We're all a little shallow...

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  • lovekohl
    lovekohl Posts: 111 Member
    I want to feel good enough about myself to quit being self-conscious around my boyfriend. Two kids and a desk job will made me lose my self confidence.
  • beth4dieting3
    beth4dieting3 Posts: 80 Member
    My ex boyfriend dumped me on 2/13 (right, the night before Valentine's) for his ex gf who is 6 years older than I am, very skinny, horse face, mean, rude and psychotic. (More than one person has asked me, "has she attacked you yet?") The thing that sucks is that I am totally in love with him so this was crushing. She called me a "Fat, pscho W" (you fill in the blank). I haven't seen him since 2/12/14. I'd like to make sure when I do see him, that I look fantastic.
  • _lyndseybrooke_
    _lyndseybrooke_ Posts: 2,561 Member
    I want to put on a bikini and feel hot in it - or, at least good if not hot. And I want to be able to get intimate with my husband without feeling like my belly is jiggling. I want to feel attractive and be able to take control and shock the hell out of that boy. :)
  • Lifelink
    Lifelink Posts: 193 Member
    Because who wants to be some fat, weak loser anyways?

    Yeah, I just went there.
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    My shallow reason; I want to look in the mirror and think daaaayum. Oh, and to be the hottest girlfriend my man has had.

    I like the fact when you leave- you know SOMEONE said- "daayum man- she's banging"

    that makes me feel good too.
  • mschicagocubs
    mschicagocubs Posts: 774 Member
    I want people to be like "Damn...Colleen looks like that, now? AND she has a 4 year old."

    But also ... I want my boyfriend to show me off.
  • tibby531
    tibby531 Posts: 717 Member
    plus size clothing costs more. so I want to be in "regular" sizes, saving monies, and be able to buy ALL THE CLOTHES!

    ALL THE CLOTHES!
  • SillaWinchester
    SillaWinchester Posts: 363 Member
    Well yes, my main reasons are that my mom has diabetes and I've got a good change of contracting it if this weight doesn't come off and I want to be able to run without feeling tired.

    But also... just recently I lost the guy of my dreams to another girl. She was his ex and he ended things with me because he was still in love with her. Blah blah blah, he chose her instead of me - that's all my relationships ever are.. they always go for the cute skinny girls and tell me that I'm an amazing friend with an awesome personality. Well you know what? I want to go back to my high schools 10 year reunion, see the boys who broke my heart (and the catty girls who made fun of me) and watch them spit out their water or something cause "dang, she got hot!"

    :)
  • SGM_Adonis
    SGM_Adonis Posts: 1,565 Member
    Not me. I'm not shallow at all.





    M.F.P. Hottest Person/M.F.P. Most awesome person
    Ice cream afficionado
    "Winning" Certified Instructor
    Been in gifs for 2 years and have studied custom gif creation
    jac-mr-mfp-o.gif

    Jac....I want your "MFP Hottest Person" title. We need to have a new MFP Beauty Pageant.
  • Not me. I'm not shallow at all.





    M.F.P. Hottest Person/M.F.P. Most awesome person
    Ice cream afficionado
    "Winning" Certified Instructor
    Been in gifs for 2 years and have studied custom gif creation
    jac-mr-mfp-o.gif

    Jac....I want your "MFP Hottest Person" title. We need to have a new MFP Beauty Pageant.

    Hahaha can I judge???
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    Not me. I'm not shallow at all.





    M.F.P. Hottest Person/M.F.P. Most awesome person
    Ice cream afficionado
    "Winning" Certified Instructor
    Been in gifs for 2 years and have studied custom gif creation
    jac-mr-mfp-o.gif

    Jac....I want your "MFP Hottest Person" title. We need to have a new MFP Beauty Pageant.

    I think that's a good idea..I retired though. It's not fair to the other contestants. I will totally vote for you though.
  • SGM_Adonis
    SGM_Adonis Posts: 1,565 Member
    Not me. I'm not shallow at all.





    M.F.P. Hottest Person/M.F.P. Most awesome person
    Ice cream afficionado
    "Winning" Certified Instructor
    Been in gifs for 2 years and have studied custom gif creation
    jac-mr-mfp-o.gif

    Jac....I want your "MFP Hottest Person" title. We need to have a new MFP Beauty Pageant.

    I think that's a good idea..I retired though. It's not fair to the other contestants. I will totally vote for you though.

    No no no. I want to take the title from you, not be "awarded" it.
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    For all of the people who want to go back and wow some ex, or former crush, or person who messed around on you years ago...

    I'm not saying that's wrong, or bad.

    But WHY!?!??

    Most likely, even if they see you looking smoking hot they'll still be a jerk and maybe even feel flattered that you changed "for them" or to impress them. Eww.

    I dunno. But me personally...I am happily married, but if I was single right now, I'd rather wow the NEW guys I met with my present/future "most fantastic" self...not some loser from the past.

    Is that just me?
  • RockWarrior84
    RockWarrior84 Posts: 840 Member
    I want to be:
    the hot wife
    the hot nurse
    the hot redhead in a bikini
    the hot friend
    and the pretty bridesmaid this summer.

    you are :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • asdowe13
    asdowe13 Posts: 1,951 Member
    I'm done with being the token fat guy in the group!
  • chasetwins
    chasetwins Posts: 702 Member
    I want to be Cat Woman for Halloween and be sexy as hell doing it!! :happy:

    Course I have wanted to do that for years.., I am betting by the time I can..I won't want to anymore. So Next shallow reason: Make my husband's friends even more jealous of him
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    I've had a pretty good body most of my life, been up and down with my weight but usually in the "acceptable" range. To be honest, the primary reason I want to have my best body is because it makes me more able to be as mobile as possible, with as few limitations physically as possible. Being strong is a challenge, and I'm trying to keep that as long as I can. If I can keep looking good while I do that, that's a bonus. Plus it's nice to not look sick when you are sick; the longer I can go without people giving me pitying looks, the happier i am.
  • grniis
    grniis Posts: 5
    Like everyone else mentioned, that unsuspecting moment that I may run into my ex.
  • cheekymcgee
    cheekymcgee Posts: 140
    I want people to say, "Damn!! There's no way she has three kids!"
  • Crimson_Fire
    Crimson_Fire Posts: 2,504 Member
    I want to be:
    the hot wife
    the hot nurse
    the hot redhead in a bikini
    the hot friend
    and the pretty bridesmaid this summer.

    you are :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
    aww! :blushing: thanks sweet friend!
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    I am a bombshell

    & its time I accept that ... no matter what weight I am
  • MysteriousMerlin
    MysteriousMerlin Posts: 2,270 Member
    I want muscles
    I want to look good in a skirt
    I want my husband to see a healthy, fit wife

    My ultra-vain reason is because I want my husband to be able to pick me up in his arms :blushing:
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    Not me. I'm not shallow at all.





    M.F.P. Hottest Person/M.F.P. Most awesome person
    Ice cream afficionado
    "Winning" Certified Instructor
    Been in gifs for 2 years and have studied custom gif creation
    jac-mr-mfp-o.gif

    Jac....I want your "MFP Hottest Person" title. We need to have a new MFP Beauty Pageant.

    I think that's a good idea..I retired though. It's not fair to the other contestants. I will totally vote for you though.

    No no no. I want to take the title from you, not be "awarded" it.

    We'll make up a special runner up title for you and everything. It will still be very special.
  • ModernNerd
    ModernNerd Posts: 336 Member
    to be the "hot engineering girl" in my classes :bigsmile:

    Pretty sure you would already be a hot girl in any class. Engineering just makes it a larger differential.

    Haha agreed!! One of my brothers is an engineer... He didn't have ANY girls in his classes in college!! HIGH FIVE girl! That's awesome!

    :blushing: well thank you much
  • SGM_Adonis
    SGM_Adonis Posts: 1,565 Member
    Not me. I'm not shallow at all.





    M.F.P. Hottest Person/M.F.P. Most awesome person
    Ice cream afficionado
    "Winning" Certified Instructor
    Been in gifs for 2 years and have studied custom gif creation
    jac-mr-mfp-o.gif

    Jac....I want your "MFP Hottest Person" title. We need to have a new MFP Beauty Pageant.

    I think that's a good idea..I retired though. It's not fair to the other contestants. I will totally vote for you though.

    No no no. I want to take the title from you, not be "awarded" it.

    We'll make up a special runner up title for you and everything. It will still be very special.

    Can I have my own GIF?
  • RllyGudTweetr
    RllyGudTweetr Posts: 2,019 Member
    Having pecs rather than moobs seems a reasonable goal.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Having pecs rather than moobs seems a reasonable goal.
    :laugh:

    Defo.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    I like to be able to wipe my own butt, and cut my own toenails.
  • AddieOverhaul
    AddieOverhaul Posts: 734 Member
    I want to be able to wear anything and feel hot in it, even a bikini. I also have a couple of very close friends who are quite thin, and I don't want to be the chubby one when we go to the beach. I want people to think "those girls are hot" and me be included.

    Also, my ex used to call me fat when he got mad (part of why I dumped his as$) and it wouldn't hurt for him to see me looking so much better and know he can never have me again!

    (But my main reasons are health and getting fitter to be able to do harder hikes).
  • lucille_heather
    lucille_heather Posts: 650 Member
    to tone up more and feel incredibly healthy.
    also to be able to feel absolutely sexy in my bikini and lingerie