Drunk rant about women

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  • rowlandsw
    rowlandsw Posts: 1,166 Member
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    I tuck a sock in my pants, to feel better about myself. I also tell women I'm a millionaire. I do these things for me, to feel better about myself as a person. If a woman thinks I'm being dishonest that's on her, I'm doing this for me. *hair flip*

    I bet the women would forgive lying about being a millionaire but you'd be in trouble for that sock lol.
  • bugaboo_sue
    bugaboo_sue Posts: 552 Member
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    I wear the high platform heels, short dresses and put on make up when I go out. I don't cake the make up on and a lot of times I won't even bother with it. I do it because it makes me feel pretty, my husband likes it when I dress hot and yes, because I get the looks from the men.

    What I think is deceiving and what I think the OP's co-worker was getting at is the women who if they're trying to attract a man put on the spanx to hide the rolls that they have, the push-up bra to make it look like they have some sort of boobage when they're flat chested. That is where I feel the "false advertising" comes in. How do you think he'll feel when he gets you home and he finds out that what you put out there was false? I'd be a bit put off if I met a guy and found out that he was wearing spanx because he had a beer gut, stuffed a sock in his pants and wore a toupee because that's not what was presented to me.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    I'm reminded of a friend who was dating this woman and things got to the bedroom, eventually. As he put it, she looked great in clothes but once she took everything off everything else ...just...fell. She went from looking like 35 (which she was) to looking like 60+.

    You have hit the nail on the head. This attached video was shared by a man of my ethnic community, ranting about a date gone bad. We all couldn't visualise what he was expressing, so he chose to traumatise us all with this video. ** I come from a very simple community for the majority ~> Zero makeup, just native oils. Girls/Women who adorn makeup and the trimmings are either overseas girls/women, models[working] or air hostesses or are of the Asian community [Indian, Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Indonesian, Pinoy]. He'd intimated going to date/bed what he'd thought was a Native Beyonce, only to have the walrus in the bedroom. LOL

    The change, from a reasonably shaped curvaceous woman, to an obese woman in 1.44: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=STm9DrUT-Ps
  • dsroscoe
    dsroscoe Posts: 2
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    These are very good points. When interviewing potential hires I try not to let their clothes or appearances affect my judgement - but I will note the effort they put in as an indicator of character in general. Again - I am using modern societal standards for part of my yardstick. How do you change the standard ... and what do you do when someone else one-ups you ??
  • da_bears1008
    da_bears1008 Posts: 354
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    OBVIOUSLY you have never encountered this...

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  • bugaha1
    bugaha1 Posts: 602 Member
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    No wonder he is divorced.
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,932 Member
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    This looks like a good place to eat my lunch. Is this seat taken?
  • likitisplit
    likitisplit Posts: 9,420 Member
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    Women are liars! Trying to appear appealing when in actuality they are just rotting inside. They should wear stoles of garbage and trash bags, weave fish fins into their hair to reflect their true inner hideousness!

    Or . . . you know . . . they're people. Just people. Who happen to have vaginas.

    Sometimes I really like you.

    You oughtn't. I'm clearly a vicious troll who should be put down for sowing discord in the otherwise harmonious realm of myfriendshippals.

    Well, duh.
  • my_chrystal82
    my_chrystal82 Posts: 46 Member
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    I think it depends on the woman. Personally, I don't do any of those things (anymore!) and have adopted a guy's "I am what I am" mentality. More women should, it's liberating!
  • JG762
    JG762 Posts: 571 Member
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    Last night one of my co-workers went on a drunk rant about women during happy hour. He's biased, of course. He's recently divorced and frustrated with the little dating he's done since then. He was going on about trust issues from this ex cheating, and then said women can't be trusted because they use make up and push up bras and those are lies, then he went on with hair dyeing and girdles and that it makes all women liars. We all laughed and it didn't really turn into a conversation but it did get me thinking.

    That's something guys really have to deal with on the dating scene that women don't: the dressing up. If I were dating and on the first date the guy showed up wearing spanx to tuck a gut, shoes that made him seem 3 inches taller, and oh I don't know, let's say a really awesome convincing fake beard... I'd be kind of miffed to see him without the extras after expecting something different. Men don't do that though. They perform various levels of grooming, but with men, what you see is what you get. Many women, however, routinely change their hair color, wear heels, wear bras that change the shape of their breasts, we paint our faces, we can make our hair curly, straight, wavy, whatever we want!

    Does this make us untrustworthy liars? I mean that's an extreme end of the spectrum but at least in my case it made me feel hypocritical to view a male who did similar things as, well misleading.

    Make up and spanx and push up bras and excessive hair styling can be misleading, but can it also be unethical when taken to the extreme?

    What about a potato in my pants?
    Not that I would ever NEED a potato in my pants but would that be considered a lie?
    Ok ladies, GO! LoL

    Edit: Dammit! I missed the sock in my parts on page 1....
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    Men don't look at the natural woman.
    Women accept the natural man.
    It's the way of the world, my friend.

    Wear all the makeup you want or none at all. Don't blame men for it. If every woman stopped wearing makeup tomorrow, men and women would still have sex.
    Yeah ...

    As I said, I rarely wear it and when I do, it's minimal. I've never had a problem attracting men.
  • Valrotha
    Valrotha Posts: 294 Member
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    Frankly, OP, I think that's less of an issue than honesty, loyalty, kindness, and a bit of...*gasp*...modesty. Of all the numerous double standards we men are on the short end of, I'd say the things you mentioned are low on the priority list
  • T1DCarnivoreRunner
    T1DCarnivoreRunner Posts: 11,502 Member
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    I am on several online dating sites, and it is very common for me to come accross a profile with several pictures of different women. At least the pictures look like they are different people... I believe that some women can do their make-up so well as to actually look like different people from day to day. When that happens, though, I will not date that woman. Mostly it is because I figure we would have to meet somewhere, and I'm not going to recognize her when she shows up.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    Anyway, I wish women didn't feel the need to do these things, but you know... if women embraced more natural beauty, society would call them "gross."

    That simply isn't true.
  • Veil5577
    Veil5577 Posts: 868 Member
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    What about the men who like to wear makeup?


    HUH?
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
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    I am usually too excited and happy that a woman is letting me touch her to feel disappointed when her clothes come off and it looks different

    thank you for still being excited after my duct tape comes off
  • Bry_Fitness70
    Bry_Fitness70 Posts: 2,480 Member
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    I tuck a sock in my pants, to feel better about myself.

    Just ensure that it is the front of your pants and not the back, that could be a real turnoff...
  • Ferrous_Female_Dog
    Ferrous_Female_Dog Posts: 221 Member
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    What about the men who like to wear makeup?


    HUH?

    Dealbreaker. Unless he was a crossdresser.
  • roxywho42
    roxywho42 Posts: 165 Member
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    Men don't look at the natural woman.
    Women accept the natural man.
    It's the way of the world, my friend.

    Odd, the best relationship of my life began after I gave up doing all that mess to try to impress them. The most makeup I wear on a regular basis is mascara. I'll add eyeliner on occasion. I don't own spanx or push up bras. I'm with the most amazing man I've ever known, and I get more attention from men now, not less.

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