Not trying to bash on men
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Little girls have that affect on men.....0
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I recently told a person that I lost weight, he looked at my boobs and said "I wish I'd known you before that. These must have been larger at the time - size "DD"?"
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It is amazing how having a daughter can change a mans thinking in this area too.
I've heard you've had lots of men's daughters.
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:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:It is amazing how having a daughter can change a mans thinking in this area too.
I've heard you've had lots of men's daughters.
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Normally when a guy yells at me. I normally just smile and shy away (if he is a cutie) if not I normally just ignore them and walk away. LOL (the reaction is for the dirty old men LOL)
Men are so funny. Why not act like a gentlemen and say "nice skirt, shirt or hair LOL" that is too much like right .0 -
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:It is amazing how having a daughter can change a mans thinking in this area too.
I've heard you've had lots of men's daughters.
You are Rotten.
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I always get the "Hey baby" and whistles from construction workers. :sick: But my bf gives me plenty of wonderful compliments.
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You guys are soooo awesome!!!
I love the lines that the daughters are saying:laugh: good for them
And to the woman out there having a hard time when their spouses finding you attractive...sweetheart once you start feeling good about yourself I am sure things will fall in to place, my heart goes out to you **HUGS**0 -
You guys are soooo awesome!!!
I love the lines that the daughters are saying:laugh: good for them
And to the woman out there having a hard time when their spouses finding you attractive...sweetheart once you start feeling good about yourself I am sure things will fall in to place, my heart goes out to you **HUGS**
Hey - I just saw that you live in San Diego - I was just there and it is a gorgeous city!!! Lucky you that you get to live there!
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San Diego is a great city! I was there years ago but absolutely loved it! PERFECT weather!You guys are soooo awesome!!!
I love the lines that the daughters are saying:laugh: good for them
And to the woman out there having a hard time when their spouses finding you attractive...sweetheart once you start feeling good about yourself I am sure things will fall in to place, my heart goes out to you **HUGS**
Hey - I just saw that you live in San Diego - I was just there and it is a gorgeous city!!! Lucky you that you get to live there!
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Oh absolutely! Here's to being hotties who are envied in our 50's! Whos with me??lol yeah I still get checked out....although it's usually by NASTY old geezers haha.
Although if it's a hot guy, I take it as a compliment ::bigsmile::
Just the other day these guys yelled at me while I was driving and I just don't pay any attention!
Hahaha! A young attractive guy (maybe 19/20 yrs) checked me out the other day, and as I smiled back I thought in my mind, "Bless his heart for checking out this old lady!!!".
Although come to think of it, he might not have been checking me out at all - maybe I reminded him of his mom!!!! :blushing:
Hey, it is my goal to be one of those moms whos teenage son gets embarrassed because his friends say "Your mom is hot!!" :laugh: :laugh: That's my motivation!! haha!
Tam - you will be! It's all in how young and "hot" we feel, right?!?!
First let me say that Ezzie is a smokin hawtie, and I check her out every chance I get! :devil: The view just never gets stale or old, period. Secondly, let me say that if I didn't also check out all the other hotties (that would any woman from age 2 to 92), then Ezzie would have to call for a defib unit to get my heart restarted. I never intend to make *any* woman feel anything other than appreciated for the truly fine work of art she is.
But yeah, us guys are wired a bit differently (ya think?), and all too often we do make a woman feel uncomfortable with the leers. I guess ya just hafta take the good guys with the pigs.
On the other hand... I remember when Ez and I stopped into a Subway, and the young, attractive, smoldering brunette behind the counter was totally checking me out, especially my "assets"! Gawd was that ever a turn on, and a laugh! 0 -
Oh absolutely! Here's to being hotties who are envied in our 50's! Whos with me??lol yeah I still get checked out....although it's usually by NASTY old geezers haha.
Although if it's a hot guy, I take it as a compliment ::bigsmile::
Just the other day these guys yelled at me while I was driving and I just don't pay any attention!
Hahaha! A young attractive guy (maybe 19/20 yrs) checked me out the other day, and as I smiled back I thought in my mind, "Bless his heart for checking out this old lady!!!".
Although come to think of it, he might not have been checking me out at all - maybe I reminded him of his mom!!!! :blushing:
Hey, it is my goal to be one of those moms whos teenage son gets embarrassed because his friends say "Your mom is hot!!" :laugh: :laugh: That's my motivation!! haha!
Tam - you will be! It's all in how young and "hot" we feel, right?!?!
First let me say that Ezzie is a smokin hawtie, and I check her out every chance I get! :devil: The view just never gets stale or old, period. Secondly, let me say that if I didn't also check out all the other hotties (that would any woman from age 2 to 92), then Ezzie would have to call for a defib unit to get my heart restarted. I never intend to make *any* woman feel anything other than appreciated for the truly fine work of art she is. But yeah, us guys are wired a bit differently (ya think?), and all too often we do make a woman feel uncomfortable with the leers. I guess ya just hafta take the good guys with the pigs.
On the other hand... I remember when Ez and I stopped into a Subway, and the young, attractive, smoldering brunette behind the counter was totally checking me out, especially my "assets"! Gawd was that ever a turn on, and a laugh!
And then did Ezzie slug her??? LOL....you still got it my dear pal....and so does Ez...so glad you two have each other and we have you all! HUGS!0 -
I have a funny story.....I guess I get looked at here and there...I try not to make eye contact because I'm shy that way....I KNOW said the girl w/ the Pit right?! lol but anyway..i am...usually I notice if I'm out running w/ my son in the jogger...I run on a busy street and well I can see the heads turning to look and hear the beeps...but I always pass it as just doing it to any girl they see....not because I'm stunning LOL....please! especially not running LOL
BUT the other day we are passing this older gentleman who sits on his front yard in all the time... we see a lot on our route....and I always smile or say hello etc...so I guess this time he was a bit in the bag...as that big glass of pale pink drink looked like a cran and vodka which is not too bad cept it was like 10am ...ANYWAY...I pass and nod and he yells out...."Hey....I hope to God you're not trying to run your *kitten* off for your husband or what have you...cuz you're gorgeous as is!"....................Me.....I laughed so hard I had to stop running.....that was a classic!
Oh I also had like three stock boys at the market following me around trying to be witty while I was shopping....I think I'm so short they don't feel threatened...LMBO maybe they were practicing their moves or something LOL
hugs!
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Oh absolutely! Here's to being hotties who are envied in our 50's! Whos with me??lol yeah I still get checked out....although it's usually by NASTY old geezers haha.
Although if it's a hot guy, I take it as a compliment ::bigsmile::
Just the other day these guys yelled at me while I was driving and I just don't pay any attention!
Hahaha! A young attractive guy (maybe 19/20 yrs) checked me out the other day, and as I smiled back I thought in my mind, "Bless his heart for checking out this old lady!!!".
Although come to think of it, he might not have been checking me out at all - maybe I reminded him of his mom!!!! :blushing:
Hey, it is my goal to be one of those moms whos teenage son gets embarrassed because his friends say "Your mom is hot!!" :laugh: :laugh: That's my motivation!! haha!
Tam - you will be! It's all in how young and "hot" we feel, right?!?!
First let me say that Ezzie is a smokin hawtie, and I check her out every chance I get! :devil: The view just never gets stale or old, period. Secondly, let me say that if I didn't also check out all the other hotties (that would any woman from age 2 to 92), then Ezzie would have to call for a defib unit to get my heart restarted. I never intend to make *any* woman feel anything other than appreciated for the truly fine work of art she is. But yeah, us guys are wired a bit differently (ya think?), and all too often we do make a woman feel uncomfortable with the leers. I guess ya just hafta take the good guys with the pigs.
On the other hand... I remember when Ez and I stopped into a Subway, and the young, attractive, smoldering brunette behind the counter was totally checking me out, especially my "assets"! Gawd was that ever a turn on, and a laugh!
And then did Ezzie slug her??? LOL....you still got it my dear pal....and so does Ez...so glad you two have each other and we have you all! HUGS!
>:D< >:D< HUgz back sis, luvya! And Ez simply batted those cute eyelashes at me, and said, "Of course she checked you out... after all, I did!" Wowzaaa! 0 -
I recently told a person that I lost weight, he looked at my boobs and said "I wish I'd known you before that. These must have been larger at the time - size "DD"?"
agh...
I feel like chopped liver...
It was kind of heartfelt story...
Oh, well, can't demand love...0 -
I don't mind an admiring look, but I hate being looked at like I'm an object and not a person.
I don't mind a compliment - it might even make my day, but a cheap come-on or offer for a brief encounter...EWWW!
I don't mind being the object of a harmless crush -- but I don't like being stalked.
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When I broke up with my boyfriend before I met DH, FIVE of his so called friends asked me out on a date within a week. I turned them all down and called the ex-bf. I wanted to know what he'd been saying about me, and what kind of jerk friends did he have? :laugh: Although I thought it was slimy of the guys it did feel kind of good to get asked out so many times in a week!0 -
I have a funny story.....I guess I get looked at here and there...I try not to make eye contact because I'm shy that way....I KNOW said the girl w/ the Pit right?! lol but anyway..i am...usually I notice if I'm out running w/ my son in the jogger...I run on a busy street and well I can see the heads turning to look and hear the beeps...but I always pass it as just doing it to any girl they see....not because I'm stunning LOL....please! especially not running LOL
BUT the other day we are passing this older gentleman who sits on his front yard in all the time... we see a lot on our route....and I always smile or say hello etc...so I guess this time he was a bit in the bag...as that big glass of pale pink drink looked like a cran and vodka which is not too bad cept it was like 10am ...ANYWAY...I pass and nod and he yells out...."Hey....I hope to God you're not trying to run your *kitten* off for your husband or what have you...cuz you're gorgeous as is!"....................Me.....I laughed so hard I had to stop running.....that was a classic!
Oh I also had like three stock boys at the market following me around trying to be witty while I was shopping....I think I'm so short they don't feel threatened...LMBO maybe they were practicing their moves or something LOL
hugs!
Ali
You ARE gorgeous girl!!! That was a great line on his part though! :laugh: :laugh:
Men! Gotta love em huh?? :huh:0 -
I have a funny story.....I guess I get looked at here and there...I try not to make eye contact because I'm shy that way....I KNOW said the girl w/ the Pit right?! lol but anyway..i am...usually I notice if I'm out running w/ my son in the jogger...I run on a busy street and well I can see the heads turning to look and hear the beeps...but I always pass it as just doing it to any girl they see....not because I'm stunning LOL....please! especially not running LOL
BUT the other day we are passing this older gentleman who sits on his front yard in all the time... we see a lot on our route....and I always smile or say hello etc...so I guess this time he was a bit in the bag...as that big glass of pale pink drink looked like a cran and vodka which is not too bad cept it was like 10am ...ANYWAY...I pass and nod and he yells out...."Hey....I hope to God you're not trying to run your *kitten* off for your husband or what have you...cuz you're gorgeous as is!"....................Me.....I laughed so hard I had to stop running.....that was a classic!
Oh I also had like three stock boys at the market following me around trying to be witty while I was shopping....I think I'm so short they don't feel threatened...LMBO maybe they were practicing their moves or something LOL
hugs!
Ali
You ARE gorgeous girl!!! That was a great line on his part though! :laugh: :laugh:
Men! Gotta love em huh?? :huh:
Can't live with em! Can't live with out them! 0 -
Ok don't hate, I check out women all the time at the gym it sometime gets me motivated.
I don't really have to think about my daughters they are 16 and the other is 15 I guss they take after there Dad I heared one say that some guy was checking her out at the mall and she looked at him and said really loud WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING OLD MAN.
The guys are checking you out. Why because your HOT.
I'm totally asking this just to try and understand men better... so you check women out, yeah? Just in admiration of beauty? Or lustfully??? :ohwell:
I often notice beautiful men, young and older, and appreciate their asthetic qualities, however it is never lustful or creepy...
when I was a younger man, more of a lustful looking now that I'm and old man!!!!!!!!
it's more like a second of lustfulness then my wife comes in my mind and shes pissed because I was just checking out some other chick.
just to justifiy my looking there are some women in the gym who are wearing thing that may be bettter suited in the GO GO then a public gym.0 -
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:It is amazing how having a daughter can change a mans thinking in this area too.
I've heard you've had lots of men's daughters.
You are Rotten.
And I've heard that you have had lots of daughter's men? :devil:0 -
Sad thing is that people in general are habitual. We do what works the most consistantly right, so the sad thing is if some of the men being spoken of are using primitive tactics it may be that unfortunately that those primitive tactics occasionally work. For some 1 for 20 is enough of a statistic to continue. In baseball we always said you can fail 7 out of 10 times and still be a millionare, I wonder if some men adopt this same stat :laugh:
Now as always I have to speak up for the fellas, lately I've noticed a much more bold and assertive species of woman. Ones that have no problem telling a man who is a complete stranger what they want from him (usually it is not hugs/cuddles and sweet nothings). Is the tide shifting or is society just more tolerable to aggressive females?0 -
I hear that P90
I was at the bar the other day and a girl smacked my behind on her way out!
It definitely woke me up!
Needless to say my girlfriend wasn't pleased, as she was standing right next to me.
And 1 out of 20 is AWESOME odds, lol, I think most guys would hang in there for 1 out of 500.
(giggity) lol0 -
I hear that P90
I was at the bar the other day and a girl smacked my behind on her way out!
It definitely woke me up!
Needless to say my girlfriend wasn't pleased, as she was standing right next to me.
And 1 out of 20 is AWESOME odds, lol, I think most guys would hang in there for 1 out of 500.
(giggity) lol
oh sorry i didnt mean to offend your GF the other day at the bar....0 -
1 in 500? come on,I hear that P90
I was at the bar the other day and a girl smacked my behind on her way out!
It definitely woke me up!
Needless to say my girlfriend wasn't pleased, as she was standing right next to me.
And 1 out of 20 is AWESOME odds, lol, I think most guys would hang in there for 1 out of 500.
(giggity) lol
When my ship pulls into port and I'm wearing my Dress Blues, women are like putty in hands. LOL0 -
I hear that P90
I was at the bar the other day and a girl smacked my behind on her way out!
It definitely woke me up!
Needless to say my girlfriend wasn't pleased, as she was standing right next to me.
And 1 out of 20 is AWESOME odds, lol, I think most guys would hang in there for 1 out of 500.
(giggity) lol
oh sorry i didnt mean to offend your GF the other day at the bar....
its okay, but was the squeeze necessary? lol0 -
I hear that P90
I was at the bar the other day and a girl smacked my behind on her way out!
It definitely woke me up!
Needless to say my girlfriend wasn't pleased, as she was standing right next to me.
And 1 out of 20 is AWESOME odds, lol, I think most guys would hang in there for 1 out of 500.
(giggity) lol
oh sorry i didnt mean to offend your GF the other day at the bar....
its okay, but was the squeeze necessary? lol
:laugh: yes it was!!! Ali told me that we needed to check and see if the muscles in the hiney area are getting firmer from your dance routines.... now i gotta go check the other PIT men to make sure they are firming up too
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:sad: :brokenheart: I haven't had a guy check me out in several years not even my husband. I can only hope that if he sees me making progress with my weight loss that he will catch on and start caring about his weight also. Maybe he will appreciate me more too.
Does anyone have a problem with their spouses losing interest in them because of the weight gain? I want to be in love with my man again.0 -
That reminded me of years ago when I belonged to a gym. The aerobics class was in front and the weights were in back. When the aerobics class started, you could not get on a machine towards the front. Then there were the guys had to get a drink at the water foutain in front of the class. Talk about guys struting their stuff. I always planned my workout by using the machines in front before the class started and the ones in the back after the class started. I was head over heals in love at the time andMy favorite is probably when at the gym and there is an entire row of ellipticals. Like 10....and I am on one, the rest are empty and a guy will look at me and get on the one right next to me! And keep glancing over. :laugh: :laugh: I mean, how obvious can you get??
did not even want to look.
:laugh: I was getting checked out in the gym yesterday, whilst doing man type things....she was less than subtle about it too. (and i am less than pretty when i have been working out for an hour and a half i can assure you). makes me want to go again now but have too much work on. :drinker:
I can't do the checking out thing as i can't see good without the glasses so it's all just a bit of a blur, I hope people don't think my squinting at things as being an offensive leer.0 -
1 in 500? come on,I hear that P90
I was at the bar the other day and a girl smacked my behind on her way out!
It definitely woke me up!
Needless to say my girlfriend wasn't pleased, as she was standing right next to me.
And 1 out of 20 is AWESOME odds, lol, I think most guys would hang in there for 1 out of 500.
(giggity) lol
When my ship pulls into port and I'm wearing my Dress Blues, women are like putty in hands. LOL
No kidding - I was at the Chicago airport and a group of young sailors were waiting at my gate, and it was getting warm in there! It was the epitome of the cliche - they were just as sexy as I had always imagined!!!! 0 -
Sad thing is that people in general are habitual. We do what works the most consistantly right, so the sad thing is if some of the men being spoken of are using primitive tactics it may be that unfortunately that those primitive tactics occasionally work. For some 1 for 20 is enough of a statistic to continue. In baseball we always said you can fail 7 out of 10 times and still be a millionare, I wonder if some men adopt this same stat :laugh:
Now as always I have to speak up for the fellas, lately I've noticed a much more bold and assertive species of woman. Ones that have no problem telling a man who is a complete stranger what they want from him (usually it is not hugs/cuddles and sweet nothings). Is the tide shifting or is society just more tolerable to aggressive females?
YES - I think some women are getting more agressive!!!! My single girlfriends are wild with men - if I weren't married, I don't think I could make it in the bar/club/dating scene these days!!!
I think it's great to admire the opposite sex - although a PG-13 version...
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