WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2022
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Tracey, my husband is retired and has been isolated at home through Covid because his immune system is so compromised. He talks to people on the phone but rarely in person. When he is having a sad day he makes comments about maybe I've found someone else or maybe the weird guy in the neighbor hood that is up early so I see him on my walks is my boyfriend. Whenever he feels lonely or useless he thinks I might be having an affair or something. Later he is apologetic and recognizes that he is probably off beam. It still hurts but I'm getting used to it and don't have my feelings hurt so much. Additionally he has regular long phone conversations with three women including one of his ex wives. He doesn't think there is anything odd about that, but my talking to a few goofy male neighbors sets him off.
The dishwasher technician is here now. Jake and he are having a lively conversation while the man works.Kim congrats to you for getting help Barbie in NW WA 4 -
Tracey I would have made a joke of it and thanked DH for the thoughtful gift! Then thank him for still being your boyfriend. Would have thrown him for a loop I think! Lol
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Well spent an hour getting allergy tested to find I’m only allergic to cats? No cats here…. Doc agrees there is something wrong and sent me for an allergy blood test. Spent 2 more hours at hospital 2.5 of that waiting for registration!🙄🙄 Then lab nurse only put a bandaid on the needle hole, so by the time I got back to the car, I was spurting blood all over! Put 2 bandaids on it I had in my emergency cash, put finger on it and went back to lab. Head nurse of lab saw me coming and was prepared to fix me and angry with the nurse who used the bandaid.
I was supposed to go to laundromat after that, but by then it was 2 pm and I had not had lunch yet. Called DH then went home in a grumpy mood.
Allergist prescribed a nasal antihistamine, but drug store won’t have it available until next week. Not the best situation so back to nasal rinses zer Tex at night, Claritin in morning, and Afrin before bed. 🙄🙄😳
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Tracey-There is an Amazon scam called "brushing." Sellers send items to real addresses and then give themselves verified reviews. https://clark.com/shopping-retail/amazon-scam-brushing-warning-deliveries-you-didnt-order/
It's possible that is the issue. There are other Amazon related scams like this. You might consider changing your Amazon password and make sure you have two-factor authentication enabled for your account (the second way of verifying it's you, such as a one-time code sent in text).
As for your husband's reaction, it probably is insecurity. My mister used to do that, until I called him on his own behavior. Now he has mostly stopped. I lock my phone and my computers. What I discuss with you all, my friends, and my family is none of his business, unless I choose to tell him. To my knowledge, he has not tried to get into my computer, but I don't give him the opportunity. I have his passcodes, but I don't look at his devices either.
In any case, I hope you work it out.
I just finished a 50 minute workout and now will go walk/run 3 miles. I know I keep saying I'm giving up on weight loss, but I just cannot believe it can't be done.
Tina in CA
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Well spent an hour getting allergy tested to find I’m only allergic to cats? No cats here…. Doc agrees there is something wrong and sent me for an allergy blood test. Spent 2 more hours at hospital 2.5 of that waiting for registration!🙄🙄 Then lab nurse only put a bandaid on the needle hole, so by the time I got back to the car, I was spurting blood all over! Put 2 bandaids on it I had in my emergency cash, put finger on it and went back to lab. Head nurse of lab saw me coming and was prepared to fix me and angry with the nurse who used the bandaid.
I was supposed to go to laundromat after that, but by then it was 2 pm and I had not had lunch yet. Called DH then went home in a grumpy mood.
Allergist prescribed a nasal antihistamine, but drug store won’t have it available until next week. Not the best situation so back to nasal rinses zer Tex at night, Claritin in morning, and Afrin before bed. 🙄🙄😳
RvRita in NM
It's possible your issues are weather/climate related. When the winds blow from the east here (called Santa Ana's), I have all kinds of sinus-related issues. I also have them when the barometric pressure changes. I think it's hard to test for those types of things.
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The wisteria that is in our front yard. It's the neighbour's plant, but we get to enjoy it. 😉
Lovely afternoon picking up Bea. I spoke to my friend L on the phone while we were in the park. She has her 2nd hip operation on Monday , and is feeling vulnerable as her husband died in December.
After the babysitting we went to the boutique brewery for a drink. I love to spend time together as if we are on a date. Tomorrow we hope to go to the music on the seafront, but the weather forecast is iffy. If we do, we will take some hummus and pitta for a snack, then take ourselves off for a Persian meal. Good bonding.
We talk so much more when we are out together.
Love Heather UK xxxxxx
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Pip Happy birthday!3
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I’m having a frustrating day today. I need to take my car in for service. It is about nine miles from here. Good news is that they have a loaner available for the trip back home. I’m tired & DH doesn’t want to come with me. I think I’ll check in on it and see if It can wait another day.4
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Morning all.
Kim: Hooray for the counselling. Your mom is lucky she has such a caring daughter.
Annie: Joining Lisa and Heather on lunges. If they hurt, don't do them!
This meme is so me with coffee.LisaInArkansas wrote: »
Just a question...Is anyone else using the new "Save Draft" button just below the box you post in? I've started to use it.
I've started to use the Draft button, but don't always remember 😃1 -
My bday is in the month of may, it’s not here yet. Mine is on the 25th. Thx for the early happy bday’s. Tomorrow we are getting on the road on our way to the great Pacific Northwest then on our Alaska cruise.
Took yogi to the vet to get his stitches out. Gonna leave around 4am and spend the nite in Oregon then drop off yogi at the sitters in Washington then spend the night at a friends house then go to the big boat.7 -
We had an emotional day. First we dealt with the dishwasher technician with a satisfactory but expensive outcome. Then after a long wait on the phone, and a drive to the cable store to return the cable boxes we successfully disconnected from cable TV and will save ourselves a bunch of money. There is a lot on cable TV we like but the cost was too much so we'll satisfy our watching needs with the streaming services we have.
No yard work today, the rain seemed to come at the times I could get outside. Barbie in NW WA 6 -
I did my dumbbells 35 reps! Yay!
Annie in Delaware3 -
Worked then put Jess’ things into her storage unit. Talk about stuffed! She had better not think about putting one more thing in there. Then cut the grass. Took a shower and then bought gas for the lawn mower. Had dinner and went to WalMart, then went to Belk’s where I got a good pair of scissors for $4, now home
Ever since I fractured the bone in my foot, the doc has advised me against doing lunges. Puts too much strain on that bone. I really haven’t found a good alternative
Tracey – (((HUG))) I agree with Lisa that your husband is maybe feeling a bit insecure, especially since he knows that at times you rely on your paycheck. It’s a “man” thing – most of them feel they must provide for their family and if they don’t, then they are a failure
It looks like while I was gone they had Jerry doing a lot of the prep. Some things I think he can handle – peeling the onions, separating them. But the tomatoes looked terrible! Not sure what he was doing but I wouldn’t give that to any customer. I just said to him “guess I better watch out. Pretty soon you’ll be taking my job”. He did show me that he got two more pins from BK. This is a reward to him. I don’t think anyone else is interested in pins, but if that keeps him happy, that’s fine.
Chuckees – welcome
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Hello Ladies!
Thank you Carol for messaging me. It has been a rough couple of months. I am still swimming, but barely. More like treading. I am okay though.
100%/Perfection- Traits I learned from my father. I have always learned everything from the basics up. Jobs, driving, crafts, studies...if I couldn't apply myself 100% then I didn't do them. It is a downfall as well. I know what to do, how to do it, and why I should do things, but these days I seem to lack the energy to do anything about it. I really need to figure out "me"
While I was getting to this spot in May, I briefly read someone's post about focusing on the negative instead of realizing what you did get accomplished. That kind of hit home. This past weekend I had plans to get lots accomplished. That didn't happen.... Worked Saturday. I did hand my SIL a bunch of bills and told her they needed called. She didn't say a word, just got it done for me. A customer did tell me that the reason everyone thinks I "own" the place, is the air of confidence and authority that I exude. (positives). After work, my DH and I took my new car to dinner at a really nice restaurant. Dinner was wonderful and included a glass of wine. One glass and I am not much good for anything. I figured I would get things done Sunday morning before my Mother's Day 2 hour massage. Well, I couldn't get my *kitten* in gear. Of course, after the massage, I really didn't want to do anything, but did get to the grocery. It is amazing just how big the little trunk is in a Miata. I got 10 bags of groceries in it and still had room! Once I got home and groceries put away, my energy was done. I needed to do laundry, pay bills, deposit checks, file papers, do work paperwork, and clean the kitchen. None of them got done. I watched stupid videos all day curled up on the couch. Positive was that I got to the grocery.
Yesterday was a much better day. I managed to get papers filed, checks deposited, bills payed, papers shredded, kitchen cleaned, dinner cooked, floor mopped, folded the clothes on the couch, and packed lunches for today. All positives. Today I have laundry almost done and put away. One load about to go into the dryer and then the last load will go in the washer before I head to bed. We also got to watch our youngest grandson play baseball for a little while. Good day. Two days of good food I am sure have helped. My weight has been creeping back up towards that 130 mark, but am down 4 lbs in the past 2 weeks. Positive. I haven't had a migraine in 3 weeks. Positive. You ladies are all still here. Great Positive.
I feel out of the loop, but will try to scan and catch up! You are all special to me!
Lots of Love
Kylia from Ohio where summer has arrived for now.3 -
Accountability:Chose well: Joe, readings, BP steps >7400, CI<CO, CI<250<CO, dogs to powerline
Bonus: recycling, pickup plants, PT appt, Bi-Mart, Post Office, Library, Freddie’s, 2 sets PT
Just one thing: back to bupkes
Workin’ on it: 140.9 , H20x5, active 5:13
Meaningful May
10: Be grateful for the little things, even in difficult times. Sea, sky, puppy tummies and ah! That first sip of tea!
PT seemed less intense, but by the time I got home after running errands knees were pretty achy, so skipped 3rd set of exercises ;P
Lisa
the tea mems, thanks for pointing out the “save draft” button. Really love the way you feel about your family. Corey’s mushrooms sound mouthwatering.
Betsy ((hugs))
Annie be so very careful about the lunges. Do you have any stairs in your house? Might try hanging on to the handrails on either side and do mini lunges up. PT tried me on mini lunges supported with a cane in each hand. Not good. :{ Ah I see Lisa and Heather gave more timely cautions.
Kim sending love and energy right back to you. Winning the healthcare lottery: ‘bout damntime something went your way. Well done on giving your mom a healing, nurturing break. Very well done for pursuing your mental health despite her comment.
Vickie I’ve been wondering about Kylia too @kymarai
Only to the bottom of pg 22 but been sittin’ too long. More later.
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2022: Be still and listen.
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Machka and everyone,
I did see a diagnostic physical therapist maybe seven years ago. My boyfriend at the time insisted after my knee gave out on two separate vacations trying to keep up with him. He was the one who told me my knee is built a little crooked.
Since then I have been doing clamshells with a band, side lifts with two pound ankle weights, bridges and unweighted squats plus stretches. All as part of my dumbbells routine. I could try single leg bridges but that feels like a lot of weight for me.
It's slowly getting better. I can use the stairs now with a little twinge. Than you all for your concern. 😊
Groceries today and dumbbells tonight.
Have a great day ladies!
Annie in Delaware
Could be worth having it looked at again if it still isn't better after 7 years.
Are there Pilates classes in your area? They can be good for things like that. My hip feels better when I go consistently.
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Thank you all for the comments today. It has helped change my mood and thinking.
Spoke to my BF for 3 hours tonight, first time in years. I miss her so much.
Late already, will chat more tomorrow.
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Went to water exercise today. The instructor has been taking some training in Hiit and added a little bit of that to the class today. Interesting and felt like I got a good workout.
Pip - have a great trip.
Kylia - glad you are back with us. Good for you concentrating on the positives.
DD found out Monday that she had been exposed to Covid at work last Friday. She has so far tested negative but one of her coworkers was at our house Saturday working on a landscaping project for us and he called in sick today. Doesn't have test results yet. We were outside the whole time he was here so hopefully all will be well.
Everyone take care, Sue in WA7 -
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Knee was really achy after casserole-a-thon, Pastor’s wife saw me have to lift my leg into the car and commented. Managed to drag my achin’ knees down the drive to the powerline with the pooches, but then crapped out and had a nap after. Thinkin’ maybe either I overdid after PT or PT was more intense than it felt. Will ask therapist at tomorrow’s appt.
Annie Heather and Machka give good advice. Glad to hear you have seen a PT. Seven years was awhile ago, might be time for a re-check?
Heather my PT has me doing (hip hingeing) “sit to stands” instead of squats; step downs (similar to your standing on one leg and raising up, but instead standing on one leg on a stair and bending knee to lower other foot toward the next lower tread) ; and strap assisted supine quad stretches (instead of bridges). Thanks for the clamshell and side raise reminder, need to pre-emptively add those. Yours is an inspiring story. Enjoy your picnic/music event. Wow, what a wisteria!
Debbie sorry to hear your mother’s home is the scene of so much drama.
Tina could you describe the quad and twisted quad raises?
Michele you found exercise DVDs you didn’t already have? Amazing! the “5 foot rule” :laugh:
Ginny, never thought of lunging on a Bosu ball, thanks!
Tracey sad and frustrating about your coworker and boss. While your coworker may not have said exactly that, she did complain to your boss. :smh: As for Rodger’s erratic behavior,
((hugs)) Personally I’d have trust issues if Joe locked his phone from me. My phone and laptop are not locked and passwords are in the “Just in case” binder. “April is procrastination awareness month” made me laugh out loud!
Julie good luck for the appointment. That is strange about eating chocolate to artificially boost wbc before sampling.
Brava for 21 g protein at breakfast!
Viv I’m with your mum, my eyes are always closed, and my head is turned away just in case… 20K steps, well done!
Vicki hooray for the good news from the Dr!
Allie you must have nerves of steel in addition to your incredibly great heart.
Barbie Great example of understanding and equanimity in the face of hurtful comments.
Rita quick wit!
Weclome @chuckees130! Would you tell us what you’d like to be called and your general locale?
Katla I wouldn’t want to drive a strange, loaner car when I was tired either. Hope you were able to postpone.
Kylia so glad to see your smiling face. (((hugs held extra long))) for the rough couple of months.
There. Caught up for the moment. Time to try to get some steps in.
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2022: Be still and listen.
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hi all
walked 4000+ steps to start the day and had breakfast we good protein and not too much carbs. already that!1 -
Katla - When we need a service the garage comes to get our car. Much better! We are too old to be going through all the bother. Could you arrange that with them? Anything that makes life (much) easier. They also washed it.
It's the same with having the bulk of our shopping delivered and having a cleaner and window cleaner. As we get older we just do the things we like doing and get someone else to do the rest. Life is too short.
There is a campaign on the TV at the moment. 'No-mow May'. Great excuse not to cut the grass. We have a great collection of daisies and our 'wildflower meadow' at the end is rich with pink campions.
I read a great quote the other day.
'Many people are addicted to lives they don't even like'
So true. If you don't like it - don't do it. Life is not a dress-rehearsal.
I realised why DH is being a bit insecure and grumpy at times. His back pain has returned. We (the family) have all given him excellent suggestions on who to consult, and links to practitioners, but he won't do any of it. His last, years ago, consultations were not helpful at all. Plus he is stubborn. Last night he rediagnosed the problem on the Internet, sacro-iliac strain, (I am sure he is right) and found a few exercises to help it.
Oh well. ....
We are what we are.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
We had an emotional day. First we dealt with the dishwasher technician with a satisfactory but expensive outcome. Then after a long wait on the phone, and a drive to the cable store to return the cable boxes we successfully disconnected from cable TV and will save ourselves a bunch of money. There is a lot on cable TV we like but the cost was too much so we'll satisfy our watching needs with the streaming services we have. No yard work today, the rain seemed to come at the times I could get outside. Barbie in NW WA
We don't have cable or Netflix or any such thing.
Just the standard dozen or so channels and a collection of second hand DVDs I've picked up for $1 or $2 over the years.
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Shopping done. Going out with Garden Group to visit a walled garden. Hoping the weather holds good.
Kymarai: So good to see you posting. Focusing on your accomplishments is very positive.
Barbie: We just have Freeview channels on our TV. I can barely find time to watch what I want as it is, s,o Sat or cable would be wasted.
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