I need a boyfriend

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  • lbryant79
    lbryant79 Posts: 100
    I think all the good men are gone . But hey, they may just be in hiding? in a nuclear, underground bomb shelter? behind reinforced steel..eh, I dunno....I've yet to find one anyways!

    The truth is for many, men are afraid to go up to women, to make the first move, there are a section of women who really think they are above the rules for a bit of tact, respect, consideration when telling a man they don't want a drink, or they're not interested.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    I actually got a lot of sweet responses. Not all men are pigs, ya kno :P

    Lies.

    True story
  • RuleFive
    RuleFive Posts: 880 Member
    I actually got a lot of sweet responses. Not all men are pigs, ya kno :P

    Lies.

    True story

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  • helpfit101
    helpfit101 Posts: 347 Member
    I have an important question. Answering this right might improve your chances with some of the guys on here.

    If your boyfriend tells you to go into the kitchen and make him a sandwich what do you do?
  • PMOwl68
    PMOwl68 Posts: 15 Member
    Maybe you are looking in the wrong places. you are a pretty girl, you shouldn't have problems. If you try to hard that will scare them. so how cliche...but just be yourself, don't try too hard, and be nice. And don't lower your standards...I am sure you are getting a lot of wacky responses to this post. Good Luck, Girlie!
  • lbryant79
    lbryant79 Posts: 100
    I have an important question. Answering this right might improve your chances with some of the guys on here.

    If your boyfriend tells you to go into the kitchen and make him a sandwich what do you do?

    hahahahaha

    good one
  • helpfit101
    helpfit101 Posts: 347 Member
    No one NEEDS a boyfriend... you WANT a boyfriend.

    the more you focus on THAT only the more you're going to scare guys away.

    I have about 9 after me right now and it's because I'm not willing to just settle for ANY man... I want the man I want to spend my life with and I'm not sure out of those 9 they are it!

    RE F*CKING LAX and stop stressing... it will happen when it happens!


    Oh sure that's easy for you to say you have a cool tattoo!
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    I am having the HARDEST time meeting men! I never get asked out. I must be putting out the wrong vibe or something. :(

    its the smell of desperation because you think you NEED a man!
  • crackur
    crackur Posts: 473 Member
    I have an important question. Answering this right might improve your chances with some of the guys on here.

    If your boyfriend tells you to go into the kitchen and make him a sandwich what do you do?
    shouldn't she already be in the kitchen? dude, you are not doing it right
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    I have an important question. Answering this right might improve your chances with some of the guys on here.

    If your boyfriend tells you to go into the kitchen and make him a sandwich what do you do?

    You make it. Then you sit next to him and start eating it.

    Go make your own :flowerforyou:
  • helpfit101
    helpfit101 Posts: 347 Member
    I am having the HARDEST time meeting men! I never get asked out. I must be putting out the wrong vibe or something. :(

    its the smell of desperation because you think you NEED a man!

    I disagree. Men don't reason like women. That's typical women reasoning.

    We don't mind desperation. We welcome it. We dislike easy women though. There is a difference.
  • JaxDemon
    JaxDemon Posts: 403 Member
    Wrong place to look for one that's for sure.
  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    I work at a prison and there are about 120 single guys that work here with me. I can introduce you. And don't worry they are all very nice guys. They are not players or anything like that... they just haven't found the 'right' one yet, maybe it is you! :wink:

    I had to read that twice to make sure you weren't offering up the prisoners! lol

    That's what I thought at first...hahaha
  • lbryant79
    lbryant79 Posts: 100
    lol @crackur & @maria44024,
  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    yea its not hard to meet men, its hard meeting men that like being active, aside from being at work all day

    its always guys im not interested in that are interested in me

    is that whats going on w/you?

    Exactly! they're either too young or they don't take very good care of themselves. ew
  • nessagrace22
    nessagrace22 Posts: 430 Member
    Handy tips for when you are holding auditions...

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1094972-7-tips-for-keeping-your-man-from-the-1950s

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • RunWinterGarden
    RunWinterGarden Posts: 428 Member
    I'd offer to help you out, but my wife frowns on me having girlfriends. Sorry.
  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    join plenty of fish

    Already tried that and ended up with a bunch of 20 somethings. that's just too young!
  • RuleFive
    RuleFive Posts: 880 Member
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  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    Where do you live. I have a friend on here that was looking for a girlfriend the other day.

    Indiana...theres more than corn! We have SOYBEANS! grrrr

    Hey! I'm from Indiana, too! I'll take the corn over the soybeans any day, though. Have you tried joining any local groups in your area? If you're a runner there are probably runner's groups. If you like to read I'm sure there are book clubs. Do you play cards? You can always find poker and euchre groups. Also, don't be afraid to ask a guy out, either. Even here in Indiana it's not considered too forward anymore.

    Asking men out? Scares the **** out of me!
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    I find it strange it's hard to get a boyfriend. I've had one since I was 13 and usually two or three after me at the same time.

    Dress sexier. Men like a woman to look sexy.

    Some girls just have that air. But some of us aren't chased around by men all day. =P
  • BDEGAND
    BDEGAND Posts: 53
    I have an important question. Answering this right might improve your chances with some of the guys on here.

    If your boyfriend tells you to go into the kitchen and make him a sandwich what do you do?

    Tells me or asks me?
  • sbbhbm
    sbbhbm Posts: 1,312 Member
    I have three... you can borrow one if you like.
  • helpfit101
    helpfit101 Posts: 347 Member
    I have an important question. Answering this right might improve your chances with some of the guys on here.

    If your boyfriend tells you to go into the kitchen and make him a sandwich what do you do?

    Tells me or asks me?


    Ah you're one oh those eh .. a feminist...
  • Inkratlet
    Inkratlet Posts: 613 Member
    It's true, it is really, really easy to meet any *kitten*, all you have to do is work out, put a skirt on, go out & talk to people. Meeting someone you could tolerate on a holiday & want to introduce to family is the challenge.

    QFT
  • anemoneprose
    anemoneprose Posts: 1,805 Member

    Dress sexier. Men like a woman to look sexy.

    Some girls just have that air. But some of us aren't chased around by men all day. =P

    She's right, though... combine that with absolutely not giving a crap & you're set. I used to walk around in public in pyjamas. Or ok, ordinary boring clothes. No takers for that. At some point I decided dressing up like a lady might be fun. Between that & weight loss & growing out my hair it's been comparatively easy to meet just 'dudes', but again, more complicated to luck into meeting a good match. Note though, I seriously do not care about 'finding a boyfriend', if it happens it happens, am 100% good with being on my own. I think this makes it easier to talk to people in a free & spontaneous way.
  • anemoneprose
    anemoneprose Posts: 1,805 Member
    I have an important question. Answering this right might improve your chances with some of the guys on here.

    If your boyfriend tells you to go into the kitchen and make him a sandwich what do you do?

    Tells me or asks me?


    Ah you're one oh those eh .. a feminist...

    ugh so blocked
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    I am having the HARDEST time meeting men! I never get asked out. I must be putting out the wrong vibe or something. :(

    its the smell of desperation because you think you NEED a man!

    I disagree. Men don't reason like women. That's typical women reasoning.

    We don't mind desperation. We welcome it. We dislike easy women though. There is a difference.

    i have NEVER come across a man who disliked a woman who was easy..... maybe its an american thing....
  • crackur
    crackur Posts: 473 Member
    I have an important question. Answering this right might improve your chances with some of the guys on here.

    If your boyfriend tells you to go into the kitchen and make him a sandwich what do you do?

    Tells me or asks me?
    what's the difference? I expect you bring the beer without asking correct? there is no extra credit.
  • Birder150
    Birder150 Posts: 677 Member
    I am having the HARDEST time meeting men! I never get asked out. I must be putting out the wrong vibe or something. :(

    Have you considered asking out a man you are interested in? Or do you expect the man to take all the risks in a relationship?

    I never got asked out either.
    Then I decided to do the asking.
    We've been together for over a year and a half now. :happy:

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