My fiance can be such a jerk sometimes

bethkrusac

Maybe he's worried about your safety? Just a thought...

Could you compromise and still go running when you want, but take extra safety precautions with you or have him go with you instead.

Off topic, but it sounds like you need to have a talk with him. If you're having trust issues at this point, marriage will be much worse!

April_KT

Just break up.

I think that might be the answer.

I forgot to add that once we went to the grocery store together and after we left he said something about how he thought the cashier was pretty. He says things like that, which obviously means he thinks I'm fat and ugly, and then won't even support me running at night in the projects.

Are you a troll?

Is this a joke?

this as well! obvious trolling

PennyM140

Mine reminded me to look out for bears just before I went out the door the other night, like this "don't let the bear get you"
Sweet huh?

QuietBloom

Buy yourself a tazer. ZAP!

rml_16

Mine reminded me to look out for bears just before I went out the door the other night, like this "don't let the bear get you"
Sweet huh?

I like to play with the bears.

1PatientBear

Mine reminded me to look out for bears just before I went out the door the other night, like this "don't let the bear get you"
Sweet huh?

I like to play with the bears.

<---- is a bear

Mia_RagazzaTosta

Mine reminded me to look out for bears just before I went out the door the other night, like this "don't let the bear get you"
Sweet huh?

I like to play with the bears.

<---- is a bear

On my way to play

arrseegee

He doesn't want you running near the projects at night and that's because of his insecurity??? Uh, no. Sounds to me like he just wants you to be safe. Is there somewhere else you can run that isn't near the projects? Can you stick to the treadmill until daylight savings time starts? Could you run during lunch? Sorry OP, but if I was in your fiance's situation, I would likely feel the same way.

I'm not going to change my workout routine just to make him happy!

Sounds like you have got a great handle on that whole 'compromising to make your relationship work' thing, huh.

arrseegee

Haha just read the rest of this, great troll!

butterfli7o

Just break up.

I think that might be the answer.

I forgot to add that once we went to the grocery store together and after we left he said something about how he thought the cashier was pretty. He says things like that, which obviously means he thinks I'm fat and ugly, and then won't even support me running at night in the projects.

Ha... please tell me this is a joke.

This. :huh: Seriously. OP if this is for real, you seem incredibly insecure. The projects don't sound very safe to me. And you get that flipped out about him saying someone is pretty?

rml_16

He doesn't want you running near the projects at night and that's because of his insecurity??? Uh, no. Sounds to me like he just wants you to be safe. Is there somewhere else you can run that isn't near the projects? Can you stick to the treadmill until daylight savings time starts? Could you run during lunch? Sorry OP, but if I was in your fiance's situation, I would likely feel the same way.

I'm not going to change my workout routine just to make him happy!

Sounds like you have got a great handle on that whole 'compromising to make your relationship work' thing, huh.

Thank you!

mbts08

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I think that might be the answer.

I forgot to add that once we went to the grocery store together and after we left he said something about how he thought the cashier was pretty. He says things like that, which obviously means he thinks I'm fat and ugly, and then won't even support me running at night in the projects.
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I would NOT put up with my bf telling me someone else is pretty like that!:mad:

sarainiowa

Far be it from me to judge anyone's relationship. However, I think it's about where you're planning to run. he clearly thinks it's not safe. Maybe you should look into a gym membership or finding a place such as a school or indoor track to run at until the days are longer.

He wants you safe. The whole rest of your post about his insecurities could be your thoughts, not his...

CaitlinW19

Borrow a friends dog or something to go for a run...I agree with everyone else that's said it really sounds like he is worried about your safety. However, since you feel that he is trying to keep you down (right or wrong as you maybe about that), you probably should end the relationship.

If you are right, then he is a jerk (but you still should still consider finding a safer way to exersice, whether it's carrying mace, getting a running buddy or going to kick boxing class or something instead).

If you are wrong, you are kind of the jerk and don't deserve the guy that puts your safety above your physical apperance.

It's not for any of us to know which of the above is the case, but it is ONE of the above and either way it doesn't sound like a match made in heaven.

Tabitha_Faye

Wait... So, you two are engaged? Please just break it off now. This dude is legitimately looking out for your safety, as he should, being that he is your fiancé, and you think he is trying to sabotage your weight loss? Oh and the jealousy issues? This is just a future marriage asking for a divorce.

k8blujay2

Would it make your fiance feel better if you got your CHL... Stand your ground is the it thing after all...

butterfli7o

Haha just read the rest of this, great troll!

Dammit, I fell into the troll trap too...

Mia_RagazzaTosta

Wait... So, you two are engaged? Please just break it off now. This dude is legitimately looking out for your safety, as he should, being that he is your fiancé, and you think he is trying to sabotage your weight loss? Oh and the jealousy issues? This is just a future marriage asking for a divorce.

spicy618

Nice try.

selfepidemic1

Hes concerned for your safety. Thats all.

obrientp

Tell him to stop looking at pretty cashiers and to go running with you.

tlcarolinagirl

Love the trolls. Get you worked up.

OllyReeves

well at least running in the projects will guarantee a personal best....

horndave

Well played.

veggie_rachel

It sounds like maybe there's more to this story... When he mentions another woman is pretty, does that really mean that he thinks you're fat and ugly in comparison? When he asks you not to run at night in a potentially dangerous area, does that really mean he doesn't support you? It sounds like he's concerned for your safety to me. And the comment about the cashier doesn't sound backhanded or mean. I understand that you don't like your man looking at other women, but I think how you translated his comment is a bit extreme. If you're not happy, let the relationship go, but it doesn't sound to me like these things equal an angry or unsupportive partner.

sevsmom

So many eager people....so easily misled.

AlanByam

He doesn't want you running near the projects at night and that's because of his insecurity??? Uh, no. Sounds to me like he just wants you to be safe. Is there somewhere else you can run that isn't near the projects? Can you stick to the treadmill until daylight savings time starts? Could you run during lunch? Sorry OP, but if I was in your fiance's situation, I would likely feel the same way.

I'm not going to change my workout routine just to make him happy!

Sounds like you have got a great handle on that whole 'compromising to make your relationship work' thing, huh.

Thank you!

sarcasm fail

leannems

Haha just read the rest of this, great troll!

Is it? IS IT??

Whambam087

So you are not the least bit concerned about running in the dark in a risky area? Your own safety doesn't cross your mind?

firstsip

Wait a minute...