need some help from pervy looks!

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  • obsidianwings
    obsidianwings Posts: 1,237 Member
    Get yourself a case of *****y resting face. I never get looked at :P
  • tavenne323
    tavenne323 Posts: 332 Member
    I flaunt it.
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  • Im sorry, i lost weight so i can feel good about myself, im not the kind that likes to dress up and show cleavage and whatnot, i guess i just need a tougher skin, its just the looks tat make ur skin crawl like someone undressing you, idk,

    To all those who do not know the difference between an admiring look and a lingering predatory look that makes your skin crawl; there is a difference.

    Also, lets all look at the context. Hay River, NT has a population of appx 3,600 people and an average daily high temperature of 36ºF. In colder climates it is not customary to wear "skimpy" clothes. I doubt anyone there is "flaunting it". Perhaps read about the OP before bashing her for "body image" or "confidence issues".
  • I have realized that men (and women) are going to look no matter what. Sometimes pervy and sometimes not. At times this can be a little flattering but I am mostly too busy working out to really give it much thought. I actually get more compliments and looks from women than I do from men.
  • PghPensFan69
    PghPensFan69 Posts: 2,393 Member
    I have realized that men (and women) are going to look no matter what. Sometimes pervy and sometimes not. At times this can be a little flattering but I am mostly too busy working out to really give it much thought. I actually get more compliments and looks from women than I do from men.

    Add one to the men's column.

    :love: :love: :love:
  • Srarojas
    Srarojas Posts: 170 Member
    I don't understand this question at all... Men and woman are going to admire your results. I even had a little girl at the gym walk by when I was doing pull ups last night and said, "Oh wow, you are such a buff girl." It made me so happy! Just think of whom you might be inspiring without even saying anything. To me, it's a great feeling :)
  • GBrady43068
    GBrady43068 Posts: 1,256 Member
    Can we clarify what a "pervy look" is?

    I just want to make sure I'm doing it right when I objectify a hot guy.

    My guess is with an awful creepy grin while rubbing their stomach and moaning....but that's just my guess....or they may just be thinking about bacon, in that case the scenario isn't creepy/pervy at all
    And now I want bacon....
  • megluvsvb
    megluvsvb Posts: 190 Member
    I get that too... my advice is to simply dress modestly... thats all you can really do. But don't think of it as a punishment! ..Rock that bod!
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    I've been in good shape for most of my life and I don't get pervy looks. Maybe I'm putting out a scary vibe. I guess I could just be hideous, or maybe I just don't notice them.

    Perhaps you've been getting "pervy" looks all along but just weren't paying attention because you didn't feel deserving of interest before. Now that you've lost some weight you may have a different perception of yourself. I think you are too self conscious. Ignore the pervs.
  • cklbrown
    cklbrown Posts: 4,696 Member
    Never get pervy looks only pervy Pm's. :(
  • mudknuckles
    mudknuckles Posts: 1,417 Member
    sorry