Thoughts on Lingerie

Ailbe1
Ailbe1 Posts: 164
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I was talking with one of my friends earlier who told me she was quite upset that her husband bought her lingerie. She said it was more for him than her. I disagreed with her. I think it's actually kind of sexy for a man to buy something sexy for his wife or girlfriend. What do you think?
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  • patfriendly
    patfriendly Posts: 263 Member
    Yes. Lingerie is the best gift for your romantic partner. Its not for him or her. Its for both of them to enjoy intimate moments together. If a girl says the guy bought it only for himself, she is basically saying that she is not that interested in getting intimate with him and she would rather have something she can enjoy without him. Now thats selfish.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    I find it to be a waste of time but I wouldn't be upset if it was purchased for me.
  • man_in_drag
    man_in_drag Posts: 169
    Get in my feed, honey.
  • CassandraBurgos83
    CassandraBurgos83 Posts: 544 Member
    I was talking with one of my friends earlier who told me she was quite upset that her husband bought her lingerie. She said it was more for him than her. I disagreed with her. I think it's actually kind of sexy for a man to buy something sexy for his wife or girlfriend. What do you think?

    I agree with you!
  • askeates
    askeates Posts: 1,490 Member
    I love getting something sexy from my SO....
  • iNkedFiTmama
    iNkedFiTmama Posts: 277 Member
    Yes to lingerie. Its more than just for the guy.. its what women can also get out of the reaction from the guy. Besides..why wouldn't you want to turn on your guy more? ..seems kind of weird to me lol. I feel like a queen in some lingerie ..just sayin.
  • asianmonkie
    asianmonkie Posts: 264
    Yes. Lingerie is the best gift for your romantic partner. Its not for him or her. Its for both of them to enjoy intimate moments together. If a girl says the guy bought it only for himself, she is basically saying that she is not that interested in getting intimate with him and she would rather have something she can enjoy without him. Now thats selfish.
    Couldn't have said it better myself.
  • _Calypso_
    _Calypso_ Posts: 1,074 Member
    Depends on teh kind of lingerie! Nice/ sexy bra and panty set...Heck yea!! But I honestly don't see the point in really expensive overly frilly, overly complicated lingerie. It spends more time on the floor than on my body. But if my hubby wanted to buy me some... I wouldn't be mad in the least.
  • Cali_Chica
    Cali_Chica Posts: 895 Member
    I think it's a very thoughtful prezzie
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    I was talking with one of my friends earlier who told me she was quite upset that her husband bought her lingerie. She said it was more for him than her. I disagreed with her. I think it's actually kind of sexy for a man to buy something sexy for his wife or girlfriend. What do you think?
    It would be terrible for a woman to want to and to look sexy.

    He should buy her a burqa.
  • CrcknSklls
    CrcknSklls Posts: 54
    Sounds like your friend is a real hit in bed...... Yikes
  • A_nonymous2
    A_nonymous2 Posts: 366 Member
    I was talking with one of my friends earlier who told me she was quite upset that her husband bought her lingerie. She said it was more for him than her. I disagreed with her. I think it's actually kind of sexy for a man to buy something sexy for his wife or girlfriend. What do you think?
    It would be terrible for a woman to want to and to look sexy.

    He should buy her a burqa.

    From what I understand, there is some sexy lingerie under those things...
  • MityMax96
    MityMax96 Posts: 5,778 Member
    Hmm....was thinking of buying some for my wife....maybe not now. :laugh: :laugh:

    Guys love looking at their women in scantily clad clothing. :wink:
  • kristen2713
    kristen2713 Posts: 253 Member
    Personally, I would LOVE to get lingerie from my bf...1) I like pretty things and feeling sexy, and 2) it might mean I actually get laid!!
  • ShellyBell999
    ShellyBell999 Posts: 1,482 Member
    Sexy lingerie is 95% of my lingerie wardrobe. :blushing:

    I wear it because it makes me feel good. :smokin:

    And when my man buys it for me well, ........BONEUS!!! :drinker:
  • Ailbe1
    Ailbe1 Posts: 164
    I would much rather wear something I know he thinks I look sexy in rather than wearing something I think he would like!
  • WhisperAnne
    WhisperAnne Posts: 453 Member
    I love lingerie! it adds excitement to your sex life. Who could complain about that?
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    I've bought literally dozens of items for her. There's probably 50 pairs of panties in her drawer right now, to say nothing of other things. It's not practical stuff I admit...but when you've agreed to be with one woman, variety is a good thing.
  • Cali_Chica
    Cali_Chica Posts: 895 Member
    I've bought literally dozens of items for her. There's probably 50 pairs of panties in her drawer right now, to say nothing of other things. It's not practical stuff I admit...but when you've agreed to be with one woman, variety is a good thing.

    Awesomeness :drinker:
  • wjstoj
    wjstoj Posts: 884 Member
    Sexy lingerie is 95% of my lingerie wardrobe. :blushing:

    I wear it because it makes me feel good. :smokin:

    And when my man buys it for me well, ........BONEUS!!! :drinker:

    Shelly....you spelled BONUS wrong......oooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh I get it now :P
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
    I hate lingerie.

    When he is willing to dress up in a suit for me, I'll be ready to wear slinky stuff for him.

    Edited for grammatical error
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    I generally just buy my own, but I'd think it was sweet if someone else bought it for me.
  • Saucy_lil_Minx
    Saucy_lil_Minx Posts: 3,302 Member
    I love to get things like that from my hubby! Let's me know he still fantasizes about what I'm wearing underneath it all!:blushing: :blushing:


    MizTerry mine does put on a suit, and tie for me often!:blushing: :blushing:
  • Iron_Lotus
    Iron_Lotus Posts: 2,295 Member
    Tell her to be grateful jeeze!
  • AlongCame_Molly
    AlongCame_Molly Posts: 2,835 Member
    I would love to be bought lingerie, just not as a birthday/anniversary/Christmas gift. "Here, honey, happy birthday! Now go put this on for me."

    It's not really a gift for me then, in that case.
  • ShellyBell999
    ShellyBell999 Posts: 1,482 Member
    Sexy lingerie is 95% of my lingerie wardrobe. :blushing:

    I wear it because it makes me feel good. :smokin:

    And when my man buys it for me well, ........BONEUS!!! :drinker:

    Shelly....you spelled BONUS wrong......oooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh I get it now :P

    Yes, that's why I needed to edit :wink:
  • emirror
    emirror Posts: 842 Member
    Depends on what it is... a new bra and panty set? That's more for me.

    Full body fishnet that he can rip off (literally)? That's for both of us. :wink:
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    I think it's adorable.
  • MysteriousMerlin
    MysteriousMerlin Posts: 2,270 Member
    My husband is more of a prude than I am, but he has bought me some in the past and will occasionally ask if I will wear it. It makes me all giggly :blushing: He's such a sweetheart :smooched:
  • Saucy_lil_Minx
    Saucy_lil_Minx Posts: 3,302 Member
    Sexy lingerie is 95% of my lingerie wardrobe. :blushing:

    I wear it because it makes me feel good. :smokin:

    And when my man buys it for me well, ........BONEUS!!! :drinker:

    Shelly....you spelled BONUS wrong......oooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh I get it now :P

    Yes, that's why I needed to edit :wink:




    HEEE HEEEEE heee!!

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