Your most notable rejection

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  • TX_Thundercat
    TX_Thundercat Posts: 2,437 Member
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    I actually rehashed it while showing my DD my '78 (8th grade) yearbook. I asked a girl out to prom and instead of telling me personally, she wrote in my yearbook that she didn't want to say yes because she was hoping another guy she liked would ask her out. And it was on the first page..............................
    Needless to say, I didn't go to prom. I went to the pool hall instead and played Millipede that night.:cry:

    Okay let's hear 'em!!!

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    That girl was a great friend of mine. This thread is divisive, and offends me. Give yourself a warning please.....

    I love you.
  • QueenBishOTUniverse
    QueenBishOTUniverse Posts: 14,121 Member
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    I'm afraid I have also inadvertently been responsible for a few. Seventh grade, guy I was friends with and chatted with in math class comes up by my locker and asks me out. I start laughing hysterically. Still friends, but he'll grumble about that one to this day. I keep trying to explain to him I was so insecure at that age, I was embarrassed and sure he was just joking!

    Sophomore year another friend asks if I want to go to the movies with him. I remember thinking it was kind of odd that his dad came along..... It was probably two months later I realized he thought it was a date :embarassed: .
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,129 Member
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    Mine was in 7th grade. My friend asked my crush if he would "go out" with me, and he said yes, but only if she paid him $10. It was one of the happiest two hours ever before I found out and it became one of the worst days ever. You suck, Matt Shipman.

    For what it's worth, most Matts suck.

    Agree....most Matt's do suck...I know my ex sure as hell does :drinker:

    I knew a Matt once, and all he did was bum smokes from me, and never buy a pack. I'm on board the Matt hate train.
  • bugaboo_sue
    bugaboo_sue Posts: 552 Member
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    Sitting around with a bunch of neighborhood kids, one of which was a guy I was totally crushing on and the subject of "who out of this group would you date" came up. When it came to me all the guys looked at each other and busted out laughing. Like howling-heard-the-funniest-joke-in-the-world laughter. :cry: Then when they stopped they said "Ahhh. You're like a little sister to us." To this day I' not sure which was worse: the laughter or being considered a sister.:frown:
  • headofphat
    headofphat Posts: 1,599 Member
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    In grade school, I had a girl that I liked send me a note asking me out. A few minutes later i found out she was only doing it to get back at her ex.

    I burned her house down! What? Should I have burned down the school too?
  • mrsmitchell0510
    mrsmitchell0510 Posts: 83 Member
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    I had been rejected so many times on the dance floor that I just quit asking. So one night my buddy gives me a good one liner & I tried it.

    Me, walking up to a really hot chick at the club. The kinda girl that I realize now, who "knows she is hot" & is a b***h about it. So the music is loud & thumping, making it very hard to hear.

    Me: Hi. Would you like to dance?

    Her: As she shakes her head emphatically telling me no, while making that "I can't believe HE just asked me to dance" look at her equally attractive/unattractive friend. They both scoff, laugh & turn away.

    Me: I tap her on the shoulder & say to her even louder than before, when I asked her to dance. No, I think you misunderstood what I was saying to you. I SAID, YOU LOOK FAT IN THOSE PANTS. As I turn to walk away, my buddies are at the bar laughing their *kitten* off. When I get back to them, I turn back to where the girls were & she was visibly upset. They both then proceeded to storm out of the club. The barkeep asks me what I said to her. I told him the story & he just laughed & laughed. It turns out that she was a high ranking admirals daughter & has always expected everyone to kiss her a**. He said I was the first person to ever say something to her, enough to make her leave the club.

    This... This is fantastic! :drinker:
  • Crimson_Fire
    Crimson_Fire Posts: 2,504 Member
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    My boyfriend dumped me while we were on top of the Empire State Building in NYC...we were on a 8th grade class trip. :laugh:
  • civilizedworm
    civilizedworm Posts: 796 Member
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    Mine was in 7th grade. My friend asked my crush if he would "go out" with me, and he said yes, but only if she paid him $10. It was one of the happiest two hours ever before I found out and it became one of the worst days ever. You suck, Matt Shipman.

    For what it's worth, most Matts suck.

    Agree....most Matt's do suck...I know my ex sure as hell does :drinker:

    I knew a Matt once, and all he did was bum smokes from me, and never buy a pack. I'm on board the Matt hate train.
    Hey now!
  • I_need_moar_musclez
    I_need_moar_musclez Posts: 499 Member
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    My current one. Last summer I fell for a female friend. She was so disgusted at the thought of somebody like me being attracted to her that she still refuses to speak to or work with me now. I didn't even ask her out, she just put two and two together...and I'm still crushed by that reaction to this day. I deliberately avoid women now.
  • trojan_bb
    trojan_bb Posts: 699 Member
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    Received what amounted to a cease and desist letter after I sent a very kind, sweet, perhaps a little too open note to her stating my feelings and wanting to stay in touch. I was told we had no friendship and never would (woops, thought we were friends the week prior!) And to "cease all communications". 5 sentences that looked like they came straight from a legal office.

    lol. Definitely worthy of the title Ice Queen.
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
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    TL;DR:

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    The partial list of rejections:

    I like you like a brother.
    I like you as a friend.
    You're really sweet, but I don't like you like that.
    I'm washing my hair.
    I'm grading papers.
    You're sweet, but I was hoping to go out with your friend.
    Well, you're cute, but you'd be cuter if you lost some weight.

    When I first moved from California to Arkansas, I like a girl who lived down the road from us. She was all my 12 yr old mind could think of. I got to know her and we got to talking and we had several things in common. I was just about to ask her to some church function or school dance or whatever, but before I could, my brother told her I liked her. The next time we had an actual conversation was 6 yrs later and that was one time and very short conversation about senior/graduation related stuff. She ignored me for 6 yrs, we spoke for 15 minutes, and never again. I do get an occasion "like" on a facebook post from her though, so there's that.

    HIgh School = 90% of the rejection excuses listed above. Not one single date. However, the next year after graduation, I had at least 3 girls I was interested in, who really never paid much attention to me or acknowledge my existence, tell me that they would have gone to prom with me if I had asked them.

    Still High School - New girl started around the Jr. year. She was from California and I thought we could at have that in common. I tried to say hi and ask her how she was adjusting to living in redneck/hillbilly country. She looked at me, rolled her eyes, and walked off. Never talked to her again until about 1 yr before our 20 yr reunion (geez I'm freakin' old)...we're really close friends now.

    18 - I really liked this girl and she seemed to like me. When we finally kissed, it was on her front porch. When she went back into the house, her dad said that she could date me over his dead body. She was 16 I was 18. She told me her dad wouldn't let us date but when she turned 18 she could do what she wanted. I waited for 2 years. She turned 18, went on a date with one of my friends and then another. Nothing really mostly as friends. I finally went on a date with her, and I tried to be different than the dinner and a movie thing. I took her to eat and then to a play in the park. My friend's dad was in the play. To this day, she says it's the worst date she's ever been on. We talked about "us" that evening and I said that I wanted to be serious. She told me that she was about to go to college and that she wanted to leave her options open. I hated her from that moment on.

    20 yrs old, totally in lust with a girl one of my friends know. We were introduced, engaged in small talk for a while and I thought we hit it off. I waited a day or two then called her and asked her out for Friday night (this was a Wednesday), she literally said she was washing her hair. I said, fine...how about Saturday night...or is that the night you're going to be drying it?

    19 - 23 = More of the same as what is listed above.

    23 - Get married. She first cheats on me within 3 1/2 months, around Valentines Day. Stay "legally married" for 4 yrs. We had separated more times than I could count, got back together, separate...over and over. I stayed with her 100% for my son. We finally got a divorce after she had another guys baby and was pregnant with his second one. We got divorced because our marriage interfered with her dating life.

    23 - 34 Got really bitter about life and women. Got rejected some more...rejected some of my own.

    35 - Got married again - still married. Married the girl I waited 2 yrs for earlier who wanted to go to college and "keep her options open."
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,065 Member
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    Pizza Hut always rejects me.

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  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
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    When I was in 7th grade some girls came and told me one of the guys was going to come ask me out, but he was only doing it to turn it around on me and make fun of me.. so I rejected him first. He was pissed.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,579 Member
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    My ex-fiance broke our engagement in a letter. That I got on Valentines Day. It's been 12 years since it happened, and I still hate that day of the year.
    Damn. That was really classless. Hope that someone in your life changes that day for the better.

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  • _Tink_
    _Tink_ Posts: 3,845 Member
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    I've never asked anyone out...because I have rejection issues. O.o
  • elprincipito
    elprincipito Posts: 1,200 Member
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    i weirdly kinda asked a girl out and she said i don't know. That's probably the only time I asked a girl out. What was I thinking lol
  • Jerrypeoples
    Jerrypeoples Posts: 1,541 Member
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    the other time (though not sure it counts as a rejection) was senior year and prom coming up. my friend (least i thought she was) told me to ask the captain of the cheerleaders out that she knew she wasnt asked yet and really wanted to go. i naturally assumed it was a joke but this friend convinced me otherwise.

    day im going to ask her and a kid in my home ec class comes up to me and says dont do it. i said do what. never talked to him and pretty much we didnt speak so i asked do what again. he said youre going to ask so and so to the prom and its just to see if you will do it as shes going with someone else. middle of class an i yelled that effin c-word and punched the cupboard. broke two knuckles and left class looking for my so called friend. the teacher loved me and when i came back just told me to calm down and not worry about it.

    when i did find her later she denied up and down that it was a joke but my yelling of you back stabbing cword pretty much let her know i didnt believe her.

    since then i have actually only asked 2 gals out
  • nykismile
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    There was this guy that I sort of dated for a little while, and even though I'd fallen hard and I thought he felt the same, he eventually cut me off without another word.

    Later, I found out that while I was hospitalized for an eating disorder, he was trying to sleep with my best friend.

    Still hurts.
  • riirii93_
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    I don't pursue anyone so I don't get rejected. Except this one time my first bf found out (after I broke up w him) that I liked another guy. He told the guy About my crush and then I got an AIM message from the guy telling me he wasn't looking for a gf at the time. He started dating a girl I knew a few weeks later lol.
  • drey0422
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    Mine was in 2010 shortly after my divorce. I asked him if he wanted to go out for a drink and he told me he doesn't date fat chicks. I ran into him at my bodybuilding competition last year and had the opportunity to return the favor of rejecting him.

    Being able to reject him....that must've felt awesome!