WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR NOVEMBER 2022
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Lisa my sister had that problem when they had a home in the country. We have had that problem around here too lately. We live near a one hundred and eighty acre park. I think they must think they can survive on rabbits. They forget we have fox and coyote in the park. For some reason the dogs tend to be pit bull mixes. I wrote about this about a month ago where one of the pit bulls attacked a dog and a woman who was trying to help the dog. Fortunately we do have animal control here. It is so sad for the dogs. I agree you can't take them in. Where it really becomes a problem is when they form packs to survive that is where your local police need to be involved for everyone's safety. Feral cats have also sometimes been an issue here. They go after the birds when they are nesting because they are easy prey.1
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Debbie so sorry you fell! Hope it all cleans up well.
Karen I too love your brother's painting! You did such a great job getting him moved.
Mary Congratulations on the new phone! Hope it brings joy.
Being an introvert is part of why you all, my online friends, are so valuable. You are available when I feel outgoing, and quiet when I need that. And no driving! Such a lovely relationship. Thank you.
Annie in Delaware4 -
Evening ladies
I am tucked in and tired..but so happy to be here.. all and all is well.. im going to sleep soon..4 -
Annie: I seldom drive on the Interstate. I can only keep up 70mph for about a half hour and then I get tired.
RVRita: Maybe the Coca Cola is raising my blood sugar and then the sugar drops and I feel poorly.
Maybe I can find Elton's John's concert on Utube
DLFK202000: The fall sounds terrible. I am so sorry.
Grandmallie: I hope you feel better as the vacation moves along.
Beth: I love The Dance by Garth Brooks
Tracey: I wish I was so creative! I am glad you are enjoying your crafts!
Heather: Exercise, writing, rest and good food sounds wonderful. I have heard some people follow the 4 G's...God, gardening, grandchildren and the gym!
I did go out and do my errands today! I am ready for my son and daughter in law and their 3 dogs!
I have plenty of food. I wanted wreaths on the house....as a splurge ....I have never done this before and my DH said he would go outside and look a them. But alas the wreaths I ordered are suppose to arrive Thanksgiving Day! So I will have them for Christmas!
I think I am more into decorations for the holidays then food and gifts!
Best,
Rosemarie from Georgia
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Machka-your nose does look like it healed well-its good you are a healer-will help in next phase.
Barbie-I think we need to celebrate holidays with what is meaningful to us-I think it is great you and Jake celebrate healthy eating together!
Allie-hope you feel better.
Debbie- I hate it when I pull a klutz move-but it happens to everyone-hope they get you in.
Karen-wonderful picture-his soul comes through.
Annie-you are just so upbeat!
I suffered one miscarriage early on (maybe 6 weeks) in between my two boys. I have always been convinced that was the girl my husband wanted. That was tough enough-I can't imagine carrying to term. My niece did (they knew would be stillborn). They named him and he is part of the family.
One more day of work. I hate budget time-I will be working on it Thanksgiving day and again on Sunday-but that's ok-one time a year and you can't do it too early due to funding notices, etc.
Time for kitchen cleanup and get lunch packed for tomorrow. Thought about doing some work, but will feel better with some pick up done so I don't get behind.
Have a good rest of day.
Take care all,
Ginny n Ohio3 -
got in to see the dentist- thankful for that.
He removed the nerve and will do a root canal and crown on it next Wed. Can't even put a temporary one on right now because so much trama-gums are really swollen- Got prescription to pick up for Norco and an antibiotic rinse to use plus salt water rinse.
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I suffered one miscarriage early on (maybe 6 weeks) in between my two boys. I have always been convinced that was the girl my husband wanted. That was tough enough-I can't imagine carrying to term. My niece did (they knew would be stillborn). They named him and he is part of the family.
Take care all,
Ginny n Ohio
I had a miscarriage at 13weeks- my only pregnancy. Former hubby and I talk about it sometimes. We both feel it was a girl but of course don't know. He already had her name picked out. Heidi Henrietta(his last name starts with H). I liked the Heidi but wasnt sure on the middle name. We talk about the what if's.
Would we have stayed together/ What she would be like now as an adult/Would we be grandparents---
years of fertility treatment including shots/blood tests/surgeries but they didn't work
Blessed to have my son whom we adopted at 1 1/2 weeks old.
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Debbie I am so sorry that you had such a terrible fall. It sounds like you will be relaxing for the next few days. I’m sorry that you are going to be unable to eat for a few days. Were you planning a Thanksgiving supper? If so, you can chop up the turkey very fine and mix it with potatoes and gravy and stuffing. I used to do that for my kids when they were young. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.
Allie I’m glad that you made it to the Cape safely! Have a great time with Doris.
💕 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota2 -
Debbie: I am so sorry about your accident. Healing vibes coming down the wire....
Add me to the Not-A-Fan-of-Holidays Club. I have visceral reactions to the way media and society makes the days far more commercial and superficial than they were ever meant to be. This Thanksgiving I'll be doing what I've been doing for past 6 years since I learned how this is a Day of Mourning for Native Americans -- fasting, alone, at home. The funds I would have spent on a special meal have been donated to the food bank. I can eat turkey, cranberries and pie every other day of the year, and the fact that I have a steady flow of food, a home and people who care about me fills me much more than mashed potatoes ever could. And indeed I am thankful I have the freedom to commemorate in my own quiet, mindful way 🙏🏽.
Tomorrow my niece has invited me to join her and her niece visiting from Virginia for a day of tubing up in the mountains. I'm packing up extra layers for what may be a wet, cold afternoon. Stay tuned.
Blessed and happy days to all of you this Thursday, this week every day going forward.
Rori
Colorado Foothills7 -
It has been a long day. Tomorrow promises new challenges. 🤞🏻 🤞🏻 🤞🏻5
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Oh, Debbie. That fall sounds horrible. I'm so glad you will be able to get it taken care of quickly. Take it easy on yourself.
Yes, I am also an introvert, who loves to be around people. I do get exhausted by too much of people and more importantly, too much of the wrong people!
I have three children and I've had three miscarriages. Might be too graphic/political for some. So reader beware.The first one was about 18 months after my first was born. I lost that one at about 6 weeks. I realized I was miscarrying in the morning, went to the doctor where she confirmed it, and then that afternoon flew out for a planned visit with my parents. The doctor advised me not to go. "You don't know how bad this is going to be." But I didn't want to lose my time with my parents after I'd already lost so much, so I went.
The second one, at about 18 months after my second was born, I learned how bad it can get. I was about 12 weeks pregnant, and I suddenly felt a cramping, went to the bathroom, and spilled it all. I lost so much blood so suddenly, that I passed out right there on the bathroom floor. When I regained consciousness, I couldn't get up, so I crawled from the bathroom back to the bedroom, passing out again every few seconds. I finally made it to the bedroom and called 911. They took me first to the medical center in town, but I kept passing out . . ., so they transferred me immediately to our county hospital, where I kept passing out. It was horrible. I honestly thought I was going to die. I remember apologizing to my then husband (who had been at work while all of this was going on). Things seemed to calm down, so they sent me home, but I made it there only a couple hours, and my husband had to take me back. Eventually, they decided to take a look at what was going on (wouldn't you think they would have done that first??) and it was incomplete, so my doctor removed what he had to, and that was that. They gave me a blood transfusion because of how much I had lost and I was in the hospital for nearly a week.
The third happened when my second son was about five years old, and I was 14 weeks, showing a lot! Everyone knew I was pregnant. I went in for a regular prenatal check up and there was no heartbeat. The midwife sent me on to radiology in the next town for an u/s, and the baby had passed. My regular doc, the one who had helped me before, was sympathetic but told me he couldn't help me and referred me to an OB. I didn't really realize what my original doctor was actually objecting to, until recent events related to Roe happened in this country. And even then it took me a day or two of reflecting on that experience recently to realize that I had essentially had an abortion. My baby was already dead, but the procedure . . . My regular doctor wasn't ethically comfortable with it because of how far along I was.
They were all traumatic. I don't think it matters how far along you are when it happens, it doesn't take long for our minds and hearts to create a life with that new little one. I sometimes wonder if one of those had been a girl. I asked my OB about the last one, but she looked at me like I was crazy for asking and said she hadn't noticed. Maybe that was kinder. She had a funny bedside manner. She didn't get me at all, even though I trusted her a lot. When I got pregnant with my 16 year old, just a few months after losing that one, she didn't really approve. After he was born, via c-section, like the other two, she cut, tied, and stapled my tubes to be sure I didn't get any more crazy ideas! (I told her to, obviously, but the nurse told me in recovery that the doc was making double and triple sure!)
That was quite a ramble!
I went to work today, and it was a very long day. But I made it. Now we have a five day break for more recovery.
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR
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Hi Gals,
Interesting to hear how many of you prefer to be alone.
As I have aged; friends and small (10 or less) gatherings are more and more important to me. I love being with one or two friends and treasure my younger family and friends. I was talking to a local friend and telling them how much I loved the idea of senior/retirement living but that I knew it wasn’t for me as everyone would be above a particular age (55+; 62+…) and I really like being around all ages and I think being exposed to every age helps me stay vital and interested in the world.
I have a friend in my garden club who just turned 92 and is still vital and active, she is teaching swimming to children, leading history and wildlife hikes although she is limiting her hikes to 5 miles now.
I do love my quiet time home alone, and spend large parts of each day alone, but looking forward to Thursday and Friday (thanksgiving) with 10 friends, Saturday with my family in the day, friends in the evening, then Sunday home working. Wednesday myself and some friends are going to a local historic home and garden for a tour, and by then I will be eager to see them.
I love that we are all so different. A quick google says 20-40% are introverts and 60-80% are extroverted, but of course there is a wide range of definition of those terms. I think the world would be boring if we were all the same. But it is super important for us to understand how valuable it is that there are folks from each place on the spectrum of introverted to extroverted.
Smiles Kim in N. California
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LisaInArkansas wrote: »I fear my desire to be a hermit is only going to increase as I age, which can be detrimental. However, I truly hate trying to be someone I am not or don't want to be. Years ago, I forced myself to do activities with people, such as hiking, but I really didn't enjoy it then and I enjoy it even less now. I'd just rather be alone.
Tina in CA
I think it's vaguely possible that extroverts made up the idea of being a hermit as being detrimental so they'd always have people to talk to... It may well be true that hermits are the healthier of the two.
People exhaust me, even the ones I love, and sometimes even on the phone. Love being this age, so I can finally say - "Gotta go!" without excuse or making a future date. I stand it as long as I can, and then I leave. Or, as in most cases, I simply don't do it at all.
Later,
Lisa in AR
Agreed! There is something incredibly relaxing about being alone.
I am much more productive when I am left alone too.
M in Oz1 -
Sue - have a wonderful visit with your family.
Heather - I am learning to enjoy my alone time and have started to miss it if I don’t get enough. I seem to have the perfect balance going on right now.
Machka - I love Christmas music as well.
Ginny - I am very familiar with Presque Isle. I am from Woodstock in NB, which borders Houlton. I grew up in the Saint John River Valley, Hartland. One of my fondest memories of my paternal grandfather is a trip “over ‘cross”. We crossed in Presque Isle and went to one of the big department stores. He bought my brother and I a sled that looked like a snowmobile our Dad owned. I have a picture of us on that sled. I should find it.
I wondered when you said Northern Maine if I would know where you were talking about. It’s a Small World.
We did a Christmas gift exchange at work this year. I’m very glad because the last two years we have all bought for each other in the Leadership team.
The Manor gives gifts to all the staff and we as the Leadership team have to sign each card
Karen - your brother is very talented.
Debbie - that sounds so painful. I hope you are able to get healed and fixed fast.
Barbie - I love that meme.
I have to get some more done on my stocking so will have to finish catching up tomorrow.
Tracey in Edmonton1 -
fanncy0626 wrote: »Debbie I am so sorry that you had such a terrible fall. It sounds like you will be relaxing for the next few days. I’m sorry that you are going to be unable to eat for a few days. Were you planning a Thanksgiving supper? If so, you can chop up the turkey very fine and mix it with potatoes and gravy and stuffing. I used to do that for my kids when they were young. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.
Allie I’m glad that you made it to the Cape safely! Have a great time with Doris.
💕 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota
Having Thanksgiving at our friends- she is cooking salmon, smoked ribs and mac and cheese.
I am doing meat/cheese platter, veggie platter, steamed broccoli and some desserts.
Will see how I feel tomorrow as to what desserts I bring(may have dh pick up something)
Salmon and mac and cheese I will be able to eat. No way on the ribs or the raw veggi0 -
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I signed up for the Secret Santa at work. I figured I would ... it's a bit of fun at the maximum limit is $15.
So I will be buying one present this year.
I also got my granddaughter something and may add to it if something appeals to me before mid December.
As for presents I will get ... there will be something for about $15 from my Secret Santa!
I'll also have time off work. That will likely be the best present!
Machka in Oz
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Debbie your menu sounds great. I love Mac and cheese! Be careful and it sounds like you should be fine. I’ll be praying for a speedy recovery. Sorry that happened to you.
💕Mary from Arizona/Minnesota3 -
I plan to spend time with dh as soon as I can get transportation. I haven’t had a visit with him for a day or two and I miss him.3
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People commented on his hair. Now all of it is on his chin!!!
So happy he is doing these media things.
He is also starting cooking bar snacks for a local micro brewery. From home I think.
Love Heather UK xxxxxx
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Heather you should be very proud 💕Handsome young man!1
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Hi Gals,
Interesting to hear how many of you prefer to be alone.
As I have aged; friends and small (10 or less) gatherings are more and more important to me. I love being with one or two friends and treasure my younger family and friends. I was talking to a local friend and telling them how much I loved the idea of senior/retirement living but that I knew it wasn’t for me as everyone would be above a particular age (55+; 62+…) and I really like being around all ages and I think being exposed to every age helps me stay vital and interested in the world.
I have a friend in my garden club who just turned 92 and is still vital and active, she is teaching swimming to children, leading history and wildlife hikes although she is limiting her hikes to 5 miles now.
I do love my quiet time home alone, and spend large parts of each day alone, but looking forward to Thursday and Friday (thanksgiving) with 10 friends, Saturday with my family in the day, friends in the evening, then Sunday home working. Wednesday myself and some friends are going to a local historic home and garden for a tour, and by then I will be eager to see them.
I love that we are all so different. A quick google says 20-40% are introverts and 60-80% are extroverted, but of course there is a wide range of definition of those terms. I think the world would be boring if we were all the same. But it is super important for us to understand how valuable it is that there are folks from each place on the spectrum of introverted to extroverted.
Smiles Kim in N. California
Prior to my husband's accident, I enjoyed travelling, participating in cycling events, going out to all sorts of other events and so on. We didn't socialise a lot in the sense of going out to dinner with a group of people but we'd usually chat with a few people along the way.
We both also worked with people and I went to school with people
Since my husband's accident, my energy level has plummeted.
I really don't feel like doing anything, especially with people.
I don't feel like going to work, or going to events, or travelling ...... all these things are exhausting. But with people, not only am I exhausted, I feel like I have to be someone I'm not.
We had to cancel our travel plans in October ... and that was OK.
I'm having my surgery shortly before Christmas. Normally we would have travelled somewhere (within the state, of course) over Christmas, but I won't likely be able to drive, so we won't be travelling ... and that's OK.
I wonder when I'll get an energy level again.
Meanwhile, believe it or not, I'm organising a cycling event for this weekend. Fortunately, I've done this several times before so it's a matter of going through the motions.
And I have a little bit of concern about sinking completely into depression.
Machka in Oz8 -
Today's Lunch Walk
Once I got past the cruise ship crowd, it was really nice. Hardly any people. I have to be creative these days to find places to walk where tourists don't go!
Walking by myself at lunch does make having to talk to people in the afternoon more tolerable.
And I hiked up 15 flights of stairs.
Getting there!
Machka in Oz
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30 Days of Gratitude
1. Smell - freshly cut grass on our lawn.
2. Technology - the amazing advancements in medical technology.
3. Colour - blue. Beautiful blue sky peaking through the clouds.
4. Food - soup. That's what I've been eating just recently because there's less chewing. We always keep a few cans of soup on hand for situations like these.
5. Sound - my music. I've recently acquired a number of nature sounds CDs with music playing along with sounds of ocean waves, birds, and so on. Lovely.
6. Nature - I love nature. It would be incredibly difficult for me to pick just one thing. I am so grateful that there is nature and that I can enjoy it.
7. Memory - Winter 2017. The last time I visited my parents and a wonderful 1-month holiday to Canada that June/July. My husband and I did two cycling events and a lot of other cycling. We climbed mountains and explored a glacier. We visited friends and family.
Memories:
https://www.flickr.com/photos/machka-bb/albums/72157682899188730
8. Book - Norman Doidge's The Brain's Way of Healing. I found it inspirational!
https://www.normandoidge.com/?page_id=1042
9. Place - home. I've moved and travelled a lot and home is wherever I happen to feel really comfortable. Right now, home is a certain house here in Tasmania where I can go and just be myself (mostly, for even a little while). Home is where I can lie down on the sofa and doze off when I've had a rough day, like I did yesterday.
10. Taste - salt. My favourite taste. On the one hand I need salt because of my exercise and medications, on the other hand I need to reduce my salt because of my kidneys. But given the choice, I'll usually go salty over sweet ... or maybe salty and sweet!
11. Holiday - Christmas!!!!
12. Texture - smoothness. I like smooth clothes, smooth sheets, Rhody's smooth fur ...
13. Abilities - I don't really think of myself in terms of having abilities. I've sort of thought of myself as "the jack of all trades, master of none". However, organisation is one that I've been thankful for throughout my life.
14. Sight - the beauty all around. In our yard, where we go cycling, where I work, and travelling around this island.
15. Season - I like the seasons in the following order from best to worst: Summer, Autumn ............ Spring ................... Winter.
16. What about your body are you grateful for? Healing ... that it heals. Mostly anyway, and perhaps imperfectly, but healing does take place.
17. What knowledge are you grateful for? Everything I do know. It all contributes to my work, my carer role, and my other activities.
18. Piece of art - of the arts, I think the two I appreciate the most are literature and music. On the subject of music, I have really appreciated discovering ABC Classic FM on the radio and the app on my phone. I pop in my earbuds at work and I can focus on my work while feeling relatively relaxed at the same time.
19. Touch - Rhody's fur, his little wet nose, his whiskers
20. Who in my life - my husband. I'm glad he is still in my life. My parents who have always been supportive.
21. Song - He Is -- Mark Schultz. One of several songs that has been with me through the difficult times.
22. Story - I'm grateful that there are so many stories! I love reading. It provides me with a much-needed distraction.
23. Tradition - I like the little traditions of Christmas.
Machka in Oz
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Morning, afternoon and evening, all...
Woke up shivering this morning, not from the ambient temperature, just in the middle of a chill. Still can't shake it, though I've got a sweater on, the temperature in the house is 72, and roosting over a small heater. Those tiny, buzzing chills keep running up and down every bone. Hope I'm not coming down with something. The hot tea feels really good going down...Hard to keep a thought for long, though.
TTYL,
Lisa in AR
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reading. Last day of work for the week. Tomorrow begins an extra long weekend for me. Five days. I will reply to everyone tomorrow while my ham is baking. Love and hugs. ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)2
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I am homesick for my home & friends in Oregon. I hope that DH’s health will continue to improve in his care facility. Keeping my fingers crossed.5
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Better now, I can breathe again... and I'm warm down to my bones. Not sure what sparks those chills, but they show up every few days, and go away as fast as they came.
Corey picked us up a four-pound turkey breast yesterday, and I've got it in the fridge thawing. Ooh, the chilling distracted me--I need to get some fresh bread going. Will check back in later...
Lisa in AR3 -
Margaret, I read that book for the first time, IN FRENCH, in my HS French class and fell in love. I have it in both French and English in my library. Has so many wonderful life lessons.
“For I must endure the presence of two or three caterpillars to be acquainted with the butterflies.”
“Here is my secret. It is very simple: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.”
OH Rita, we LOVE KennyG too
Happy Thanksgiving to everyone tomorrow!
Grateful for...
23-*tradition-krumkake with "the girls"
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN4
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