Dumped for being 'TOO FAT" :(

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  • FireTurtle75
    FireTurtle75 Posts: 2,014 Member
    Honestly I had a girl do this to me in college & it was one of the most hurtful experiences of my life. She had lost a lot of weight & was pretty serious about continuing that journey. She was helping me lose weight too & we walked & worked out together every day. Her mom told her that if she dated me that she would gain all of her weight back. So she just up & dropped my *kitten* out of the blue because her mom's opinion was more important than her thinking for herself. Wherever she is, she can just go *kitten* herself with a cactus!

    Well great, now I'm pissed about stupid crap from 15 years ago.
  • Swanson2007
    Swanson2007 Posts: 1 Member
    You should be glad you didn't end up with him. It might hurt now, but it's good he showed his true colors now & not after you married him. I'd rather be happy by myself than with a jerk just so I wasn't "alone". Obviously he's not the supportive partner you deserve.
  • mph323
    mph323 Posts: 3,563 Member
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
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    mrssie1223 wrote: »
    Oh wow. I didn't notice the date this was posted. I wonder why it is still showing up on the first page? :neutral:

    The initial bump was done by a bizarre spam post about a spell-caster who can bring your lover back to you. After that it was open season :)

    But now he's gone and I may be forever doomed to be without my man...

    There, there <handpats> I know this gypsy down on 34th and Vine - she mixes up a helluva love potion. Madam Ruth - you've heard of her?

    It'll need to be a strong one. I can chase men away quick as a cat. :bigsmile:

    Ha ha maybe see if she can come up with something a little more potent than love potion number 9? Sounds like you'd need at least a 12 :smile:
  • myfits29
    myfits29 Posts: 1 Member
    I know this is an old post but since this seemed to hit a nerve recently I thought I'd share some interesting perspectives on this. If you're interested in blaming a man for not wanting to go through life with a woman who is 80 lbs overweight, the first post should confirm your perspective. But you really need to then read the second post.

    https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/02/18/why-i-left-my-fat-wife/

    Then read this one:

    http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/a234/beta-husband/
  • mph323
    mph323 Posts: 3,563 Member
    edited June 2017
    myfits29 wrote: »
    I know this is an old post but since this seemed to hit a nerve recently I thought I'd share some interesting perspectives on this. If you're interested in blaming a man for not wanting to go through life with a woman who is 80 lbs overweight, the first post should confirm your perspective. But you really need to then read the second post.

    https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/02/18/why-i-left-my-fat-wife/

    Then read this one:

    http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/a234/beta-husband/

    <blink>

    eta: If you're going to post opinions I think it's more appropriate to post your own rather than using a blog post and a Marie Claire article to - what? I'm not sure what you're trying to convey here.
  • Geocitiesuser
    Geocitiesuser Posts: 1,429 Member
    I wonder how people would act if it was a guy who got dumped for being too fat? I assume the response would be something like, "Stop whining" and "Man up".

    I'm done now. Go back to whatever it this thread is.
  • mph323
    mph323 Posts: 3,563 Member
    Geocitiesuser wrote: »
    I wonder how people would act if it was a guy who got dumped for being too fat? I assume the response would be something like, "Stop whining" and "Man up".

    I'm done now. Go back to whatever it this thread is.

    Um, this is a necro-thread from 2014. Opinion noted, though.
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