LESS Alcohol ~ MARCH 2023 ~ One Day at A Time
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Hello everyone, been little MIA for a few days. Actually said to myself I wasn't going to post until I had an AF day. Not sure when that will be, so here I am!
Well, so much for the stricter goals in March. I haven't met one of them.
Not sure where my head is at....
Maybe I just need that mini vacation to "reset". I haven't been anywhere since August and really haven't done anything exciting either. Maybe it's withdrawal from football season??
Detail StatsAF = 0
A = 8
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January
AF = 53%
A = 47%
February
AF = 29%
A = 71%
March
AF = 0%
A = 100%
March goals are going to be a bit more strict as I really want to drop a few pounds before the end of the month.
Week 1 (ending 3/4) = 0
Week 2 (ending 3/11) = 0
Week 3 (ending 3/18) = 2 - 3 of wine per week, less is better
Week 4 (ending 3/25 = 2 - 3 of wine per week, less is better
Week 5 (ending 4/1) = Mini (4 day vacation in Vegas) - No rules
@pokey4321 ~ How are you doing on your journey. This month, I am totally relating. And yes, staying busy (with your hands or something that makes it difficult to drink) works. Good Luck
@joans1976 ~ pack the clothes away so that you don't see them, then when you're ready - sell or give away. I know too well the "jinx effect"🙂 I have that desire to purge as well. I did a good job on my kitchen a few weeks ago...need to do my closet. Glad you went to ER to make sure you were ok. But even more glad that they didn't find anything! Love the Dr.!
@Sunnydays930 ~ Thanks for the article on sleeping I haven't read it yet but will this weekend. I know what when I reduce and/or eliminate wine - I sleep very well.
@Michieb125 ~ No not silly! I've been procrastinating for years in painting my house. I had the hardest time picking colors. I've finally settled on the first floor and painting is in progress!
@Rubyred427 ~ ouch! Sorry to hear that you broke your leg. How did you break it? Get well and back on your feet very soon!
@missmay ~ your photo is so beautiful and relaxing. Wish I was there!5 -
Hello everyone
Baby steps, or in my case a bit of backwards slide. A beer at lunch yesterday. Today a sip of wine lasting hours. Stress is getting to me. I am working on it.
@Womona Over the years with snow/ice and winding roads..ya know the ones with solid wall on one side and massive cliff on the other. I have this crazy hand sweating, fast heartbeat fear. It gets worse and worse as the years have gone by. So if I can avoid black ice, blowing snowstorms I will. Plus, based on the DOT here in this state, even thought we have a mountain range go through the entire state N to S the poor workers have their hands tied most of the time to clear the roads. Don't even get me started on local roads never mind the passes.
I feel good today though I got 4 more tubs packed and we are dwindling down on non essential items to pack and living with just the minimum until we return.
I will contact an agent next week so he can have a heads up to our plans.
Well anyway I enjoy all your posts and thank you to everyone who listens to my blathering. I am off to find a munchie...I have this GIANT container of cheese puff balls looking at me giving me a wink....I think it wants me to 'break the seal' ....not sure I can deny it's request
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Late check in for the day! Great posts and also found some fun Easter crafts at Target this week - saving them for the sleepover ‘party’ weekend with the grandkids a week from tomorrow.
March accountability: 20-23 AF days
AF - 7
A - 1
No more than two glasses per A day
I try to post each morning from the PST time zone.5 -
I so appreciate all the motivational support! Focusing on staying AF as much as possible. Today was 2 light beers but out of habit and I had no craving for it.
Sticking to my calorie count and that means stuff like raw carrots and blueberries in the afternoon if I get hungry. I found a tea called Happy Tummy, Open Nature brand (ginger, chamomile, peppermint, bitter fennel, turmeric, lemon balm and caffeine free)...and I will have that mid-afternoon. Dinner rolls around and I am not hungry so hopefully I am on to something!
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Hello! I’m Amanda, I’m a crazy cat lady from Michigan! I joined this forum in June of 2022 and since September I have decreased my drinking to one day a month! This is a huge accomplishment from where I was and I absolutely could not have done it without the wonderful mix of people in this group!
March goals: just make it through the month unscathed! (27 doctor appointments)
Alcohol goals: 95-100% AF
3/1-3/7: 7 out of 7 AF
3/8: AF
35 days AF
14 out of 20 radiation sessions done!
3/9: AF
As I was laying on the radiation table yesterday wondering how on earth I was going to make it through another 5 treatments, my mind turned to celebration when it’s done. (Treatment isn’t over when radiation is over but it is a big accomplishment.) Of course I thought of alcohol but I know with how stressed out I feel and all this weird pressure pushing down on me I would not stop at 1 or 2 drinks. Then the hangover and the guilt and all that comes with that. There are other ways to celebrate (like catching a plane to Bali) I just would like to forget about the C word, even for a few hours.
Big snowstorm here right now, an adventure to get to radiation in it!9 -
@Michieb125 Great crafts! I love putting paint on wooden things. I like to paint rocks too. I’ve been making comfort stones lately, maybe I’ll post a picture later. Michaels is my happy place!7
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March accountability: 3 days AF
Alcohol: 6 days (10 drinks)
Days over 2 glasses: 0
Goal: Limit 2 glasses per day; 12-16 AF days this month.
3/9 - 2 wine. Did not join DH for bourbon & coke before and after the wine. Just the wine at dinner. Then after the wine a little sparkling water
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RockinRobyn672 wrote: »Hello My "LA" friends! Happy March! I am SO ready for spring! My goal is 16 AF days. I usually post the next morning.
3/8: Drinks (4) - Why is it my plans and intentions go bust when I have a glass of wine, and also when I decide I can do it on my own without the tracking? I had a glass before dinner and one with dinner out with our friends. I made a great food choice for dinner. If I had stopped there, that would have been fine. However, back at home, DH fell asleep on the sofa and I had a couple more glasses of wine and pigged out on snacks while watching TV. I took PTO days today and tomorrow to hang out with our friends while they're here. I am seriously considering staying AF.
Rolling Total: 5 AF Days out of 8
I know I’ve done something similar, and I’m sure many on this thread have done so as well!!!! It’s like the “F it” gene turns on or something.6 -
@joans1976 a tropical paradise as a reward for finishing treatment sounds delightful- if @MissMay ’s picture is anything to go by! Maybe a massage and a mani/pedi? New outfit? NEW JOB!!!!!!! Haha!
I am about to drag myself to my workout class. I don’t want to go, but my weight is creeping up and up. I’ve completely missed my goal of being AF 3 days of the week. I managed one. Granted, I had a rough week of bad PMS and the biopsy, so I could blame it on that. But I need to get back on track.
Ok off to the gym!5 -
Hello My "LA" friends! Happy March! I am SO ready for spring! My goal is 16 AF days. I usually post the next morning.
3/9: Drinks (3) - Well, it turns out that I'm not sticking to plans while our friends are here but I'm having a lot of fun. At least I haven't been going off the charts with the alcohol. No hangovers, but after having red wine with dinner for a couple nights has reminded me that it causes me to have night sweats. Last night we went to see that crazy movie, Cocaine Bear. I won't write anything about it so as not to put forth any spoilers, except I liked it better than expected. It's so nice to be able to spend time with our friends. Today is Jamestown.
Rolling Total: 5 AF Days out of 95 -
RockinRobyn672 wrote: »Hello My "LA" friends! Happy March! I am SO ready for spring! My goal is 16 AF days. I usually post the next morning.
3/8: Drinks (4) - Why is it my plans and intentions go bust when I have a glass of wine, and also when I decide I can do it on my own without the tracking? I had a glass before dinner and one with dinner out with our friends. I made a great food choice for dinner. If I had stopped there, that would have been fine. However, back at home, DH fell asleep on the sofa and I had a couple more glasses of wine and pigged out on snacks while watching TV. I took PTO days today and tomorrow to hang out with our friends while they're here. I am seriously considering staying AF.
Rolling Total: 5 AF Days out of 8
I know I’ve done something similar, and I’m sure many on this thread have done so as well!!!! It’s like the “F it” gene turns on or something.
I totally get IDGAF at times. It's really hard to overcome so better to prevent. If you can figure that out, please share.4 -
@joans1976 Well done on the radiation table steering thoughts to what you're looking forward to vs. dread. Gold star for mind control. Hang in there! You are on the back 9.
Happy Friday, LA friends. AF so far this week, not sure how many that is for the month. I'm more of a one week at a time gal. Rock solid on ST the last 2 weeks (!) but I have a ways to go yet to recoup lost strength. Deficit eating consistent so far this week; if I stick with that through the weekend, it's enough to counter the last 2 weeks in a slight surplus, so that's motivating.
DH oot all week, haven't spoken and don't have a plan for the weekend. Last time I just winged it without a plan, I consumed more of everything than I intended, so at some point today I need to come up with a weekend plan. Last day of internships is today! DD#3 departs this afternoon for Spring Break and roommate departs tomorrow. The roommate will return mid-week next week for a couple days then they're back at school until graduation.
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I am Dawn, I live in South Eastern British Columbia.
I joined this thread in November of 2018, a daily drinker at the time
My primary goal with drinking less is weight loss.
My usual goal is 16-20 AF days for the month,
I had 16AF days for the shortened month of February.
I do this diary style, I normally post the next morning.
Wednesday March 08 - 2 1/4 drinks. 2 would have been fine. Planned AF now until Saturday.
Thursday March 09 - AF - Working late nights trying to catch up on the jobs that I couldn't get to during my bout with Covid. A cocktail or two would have been nice, but I have a long Friday ahead so didn't.
Rolling total: 5AF day out of 9 days.4 -
Happy Friday!
@joans1976 you are almost to the finish line on treatments! A huge accomplishment worth celebrating. I love painting on wood too and don’t have to spend much for that kind of fun.
@ahoy_m8 I like what you said about surplus eating and deficit days. I am curious if you generally follow a calorie counting approach for your goals. I do, and remind myself an extra day surplus day or week eating doesn’t ever mean I undo all my efforts.
@globalhiker I must try that Happy Tummy tea - love those ingredients and it sounds so calming.
@Lilylady3k I had a similar night yesterday.
2 planned wine and a sparkling water later.
No A tonight but Mexican dinner out with family.
For me, they don’t mix well for me for some reason. Looking for the best “choice” for dinner, maybe fajitas?
March accountability: 20-23 AF days
AF - 7
A - 2
No more than two glasses per A day
Will plan for 1-2 glasses tomorrow night while at home with husband.
I try to post each morning from the PST time zone.6 -
@dawnbgethealthy You are so logical and grounded. Can I come live with you for a month?6
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March accountability: 4 days AF
Alcohol: 6 days (10 drinks)
Days over 2 glasses: 0
Goal: Limit 2 glasses per day; 12-16 AF days this month.
3/10 - AF; Fever Tree Blood Orange and then Diet Cranberry Sprite both with slices of lime in a beautiful glass
@Michieb125 Enjoy your evening out for Mexican food! Fajitas are a great idea. Just so hard to stay away from the chips. I can pass on the expensive margaritas ... like my homemade ones better. But I've not had one since last summer now that I think about it. We cooked at home this evening ... some sort of Tomato/Corn/Roasted Red Peppers Poached Cod fish with sautéed shallots, cilantro & lime. Served it with flour tortillas. Not sure if you would call it spanish or Mexican or what. But it was fresh and tasty.4 -
Only one glass of wine tonight, and crushed my goals with eating and exercise!!! Hubby made delicious salmon with green beans, and I didn’t snack on crackers like I normally would. Hope the scale comes down soon- just gotta keep up with making good choices.6
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Sitting drink drinking water...yes on a Friday night. Just mega-beat from the whole work week and I have no energy to run out and buy wine and drink.
Planned hikes for this weekend, both days!
Kept to calorie count and actually skipped dinner due to an afternoon chocolate....you know me, if it's not wine, I need my chocolate. Easter candy is out in the stores and it brings back memories of when I was a kid
I hope you all hang in there and plan out a really good weekend for yourself.
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I guess I should pop in and at least say hi, give a quick update.
Wednesday morning, Bentley let me know it was time. Wednesday evening, we said goodbye.
I've been drinking a lot, more than I should, and using a little. I will get back right, but not tonight, probably not tomorrow either. My sister is in town to visit for a few days, and a good friend from NOLA drove over today, so we have some support and distraction. Har-dog is missing B, and I'm struggling with watching him grieve almost as much as with grieving myself. It has been a really hard six weeks or so and I've felt so very alone and overwhelmed and now one stress is done and I'm on to a new one and I don't really know anymore, I'm just trying to get through and process everything. I'm not good at this stuff.
I tried to catch up with the thread but it's a lot of comments here now in just the few days I've been out. I guess I'll just put it this way: I hope everybody is doing okay, and if you're not, my thoughts are with you.
On a positive note, I found some time to pick up a guitar and blast through some Amon Amarth, Type O and In Flames tonight. I'm out of shape, but not so far gone that I couldn't pull it off. There's some catharsis in playing.
I'll be around more as things settle back into a more normal routine.
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Hello! I’m Amanda, I’m a crazy cat lady from Michigan! I joined this forum in June of 2022 and since September I have decreased my drinking to one day a month! This is a huge accomplishment from where I was and I absolutely could not have done it without the wonderful mix of people in this group!
March goals: just make it through the month unscathed! (27 doctor appointments)
Alcohol goals: 95-100% AF
3/1-3/7: 7 out of 7 AF
3/8: AF
35 days AF
14 out of 20 radiation sessions done!
3/9: AF
As I was laying on the radiation table yesterday wondering how on earth I was going to make it through another 5 treatments, my mind turned to celebration when it’s done. (Treatment isn’t over when radiation is over but it is a big accomplishment.) Of course I thought of alcohol but I know with how stressed out I feel and all this weird pressure pushing down on me I would not stop at 1 or 2 drinks. Then the hangover and the guilt and all that comes with that. There are other ways to celebrate (like catching a plane to Bali) I just would like to forget about the C word, even for a few hours.
Big snowstorm here right now, an adventure to get to radiation in it!
3/10 AF
TGIF! It’s the weekend people! No radiation for 2 days! 😃 My plan for today is to be awesome and rest up! I may go out and seek out some AF options. Or I might stay in my pajamas all day.7
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