WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2023
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Had a lovely day but im best,will post more tomorrow. Lots of love Allie3
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Snowflake1968 wrote: »Machka - I hope you feel better soon. My cousin and her DH are sick and have had to cancel all of their Christmas plans. They were hosting dinner for 12. A couple of their guests were also sick.
I was going to ask what RAT’s were too. We call them PCR tests here, or just tests when we know we’re talking about Covid.
So sorry you have the worry of your parents health.
Merry Christmas everyone!
Tracey in Edmonton
PCRs are the official ones done in a doctor's office or in the hospital. The polymerase chain reaction (PCR) test is sent to a Laboratory for a result, and results are known in 24 – 48 hours.
RATs are the ones you buy in a pharmacy and do at home.
https://www.health.tas.gov.au/health-topics/coronavirus-covid-19/testing
RAT has entered everyday language here as in:
Person A: (chokes on lunch) *cough* *hack*
Person B: Better go get a RAT!
Person A: (gasps) I'm just choking on my lunch here, you idiot (or other term(s))
M in Oz
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Happy Boxing Day!!
I slept about 12 hours last night without any major breaks which was good. My husband has moved into the fever and pain phase (he did things out of order) but he's sleeping now.
It's another gorgeous day out there and I'm debating whether I have the energy to do laundry.
I could have gotten so much done in the garden over the past few days!!! (((sigh)))
On the bright side, I've lost 1.5 kg (3.3 lbs) in the past 3 or so days. But this is not the recommended way to lose weight.
Machka in Oz7 -
Gratitudes:
Sunday 12/24: all the memories associated with Christmas ornaments, the felt mushroom, glass icedrops/icicles, bubbles, blue pine cone and bell.
Saturday 12/23: Joe surprised me with a beautiful Christmas bouquet
Tracey WOW your Christmas decorated window and stockings, just WOW!!!
Annie could the minister be unaware of your fathers’ mental condition? Whooshing you calming energy as you explain to him YOUR schedule/plans and the impact any change would have on your family members flying in. {{breathe}} We have Entenmann’s at Fred Meyers/Kroger, is there one near you?
Allie ((hugs)) so hard to have to stand by and watch Kyle’s misbehavior.
the smiles in the pics AND the “grandma and me jammies”.
Margaret yours to Annie about the minister. Well said. Also about the power of attorney and health care directives ((hugs)) Love the memory sharing each mint. Marshall Fields was an amazing store. Mama and I visited there once.
Carol so sorry for your and your DH’s loss.
Rita I don’t decorate with radishes, but watermelon radish slices sure perk up a veggie tray
Hope that Grinch’s heart grows soon! Grapes? Sounds like there’s a story there . . .
Evelyn “…better they are chilling at their house rather than having to be behaving at ours. That’s not just the little kids either…. lol.” LOL!!!
Debbie my heart aches for you. Likely you’ve heard it all before, but your DH really does need help and removing the guns is a good idea…
Machka Sorry to hear the Covid bug got you so very painfully. I’ve been slacking on wearing a mask when shopping and running errands, but will get back on the wagon. Good attitude to find the positive (excited to be able to breathe) Well done!.
Rori your Christmas Day plans make me smile
Heather “…it was then I realised I did love her. Changed my whole relationship with her.” ((hugs))
Ginny your caution to Annie about the pastor and finances, very well said. Glad to hear good news about the foot.
Lisa the pic of egg perched on your recliner.
Kylia like the pics of your hillbilly parade, but Yikes, that fog!!!
Betsy, belated best birthday wishes. Sounds like a lovely way to celebrate.
Through pg 55.12/23: Move: : ZERO sets PT, dog group. Steps:7258
Fuel: sugar in vs mfp=32 CI<CO net=497 vits=1
Live: Joe, readings, BP, AF, ptT, ptS, email to BOC-can’t help busybodying ;{ , Post Office, trim tree, reconcile checking and savings statements, laundry. Wt:128.3
12/22: Move: ZERO sets PT. Steps:
Fuel: sugar in vs mfp=20 CI<CO net=336 vits=1
Live: Joe, readings, BP, ptT, ptS, 1 load laundry, packed 1 box for thrift store, called county about lost check and application, filing, chiropractor, bank, Freddie’s. Wt:130.1
Later, lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
December: Move more: chair yoga, line dance, dailyish PT, play with dogs.
Fuel better: less sugar, CI<CO, dailyish vitamins.
Live NOW: dailyish time with Joe, readings, meditate 3 minutes/day. Open heart and mind before mouth.
2023: Be of good cheer.
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Annie ... I am so sorry to read that your mom has passed. Hugs. Hugs. Hugs. Like others, I am angry as all get out with the behavior of the minister. So inappropriate.
Carol ... Thinking of you and your family on the loss of your brother-in-law. This wasn't the same brother-in-law that is in a nursing home is it?
Machka ... sorry you and your husband are dealing with covid. Hope you feel well soon!
Kay ... what a no good rotten day you had and to have two ignoramuses witness it to boot! Glad that you just ended up with a sore head!
Tracy ... your photo of the family dining ... do you remember when way back a few months ago I said I had a dream with you and your family in it ... where you invited my husband and I into your home for dinner?? I swear I had deja-vu when I saw your photo! That was exactly how I envisioned your family at the table. You are blessed!
Pip ... I enjoyed all the throw-back photos, but the most recent photo of you and Kirby was my favorite. You both looked happy and relaxed.
Allie ... nasty looking bruise!
Rosemarie and Flea and Rori ... thinking of you as your go through the holiday season without your loved ones.
I have been way behind on keeping up with the posts, but finally took time this afternoon as I was waiting for a roast to cook to catch up. There were certainly more things I would have liked to comment on as I was reading ... but most of you had already said what I would have.
My mom:I am exhausted. Saw a photo of me taken today and I look exactly how I feel. My mom was diagnosed with covid on the morning of the 9th and fell that afternoon from extreme covid fatigue. She spent 4 days in the hospital due to the covid and covid induced fatigue/fog but fortunately ended up with a mild case of covid. On the 14th she was moved to a rehab facility near me and placed in a quarantined room with another covid positive patient. For 10 days I went in to both the hospital and then the rehab at mealtimes to feed her. She didn't have the strength nor the inclination to do so herself and to rely on hospital/rehab staff is naive to say the least. Laying in bed or slouched in a recliner for 10 days may have be her undoing. It was horrible and the woman she shared the quarantine room with wanted to sleep in the dark... 6 days my mom sat in the dark! She has lost the ability to assist in transfers and is currently reliant on lift equipment. In NY, this will be an issue for her in terms of being able to go back to assisted living due to licensing laws of facilities. She finally started rehab on the Dec. 20th and is to receive rehab until the 10th of January when they'll decide whether she can return to assisted living or be moved into long term care. She needs to be able to transfer with only one person assisting. (She's currently a 2-person heavy lift and they're using equipment instead) The cost differential between assisted living and long-term care is obscene. More importantly though, is my mother's emotional/mental health has suffered significantly. It looked pretty grim for a while as we thought she had given up, but the last few days have been better. It has not helped that hospital beds have aggravated an existing back condition causing her non-stop back pain. I've spent every day with her for several hours to help keep her motivated and grounded (a lot of confusion at times) and that has helped, but it has worn me out. Today, we had our Christmas in the morning, then we went to the rehab facility and saw to it that family got to FaceTime (she is unable to hear on the rehab phone), I got home at 4:00 and, because I misjudged time on my roast, we ate at 8:00 pm. I'm only up now because I need to let my dinner digest somewhat before going to bed!
Thank you for sharing your photos and traditions ... it has helped me these past few weeks!
Beth near Buffalo where we had a balmy 57 degree Christmas Day which was much appreciated after last year's Christmas Blizzard
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My three loves, plus a spare. (They have their back to the camera. My eldest's partner.)
We had a lovely day. Watched Die Hard while we were waiting for the couple to arrive. My two son's say it is a Christmas movie.
I remain unconvinced. Lol
Flea
Willamette Valley OR
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Just got home from seeing my mom and then going to my brothers for a Christmas get together. Will do stat tomorrow8 -
Did Gilad’s Step and Tone DVD then went for my walk. I don’t know if it’s that I’m getting older or the fact that I no longer exercise every day (formal exercise), but it seemed that I got out of breath faster than I used to.
Rebecca – those snowflakes are just gorgeous. You know, tatting is about the only craft that I’ve never done. I want to learn, I have a book with instructions so as soon as I get a little time, I’m going to try it.
Barbara and Lanette – “four seconds longer”. Time to think about opening the pool….lol
Rosemarie – HUG
Lisa – “butter swim biscuits” – sounds so very yummy. Sounds like they must have a lot of butter in them.
Tracey – lovely program
Evelyn – I thought I saw chocolate covered pieces of fruit in that bowl!!!
Quiet Christmas. Denise says she doesn’t know what they’re doing. That’s double speak for “we’re going to Pete’s mother’s house”, Jess is in Idaho and Bryan, well, he did email us with pictures of Leo. Otherwise, not much going on
Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays or whatever you’d prefer. Thank you, all, for being my friends and sounding block when I need it.
Michele NC
Its so delicate and pretty. My paternal grandmother tatted my headpiece when I got married. It was so much fun to wear, and went with my 1920's type wedding dress.💖
She was going to teach us but couldn't slow down her shuttlecock to teach us!😂
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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This day was so much fun. Good for my heart. Was able to video chat with all three sons, chat with Athena, coo at Eli, and chat with DIL.💖
We got a photo frame with about 70 preloaded photos of them, and the grandkids. I also received a nice stationery set from neighbor. Our meal of ham, dressing, boiled potatoes and peas was lovely, and I have already taken down Christmas.😂
Here's all my cards I got. So blessed and it made me so happy to look at them. I will keep them in a pile on our coffee table a spell.💖
Feeling blessed 💖
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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Oh Beth. So sad about your mom. I hope she is able to get back to where she was. Falls are so serious at that age.
Thank you for thinking of me. This season was harder than I expected. I guess last year I was still in shock and there was so much to do. I was trying to make my mom's peanut butter fudge a few days ago, and it was turning into a rock. I told my husband, " I need my mom to figure this out!" I managed to remember that I hadn't put the vanilla in, and that made all the difference. It turned out beautifully. But it's been hard.
I know you are also missing a someone at your table. Take care.
Flea
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Finally managed to get everyone together for Christmas. What with lockdowns and then illness last year, it felt like it wouldn’t happen.
It was tinged with sadness as a friend of ours was taken into hospital unexpectedly on the evening of 23rd and passed away in the night. We were with Mary and Geoff at the Meet and Greet on 15 Dec. He was looking hale and hearty, leading the Guitar group as part of the entertainment. Such a shock. Mary has family staying for Christmas, so will go round and visit later in the week.
The weather forecast for today is mostly clear and sunny. Our lot are planning to meet up again today for a coastal walk and then lunch at daughter’s house. I’m sure we will take advantage of all the grands being home for some other get togethers in the week to come.
(((Beth)))
Sadness is part of the human condition. We have all lost someone, whether recently or in the distant past. The grief seldom goes away completely, we just find ways to cope with it. I remember those gone from my life, and focus on the good times we had, and will continue to make precious memories with those who remain with me, for as long as I am able.
🤗🤗🤗 and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.
🙋♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.
☘️ Terri9 -
Beth - So terribly sorry that the care for your mum has meant you have had to do so much work and advocating for her. It must bring back so many memories of your eldest. Many, many, hugs for you. You are beyond heroic.
Flea - You too. It is good to see your loved ones. Warms the heart.
Kylia - Love the Jim Jam bottoms. Might get some for next year!
Quiet day ahead. Exercise, then eating leftovers. Chat with L.
Machka - We call those Lateral Flow tests.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
Beth Such a trial taking care of your mother. Whooshing strength and patience to you!
Annie in Delaware4 -
Beth-hope your mother shows improvements. What a horrible experience.
Flea-I think grief goes that way-no two years will be the same. Glad the fudge turned out! You said you needed your mom and then you remembered. Maybe not just a coincidence. (but then I think in mystical terms at times). "Die Hard" movies did indeed have Christmas release dates!
Kylia-family looks very happy!
Terri-how tragic about your friend-so sudden. We just never know. Your family is lovely.
Christmas Day was very peaceful. Took SIL to YS with me for a brunch. He made biscuits and gravy and eggs and bacon (he is a very good cook and enjoys cooking). We visited for two hours, I dropped her off and then came home and watched football and dozed on couch. She made my day
I did get to feed her when she woke up (we really try to let sleeping babies sleep unless it is mealtime).
Oldest son face timed. GS (who typically hasn't talked much that way) got on screen and looked me in the eyes and said "I miss you Mimaw." Son said he said that as soon as they got on plane to go home. They are looking their yearly schedule and giving me some dates for good visits to them in 2024. They treasure their own vacation trips with kids (and if I would go would complicate thing for DIL whose mother is unable to travel).
Get hair cut early this afternoon then doing quick run to Step Son's to drop off gifts. Feels like I didn't buy like I normally do. Did get Gsons games through DribbleUp-a virtual training thing. I'm also paying for the family membership for the year. Evidently up to six people can use virtual training, so parents can use for workouts also. I may take the 6th spot to check it out. May be nice alternative to gym and doesn't look to be that expensive (haven't finished the whole sign up yet.
Oh-and am on third dose of antibiotic for UTI.I had started standing script before family arrived, doctor did testing and confirmed I had uti. Went ahead and took one of new standing scripts since I still felt horrible. Tested yesterday-still positive. Hopefully this dose knocks it out the rest of the way. I am thinking it is time to find new doctor. Will have to search in the Columbus area-limited choices where I live.
Off to start my day. Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
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Good morning ladies!
Wow, love all of those great family Christmas photos so many of you have posted. Wonderful memories and good times despite recent sadness in some of your households. Envious of you that have delicious leftovers for a few days, lol.
Beth - you are on my mind. Sending gigantic hugs, what an ordeal with your mom. How exhausting physically and emotionally.
Annie - you too. Hope the arrangements with your mom's funeral got worked out OK.
Machka - spending some time in the sun, just sitting, will help you heal, at least I'm convinced it helped me get over the crud quicker when I had it last year. Hope your DH gets through it quickly. Rest is good. My doc said no walking for at least a week after I started feeling better.
Allie - sounds like you are able to spend time around Siri the cat without your allergies kicking up? I thought of you when I was at my friend's the other day for the Christmas party, my ears immediately plugged up and my nose started to run. We hadn't eaten yet so it couldn't have been food - then I noticed her big hairy dog was shedding with the warm weather we've had. I remembered I'd gotten the same reaction for many years when I'd visit another friend who had golden retrievers with the undercoats, whether they were actively shedding or not. I came home and gave Rosie the schnauzer a big hug. She doesn't shed, and neither did Sophie the poodle/schnauzer we had. Next time I go to her house I'll take the allergy drops I got from Dr. Matt with Zyrtec as a back-up.
Quiet day at my house yesterday, connected with brother and sister in Indiana and got caught up, which was great. Nephew, whose wife died a couple weeks ago, is doing OK - his boss gave him a month off work and wife's 2 sisters, who live close by, have been there for them . Her suicide affected not only him and the kids, but the sisters as well of course - so many people are dealing with that loss. I'm grateful they have each other to help move through the grief.
I'm watching the Vicar of Dibley. It's a gem! Vicar Geraldine is a kick. Once I get through this series I'm going to dig up a British comedy my husband and I used to enjoy - Mrs. Brown's Boys. 
I can still hear him howling with laughter. Good memory.
Make it a good "boxing day."
Lanette
SW WA State
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Boxing Day is a bank holiday in the UK. Nothing much happens. It is recovery day! Certainly wouldn't have hairdressers open!
In fact, the whole week is pretty quiet for most people, although some folks do have to work to service the layabouts.
G is popping in tomorrow afternoon on her way to a couple of nights in a hotel in Eastbourne. I look forward to seeing her.
John brought me my morning coffee, and I couldn't resist accompanying it with a couple of squares of authentic pistachio Turkish Delight that Father Christmas brought me.
Oh well, it's Boxing Day! We were really rather good, food-wise. yesterday, not over-indulging much at all. Even went steady on the alcohol. I must try not to blow it today!
Terri - Looks like you had a warm, family time! Wonderful! I noticed you are all wearing spectacles. Is it a family thing?
Much love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx4
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