At Goal & Successfully Maintaining. So Why Am I Doing This All Over Again?
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I would never have said that I find my Fitbit motivating. Informational, yes but not especially inspiring. After being out of commission the last couple of weeks, I'm actually surprised at how annoyed I am that I haven't hit my hourly OR daily step goals!3
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I just have to say I *love* this thread and thank you, thank you for it! I wish my hubs would log but he relies on my logging for the both of us lol. As he does the majority of the cooking, he's at least been great about keeping track of amounts and making the adjustments we need to stay in my calorie zone for the most part. We did well losing weight last year (45 lbs for him, 30 for me), but since then it's been a whole struggle to quit the start-and-stop and just DO. Threads like this help me find some motivation.8
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Replying to a couple comments here so please bear with me...
1) @springlering62 regarding the friends requests, I've gotten more blank profile pic requests in the last month than I have in 2 years and I think it is because I am trying to be more active on the forums
2) regarding the fitness trackers, I've had a couple Garmin Polar watches, one without HR (but used with chest strap) and another with HR, a couple fitbits (starting with the old school clip on your hip ones) which invariably ended up in the washing machine or drowned in the swimming pool (water resistance on the earlier watches was pretty terrible) and then a couple Garmins which are hands-down my preferred although pricey - my current VenuS cost me $650 AUD but it is worth it in the long run, they tend to last 5 or more years for me compared to less-than or just over 12 months on the fitbits. The only thing I don't like is having to stop tracking my activity/sleep to charge it! I see they now have solar charging options available but they were out of my price range.
I like being able to track with GPS, I have the PulseOX turned off for extended battery life and I loooove hitting my step goal - I have been known to walk laps of my kitchen on stormy nights to get to 10000. I used to have the ever-increasing auto-goal as mentioned above but oh my goodness, there are only so many steps a person can do in a day and when it was trying to get me over 32K at one point (when I was a trolley collector/cleaner) I turned it over to the good old set point of 10k. These days I reach it at least 4 times a week, which is great considering I get 2.5-3k steps during my 9-5 job.
I wish that Garmin would become compatible with an app called EquiLab, which you use on your phone to track your horses steps/strides/jumping etc so I could use my phone with my Pivo pod (its a video pod that tracks the horse with auto zooming etc) so I could gather ALL the data from my rides but I am happy to just count my hr/exertion levels while riding with my phone in the pod capturing all my crappy posture and good moments.
I've found the call answer/decline feature pretty handy, my son called the other night while I was riding with gloves on and a silent phone but I was able to answer without trying to unglove in a hurry so that is cool too.
3) regarding the WLAF mentioned, I always wondered why I was all rugged up and no one else was, now I know it's a *thing* and something to count as a victory when the scale drops a bit.3 -
I just wanted to jump in and say a big thank you for this thread! I just found it and felt compelled to binge read all eleven pages before I go to bed for a good giggle before bedtime! Thanks to this, I feel more comfortable about how I've only been able to log for the past 100 days. I'm still unsure how to fiddle with the macros, so I feel more satiated works, but progress is progress! I need to keep reminding myself of that!
I used to own a Fitbit watch. Then I found the allure of a Samsung Galaxy Active Watch. The thing does what my old Fitbit did and tells me what weird messages my friends have sent me without me needing to grab my phone off the charger from across the room. In addition, it works with Samsung Health to track everything finally in one convenient app while syncing with MFP! Perfect. However, is it a good motivator to get me moving from my sedentary lifestyle? That's much harder to say. I move when it tells me to move, but needing to move past even 1,000 steps on a typical day seems like an enormous challenge. Maybe it's time I write in workout sessions like someone suggested on an earlier page as I've started doing with everything else.3 -
@sheahughes i salute- and thank -you for being more active on the forums. The one thing that kept me going was reading these boards, knowing I wasn’t alone, absorbing other peoples’ experiences, knowing they had the same frustrations as me.
The Success Stories threads are still motivating for me, but, in maintenance now, the “I’m Back” posts are even more motivating.
And I feel ya, hon. I can’t count the days when I’ve done laps inside the house, climbed on the exercise bike at 11pm, or done a hoochiecoo dance wearing nothing but the watch to close a ring.
@luxia2020 does your tracker give you the option to automatically share workouts to your diary? Or you can log them by hand, although using their calculations seems to be less accurate.
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On the subject of recording workouts….
Be mindful of what you’re putting in your diary for a workout, regardless of whether you’re entering by hand, using what the machine at the gym says, or relying on a fitness tracker.
MFP’s algorithm can return some pretty wild figures.
Gym equipment notoriously records 25-100% more calorie burn than you may actually be burning. That can be because you didn’t take the time to enter your age and weight when starting, lack of equipment maintenance, or simply to give gym goers an electronic attaboy.
IMHO fitness trackers are more accurate, but they’re not 100% accurate nor foolproof. For example, I have fallen in the habit of forgetting to end my “workout” after taking the High Anxiety Dog for a walk or run. My watch is still giving me a few calories after I’ve unleashed, doffed the coat, and given HAD a treat for “no barky bark” (if he’s earned one).
Why does this even matter?
BL has been hand entering his Tai Chi workouts into his diary using MFP’s algorithm.
MFP was awarding him 418 calories for a typical hour class.
Yesterday he recorded Tai Chi on his watch. “Dance” was the closest matching category, and it awarded him 45 calories for 41 minutes. He thought that was low, so awarded himself an extra 100. 🤦🏻♀️
In any event, eating back the 418 versus 145 calories is a massive difference- probably close to or exceeding the daily deficit he needs to continue weight loss.
A generous piece of gym equipment that awards you 900 calories for a 30 minute trip on the elliptical can throw your whole plan sideways, leading to plateaus, even weight gain.
And don’t forget, someone with higher weight burns way more calories than someone who is smaller, doing the same exercise. My own calorie burn dropped maybe a third versus what it was in the beginning- even though my workouts are more challenging now. (Hey, enjoy it while ya got it!)
If ever in doubt, take a moment and Google. There’s lots of calculators that can give you an idea if your exercise calories are in line.
Better yet, throw it out here on the boards and ask. You’ll get lots of feedback, helpful - sometimes brisk and to the point, but still helpful.
I’m also going to go out on a limb here with some tough love. If you’re trying to lose weight, recording housework and cooking chores as “exercise “isn’t going to help you. These were things I already did when I was obese. Exercise is workouts or activity over and above what you already do in a normal day. You’re cheating yourself if you start nitpicking every activity.
OTOH, I have a friend who does that and bless her heart, she’s lost a bunch a weight, even though it drives me nuts to see “housecleaning” come up on my feed. Whatever works.
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Thank you for this thread, I love reading it. You are honest and kind spirited with many helpful tips.
If I'm scrubbing floors by hand I may count housecleaning, but it is very, very rare. House keeping is not my strong suit.
Cooking I just laugh as I imagine them doing squats or jumping jacks while chopping veggies.4 -
pridesabtch wrote: »Thank you for this thread, I love reading it. You are honest and kind spirited with many helpful tips.
If I'm scrubbing floors by hand I may count housecleaning, but it is very, very rare. House keeping is not my strong suit.
Cooking I just laugh as I imagine them doing squats or jumping jacks while chopping veggies.
Agree. If it’s something unusual like that (and it’s a hoot that we both get on hands and knees and scrub- you must have the same irritating cloudy engineered flooring as me!) but I’ve seen entries for “making beds”, “washing dishes” etc. To me, if you’re going to invest that much energy into fooling yourself, take a walk or something. Generally, those are the users who post for a few days or couple weeks and then you never hear from them again.
And for you meal prep pets, who do a weeks worth of meals in one blow, I’m not talking to you, either.1 -
springlering62 wrote: »@luxia2020 does your tracker give you the option to automatically share workouts to your diary? Or you can log them by hand, although using their calculations seems to be less accurate.
I can choose to share workouts with MFP or log it manually. I just have it set to share steps but not adjust my calories automatically since my previous attempts ended pretty miserably because those "extra calories" really messed with my head.1 -
pridesabtch wrote: »Thank you for this thread, I love reading it. You are honest and kind spirited with many helpful tips.
If I'm scrubbing floors by hand I may count housecleaning, but it is very, very rare. House keeping is not my strong suit.
Cooking I just laugh as I imagine them doing squats or jumping jacks while chopping veggies.
I actually do sometimes do squats, lateral leg lifts, calf raises, or something like that while cooking. Why not? I still don't count it as exercise . . . . 😉7 -
pridesabtch wrote: »Thank you for this thread, I love reading it. You are honest and kind spirited with many helpful tips.
If I'm scrubbing floors by hand I may count housecleaning, but it is very, very rare. House keeping is not my strong suit.
Cooking I just laugh as I imagine them doing squats or jumping jacks while chopping veggies.
I actually do sometimes do squats, lateral leg lifts, calf raises, or something like that while cooking. Why not? I still don't count it as exercise . . . . 😉
“Coffee squats” to pass the time while it’s brewing 😄4 -
Confession time. I really enjoy doing a one legged sideways yoga pose when loading the dishwasher. I feel like a dog stretching must feel.7
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It’s all about meeeeeee today!
Yesterday husband was busy, so I grocery shopped alone at Lidl, a European chain which has opened several stores here in metro Atlanta. They had just gotten their lovely European holiday treats in, and I went hog wild, breaking my own rule #1 : Don’t grocery shop on an empty stomach and #2: Stick to the grocery list.
I came home with gingerbread Lebkuchen, iced stars, chocolate dipped speculoos (yeah, spelling) cookies, peppermint bark, marzipan minis. All my favorites from the Christmas markets and I had a major pig out. Some of it was pretty awesome (marzipan, gingerbread), some of it I was so disgusted with myself (peppermint bark) for wasting the calories, I threw it out.
BL watched the carnage silently. He never said anything, never criticized.
This morning he quietly observed,”You know, you don’t do that when we grocery shop together. We keep each other in check.”
And it hit me, doggone it, he’s RIGHT.
When we shop together, we are so busy setting a good example for each other and silently supporting each other, questioning “is there something lower cal we could choose instead?”or “Do you really want that?”, that would never have happened if he’d been there.
So the new agreement is to be patient and wait til we’re both available to shop.
Support works outside the home, too!
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Speculoos (or speculaas) is one of those things I take for granted, having easy access here. Luckily I do NOT have a sweet tooth 😁1
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pridesabtch wrote: »Thank you for this thread, I love reading it. You are honest and kind spirited with many helpful tips.
If I'm scrubbing floors by hand I may count housecleaning, but it is very, very rare. House keeping is not my strong suit.
Cooking I just laugh as I imagine them doing squats or jumping jacks while chopping veggies.
I actually do sometimes do squats, lateral leg lifts, calf raises, or something like that while cooking. Why not? I still don't count it as exercise . . . . 😉
“Coffee squats” to pass the time while it’s brewing 😄
I'm "guilty" of tooth-brushing squats and/or lunges.5 -
springlering62 wrote: »It’s all about meeeeeee today!
I came home with gingerbread Lebkuchen, iced stars, chocolate dipped speculoos (yeah, spelling) cookies, peppermint bark, marzipan minis.
My husband makes lebkuchen and pfeffernuesse every Christmas. mmmm.... I have a feeling that during the couple of Christmas weeks, I'm just going to have to move to maintenance calories. There's no way I'm missing out on those babies.
Anyway, it's probably best to bring the hubby to the store with you during the holidays. Extra support is definitely needed in the yummy season.
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Lebkuchen. I will cross state lines for lebkuchen, so either I can't have it in the house, or I give it to my husband to dole out to me, or I just admit Christmas is here and I won't be sticking strictly to my daily routine. (I can ignore a lot of other things, but Contessa lebkuchen is not one of them.)3
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You had to bring up marzipan, didn't you? Mmmmmmarzipan.4
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You had to bring up marzipan, didn't you? Mmmmmmarzipan.
Ann, Lidl has individually wrapped sticks at 140 calories each. Just realized I forgot to log it in the pigfest the other night but I can vouch it is excellent quality.
Daughter arrives from Germany Wednesday night and is bringing me a log of Niederegger. That is the pinnacle, utmost, heaven of marzipan.
ETA to add happy squees:
And YAAAAYYYYYYY! First time we’ve seen her since her wedding there in 2019.9 -
We went to the local Mexican restaurant. The good one.
Waitress came to drop a bowl of chips and salsa off and husband put up his hand. ✋🏻
“No thanks,” said he.
I nearly fell out of the booth in astonishment.
“I don’t have the calories for it and really, all we need is the meal anyway.”
Talk about mixed emotions. Cue vast secret disappointment and enormous pride.
I usually get bell pepper strips for the salsa but he said no to those, too. “Just wait”, sez he.
And he was right. Dinner was big and filling and fit in our calories.
Like the anal MFP idiots, no, Warriors we are, we spent our time calculating how many chips in a bowl, and how many calories we’d saved.14 -
springlering62 wrote: »
Do you have a fitness tracker? Are you utilizing it to the best of your ability? What can it do that you have you haven’t taken advantage of?
Yes. And no.
I currently have the Fitbit Charge 3, two upgrades from my original Flex. I like having the heart rate function in addition to step counting. I do aim to hit my 10K daily steps and there have been a few times I've been at 9900 ish and pacing the house just before bedtime to hit that goal. So it's somewhat motivating. On the other hand, recreational outdoor walking is about to end for the season and I won't get 10K again for a while and it doesn't bother me.
There are various things you can log on Fitbit like food and water intake that I don't bother with. There's a "female health" logging/tracking area that doesn't apply since I don't have periods.
I gave my old Flex to the SO and he liked it for a while but it kept falling off at work so he abandoned it.1 -
“Somebody commented about my food diary! Can people see what I’m eating?” BL was in a bit of a panic.
“Your diary is open to friends. They can see what you’ve eaten and what exercise you’ve recorded to your diary.”
I didn’t tell him that I set his privacy settings this way, so that his bestest friend (me!) could monitor his diary. 😇
“Someone posted ‘Yum!’ to my feed when I closed my diary. Why would they do that?!”
“Maybe they liked your manly steak and potato for dinner. Maybe they liked that you enjoyed a slice of cherry pie? It’s not threatening. It’s just….yum.”
You can choose your privacy level for your food diary from locked to everyone, to viewable only by friends, to public (anyone can see it).
https://www.myfitnesspal.com/account/diary_settings
Why would you want your diary to be visible?
Members often ask for help, or complain that they’ve “plateaued”. If their diary is open to see, other users can do a quick review to see how and where they can tighten up on logging, if macros are out of kilter and changing them might perhaps cure the nibblies , or if there are substitutions that might help cut calories.
Sometimes folks simply like to look at diaries of successful losers for ideas, or new foods or products to try.
My diary is open, for better or for worse. Having mine open makes it simple for BL to copy or save meals straight from my account to his. This afternoon I made a loaf of bread. He simply copied the meal/recipe off of my diary, and then logged it, adding his portion of the loaf.
Do you ever look at peoples diaries, and why?1 -
Sometimes I like to peek at a diary, it is really interesting to see what counts as a regular meal for someone on the opposite side of Australia (or the world). I've checked out diaries and then googled products, occasionally I have made a purchase based off someone's diary.2
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Aside from people posting in the forums asking for advice, I look at my friends' diaries occasionally. Not so much for inspiration, but to get a general idea of their calorie intake, exercise burns,...
My own diary is public, just in case anyone is interested, but at least half of it is in French or Dutch so probably not that interesting to most 😁2 -
Our daughter is currently en route home for the first time in five years. We haven’t seen her since her wedding in Europe a few weeks before lockdown began. Yay!!!!! Train closures, signage outage at her home airport, multiple gate changes. I just want her butt in that seat for that transatlantic leg.
She’s already given us a list of American foods she intends to have while she’s home: Chick-fil-A, Waffle House, local sushi, bubble tea, mom’s Mac and cheese.
We’re probably going to surprise her with an early Thanksgiving dinner.
Stay tuned to me and BL’s food diaries and restaurant adventures as we try to keep the calories in check!
BTW, BL was down over three pounds at weigh in yesterday. This man of mine is focused!!! I’m so proud!14 -
I never look at others' diaries, nor is mine open to anyone.
I've never been interested in weight loss so my diary isn't much use to someone who is. I log primarily for a) sodium and b) protein so unless you're a sodium-restricted Canadian pescetarian who leans heavily vegetarian, my diary isn't very helpful. And vice versa.
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I've looked at someone's diary once because they asked for feedback. Otherwisw, nah. Mine stays closed because I log weirdly and nor most of what I eat, and I really am not interested in what other people are eating.
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Yeah, speaking of logging weirdly... I'm a lazy logger and I just add something in whatever meal it was last logged in whenever possible. So the other day it looked like I didn't eat any lunch because all my lunch foods were in my recent snacks, and that's where they got added.
On trips I just log my morning protein for the sake of "logging in" to maintain my streak so there have been days at a time where it looks like I only ate 130 calories of protein, when in reality I was scarfing down 4000+ calories of restaurant food.
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Yeah this is exactly the sort of thing I mean. I log wherever I last put the food/can find it closest. There's a lot of stuff I don't log at all - always my morning coffee, but when traveling or out for an event, that's it. I don't tend to log a lot of condiments, spices, or fruit veg anymore (personally). I'm pretty dialed in for the main part of my diet and let a LOT slide.
This works for me but it is basically shorthand. if someone tried to use my diary as an actual eating guide they would DIE and I'd feel bad. If they'd took it literally they'd think I was going to die.
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BL did awesome today. Well within calorie goals.
Me, I’ve polished of a 500gr pack of chocolate covered glazed Holiday gingerbread and 200 more of little chocolate flowers covered in nonpareils (sugar beads).
Thank God I told daughter to bring only one of each with her.
My stomach hurts and this has been the longest day in memory. She’s asked us not to go to our gyms or the yoga studio, and to wear masks out everywhere while she’s here because she’s terrified she’ll get Covid and won’t be able to get back home (lives in Europe). I didn’t realize how much of my day is filled with classes and workouts. I’ve looked at Pinterest til my eyes have crossed while she recovers from jet lag. I am literally climbing the walls.
BL is fine He closed his ring setting out folding chairs (masked and distanced per her request) for the Veterans Day observation. It ‘s pouring rain and me and the dog are looking at each other like “what’ll we do do the next hour?” because this is usually evening walkies time for the two of us.
Weight loss. The double edged sword. Energy to burn and when you can’t, what do ya do? Boredom eat gingerbread and chug hot drinks.
the irony.
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