had Moderna. :bigsmile: Happy Spring!!!
Katla
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Has anyone used the Cubii JR1 Elliptical Machine? My bestie is interested in getting one since she has a replaced knee and walking is slow and boring for her. With this machine, she envisions getting her exercise while watching TV or reading. It has good reviews so she asked my opinion and I know nothing about exercise machines so thought I would get a shout-out to you ladies that might know.0
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We'll see Barbara, when that company that's coming Sunday, will quote. I know we don't want to pay an arm and a leg! I think I was a wee bit dehydrated the first jab. I drank water all night when I had to get up to pee. "my life is water in, water out" is what my brains thinking during the night....🙃😜😋😂
Rebecca1 -
Did a Lunar Flow Yoga DVD today. The plan for tomorrow is to do a Firm Cardio Overdrive DVD
Anne DE – I’m so very sorry
Tina – I think giving the vaccination sites those dot bandaids is a great idea – especially if they have a pattern on them and not just those boring old beige ones they have.
Debbie – that is so very sad about your friend. That’s why every time I’d leave my father’s (when he was older) I always said “I love you”. Then one time I couldn’t but I was so glad that the time before I had.
Went to church twice while we were in FL. Today I think I’ll go to church here. First time in a year. But now that I’ve had the vaccine, I feel a LITTLE bit better. I guess we shall see…..
Now I’m thinking about Easter, not sure what we’re going to do. Just got an email saying that they’re having a bilingual mass (I don’t like them) at 10 unless there’s inclement weather, then it’ll be at 9. What do they call inclement weather? Probably any precipitation. Now to me, inclement weather would include cold temps or high winds because I have no desire to sit in either. And what happens if they meet the max. number of people allowed in the church? I have a feeling that our pastor wouldn’t bother, but I don’t know about the pastor at the only other Catholic church around here. So what to do? Well….I guess time will just have to tell.
Michele NC
The last thing my dad said to me- on Christmas day, when I was leaving. We were hugging, I told him I loved him-He said" I love you bunches"- That was the last time I saw him.
I am planning on going to church for the first time in months on Easter Sunday. I am getting my second shot on Thursday. I will still wear my mask and I will be skipping the fried chicken potluck. I used to love them but not this time.
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Betsy in NW WA1 -
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