WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR NOVEMBER 2023

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  • Joy1580vb
    Joy1580vb Posts: 437 Member
    Lisa, beautiful pottery and the color is stunning.

    Joy
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,264 Member
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  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,290 Member
    Lanette the home health company will send a nurse to assess the house probably Monday. Seems like they could do that before Mom gets home, but who knows what the insurance rules require. The big problems are rugs and stairs. Right now my dad has his tools all over as well. He is installing some railings.

    I wonder if Mom will want a new recliner instead of the couch, which is rather deep. She might have trouble getting out of it. Or she might be safer not getting up without supervision.

    I'm more worried about her trying to use the stove.

    Annie in Delaware

  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,610 Member
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    RVRita

    My house is full of plush animals, including bears. :)
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,610 Member
    Allie - He makes everyone's day! What a sweet set of pics.

    Heather - Ah, that makes sense. I'm glad the lightening is beginning.

    Screwed up and forgot to send the roofer my address, and we were one of more than a hundred jobs last year, so he couldn't quite remember which one was us, bless him. He's coming out tomorrow instead. Went to pick up my fired pottery and glaze my last three pieces. These are the finished ones:

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    And these are the last three pieces before I put the glaze on. They will match the rest, as I really love that deep blue:

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    She hopes to get them in the kiln for the final glaze by Thanksgiving, so I ought to be able to pick them up the week after.

    Hope it is/was a good day,
    Love,
    Lisa in AR

    Those are beautiful! I thought they might come out looking something like that and was looking forward to seeing them. :)

    Machka in Oz
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,610 Member
    Allie hope you feel better soon!

    I bought myself a new pair of black suede ankle boots by Clark through Amazon. They fit! Yay! I will wear them on Thanksgiving with my black and grey camo pants and a big fuzzy purple cowl neck sweater. Then I need earrings, but I have several choices.

    My dad left his car running in the garage with the door open. He can't hear it running. His driving days are coming to an end soon.

    Annie in Delaware

    Please contact someone from your local Home Health Care for both your parents. Do some google research to find out what sources of assessment and help are available.


    M in Oz
  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,290 Member
    I used to have a collection of stuffed sheep from my days of fiber festivals. There are two that escaped from storage. Maybe I need a stuffed border collie sheepdog?

    I bought a sweater. Thanks for all your input, and helping me think things through. Although I like the chunky sweater pictures, I picked a thinner fitted v-neck with a collar in a wine red. I think I will be happier going out to lunch in that. And now I have really got to stop shopping and save some money for Christmas!! Although this sweater could be my Christmas present from my parents. Still, no more shopping until after Thanksgiving!!

    Annie in Delaware
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,610 Member
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  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,094 Member
    I lost my Godson at 20 yrs old ,20 yrs ago to a drunk driving accident
    He was driving and didn't make a curve and hit a tree.
    One of the most heart wrenching days of my life for sure.
    Yes Annie.. both your parent's it seems are going to need more help than you might be able to handle..make sure social services gives you all the help they can.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,610 Member
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    1. Make a list of new things you want to do this month.
    I have a massive list of things to do. Always. I'm never bored.
    In November, however, we're organising a cycling event mid-month, and then there's another one right at the beginning of December.
    My garden needs mid-spring work.
    I need more mid-spring exercise.
    Lots of things!!

    2. Respond to a difficult situation in a different way.
    I try things ... and then I go to Google to find different things to try.

    3. Get outside and observe the changes in nature around you.
    I am outside whenever I can. Love nature! And one really nice thing about returning to Tasmania is that we're going into summer. :)

    4. Sign up to join a new course, activity, or online community.
    How about I just finish the course I started some time ago.

    5. Change your normal routine today and notice how you feel.
    My November 5th didn't exist. How's that for a changed routine!

    6. Try out a new way of being physically active.
    Today, my physical activity was standing in line and walking.

    7. Be creative. Cook, draw, write, paint, make or inspire.
    Yesterday wasn't a particularly creative day although, in the evening, I did resume work on a colouring that I had nearly finished before we left. :)

    8. Plan a new idea or activity you want to try out this year.
    I have a list!! :)
    But today, I might unpack.

    9. When you feel you can’t do something, add the word ‘yet’.

    That's why I take courses ... to learn new things and learn how to do new things. :)


    10. Be curious, learn about a new topic or an inspiring idea.

    Always!!


    11. Choose a different route and see what you notice on the way.

    I've been exploring the shops in Hobart CBD. I haven't seen them for about 6 weeks! They haven't changed much.


    12. Find out something new about someone you care about.

    I did find out something new about my husband while we were away. He told me a little bit about his childhood.


    13. Do something playful outdoors - walk, run, explore, relax.

    Whenever I can!! I'll be heading outside shortly.


    14. Find a new way to help or support a cause you care about.

    I've been busy organise cycling events.
    Human powered transportation is a cause I care about. That and exercise in general.


    15. Build on new ideas by thinking “yes, and what if…”

    I do this a lot at work, especially when I'm working on programs and making tasks easier.


    16. Look at life at someone else’s eyes and see their perspective.

    I have done this a lot more since my husband's brain injury.
    There are a lot of people in the world who have mental health issues and/or physical issues.
    A few points above mentioned causes I care about.
    Related to human powered transportation is ease of getting around. Since my husband's accident, I've become aware of how appalling the footpaths and various things around here are. They have been left to deteriorate or worse, have been designed in such a way that people with physical issues have a lot of difficulty getting around.


    17. Try a new way to practice self-care and be kind to yourself.

    Last night I slept long and deeply!!
    I needed it! This first week back at work has been stressful.
    Shortly, I am thinking of going out into the garden.

    18. Connect with someone from a different generation.
    19. Broaden your perspective: read a different paper, magazine, or site.
    20. Make a meal using a recipe or ingredient you haven’t used before.
    21. Learn a new skill from a friend or share one of yours with them.
    22. Find a new way to tell someone you appreciate them.
    23. Set aside a time to pursue an activity your love.
    24. Share with a friend something useful you learned recently.
    25. Use one of your strengths in a new and creative way.
    26. Try out a different radio station or new TV show.
    27. Join a friend doing a hobby and find out why they love it.
    28. Discover your creative side. Design a friendly greeting card.
    29. Enjoy new music today. Play, sing, dance or listen.
    30. Look for new reasons to be hopeful, even in tough times.


    Machka in Oz


  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,046 Member
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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,610 Member
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  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,702 Member
    Have read, but need to walk.
    HUGS!
    GRATITUDE!
    MUCH LOVE!

    Kylia in stormy, Migraine Ohio
  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,702 Member
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    Grey bear motivates me to exercise and relax.
    They all love being with us-lol! Funnily, they are no drama!
  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,290 Member
    Good morning ladies!

    Today I am off to Walmart for Ensure and Depends. That is the next phase of this adventure. No wonder I was buying flashy new things on Amazon. By the way, I found something they don't carry- kits to knit a sweater. Maybe Etsy has them. Or maybe I don't really need one!

    Annie in Delaware
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,657 Member
    Barbara- the local community pages I check out on Facebook have a number of guys that are advertising gutter clean out services. I keep noticing one who has a business license and does all kinds of handyman type jobs as well. I'm going to check him out for future tasks I might need to have done. Asking folks at your church or a favorite store where you shop for referrals might be productive too if you haven't found anyone yet.

    A pox on everyone who was involved with of that oven repair part mess up. Also, let's add bird of paradise up the nose, elephant caressing them with toes, etc. :p

    Annie - not sure how old your parent's house is - are there circuit breakers for the stove? I noticed mine has a dedicated one. I don't know if popping it on and off all the time would damage it, but it sure would stop current to the thing. This might be overkill and a too-drastic solution plus a pain in the rear. :# Maybe the home assessment person will have some good ideas.

    Kylia - love your walking partner! And the photo of the bears relaxing, lol.

    Lawn job today:
    It's supposed to be sunny this afternoon, and I need to get more yard work done. I took the little blower out yesterday and spread fallen maple leaves all over the front lawn where the grass is sparse and always takes a hit from summer drought. Leaves will add some humus as they break down more over the winter. Mowing over them with the big mower - it has a side discharge that blows them into rows yards away which isn't what I want. If the leaves are dry enough, my push mower might do the trick but it clogs easily if it hits any wet grass and there's plenty peeking through. I used the weed eater on leaves in the back last week and it did a fairly nice job of breaking them up a bit.

    I have the big mower put away for the winter and besides, it's heavy and leaves ruts in the wet soil.

    Anything to entertain the neighbors and make them feel less despondent over the state of THEIR lawns, lol.

    And, I might take some of chicken "bedding" and toss in around on the 1/4 acre back side yard which is completely hidden from public view. It's in the same condition as that big patch in the front yard. Should have minimal smell. Anxious to see if the nitrogen does the trick. :p

    I slept nearly 8 hours last night, good sleep. Milk and a CuraMed did the trick maybe. A few triscuits helped too? Whatever it was, I'm very grateful and needed the sleep.

    That's it for now. Make it a good day!

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State

  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,258 Member
    edited November 2023
    Heather have you had your Vit D levels checked and thyroid. If these are off they can affect your mood and sleep.

    Lisa
    Add my voice to how gorgeous I think your pottery is!

    Speaking of repairs. We have had a stretch of mild weather. Still I noticed water around my HVac Furnace at son's house. We have worked with the company I called for over thirty years. When I called she said she could send someone the next day or I would have to wait until after Thanksgiving. Colder weather is coming so I changed my plans and had the technician I like come out and service the Hvac. Turns out a tube that connects to the pump that removes the water from the Hvac came loose. I was so fortunate to get this fixed when I did because Thanksgiving day is going to be a high of 26. I give the people who come to do repairs a tip and or a Target gift card. I know it is already expensive to get work done. Here is US even paying more does not mean you get good service or the work done right. So when I find a good workman I give extra. I know the furnace would have been in trouble if it had not been repaired. With the type of winter we have here you are in trouble without a good working furnace!

    I tried ginger tea last night rather than a snack of cheese and crackers and slept much better. Recipe Grated Fresh ginger about a thumbnail worth in a cup of water boiled for 7-10 minutes. Added a dash of sea salt, cinnamon, a slice of lemon juiced, half tsp of local honey in a glass jar.

    :heart: Margaret
  • KJLaMore
    KJLaMore Posts: 2,847 Member
    Lisa- The pottery is gorgeous! Not sure WHY you couldn't wear gloves while working with clay. I would try it, if I wanted to pursue a hobby I liked. My hubby uses Capzasin with the no mess applicator (roll on). We usually have to order it online, as the stores don't seem to carry it regularly. Same with Joint Flex with Turmeric. All of that stuff has gotten SO expensive! I have decided to look into making my own pain relief creams using turmeric and capzacin.
    More of you I want to reply to; but will have to wait until tomorrow or Sunday! ttfn xoxox KJ (Kelly)
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,709 Member
    edited November 2023
    We had a very productive afternoon! Managed to get to the hat shop to buy John the tweed cap I had promised him for his birthday. This is the third one he's had! The other two were lost/stolen. :|
    We also stopped at the sausage shop. Only four fennel ones left, so we snapped those up, and bought another four, the same, but with jalapeños in them. Hope they are not too hot for John.
    When we got off the bus, we were opposite the Halal shop that also sells frozen fish. I like their bags of tilapia to add to the jars of fish soup. Bought that. :)
    John has gone off to the fish market to buy the fish for Monday's fish pie. We can freeze it.
    Unfortunately, Edie can't come tomorrow for a painting session, as her cycling club has its prize giving day! :s:'( But the Christmas Eve pancake lunch for the grandchildren is on. :D
    Now got to think about their presents. I will ask DDIL. Edie loves to make a 'French dressing', so I'm thinking, for an extra, to get one of those 2 in 1 oil and vinegar sets. Amazon have some fun ones. I'm not buying any adult presents this year, apart from John's 'stocking'.

    Kylia - I can see why you love them, but your soft toy collection freaked out my minimal/decluttering soul! But ..... whatever brings you happiness. <3

    Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,258 Member
    Kelly I like Arnica cream or gel too for joint and muscle ache. It is a blood thinner too like turmeric so if on a blood thinner consult your doctor for safety. There is also a homopathic arnica remedy. I would not use if on blood thinners.
  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,290 Member
    Well of course I was right back on Amazon to get non-dairy meal replacement shakes. I tried Walmart but they only had dairy ones. I did get the disposable underwear at Walmart. First time I've been there in over a year. What a huge busy store!

    Annie in Delaware