Is it norm to watch porn?

_John_

Pornography creates a false ideal that can impact men psychologically and, by proxy, physiologically. It creates a feeling of extreme inadequacy due to all of the male actors having giant members, which only a small portion of the male population possess, and the extreme intensity and length of duration that the actors seem to be able to achieve. And it also teaches men to be poor lovers by rushing things, paying little attention to oral copulation, assuming every girl is always ready for backdoor, etc.

Men are essentially portrayed as a giant penis with legs, giving the impression that they dont matter and are only good for the pleasure of the female gender.

you mirin' bro?

kinkyslinky16

...paying little attention to oral copulation...

I think I love you! LOL

yankeedownsouth

In for porn...

wheird

Pornography creates a false ideal that can impact men psychologically and, by proxy, physiologically. It creates a feeling of extreme inadequacy due to all of the male actors having giant members, which only a small portion of the male population possess, and the extreme intensity and length of duration that the actors seem to be able to achieve. And it also teaches men to be poor lovers by rushing things, paying little attention to oral copulation, assuming every girl is always ready for backdoor, etc.

Men are essentially portrayed as a giant penis with legs, giving the impression that they dont matter and are only good for the pleasure of the female gender.

you mirin' bro?

I watched the video you were in. You only contribute to the problem.

TitanGM

Pornography creates a false ideal that can impact men psychologically and, by proxy, physiologically. It creates a feeling of extreme inadequacy due to all of the male actors having giant members, which only a small portion of the male population possess, and the extreme intensity and length of duration that the actors seem to be able to achieve. And it also teaches men to be poor lovers by rushing things, paying little attention to oral copulation, assuming every girl is always ready for backdoor, etc.

Men are essentially portrayed as a giant penis with legs, giving the impression that they dont matter and are only good for the pleasure of the female gender.

Well thought.

ninerbuff

That's because heterosexual porn is aimed at men. They need to make heterosexual porn aimed at women, whereby the focus is on the woman's satisfaction, but it's a man who's doing it to her.

Desperate housewives and Sex and the City. Oh wait, they're cancelled now.

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wheird

Pornography creates a false ideal that can impact men psychologically and, by proxy, physiologically. It creates a feeling of extreme inadequacy due to all of the male actors having giant members, which only a small portion of the male population possess, and the extreme intensity and length of duration that the actors seem to be able to achieve. And it also teaches men to be poor lovers by rushing things, paying little attention to oral copulation, assuming every girl is always ready for backdoor, etc.

Men are essentially portrayed as a giant penis with legs, giving the impression that they dont matter and are only good for the pleasure of the female gender.

Make me go without for 24 hours and that's pretty much dead on. :ohwell:

You make jokes, but there are male actors out there daily being told to stfu and being forcefed viagra and drugs to perform to the directors standards.

KseRz

Pornography creates a false ideal that can impact men psychologically and, by proxy, physiologically. It creates a feeling of extreme inadequacy due to all of the male actors having giant members, which only a small portion of the male population possess, and the extreme intensity and length of duration that the actors seem to be able to achieve. And it also teaches men to be poor lovers by rushing things, paying little attention to oral copulation, assuming every girl is always ready for backdoor, etc.

Men are essentially portrayed as a giant penis with legs, giving the impression that they dont matter and are only good for the pleasure of the female gender.

Make me go without for 24 hours and that's pretty much dead on. :ohwell:

You make jokes, but there are male actors out there daily being told to stfu and being forcefed viagra and drugs to perform to the directors standards.

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Oi_Sunshine

It is the norm. And it can affect intimacy adversely. Some men become addicted and find that they cannot be pleasured any other way. There are web groups where men who are trying to quit it because of that reason, get together to support each other.

My husband is a marriage counselor, who sees many couples who are having problems for this very reason.

^^^ This right here.

My husband and I do not watch it. If either of us did, the other would be incredibly hurt.

matchbox_girl

I would rather my husband watch porn than another woman. Even I watch porn sometimes. Occasionally we'll watch it together. There are sex scenes in movies that people watch every day. Porn is just a high definition sec scene.....and when my husband still wants sex from me, I'm happy.

6ronXtreme9

If you found out your spouse was watching porn without you, what would you do?
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I'd sit and watch porn too..

wheird

Pornography creates a false ideal that can impact men psychologically and, by proxy, physiologically. It creates a feeling of extreme inadequacy due to all of the male actors having giant members, which only a small portion of the male population possess, and the extreme intensity and length of duration that the actors seem to be able to achieve. And it also teaches men to be poor lovers by rushing things, paying little attention to oral copulation, assuming every girl is always ready for backdoor, etc.

Men are essentially portrayed as a giant penis with legs, giving the impression that they dont matter and are only good for the pleasure of the female gender.

Make me go without for 24 hours and that's pretty much dead on. :ohwell:

You make jokes, but there are male actors out there daily being told to stfu and being forcefed viagra and drugs to perform to the directors standards.

Magnesium

...to start a fire?

brevislux

Well, It is normal, meaning most men do it. Masturbating is normal, too. I know my man masturbates and I know he watches porn sometimes, and I accept that. It's not because I'm not enough for him or something, it's just how men are wired. I wouldn't take it personally.

However if you're concerned because of the porn industry, the false image of sex it gives people and the exploitation of the "workers" if you can call them that - I'm with you on that 100%.

TheStephil

The only issues I have with porn is:

1. If the partner watches exclusively one type of girl/guy and that doesn't match you. For example, only blondes but you are a red head. I'm not sure why it bugs me but to me it shows that they are into that type of person and you don't meet that standard.

2. If they watch porn instead of sex with you. When you aren't around and the partner wants to watch it, fine. But when you are home and they rather go watch porn instead then I see it as a problem.

IvanCasillas

It's saddening to think that pornography has become so casual and acceptable. I believe porn is a distortion of true marital love and creates a fake, comforting mirage of the genuine love we all deeply want. I know first hand the effects of porn on a personal/mental level and in a relationship. Kick the habit out love for yourself and your partner. You deserve the real deal, don't settle for the cheap counterfeit.

kinkyslinky16

Honestly, I didn't realize there were any men on this earth that didn't like porn. I am actually really impressed with you all! I admire you!

RllyGudTweetr

The only issues I have with porn is:

1. If the partner watches exclusively one type of girl/guy and that doesn't match you. For example, only blondes but you are a red head. I'm not sure why it bugs me but to me it shows that they are into that type of person and you don't meet that standard.

What if the person watches only a type of porn that you physically cannot be, like the aforementioned same-sex oriented women in this thread who prefer to watch heterosexual porn but have no interest in pursuing an intimate heterosexual relationship?

neandermagnon

It's saddening to think that pornography has become so casual and acceptable. I believe porn is a distortion of true marital love and creates a fake, comforting mirage of the genuine love we all deeply want. I know first hand the effects of porn on a personal/mental level and in a relationship. Kick the habit out love for yourself and your partner. You deserve the real deal, don't settle for the cheap counterfeit.

thing is, who decides what "true marital love" is? This is why I asked the other anti-porn person on here whether they'd studied bonobobs. The reason is that I think you guys are the ones who have a distorted view of human sexuality. Not everyone is inclined towards heterosexual monogamy. Also, it's normal to be sexually aroused by seeing others have sex. How couples deal with this is up to them, but I don't see how a married couple enjoying porn together or being fine with each other enjoying it privately while they're not around, are doing anything that is abnormal as far as human behaviour goes or anything that prevents them from having a deep, loving relationship with each other.

joolywooly33

doesn't everyone do it