What is the one thing you can not over look when dating?

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  • The_Aly_Wei
    The_Aly_Wei Posts: 844 Member
    extreme machismo! ugh:noway:

    A man must be a MAN

    If u don't like it , date a female

    Nailed it.
  • Docmahi
    Docmahi Posts: 1,603 Member
    being a biotch to my bros - that ish wont fly
  • smelius22
    smelius22 Posts: 334 Member
    I wouldn't date a man if he smoked, drank to excess, had a drug problem, was unemployed, had kids, was divorced, didn't own a car, or didn't live on his own (whether that be an apartment or house).

    Luckily I don't have to worry about it because I have my perfect match.
  • smelius22
    smelius22 Posts: 334 Member
    Someone who was conservative/Republican.

    That definitely can't work.

    +1
  • hopefaithlove24
    hopefaithlove24 Posts: 454 Member
    nose picking - can't over look it.

    ^^^ THIS and unemployment, and being divorced... and nose picking... owh nose picking is a big one! Problem is I fell for that one already
  • nicolabarratt267
    nicolabarratt267 Posts: 64
    Height. I will never and have never dated a man who is shorter than me (5'7).
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  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member


    You know, I do hate the smoking. But my fiance is a smoker (which I'm not happy about, but I love him, so ...) and you wouldn't know it unless you actually saw the cigarettes. He doesn't smell like he smokes at all, his breath is fine and I never taste it on him. Of course, he NEVER smokes inside. Neither of us wants to live in a stinky house.

    I think if we split up, though, I wouldn't date another smoker. At this point, it's about the future health concerns more than anything else. A good friend of his died from lung cancer a few years ago, but that wasn't enough incentive to get him to quit. :-/

    I felt similarly about my ex's smoking. He was a lot like your fiancé - I never smelled it on him, he took care of his teeth, he didn't smoke indoors or in the car, and when we were out in a restaurant or at the movies he had no problem at all with going many hours w/o a cigarette. We sometimes went out with another couple who were both smokers and they would be jonesing for a cigarette every 15-20 min and I thought, man...if my partner was a smoker to that level there's just NO WAY...

    I'm so happy my husband has never smoked and lives a very healthy life, though! :-)
  • Thatsdatdiva601
    Thatsdatdiva601 Posts: 209 Member
    No job
    No respect
    Poor hygiene
    SMOKER

    That was my top 4....I've now been married 4 years next month....so glad I no longer have to pull out my check list!
  • RayF24
    RayF24 Posts: 564 Member
    yellow teeth
  • willdb76
    willdb76 Posts: 41
    What really turns me off in a date is the sense they have some preconceived list of attributes I am being measured up against.

    ;P
  • bigbarnold
    bigbarnold Posts: 2,554 Member
    bigger arms than me..
  • MJC360
    MJC360 Posts: 368
    Being a prostitute thats hooked on crack. I don't think I could be cool with that, because she'd have to work all the time to support her habit so I'd never see her and she'd never be in the mood when I did get time with her.
  • bigbarnold
    bigbarnold Posts: 2,554 Member
    piercing overload. lip, cheek, eyebrow, chin, eyelid, neck, nose, etc.. some is ok just not overdone
  • howcanthatbetakenalready
    howcanthatbetakenalready Posts: 107 Member
    Dancing around in a bathrobe. Tucking. Keeping me in a basement cistern and yelling at me to put the lotion on my skin.

    :laugh:
  • smelius22
    smelius22 Posts: 334 Member
    piercing overload. lip, cheek, eyebrow, chin, eyelid, neck, nose, etc.. some is ok just not overdone

    Oh yes this too. I don't really like facial piercings, especially on men. a small nose stud looks cute on a girl
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  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    If they've murdered someone. I'm not sure I could be with someone like that. Maybe if they were hot. I'd probably turn them in eventually during a fight or something.

    How would you know?
  • spg71
    spg71 Posts: 179 Member
    They think the latest Star Wars movies are good and "cool"
    Dizzyness, i really dont care if you wear black/red/pink or blue pants etc.
    It hair, everyone has there is no need to spend 5000000hrs on styling it or spending £4000000 on haircut.
  • sugarkissprincess
    sugarkissprincess Posts: 2,595 Member
    Constantly having smelly breath
  • cursiny
    cursiny Posts: 907 Member
    BUMP
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    they still live at home with mommy.
  • Just_Bella
    Just_Bella Posts: 78
    Drug addict or alcoholic
  • Mr_Excitement
    Mr_Excitement Posts: 833 Member
    I'm actually fine with smelly since I can't smell many things. I had my nose broken several times and it doesn't work very well anymore. :P
  • Phenylethylamine_Phreak
    Phenylethylamine_Phreak Posts: 2,211 Member
    insecurity, drinking to excess.
  • sugarkissprincess
    sugarkissprincess Posts: 2,595 Member
    Bad breath..... every day! :noway:
  • HM1971
    HM1971 Posts: 63 Member
    Bad teeth or wear flip flops. I'm beginning to overlook the flip flop thing, but definately not with jeans......
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  • sewerchick93
    sewerchick93 Posts: 1,438 Member
    bad teeth and bad breath
  • kwiatrtdy
    kwiatrtdy Posts: 383 Member
    I used to date a homophobic neo-nazi smoker... who wore skinny jeans. I don't think you can get much worse than that. His ringtone should have given it away really- it was one of Hitler's speeches and when I introduced him to my gay friend he said it was like meeting a unicorn as gay people "don't exist" in Romania (where he was from).

    Safe to say that relationship ended abruptly when I discovered what he was really like.

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