Why is this girl doing this to me? (Girll help)

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  • brower47
    brower47 Posts: 16,356 Member
    I suggest you act like your screen name suggests.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Pretty sure we are getting trolled.

    haha i was thinking the same thing before posting

    what? another one g-d damn it i'll never learn
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    Sounds like you are a glutton for punishment.

    Yeah, just pay for that S&M play!!! You win every time and you get what you pay for!!
  • ZombieGeezUs
    ZombieGeezUs Posts: 476
    Pretty sure we are getting trolled.

    Really? Lol, such an elaborate story, tho!!! Are trolls THIS creative? :laugh:

    The advanced ones, yes. Although he could have simply copied and pasted someone else's novel, I mean, story.
  • ZombieGeezUs
    ZombieGeezUs Posts: 476
    Sounds like you are a glutton for punishment.

    Yeah, just pay for that S&M play!!! You win every time and you get what you pay for!!

    Unless they go overboard and you have to use your safeword
  • ZombieGeezUs
    ZombieGeezUs Posts: 476
    Pretty sure we are getting trolled.

    haha i was thinking the same thing before posting

    I thought about it before posting a serious reply, you never know. Some guys are just that sad.
  • D8vidFitness
    D8vidFitness Posts: 104
    Looks like you needa find a woman, not a girl. She sees you as a buddy, and you want to be more than that. I'm sure it's not in her intention to hurt you, but it's gonna happen if you don't snap out of it.

    You gotta let her know waddup, she can't be texting you crap shes been doing with her boyfriend, like how you mentioned with the condoms and everything. If you respect yourself, you'd ditch this girl.

    Only time will heal, its gonna take a month or two. You need to move on, delete any old photos of her, and get out of your dorm or house.

    Best way to forget is to surround yourself with other fun people and drink your night away!
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
    Pretty sure we are getting trolled.

    Really? Lol, such an elaborate story, tho!!! Are trolls THIS creative? :laugh:

    1. Trolling
    2. Fitness
    3. Marriage
    4. Job
    5. Participation in Society

    In order of effort expended
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    You are staying over $100? take your losses and leave, dude. leave fast.
  • Madame_Goldbricker
    Madame_Goldbricker Posts: 1,625 Member
    Text her to say you've met someone, & you need your cash back to purchase condoms.
  • 3X173
    3X173 Posts: 40 Member
    Thank you all. I REALLY DO APPRECIATE IT. It is definitely a hard step for me, but it must be done. I need to finally cut contacts with her. I deleted her contacts and our text convo twice before and willing to do it again once and for all. It's just getting pathetic now. It feels like I am her gay friend.

    I got a new job starting next week and I am moving out in January.

    I definitely learn a lot about life from her. I always used to hear about how love drove such and such person to do stupid things but I never used to think about it but now I understand. Hopefully, I can take what I've learn from this ordeal and move on.




    Edit: BTW, why would I troll? I admit, I have trolled before but it's something that usually something that gets people riled up. I seriously assure you that this is not me trolling. I can provide text pictures. I kinda wish that I was trolling, lol. Makes me feel bad that people think that this situation is so bad, that it must be trolling.
  • Snow3y
    Snow3y Posts: 1,412 Member
    Get some other HOOOOOOOT and sexy lady friend or girlfriend, and ask her to do the favour of making you seem the most important thing in the world...
  • JillTwiss
    JillTwiss Posts: 139 Member
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  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    Give her more money until she starts loving you back, brah!
  • j6o4
    j6o4 Posts: 871 Member
    Your willingness to do everything she ask is where you went wrong, you doormat.
  • Bobbie8786
    Bobbie8786 Posts: 202 Member
    This is an Offspring song - Self Esteem.
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    Give her more money until she starts loving you back, brah!

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: you just made my night!
  • marieskee
    marieskee Posts: 120 Member
    I am sorry to say this; but Wake up smell the coffee!
    You are an easy target. You are nice, kind and sweet.
    You have no problem shelling out bucks and listening to her ramble on.
    Of course she is not interested in you in any other way, Why because you are
    life a "brother" or a family member. Because you will be there no matter what.
    You will never ignore the texts, you will continue to give cash when needed, also
    you have no problem talking to her for hours on in.
    Her new love interest is probably opposite of you, you know not as available. IDK
    Anyway, don't do what you have been doing because clearly it is not working in you favor.
    Switch it up, ignore her, ask her for cash, and lastly when you two talk try to talk mostly about you.
    Good Luck!
  • marieskee
    marieskee Posts: 120 Member
    Give her more money until she starts loving you back, brah!

    Hahhhhhh Haaaaaaaaaa
    And she will love you back! ehem "diamonds are a girls best friend" <
    (sexy voice)
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
    Give her more money until she starts loving you back, brah!

    Hahhhhhh Haaaaaaaaaa
    And she will love you back! ehem "diamonds are a girls best friend" <
    (sexy voice)

    Lot more where that came from
    I still got more money
    The look in yo eyes I know you want some
    I still got more money

    Ohhhh
    All I see is signs
    All I see is dollar signs
    Ohhhh
    Money on my mind
    Money, money on my mind
  • saree2013
    saree2013 Posts: 17
    I am sorry to say this; but Wake up smell the coffee!
    You are an easy target. You are nice, kind and sweet.
    You have no problem shelling out bucks and listening to her ramble on.
    Of course she is not interested in you in any other way, Why because you are
    life a "brother" or a family member. Because you will be there no matter what.
    You will never ignore the texts, you will continue to give cash when needed, also
    you have no problem talking to her for hours on in.
    Her new love interest is probably opposite of you, you know not as available. IDK
    Anyway, don't do what you have been doing because clearly it is not working in you favor.
    Switch it up, ignore her, ask her for cash, and lastly when you two talk try to talk mostly about you.
    Good Luck!

    You, are amazing! I lived my life like this guy, until someone like you told me the truth.
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    Give her more money until she starts loving you back, brah!

    Hahhhhhh Haaaaaaaaaa
    And she will love you back! ehem "diamonds are a girls best friend" <
    (sexy voice)

    Lot more where that came from
    I still got more money
    The look in yo eyes I know you want some
    I still got more money

    Ohhhh
    All I see is signs
    All I see is dollar signs
    Ohhhh
    Money on my mind
    Money, money on my mind


    I drive these brothers crazy,
    I do it on the daily,
    They treat me really nicely,
    They buy me all these ices.
    Dolce & Gabbana,
    Fendi and that Donna
    Karan, they be sharin'
    All their money got me wearin' fly
    Brother I ain't askin,
    They say they love my *kitten* ‘n,
    Seven Jeans, True Religion's,
    I say no, but they keep givin'
    So I keep on takin'
    And no I ain't taken*



    *Because i friendzone them so hard that their heads spin.
  • marieskee
    marieskee Posts: 120 Member
    This is a stick-up, stick-up (I need them bags and the money...)
    We're gonna stick-up, stick-up (You see them ask, "Where that money? ")
    All my ladies get it up, I see you, I do the same;
    Take it to another level, no passengers on my plane
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    This is a stick-up, stick-up (I need them bags and the money...)
    We're gonna stick-up, stick-up (You see them ask, "Where that money? ")
    All my ladies get it up, I see you, I do the same;
    Take it to another level, no passengers on my plane

    And all my ladies, leave your man at home
    Cuz this club is full of ballers and they pockets full grown!
  • MsJulielicious
    MsJulielicious Posts: 708 Member
    Sorry to hear about your penis problems...
    Good luck!
    and
    Way to go!
    I'm doing support right, yes?
  • marieskee
    marieskee Posts: 120 Member
    ohhh My goodness I am in tears over here,,,,,,Thanks for the laughter I really needed it.
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
    This is a stick-up, stick-up (I need them bags and the money...)
    We're gonna stick-up, stick-up (You see them ask, "Where that money? ")
    All my ladies get it up, I see you, I do the same;
    Take it to another level, no passengers on my plane

    And all my ladies, leave your man at home
    Cuz this club is full of ballers and they pockets full grown!

    Take, take, take it all
    But you never give
    Should've known you was trouble
    From the first kiss
    Had your eyes wide open
    Why were they open?

    Gave you all I had
    And you tossed it in the trash*
    You tossed it in the trash, you did
    To give me all your love is all I ever asked**




    *Not all the high end clothes and purses, you kept those.
    ** Among other things
  • marieskee
    marieskee Posts: 120 Member
    I am sorry to say this; but Wake up smell the coffee!
    You are an easy target. You are nice, kind and sweet.
    You have no problem shelling out bucks and listening to her ramble on.
    Of course she is not interested in you in any other way, Why because you are
    life a "brother" or a family member. Because you will be there no matter what.
    You will never ignore the texts, you will continue to give cash when needed, also
    you have no problem talking to her for hours on in.
    Her new love interest is probably opposite of you, you know not as available. IDK
    Anyway, don't do what you have been doing because clearly it is not working in you favor.
    Switch it up, ignore her, ask her for cash, and lastly when you two talk try to talk mostly about you.
    Good Luck!

    You, are amazing! I lived my life like this guy, until someone like you told me the truth.

    Haha. The sad truth is there are so many men out there that are this way. Who do you blame him or her?

    Edit: *winning a losing game*
  • marieskee
    marieskee Posts: 120 Member
    Then there's Jim, I almost forgot
    I ran him off, but I took the yacht
    Poor ol' Billy, bless his heart
    I'm still using his credit card
    I'm hell on heels, Sugar Daddy I'm comin' for you
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
    This is a stick-up, stick-up (I need them bags and the money...)
    We're gonna stick-up, stick-up (You see them ask, "Where that money? ")
    All my ladies get it up, I see you, I do the same;
    Take it to another level, no passengers on my plane

    And all my ladies, leave your man at home
    Cuz this club is full of ballers and they pockets full grown!

    Take, take, take it all
    But you never give
    Should've known you was trouble
    From the first kiss
    Had your eyes wide open
    Why were they open?

    Gave you all I had
    And you tossed it in the trash*
    You tossed it in the trash, you did
    To give me all your love is all I ever asked**




    *Not all the high end clothes and purses, you kept those.
    ** Among other things

    I told you I was trouble,
    You know that I'm no good*


    But still wanted me, because who wouldn't?

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