Women 200lb+, Let's Have A Momentous May!!!
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It's kinda weird seeing myself lose weight over this week, considering I've done nothing but lay around and not eat the healthiest. Then again, I have been drinking an insane amount of water, so it's possible this is what I actually weighed at the beginning of the week and I was holding onto water weight on Saturday. AKA, I flushed whatever sodium keeping my weight high out of my system.4
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Anyone have any plans this weekend? I know Mother's Day can be pretty fraught for some people - this is permission from an internet stranger to do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself, if the second Sunday in May is a hard day for you, no matter your reason.
Tomorrow (Saturday) is the LoseIt Challenge Ultrawalkathon - this is arguably my favorite part of the challenges, although I don't think I could do them more often than roughly every 3-4 months, LMAO. My goal is 50,000 steps in 24 hours, clock starts at midnight tonight. 50k steps should take about 7-8 hours all told at my typical pace, so I'm anticipating being out and about for probably 10 hours, factoring in pauses to eat, rest, refill water, wait to cross roads, etc. The current vague plan is to walk somewhere for breakfast and then wander around for a bit while the UV index is still relatively low, then retreat into the nearest Planet Fitness to continue stepping inside in the AC. I have a backpack to carry water, snacks, and sun protection; we'll see how long I can stand the dreadmill before I head back outside, LMAO. Hubs has a gig tomorrow night so I can't just pick a direction and wander until my little legs can't carry me no mo', since he won't be able to come rescue me.8 -
Good morning - Today I am thinking about all the reasons I need to stay on track and continue to put myself first...
#1 - drop the lbs so my plantar faciitis simmers down and my joints stop aching
#2 - fit back into my wardrobe
#3 - keep up with my hubby when we hike and bike
#4 - feel healthy again
and so many more reason
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Ugh... I had a dr's appointment this morning and their scale was 5lbs more than my scale at home.... what the heck. That was a real blow to the self esteem. I'll be back later.8
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Keri
69 years old
5'6"
SW: 266ish
CW: (End of April, 5/1) 250.6 new scale weighs me 6 lbs heavier than old one so not sure about how much I have lost.
Halfway GW: 199.5
UGW: 150 then see what I think and feel.
May GW: get back into and stay in the 240s
I post weigh- in when I lose.
5/2: 250
5/3: 249.6
5/6: 249.2
🌻 May GOALS! 🌻
🟨 Log daily on MFP and track on my spreadsheet ✔
🟨 Keep making progress with walking longer and try to get to 6 days a week ✔ I seem to be consistent with 5 days a week of walking with varying lengths
🟨 Add strength training (weights, body weight and stretching) ✔Yesterday, but my wrist hurts today
🟨 plan and cook healthy meals at home ✔
🟨 Eat at a sensible deficit I was eating very low and then my weight went up a bit so yesterday I ate a little above and today I lost.
I got down to this weight for a minute last month but it was after being sick from the 2nd Booster so I knew I wouldn’t stay there. This week I have again gotten into the 240s just barely but I am so far staying there. I want to get low enough that I can’t pop up out of them. Today I plan to just eat below my calorie goal. Not too low or too high. Also I need to drink more water than yesterday.
Right before I started my last job I got down to about 245 but that with a scale that weighed me light than my one now. My short term goal is to get to that weight on this scale. So although I will be 6 LBS lighter than when I was last 245 lbs last time I will feel that I lost what I gained both in reality and through replacing my scale. Theoretically I am already lighter than that time 19 months ago but it doesn’t feel that way to me, even if pants and skirts are looser.
I went for a short walk today before breakfast with my youngest. However this will be a NEAT day since I need to straighten up and do some house cleaning for when my son and daughter-in-law come tomorrow for brunch. My husband is the brunch maker. Besides it is mother's day week end.
@CupcakeCrusoe good job working on the goals you can and making progress. Hope you heal up soon
@kenziestabes Yes weird. I was drinking water and eating low calories went down a bit then started going up so I upped my calories and went down this morning. I didn’t drink enough yesterday so I plan to up the water and stay just under calorie goal today.
@goal06082021 Having my son and daughter in law over for brunch tomorrow and to my Brothers on Sunday with my Mom and it is also my sister’s birthday. Yes there is sometimes the pull between being a Mom and being a daughter especially when your Mom wasn’t the best. In the past years now that my kids are grown I am pretty chill about it all. Hope your Ultrawalkathon is great.
@RENAEJAE I vote for #4
@biohazardinc I hate it when my scale fails since the new one invariably weighs me higher. I only weigh 1st thing in the morning, nude so my weight is always higher on the Drs scale. I know it is all relative but it doesn’t feel that way does it?3 -
@JAC581 - I hope you're feeling better today.
@goal06082021 - good luck on your challenge tomorrow!
I've been just blah today. Woke up with a headache & it has been a dull ache all day. We have some humid/rainy weather here which I think is causing it.
Placed my grocery pick up order for the week. Can't wait to get home & make some food.
Lettuce Wraps
Tomato Onion Frittata
Ham & Broccoli Frittata
Baked "Spaghetti" (spaghetti squash)
Chicken Fajitas
Cheesesteak stuffed peppers
Deviled eggs for snacks - I have been craving deviled eggs SO BAD here recently. I could seriously sit down & eat a dozen of them in 1 sitting.
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Age 45
Height 5'4"
SW 249 3/2020
CW 223.4
GW for May 220
UGW 145
Basic BIO: I'm Sarah. Married, no kids. We live separately; at the moment living with mom. Merging houses has been difficult; even prior to the mom situation. I have a beagle mix and 2 cats, in addition to Mom's shi-tzu and her 2 cats. DH has 2 dogs. Working from home for a bank in technology area.
5/1: 222.4
5/8:
5/14:
5/21:
5/31:
Total month loss:
Weekly goals:
-At least 1 day at gym
-64 oz of water each day
@justanotherloser007 check out Meetup.com. Always a lot of different groups around the major cities. I haven’t been as active as I used to but went to a few groups that had activities I was interested in and met folks that became friends.
Work had me busy this week. Next week is lots of meetings. Weight had stayed close to the high so it’s more than just sodium right now. Slacking on water so that’s to be my focus. Almost biding my time until mom leaves for her summer place. I’m cooking a certain way to help appease her so I’d be cooking different a bit by myself. I’m needing to reflect on that a bit to see if I can switch some things. She bought I bunch of goodies I can’t have so that’s a non-issue at the moment. I did try one of each, and to test my reaction, to find they weren’t that great or just having the one was good enough. I have seen I progress more in the summer than in the time once she’s back so definitely historical pattern there.
Vet appt for the dog this week so I stayed at my house for the night to help with work timing on the day of the appt. That helped a lot. I do need to do that more often. The lure of doordash is very real for me there. I definitely know I gained during covid due to trying to support local food places by ordering. Otherwise I barely eat out. I knew I should have taken food over so I knew what I was doing when not doing so.
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From @CupcakeCrusoe you know your body, to know whether the high end of normal bmi is good for you.. I know a lot of people who, by bmi, are overweight, but look great, and have no health issues, but it is a very personal decision, and you sound like you've considered carefully.
145 isn't my goal weight, just that is when I won't be considered overweight anymore by BMI standards.0 -
Age: 44
Height: 5'10"
HW: 290.6 (4/19/2021)
SW: 287.4 (7/16/2021)
CW: 209.8 (5/1/2022)
GW for May: 205
GW for 2022: 170
UGW: 170
5/7: 207.4
5/14:
5/21:
5/28:
Another week in the books. I think the last 5 lbs have all come from my boobs, which I am both happy and sad about. Happy because I can fit into some of my old tops and they are more perky (lol), sad because when I am at a "normal" weight I tend to have a pretty straight figure (small chest, narrow hips, minimal waist curve) and I like curves! Plus the few bras that still fit now fit poorly. Seriously considering changing my goal to 190; I know it is still technically in the overweight BMI, but I am starting to feel pretty good about how I look and feel. The one thing I would like gone is my tummy, but I have had 4 kids so I doubt it will ever go away completely & I am not sure I care enough about the last of it to lose the rest of my remaining curves. We will see.
Met up with my cousin last night for a small street fair and some dancing. Lots of fun and lots of steps. Today I have a funeral followed by a play. I am trying to find some clothes that will work for both (going straight from the funeral in Sacramento to SF for the play), but I just tried on all my slacks and they all sag in the rear if not straight falling down. Which means I am officially way thinner than 8 years ago when I bought them all! I suppose it is a good problem to have, but really wish I had tried on my clothes earlier, lol.
I hope you all have a great week! One of these days I will actually reply from my computer instead of my phone, and then I will take part in those tag parties. In the meantime, know that I am cheering everyone on!
Goals for May:
- Meet fiber goals at least 3x per week: ✔️ 4 of 7
- Meet protein goals at least 3x per week: ✔️ 4 of 7
- Minimum 6000 steps daily: ❌️ 6 of 7. Although most of the days were well over 6 so I definitely averaged over 6
- At least 8 glasses water daily: ✔️
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@imgoff232 - I'm also 5'10 and my UGW is somewhere around 190-210. Really where ever my body decides it's happy.
At one point (10 years ago) I got down to 175 and was still in the over weight category. When I talked to my doctor about weight loss a few months ago she even agreed I could not maintain that weight. I want to keep some of my curves, but overall just feel better about myself.4 -
Age: 30
Height: 5'3"
SW: 252.8 lb (11/13/2020)
CW: 185.8 lb (4/30/2022)
5/7: 184.6 lb
5/14:
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5/28:
GW for May: 180
GW for 2022: 155
Ayy, you love to see it. I banged out 20 of the 25 miles of walking I intended to do today (1 mile is about 2000 steps, maybe a little more than that with my stride length - ya girl got lil legs) before the weather got the better of me. I do still intend to get back out there and do those last five miles - that's a little more than two loops around my block, eminently doable so long as the weather cooperates. The street is very peaked so huge puddles tend to form along the edges, and the way people drive around here you'd think the cars are being operated by three blind raccoons in a trenchcoat, so I don't particularly want to be walking down the middle of the road in the rain, yanno?5 -
@goal06082021 The street is very peaked so huge puddles tend to form along the edges, and the way people drive around here you'd think the cars are being operated by three blind raccoons in a trench coat, so I don't particularly want to be walking down the middle of the road in the rain, yanno?
LOL!1 -
Keri
69 years old
5'6"
SW: 266ish
CW: (End of April, 5/1) 250.6 new scale weighs me 6 lbs heavier than old one so not sure about how much I have lost.
Halfway GW: 199.5
UGW: 150 then see what I think and feel.
May GW: get back into and stay in the 240s
I post weigh- in when I lose.
5/2: 250
5/3: 249.6
5/6: 249.2
5/8 249
🌻 May GOALS! 🌻
🟨 Log daily on MFP and track on my spreadsheet ✔
🟨 Keep making progress with walking longer and try to get to 6 days a week ✔
🟨 Add strength training (weights, body weight and stretching) ✔
🟨 plan and cook healthy meals at home ✔
🟨 Eat at a sensible deficit ✔ if I average the week. I have some very low and some somewhat high days. This weekend staying below my calorie goal but not so low as early last week.
Happy Mother's Day to any of you mothers out there! I am having 2 days of it. Yesterday my son and daughter-in-law came for one of my husbands lovely weekend brunches. They are going back home mid month. Today we go to my brother's for lunch with my Mom and sister and her husband. 3 of the cousins will be there to see their grandmother but none of those who are married with children. COVID rates are going up here and it isn't nice enough to have it outside so we are keeping it on the smaller side. Yesterday we took a 30 minute walk after brunch and I hope to get in a walk today. So far I am staying in the 240s but won't be safe until I lose another few lbs.2 -
Good afternoon everyone!
Back from my girls' weekend with my bestie- we had a great time shopping, going to a farmer's market for some delicious treats and supplies for dinner, and making a fancy dinner of braciole with spaghetti squash last night.
I don't think I can trust my friend's scale, but it said 187.8 this morning, and it said 188.2 yesterday! So either I had a water gain on Saturday and then lost it today, or I'm losing still, which is nice, because I did manage to stay under maintenance (barely, lol, but it counts!) all weekend!
Back on my scale tomorrow morning, we'll see what happens!
Tag party!
@kenziestabes weight loss is not dependent on exercise, exercise just makes it easier.
@goal06082021 I'm glad you had a good Ultrawalkathon, it sounds awesome!
@RENAEJAE Those all sound like great reasons to stick with it!
@biohazardinc I know the variations between scales can be demoralizing, but keep at it, you've got this.
@KeriA a nice walk after brunch sounds like a great way to celebrate mother's day. Happy mother's day to you.
@rockitwell86 I am the same way about deviled eggs- I can eat just a ton in one sitting if I'm not careful, haha.
@sarah12277 I know what you mean about being around some people making it harder on your goals. I've had to make myself pretty much antisocial at work in order to stick to my stuff- they all like to go out for lunch, and that's just not going to work for me with a deficit.
@swimmom_1 I understand. 122 sounds impossibly small to me, but as I said, it's a personal thing.
@lmgoff232 those all sound like great clothes NSVs!
Have a great day, everyone!3 -
Hope you've all had a wonderful weekend.
Yesterday I went way off track and didn't track my food because I ate out for breakfast and lunch. I tried my best with breakfast but lunch was a giant steak salad and I had no way of measuring any of it. I just decided to have an off day, and I don't feel too terrible about it today. I got back on track this morning and will weigh myself tomorrow. One thing I am going to have to work on is cutting back on "brown cows" at my favorite cafe (lattes made with whole chocolate milk).
I went sports bra shopping yesterday because all of mine are beat up and falling apart. Trying to find sports bras that fit a 38HH is a workout in itself! I did find one I liked on sale at Kohl's and bought it in every color I could find. I emerged from the outing with a beet-red face and my Fitbit telling me I was earning Zone minutes lol.
The rain has finally stopped here in Pennsylvania so I got out for a walk this morning. I haven't been very active this past week and I could tell as my right hip was very tight and my right calf started hurting a lot walking back uphill. I ended up napping most of the day away after that and now I'm just trying to enjoy the nice, quiet evening and ignore the Sunday Scaries.
Have a great evening and let's get ready for the week ahead!4 -
Evening everyone!
So it’s officially been a week since I enrolled at the gym. Eventually I have to set up an appointment with a trainer to figure out a proper plan, but in the meantime I’m re-familiarizing myself with equipment and for the most part enjoying the time there.
The Good: Going to gym on my days off, average heart rate and blood pressure have decreased a little, and mostly being faithful to logging food.
The Bad: My knees are in poorer shape than I thought so I have to be a lot more mindful during exercise, and fatigue from increased activity and calorie cutting have carried over into work (thankfully my team is understanding though!)
The Ugly: I may never eat another dorito or pepperoni stick. Long story short, mindless snacking with DH before going to the gym is a bad idea.
Victory: I didn’t stress-binge after a particularly bad night at work Thursday.
This week’s goals:
Continue logging when I can, keep up with the daily walks, and try to get more sleep.
Also, @CupcakeCrusoe & @KeriA , thank you for your support and encouragement. 🙏🏼 I really appreciate it.6 -
Good morning everyone!
I guess my bestie's scale wasn't too far off, weighed in on mine at 188.4 this morning.
I'm proud of myself for not doing what I might normally do in a scenario with my best friend: eating all the things. It's always a great time, and I found this weekend, it's still a great time even if I don't join her for a cookie/brownie/dinner roll with the braciole and spaghetti squash. I honestly barely noticed their absence, and I was never uncomfortably full all weekend. And I still treated myself: we went to a farmer's market I have fond memories of, and I got some delicious breakfast there. I tried the new cornbread donut at Dunkin (I liked it a lot!). I both treated myself and didn't go overboard. Lesson learned: no one's going to care if I don't eat what they're eating.
My concerted effort to log every. single. thing. in MacroFactor has netted me an increase in both daily calorie allowance and expenditure calories, now that it sees that yes, I lose weight on more calories than you gave me, lol.
Anyway, tag party!
@JAC581 Bra shopping is the WORST but I'm glad you found ones that work well for you! And I would've bought them in every color, too, haha.
@nx9j4zk5eh your good, bad, AND ugly all sound like excellent progress. You've found out your limitations, and you're putting changes in your life in action so you can succeed. It's so inspiring, good for you. And not stress-binging is a stellar victory! It's so hard to change those habits we know aren't helpful, you're doing great.
Have a great Monday, everyone!4 -
Good morning y'all!
SW: 300.7
CW: 291.6
GW: 190-210 (we'll see what my body decides)
5/2: 295.1
5/9: 291.6
5/16:
5/23:
5/30:
I hope everyone had a great weekend & happy mother's day to all the mother's here.
Saturday evening I went to watch my step-dad's old band play. I hadn't seen them together in almost 20 years. They are a lot of fun to watch. When I got back to town I met some friends for drinks. Sunday was a lazy day. I usually meal prep, but I had no desire to move myself off the sofa.
I started a new book yesterday. The Real Deal by Melissa Foster. I'm still reading Evelyn Hugo, but wanted to read something light & fluffy yesterday. So far I'm really liking it.
Bought a new dress to wear today. So comfortable & I've already gotten tons of compliments on it. So I know what I'll be living in this summer! I ordered 2 colors, I can't wait for the 2nd one to come in. And it's from Walmart of all places! I could have absolutely gone down a size, but I also like how flowy it currently it is. I may return the 2nd one I ordered for the smaller size, but we'll see.6 -
I drank so much tea, water, and Gatorade this week... managed to lose a pound despite being in bed all week. Didn't have much of an appetite while sick with COVID, but managed to get 3 squares a day. Ended up subbing my snacks with more liquids. And sleeping. Lot's of sleeping. I think getting COVID ended up being a blessing in disguise because it forced me to take a step back from work. I get frustrated with myself when I'm unproductive, and this forced me to slow down and focus on me. Plus, it never got bad enough for me to go to the hospital. If I had gotten COVID while I was still obese and hadn't spent the past year working on my cardio-vascular fitness, it might not have been so mild, even with being fully vaccinated. Silver linings...
Weigh-in Day: Sundays
SW (7/13/2021): 247
CW (5/1/2022): 194.8
GW (5/31/2022): 190
UGW: 165
5/1: 194.8
5/8: 193.7 (-1.1 pounds)
5/15:
5/22:
5/31:
Goals for May:
1. Weight lifting 1x per week
2. Run 1x per week
3. Trek with dog 1x per week
4. 50 sit ups in a row
5. 20 stair step push ups in a row
6. Get up earlier (~6:30)
7. Be more social on weekends
8. Study for exam 30 min per day
9. Eat out 3 meals per week or less
The only goal I made this week was eating out 3 meals or less. lol. Going to add goals 3, 6, and 8 back this week. Then the rest the next week. No need to give myself long COVID by rushing back into things.9 -
48 yo 5’3” 6/2013 SW 277 ((in 2021 lost 57 lbs from May 1- Dec 31))
May goal: lose 1-2 lbs
Ultimate Goal weight: 141 (normal BMI) No goal date, since the lower weights can take longer.
1/1 172.2
2/1 172.2
3/1 165.8 cycle
4/1 161.4
5/1 156.8 Hello May!
5/6 157.6
5/13
5/20
5/27
🌷Work in the ‘fitness lab’ every single day!
🌷Burn around 500 calories daily. The goal is to eat maintenance all the time at goal weight “1500 calories”. If I burn 500 calories from exercise a day I will lose around 1 pound a week, while eating the amount of calories I will need to eat for smaller me.
🌷Be patient! Remember that increments are where it is at, and focus on habits.
🌷Weigh the food in the ‘test kitchen’!
🌷Remember: Total loss of over 120 lbs!!
Good news and other news, I do not have uterine cancer: biopsy was negative (woo hoo!). The Dr. is leaning towards surgery to get the fibroid out, and I have many feelings about this.
When my health went down at 21, it happened right after the laparoscopy where my heart stopped and the nurse said it was the demerol. The second they put it in me, I flat-lined. I woke up with a vision of the afterlife (got to see my guardian angel, so that was nice), and a destroyed thyroid. My extreme fatigue was constant and I was bedridden for a couple years (for no reason the Dr.s could find).
So I have been hiving for a week non-stop. I have not had to take prednisone, so that is nice - I have not been successful at losing any weight on prednisone. But that might change this time around, it just makes me very hungry and retains water. I should be able to maintain (minus water weight of course) depending on how much of it I have to take. I have to take half a sleeping pill because I just can't sleep through the itchiness. I want other options with the fibroid, preferably ones that don't destroy my health. The other med they gave me to hinder bleeding, compromised my kidneys. At this point I just wonder, can't I just be topped off with iron every few months? If not, I guess I will have to make a decision which church to be buried at - because I have zero confidence in surviving this nonsense. I don't know how women survived peri-menopause in the old days. Sorry to rant.
I don't have many people to talk to, because my good friends husband died yesterday, may his soul rest in peace ♱ Larry and Carol had a daughter who died in a car wreck when she was 16, and so Mother's day was already going to be hard. Words just fail. They had just turned 70 and moved to a place with land 2 years ago, to enjoy their retirement. In January, Larry thought he had the flu went to the hospital and he had cancer of the liver and had bone cancer everywhere. They didn't even know he had cancer, so it was shocking. He was a Vietnam vet, and did 3 tours. He will be buried next to his daughter in Connecticut.
Keep on keeping on, and I really really hope that all you ladies have the best day ever!!!!! Please, for me, have a truly wonderful and blessed and loving day!! And I also hope that you Mother's had a super wonderful Mother's Day!10
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