WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2024
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Barbie: So pleased for you that Jake is home!
Heather: Glad your getting back to the regular Activities of Daily Living!
My thoughts and prayers to others. I will post more when I get home! Well it is 3:10 am and I am dressed and showered. This is not good! There is no comfortable chair in my room to listen to an audible book and snooze so I will go out to the lobby and do this. This is a safe environment. However I don't feel the least bit tired. I am ready to start the day!
The yoga session on Monday was really meditative and the mat work was really more than restorative Yoga in my mind. I was struggling not to sleep! I love the instructor. She is calm and thoughtful and has a wonderful tone to her voice. But it is difficult to spend 4 or 5 hours in a meditative state when you still are handling grief. So I took yesterday off and really enjoyed the retreat center. Today I am going to go into a yoga studio in Asheville in search of a little more active yoga experience. I have the instructor's blessing to do this!
I really realized over the past few days how little I eat meat. The regular breakfast does not offer yogurt so I have been loading up on eggs! I am getting plenty of veggies but feel way behind on protein! And I drink ice coffee every morning but of course here it is all ice tea! I really have become set in my ways!
This yoga group and even the pottery group and CS Lewis group are women. There is a man here or there. I noticed a few men each sitting alone on the portico yesterday morning. They were from a different conference entirely. Yet I noticed I really wanted to go sit among them. They were much younger then me! I was surprised at myself for taking such an interest in them!
Best,
Rosemarie from Georgia
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Barbie - so glad to hear Jake is home! Good to have the household back to normal.
Flea - At least you were able to thin out your collection and get things tossed in the dumpster.
We are so, so glad you are in remission. Tracie, you too. 
Thank you ladies for sharing your stories.
Rosemarie - nice that your son will only be 20 minutes away. Hope the home purchase goes through without a hitch. Enjoy your experience at the new yoga place. I'm with you on the meat for protein.
Michele - I love seeing your creations from the ceramics studio, this has to be so satisfying for you. You are such an energizer bunny.
Kylia - have a great time visiting your sis. Hope you have great weather to zoom down in the Miata! Blast some of your favorite tunes, lol.
Heather - congrats on accomplishing so many "firsts". Nice you were able to get out and spend time with the family.
Rita - glad your DH finally went to the doctor, hope the antibiotics get him cleared up. Was he running a fever too?
About upping protein: My local grocery store, Safeway (might be a west coast chain, I think they are called Albertsons in some areas and maybe Kroger too? Not sure) has deal going on, 4 packages of meat for $19.99. Most of these meats are more expensive if packages are purchased singularly. Now, the meat already has flavorings/spices (some I'm not real fond of, but OK) - I've gotten stew beef, chicken breast chunks, pre-formed sirloin burgers. It's mix and match. I really prefer to buy grass fed or organic IF they have it available and it's not too much of a budget breaker. But a small beef roast can be nearly $20 (not even grass fed! ACK!), and will only make a few meals, so this $19.99 four package special is thriftier.
Orthotics: I took my new orthotics to back Joe the Orthotics guy yesterday to get them tweaked. Turns out, I have been able to wear them for several hours without any problem - the initial pain when I first got them has greatly diminished. I was embarrassed, he was very nice and kind about it. We figured that my metatarsalgia must have been flaring at that time, joints a bit swollen, and now it's gotten better. Other than my early morning sunrise stroll, no more pavement walking for me. Nearly 2 years ago, when I had covid, I remember hearing my then recently-passed DH tell me, plain as day, to stop that intense pavement walking because I was going to injure myself. He was right, wasn't he?
( I know I keep repeating this story every few months - I'm hoping the next time I'm delirious he'll tell me some winning lottery numbers! 
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Another short heatwave is coming, 90f+ for a couple days then back to the mid 70's next week. The Perseids meteor showers peak on August 12 and 13, I'm hoping for clear skies if I'm up early enough to catch them.
Got a new cellphone so today I'll be on the phone getting my number ported over from the old one and maybe changing the plan. The old one wasn't keeping up with new technology.
I've been up since 2, so a heart-healthy nap or two is on the agenda for today.
Lanette
SW WA State7 -
Good morning beautiful ladies!
Lisa your quilt is beautiful! I tried quilting but my small attempts were never flat. You are so talented.
Pip Yay for the personal best for 50k! And hope the heart monitor shows good news.
Beth good luck with changing your mom's room.
Heather Yay for an excellent recovery! Such a great attitude.
Rita hope your DH feels better.
Tracie and Flea Yay for remission!
Rebecca glad you were able to help out with daycare and great that you are back to your normal role.
Barbie Yay for Jake being home! Does he need special care?
Mia Welcome!
Flea I have trouble letting go of my things too. Hope you find a balance.
I had a unusual day yesterday. My cousin took my Dad to a funeral. We found out about it about two hours beforehand. Then I bought groceries and went to the dentist. I was afraid dad would make it home before me, but nope. So it all worked out
Dad was tired and emotional all afternoon. He kept looking for his car keys, and we had the conversation about him not driving anymore about three times.
He also said he felt useless like he should have a job.
And he thought he wore someone else's jacket home from the funeral. He found an opera ticket in the pocket. Then he put the jacket back in our closet and promptly forgot which one it was. Now all three dark jackets are on the couch and they all have his name in them. So it must have been his jacket after all. What a mess. Now I remember he went to the opera.
Have a beautiful day my friends! May you all be happy, healthy, safe and free!
Annie in Delaware
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Jake can't drive for at least six months. The cardiologist said that his heart was unstable and could he have another incident which would be deadly to him and others if he were driving. I'm OK in town but for longer drives he'll need to have someone else take him. He has a follow up appointment with the cardiac team on Monday and has arranged for our next door neighbor to drive him. Hugs to everyone with troubles, I am too self involved right now to address everyone individually but I am thinking of you and admiring your courage. Barbie 10 -
Rosemarie ~ It seems that you are coming out of a deep state of grief and maybe are ready to move on with life. That is to be admired!
Annie ~ Hugs as you continue to navigate life with you father's mental deterioration. You are doing a great job.
I got the staples out of my knee yesterday and was told I could drive as long as I wasn't taking narcotics. I have only been taking naproxen and X-strength tylenol so hope I can drive myself to physical therapy tomorrow. I hate that my DH has been having to drive me everywhere for over two weeks. And, there is no other means of transportation. Anyway, I am able to walk with my cane but must say my knee itself has been aching badly this AM.
Prayers and Blessings for all who need them.
Carol in GA11 -
Thanks for the sympathy about decluttering. I should clarify that the three dumpsters were hubby's mess. Things he let me get rid of. Legitimate trash. I tend toward minimalism, though not as much as Rebecca, though I can dream! My part was just organizing and cleaning.
I feel better this morning and looking at his mess in a new light makes it more manageable. We've got one more week with the dumpster,so here's hoping to filling it! I love throwing things away or giving the useful things to people who might use them. I did unload sacks of clothes that I will never wear.
Youngest takes his drive test this morning in two hours. I am going to walk at Riverside Park in Salem while he is testing. We have the car for him already, an EV Fiat which he loves to drive and fits his cello, so if we can get this license taken care of, he can drive himself to his activities next year. One step closer to independence! We also have our first official college visit on Friday, at George Fox. He picked two privates and two state schools to consider. All in Oregon.
Take care
Flea
Willamette Valley OR8 -
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Hello, my chickens!
Finally stopped futzing with the quilt from heck and it is in the washer on gentle cycle for its first wash. 🥵 Trying not to think about it. I've constructed it well, and it will survive just fine.
Still waiting on an address for my niece to get the quilt sent. Two phone calls to my sis so far regarding getting that address... which wandered off into more ouchy territory. I will make no political or religious reference, but even though it's neither one of those things (to me) I've put it in a spoiler just in case someone else might believe other than I do, and their belief grows out of their political or religious bent.--
My sister believes the Earth is flat. I do not. She surprised me while we were talking, and I just fell headlong into a short discussion on one of the extensive number of areas where we disagree.
Mostly I just try to love her. Most of the time, that's sufficient. Occasionally, I cuss.
Sometimes I wonder if the love I feel for her can survive the distance between us in how we look at the world and other people. It can be exhausting, walking that tightrope between love and dismay.
The only upside is that it even supersedes our incredibly different political viewpoints. I'm sure it's easy to believe that we think quite differently on that side of things, as well. Radically differently. Polarization would be the word, but she doesn't believe in the poles so... there's that. There is no emoji for how I feel about all this.
Annie -Thank you.... Just all kinds of hugs from here. It's not an easy journey you've undertaken.
Barbie - Glad your Jake is home and that there are people who can assist with transport. Did the kids make up to see him yet? I know it's hard to have your lovely, peaceful life discombobulated.
Flea - Like Heather said of Tracie, I've been grateful to have your posts on the part of your journey that you're willing to share with us. My heart just soared the day you told us you were clear, and I really appreciate that you've let us know what was happening all along.
Am going to run down to Aldi real quick to check to see if they still have one of the fans left that I like so much. If not, no biggie. It will get me out of the house while the quilt's in the dryer. And I need to get a mailing box for it, too.
Later, y'all,
Much love,
Lisa in AR
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Wow! So much health issues happening in this group recently! I’m proud of everyone here who has had cancer and beat it back into remission! Awesomeness!! My DH is taking his meds as ordered, still having trouble hearing but not as bad as before yesterday. He did not have a fever or headaches, just the hearing loss. That’s why he waited almost a month to go to the doctors. At least he finally agreed and is on the way to healing.
My health has been good lately, I’m glad of that. The food changes I hope will show up in good bloodwork next month. Seeing both my Nephrologist and my PC so 2 blood draws for different things, the same week!!
Dinner yesterday was tuna tomato sauce over spaghetti, and a salad. Parmesan sprinkled on top. Had 1/2 an apple for dessert.
RVRita in Roswell6 -
Today is Raspberries and cream day! Also Particulary Preposterous Packaging day! Lol https://www.thepackagingcompany.us/knowledge-sharing/8-reasons-particularly-preposterous-packaging-day/
RVRita in Roswell7 -
Thank you, Lisa. I am so very grateful for everything. Just finished a lovely four mile walk through the nature conservatory by the river. Such a beautiful morning and lots of people out enjoying it. I have to go to the prison this afternoon then hoping to talk someone into kayaking with me on the river either tonight or tomorrow morning.
Oh, and hugs about your sister, Lisa. That is really hard.
Much love to all.
Flea
Willamette Valley OR3 -
Eli is 11 months old! Miss this cutie!
Well on day 3 of exercising with husband 4 times a week at the gym. This morning, all I wanted to do was sleep. Nothing like live doing weights or walking quickly on the treadmill, using a wee bit of anger as motivation. Its just a small part of my day.
Today is tacos and burritos night. I hope to wait and not eat, until I fix that for dinner. Distraction will be high on my list today!
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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The marks on his face are from the previous babysitters 3 year old back on the 12th of July.😥3
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Afternoon all
Back from picking up groceries and getting laundry out of the dryer.. we will be getting rain on and off through the weekend with the remnants of Debby.
It's only 66 degrees out .nice to have the a.c.off.
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Stat for the day-
Walk w/family- 2hrs 13min 8sec, 27elev, 2.89ap, 80ahr, 95mhr, 6.47mi= 600c
Strava app = 793c
Gave our bodies a break from gym or biking
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Lisa ~ It's funny that you mentioned you and your sister's different view and it's probably a good thing we don't discuss a couple of topics here. Glad we keep it neutral.
Rebecca ~ Poor cute Levi's face. Glad they found a new sitter.
Flea ~ Your walk sounds wonderful. Hoping so much that after I walk normally again I will be able to get out and enjoy walks outside and working in my yard.
I have not had a good eating day food wise but know this to will pass!
Carol in GA8 -
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It's nearly 80 degrees here today but some guys are delivering firewood. On Monday the chimney sweeps came to make sure the chimney and wood stove are in good condition. It's hard to believe we're going to need those things before long. Barbie 4
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My son passed! He will have his driver's license early next week. (We are waiting because he took the test through the driver's training program he has been participating in, so they need to complete the paperwork for DMV.) He was very happy! And so am I!
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR10 -
Carol - My sincere apologies if that offended you. I probably shouldn't have brought it up.
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Lisa ~ You did not offend me at all. In reading all of our posts through the past years, it is easy to understand that we all have different views politically and on religion. And, we are all entitled to what we believe and think. I respect all of you and am so glad that I am a part of our conversations. This is a very good place to get new perspectives on life.
Carol in GA7 -
Don't know what's up with me today. Since after lunch I have done nothing but fall asleep! I had a nap, as usual, but couldn't keep awake the rest of the afternoon! Ate a light dinner of cod and broccoli, and then proceeded to doze throughout my TV programmes! Had no idea how the plots ended. Plus, my 'bad' knee is acting up.
I've now come upstairs to bed and hope I sleep tonight.
Before my sleepy time, I chatted to Max, and set off a smoke bomb in the upstairs room to slay any stray carpet moths before DSIL comes. Max wanted to go to Fatto a Mano, and had been given money by his mum towards the meal, so John went along with that plan. He decided to have an aubergine starter dish and an arugula and Parmesan salad. Max had a Diabolo pizza. They walked the long way, via the park and the seafront, so got some exercise in.
I started to feel a bit ambivalent about G's visit tomorrow, as I felt so knackered, and I know she will be, as she's up in London today at the theatre. I definitely did not feel like going out. So I WhatsApped her to postpone it until next week. I felt we were both doing it because we said we would. I certainly had no enthusiasm. We have fixed on next Tuesday, after my physio. I felt proud of myself for making that decision.
Tracey - Are you still waiting for news?
Much love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx6 -
LisaInArkansas wrote: »Carol - My sincere apologies if that offended you. I probably shouldn't have brought it up.
What did I miss.
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Flea … even though I read that your son was taking his drivers test … you scared the pants off me with the words “my son passed.” I most decidedly spend too much time in my mom’s nursing home. Congratulations to your son.
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Barbie - so glad your neighbor is willing to help with the long drive for Jake. I don't blame you for not wanting to tackle the drives farther than town, I feel the same way. Glad to hear your chimney and woodstove/woodpile will be ready to go. Fall will be on us soon.
Flea - wow, your youngest got his driver's license and will be off to college. Seems like your boys grew up fast.
Carol - neat that you'll be able to drive yourself to PT. Great feeling to get some of your freedom back I'll bet.
Well, my new cellphone is set up. Finally. Took a couple of calls to the cell company - Googoo got things twisted up so I wasn't able to log in with my password like I normally do. The phone's customer service rep was even stumped for a few minutes, but figured it out after accessing both my old and new phone. I think I had to sign over the deed to the farm and my first born, but got the wretched thing to work. Just to be able to read email and messenger - no fancy stuff.
Lanette
SW WA State8 -
Flea … even though I read that your son was taking his drivers test … you scared the pants off me with the words “my son passed.” I most decidedly spend too much time in my mom’s nursing home. Congratulations to your son.
Beth
Oh no, Beth! I can see why you would think that. I should have chosen my words better
Flea
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