what women shouldn't do on the first date...

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harderpa
harderpa Posts: 153 Member
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  • creativerick
    creativerick Posts: 270 Member
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    talk about the ex...

    ask super personal questions right away...

    expect the guy to pay...
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
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    not be ready when we pick you up, especially if it's a time sensitive date like dinner reservations.
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
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    ...spontaneously combust.

    that puts a damper on the WHOLE evening whenever that happens. :frown:
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
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  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
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    In.
  • Ed98043
    Ed98043 Posts: 1,333 Member
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    expect the guy to pay...

    Because nothing's classier than a guy asking a woman out for a first date and then expecting to divvy things up when the check comes.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
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    Bring your kids if you haven't told the guy about them first. So rude. My mother used to do this... It was awkward as hell for my sister and I.

    Big no no.
  • V0lver
    V0lver Posts: 915 Member
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    not put out! hello! i opened doors, payed for dinner and wine, the whole shebang. The least you can do is put out.:wink:
  • LongIsland27itl
    LongIsland27itl Posts: 365 Member
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    Keep messing with your phone(FB/TXT)
    talk about how you date a lot
    Talk about how men are interchangeable
    Talk about ex's
    Keep messing with your phone
    act nervous
    Try to pay for your own drinks/food
  • FearlessEquestrian
    FearlessEquestrian Posts: 113 Member
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    Bring your kids if you haven't told the guy about them first. So rude. My mother used to do this... It was awkward as hell for my sister and I.

    Big no no.

    Are you serious??? That is pretty crazy! Poor you and your sister! No offence to your mother or anything, but that is crazy :smile:
  • Patovader
    Patovader Posts: 439 Member
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    Every guy is different, I don't think there is a definitive list of do's and don’ts, just relax and go with the flow.

    A :)

    Ps, talking about what colour your bridesmaid dresses will be on the wedding may fall into the don’ts category lol
  • FearlessEquestrian
    FearlessEquestrian Posts: 113 Member
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    Keep messing with your phone(FB/TXT)
    talk about how you date a lot
    Talk about blow men are interchangeable
    Talk about ex's
    Keep messing with your phone
    act nervous
    Try to pay for your own drinks/food

    Act nervous? Are you meaning someone who is obviously faking it? Because some girls do have nerve issues :wink:
  • PatheticNoetic
    PatheticNoetic Posts: 905 Member
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    not put out! hello! i opened doors, payed for dinner and wine, the whole shebang. The least you can do is put out.:wink:

    i'll put you out the door
  • arwacky
    arwacky Posts: 1,653
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    Keep messing with your phone(FB/TXT)
    talk about how you date a lot
    Talk about blow men are interchangeable
    Talk about ex's
    Keep messing with your phone
    act nervous
    Try to pay for your own drinks/food

    Act nervous? Are you meaning someone who is obviously faking it? Because some girls do have nerve issues :wink:

    And trying to pay for my food/drinks? I think it's only good natured to offer. It's the least I could do...what's wrong with that?
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
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    expect the guy to pay...

    Because nothing's classier than a guy asking a woman out for a first date and then expecting to divvy things up when the check comes.

    it's 2014. lots of women have jobs now, so i hear. some even drive.

    the guy didn't say "go halvsies." he said "expect the guy to pay." so ladies, offer to pay. offer. do you know how awesome that is for us when you even just offer to pay??

    but you know, if the girl insists on buying expensive food and drinks or whatever, she should definitely throw down some cash. like a whole "let me get this round" is really really nice.
  • V0lver
    V0lver Posts: 915 Member
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    not put out! hello! i opened doors, payed for dinner and wine, the whole shebang. The least you can do is put out.:wink:

    i'll put you out the door

    that was uncalled for :(
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  • Claire_x90
    Claire_x90 Posts: 94
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    Don't be rude
    Don't sleep with him
    Don't talk about your ex
    Don't assault him with contact the few days after
  • PatheticNoetic
    PatheticNoetic Posts: 905 Member
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    The foo foo etiquette people say that the general rule of thumb is that the person who asks accepts the cost of the date. However, it is seen as good manners for the one asked to offer to pay which is then denied by the asker.
    You picking up what I'm puttin down?
  • PatheticNoetic
    PatheticNoetic Posts: 905 Member
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    not put out! hello! i opened doors, payed for dinner and wine, the whole shebang. The least you can do is put out.:wink:

    i'll put you out the door

    that was uncalled for :(
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    nawww.
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
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    Don't sleep with him

    what? how can this ruin a date? this can only enhance the date.

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