What Are Your First Date Deal Breakers?

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soldiergrl_101
soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
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Hey everyone, I am going into the dating scene again for the first time in 5 years (needless to say I am out of practice). So I was just curious what everyone's deal breakers were on a first date. What would keep you from agreeing to have a second date?
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  • vtmoon
    vtmoon Posts: 3,436 Member
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    Hygiene and Manners.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
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    Ha-ha ya Hygiene is pretty bad

    Lying
    Anger
    jobless (or overall bum like qualities)

    would be deal breakers for me
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    Nose picking.
  • BeachIron
    BeachIron Posts: 6,490 Member
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    No sex
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    No sex

    ^^

    Though on my next first date, I'm going to refuse to have sex. I wanna see what that is like.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    bad breath. crass humor at my expense. presumptuous about sex. no spark.
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  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    No sex

    ^^

    Though on my next first date, I'm going to refuse to have sex. I wanna see what that is like.

    what if she doesn't even try, you gonna wait till whatever date that happens on and then refuse?

    *blinks* Don't be ridiculous.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
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    Ha-ha ya Hygiene is pretty bad

    Lying
    Anger
    jobless (or overall bum like qualities)

    would be deal breakers for me

    these are so funny considering my current circumstances LOL.

    Lying is par for the course with men I go out with. it's a requirement, lol.
    Anger is to be expected occasionally.
    jobless can be a hiatus or between projects. LOL all non issues. it's funny to read these and see such differences.

    Your right it is, there should be no need to see anger on a first date so if they dont handle a scenario where they get upset well thats a red flag for me. Been in too many abusive relationships

    As for the lying and job issues....my soon to be ex husband was a lying leach, not doing that again haha
  • BeachIron
    BeachIron Posts: 6,490 Member
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    No sex


    ahahaha. we said the opposite/same. no date two. fo sho

    Not even a feelsies?
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    No sex

    ^^

    Though on my next first date, I'm going to refuse to have sex. I wanna see what that is like.

    what if she doesn't even try, you gonna wait till whatever date that happens on and then refuse?

    *blinks* Don't be ridiculous.

    did you get somthing in yer eye?

    Why would I go out on a date with a girl that doesn't want to sleep with me?
  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
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    Refusing to have sex with me
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
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    No sex

    ^^

    Though on my next first date, I'm going to refuse to have sex. I wanna see what that is like.

    what if she doesn't even try, you gonna wait till whatever date that happens on and then refuse?

    *blinks* Don't be ridiculous.

    did you get somthing in yer eye?

    Why would I go out on a date with a girl that doesn't want to sleep with me?

    And why would you go on a second date with a girl who already gave you everything she had on the first date, including herpes lol
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
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    No sex

    ^^

    Though on my next first date, I'm going to refuse to have sex. I wanna see what that is like.

    The question is...would you be a tease about it :devil:
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
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    No sex

    ^^

    Though on my next first date, I'm going to refuse to have sex. I wanna see what that is like.

    what if she doesn't even try, you gonna wait till whatever date that happens on and then refuse?

    *blinks* Don't be ridiculous.

    did you get somthing in yer eye?

    Why would I go out on a date with a girl that doesn't want to sleep with me?

    And why would you go on a second date with a girl who already gave you everything she had on the first date, including herpes lol

    Why would you assume she automatically has a STD?
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    No sex

    ^^

    Though on my next first date, I'm going to refuse to have sex. I wanna see what that is like.

    The question is...would you be a tease about it :devil:

    Oh God yes. I'd torment the hell out of her.
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
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    No sex

    ^^

    Though on my next first date, I'm going to refuse to have sex. I wanna see what that is like.

    The question is...would you be a tease about it :devil:

    Oh God yes. I'd torment the hell out of her.

    :mad: :love: :grumble: :explode: :smokin: :devil: :drinker: :heart: :smooched:

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