Being hit on/flirted with?

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  • palmerddj
    palmerddj Posts: 59 Member
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    You should be getting flirted with.....:wink:
  • mlanders22
    mlanders22 Posts: 140 Member
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    cannot remember the last time I was hit on or flirted with actually

    ^This
  • FitGal4ever42
    FitGal4ever42 Posts: 265 Member
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    You should be getting flirted with.....:wink:

    How you doin ? :tongue:
  • ttknowles01
    ttknowles01 Posts: 255 Member
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    I'm completely oblivious to it. It usually takes me a while to realize that someone may have been flirting with me, and by then it's too late lol *hangs head in shame*
  • Kitten2629
    Kitten2629 Posts: 1,358 Member
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    It can be flattering, but I don't take it seriously :) I just smile and move on.
  • Trechechus
    Trechechus Posts: 2,819 Member
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    I'm too thick to notice when I'm being hit on, most of the time. I have to be told outright.
  • stunningalmond
    stunningalmond Posts: 275 Member
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    A man at the grocery store smiling at me and saying hello - flattering.
    A creep honking/hooting at me when I'm running - sleazy.

    Depends totally on the situation. :)
  • mstaser
    mstaser Posts: 657 Member
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    Its a compliment
  • notamoment
    notamoment Posts: 190 Member
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    Doesnt bother me, not in the slightest bit.
  • ilfaith
    ilfaith Posts: 16,769 Member
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    I am a soccer mom in my mid 40s...any time it happens, I am going to be flattered.
  • Phoenix__Rising
    Phoenix__Rising Posts: 9,981 Member
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    I am a soccer mom in my mid 40s...any time it happens, I am going to be flattered.

    I agree with ilfaith.[I'm no soccer mom though. :) ]
    Its flattery. Well earned for those who are taking good care too!
    Heck, I like it. :)
  • moya_rargh
    moya_rargh Posts: 1,473 Member
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    Hahahahaha! In my DREAMS!!!!
  • jacques57
    jacques57 Posts: 2,129 Member
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    As a married middle-aged guy with 4 daughters, I can see the point of posters saying that me flirting is wrong and unacceptable.

    But...

    it generates a smile and reinforces self-esteem. So long as it stops with that smile and feeling of self-esteem and goes no further, we are flirting, not soliciting. I have received 2-3 complements over the years, and they made my day. I didn't ask anyone out for a drink.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
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    Replying to this just to be flirted with. :wink:

    I find it flattering mostly but sometimes also can get creepy .. just depends on who is doing it.

    As soon as I see you walk into the club, I'ma flirt.
  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
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    The day all that stops is going to be a very sad day indeed. :sad:
  • MystikPixie
    MystikPixie Posts: 342 Member
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    I'll let you know when it happens.
  • oboneadams
    oboneadams Posts: 47
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    no problems with it, good for the self esteem.
  • MelisMusing
    MelisMusing Posts: 421 Member
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    It depends. If he can make me smile and laugh, it's all good. If its just pervy lemme git some bs, I can do without thanks.
  • Aliciaaah
    Aliciaaah Posts: 379 Member
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    I love it. Because it NEVER happens.

    This is the third week I've gone to a particular gym in this area, and yesterday was the very first time someone other than the employees has ever said a word to me. Not that I'm there for conversation, but I'm open to it occasionally.

    I've also found that older men are much more likely to approach me. I don't know if this is anyone else's experience, but it's about 75/25 for me lol

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