Share your secret goals...WARNING, not for the modest!!!

DixieDarlin1987
DixieDarlin1987 Posts: 553 Member
edited September 27 in Chit-Chat
Okay, so everyone on this site has a goal...whether it's to lose weight, get in shape, build muscle, tone, fit in their old clothes, be healthier, live longer or what ever! They're all excellent goals, but does anyone have a secret goal or reward in mind? Maybe a sexy or silly one? (Waving hand frantically) I DO, I DO!!!! My public goals were to get back in shape after having my son..CHECK! Tighten and tone....CHECK! I'm looking and feeling great, and I just started P90x. When I finish P90x, I plan on rewarding myself with my secret goals which are:
1.) Old school pin-up girl photo shoot!!! (Oh yeah, I said it) I don't plan on sharing them with anyone except my hubby....but I've always wanted to, so by gosh, I'm gonna!
2.) Wear a sexy, revealing Halloween costume! Silly, I know. But again, I've always wanted to!
3.) This is probably the most embarrassing one :blushing: ....ooooowwwweeeeee here goes.....install mirrors on my bedroom ceiling! RAWR!!!:devil:

I want to hear you secret goals, I know I'm not alone here! lol
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  • JesaGrace
    JesaGrace Posts: 799 Member
    I love to hear others goal...for weight loss or non-scale....
  • light_shimmer
    light_shimmer Posts: 118 Member
    :blushing: :blushing: :blushing: :blushing:
    There's a certain ummm.....postition ....I haven't been able to do since high school. Not comfortable when there's extra weight. I'm bound and determined to do it again! LOL
    :blushing: :blushing: :blushing:
  • turbogirl4christ
    turbogirl4christ Posts: 177
    Those are awesome goals!!
    I've always wanted to do one of those old school pin up girls shoots too!!
  • mustangurl
    mustangurl Posts: 104 Member
    mine are to be able to wear sexy lingere for my boyfriend and to be selected as babe of the month for 5.0 mustang magazine :blushing:
  • hippo421
    hippo421 Posts: 45 Member
    Awesome goals! You go girl! I have the same goal as #1. I've always wanted to do that! much more fun when in shape I'm sure! Good luck!
  • Linnleex3
    Linnleex3 Posts: 20
    Hmm,..
    1) Meet a new BF
    2) Get into modeling
    3) Put my ex to shame xD
    4) Make my nemesis cry :)
    5) Be hotter than my mom...Love you mom! :P

    All so stupid, I know, but who gives a damn. I'm doing this for me!
  • ShrinkingNinja
    ShrinkingNinja Posts: 460 Member
    I like all your goals minus the mirrors on the ceiling. LOL Instead of that one I would go for a pole and take the stripper classes to learn how to rock the pole for my hubby.

    BTW, how far along on the p90x are you and which version are you doing?

    I am on day 25 of a modified lean version.... Basically I am doing the classic with one less weight day for a core workout. I am on my rest week and I plan on making it doubles next week.
  • bkthomas2004
    bkthomas2004 Posts: 130 Member
    OMG, my secret goal when I hit my target and tone is to do a pin up photo shoot tooo! :smile:
    And wear the skimpiest bikini possible on sexy Miami beach, lol.
    Maybe even go to a nude beach. :wink:
    Sexy halloween costume
    Wear a skimpy top w skinny jeans and heels and not have to worry about any muffins
    Show off my new bod to my old flames like haha look what you no longer have :glasses:

    Annddddd be able to flaunt all this hotness to all my former friends/associates especially at my HS reunions when they come up, because I know they're all damn near fat now lol :drinker:

    Hell, I worked for it, and if I got it may as well flaunt it before I get old and it all heads south lol:laugh:
  • losermomof3
    losermomof3 Posts: 386 Member
    Love your goals Dixie!!! I would have to say that first one is something I would do for my hubby!!!! I wouldnt be able to do the mirrors thing though because it would gross out my teens at this point...LOL. Yea, I would have to say when I hit my final goal weight I am soooo doing a photo shoot!!! I am also getting a tattoo!
  • drosario1204
    drosario1204 Posts: 33
    1) I am sooo with you on the Halloween costume!
    2) I have a duffle bag full of sexy skimpy outfits that I used to wear for my hubby....which dont fit me anymore
    3) I want to increase my stamina for those intimate nights ;)
    4) I want to be able to take sexy pictures and send them to my hubbys cell fone while he's working!
  • getsveltEagain
    getsveltEagain Posts: 1,063 Member
    my secret goals which are:
    1.) Old school pin-up girl photo shoot!!! (Oh yeah, I said it) I don't plan on sharing them with anyone except my hubby....but I've always wanted to, so by gosh, I'm gonna!
    2.) Wear a sexy, revealing Halloween costume! Silly, I know. But again, I've always wanted to!

    I agree 1,000% with these two... they are secret goals that I have too!!! :blushing:
  • Xaspar
    Xaspar Posts: 726 Member
    LOL ... Those are fantastic goals! My goal is to be able to go to the lingerie shop and finding matching everything without having to settle for the 'bigger girl' style of bras... Hard to match those to pretty panties...
    I LOVE sexy undies (even if I am just wearing jeans or fatigues.)
  • bmontgomery87
    bmontgomery87 Posts: 1,260 Member
    be able to turn heads when shirtless.
    be bigger than the majority of my friends.
  • tam120
    tam120 Posts: 444 Member
    I would, but my daughters are on this site and I wouldn't want them to DIE from being grossed out. lol :sick:
  • sunshine__angel
    sunshine__angel Posts: 366 Member
    I would love to buy a new bikini and show it off on the beach. The sexy halloween costume is a great one too, I might steal that! lol

    I want to get in shape enough that I can wear skinny jeans and heels, and look GOOD in them!

    Aside from that, I just want to be able to shop in stores I haven't been able to, and not get looks of "you are too fat to shop here" when I browse the store.
  • shirleycottrell
    shirleycottrell Posts: 21 Member
    To wear my wedding dress for my 50th wedding anniversary in 14 months. I started at 230 lbs. Hope to go below 200 this week. Instated my weight loss sep 2010 when I retired from work. My husband weighs 125. This goal is for me but also for him
  • CuteAndCurvy83
    CuteAndCurvy83 Posts: 570 Member
    Boudoir Photo Shoot!
    Sexy Halloween Costumes!
    Running into ex's in said costumes or just really cute awesome clothing.
    The list could go on and on,but my mom is on MFP So gotta be nice.LOL
  • jennyb31
    jennyb31 Posts: 166 Member
    I want to do a fitness photo shoot (and make a calender for my hubby)

    Possibly sometime do a bikini/figure comp (Im skeered!)

    Get a little pink dumbell tatoo!!!! ( my life long dedication, can't be fat with a dumbell tatoo! lol)
  • alexbowser
    alexbowser Posts: 322

    2.) Wear a sexy, revealing Halloween costume! Silly, I know. But again, I've always wanted to!

    Seriously my main goal. I love to dress up for Halloween and comic book conventions. For now I'm stuck wearing more modest costumes that are flattering to my figure, but I want to be Catwoman so bad!!!
  • Frankenbarbie01
    Frankenbarbie01 Posts: 432 Member
    DixiJo....!!! Finally MY PEOPLE!!! LOL
    LA LA Love the pin-up idea!!!What a fab way to feel sexy and beautiful!! Ok so..........

    1) I have always wanted to take a poledancing or Burlesque class but have never felt secure enough in my skin

    2) Can you say clothing optional beach? In Brazil. Ya those women are beautiful!!

    3)...dont judge me...Be the best looking, nicest body shape in my group of friends. Not the funny one but the HAWT one!! (I know I'm a bad person...)
  • LonelyPilgrim
    LonelyPilgrim Posts: 255 Member
    Get in even better shape than his ex-wife

    :angry:

    because with my disordered thinking.. even though we have a crazy good love life and he compliments me a few dozen times day....and even though I honestly believe he thinks I'm way sexier than her.... the one thing that sticks in my head is when he saw an old picture of me and said "wow, you used to be even skinnier than **** (insert x-wife's name here)"

    grrrrrrrrrrr!
  • jennyb31
    jennyb31 Posts: 166 Member
    To wear my wedding dress for my 50th wedding anniversary in 14 months. I started at 230 lbs. Hope to go below 200 this week. Instated my weight loss sep 2010 when I retired from work. My husband weighs 125. This goal is for me but also for him
    This is fantastic! I can't wait till my 50th!!
  • FunRun08
    FunRun08 Posts: 203 Member
    Ok my secret goal is to go out with my friends and be the center of the male attention. This is totally shallow and I am very happily married, but I would love to go out and not be the fat friend, and instead be the hot one. Oh and to wear a bikini and know that I look hot and not be worried about covering up and hiding, not sure about this one, there is quite a bit of stretch mark damage :grumble:
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    I also have the pin-up photo shoot on my list. Hence, the new profile picture. (Funny timing for this thread)
    I already have a wall of mirrors in my bedroom because I have a huge closet with mirrored doors, but I can't wait to really enjoy what I see in those mirrors. :)

    good thread!
  • Kat5343
    Kat5343 Posts: 451 Member
    OK.....

    1. To wear sexy bra and panty sets and look sexy in a thong.
    2. Wear sexy lingerie to bed and not be self conscious.
    3. Repierce my bello button and show it off in a bikini.
  • claudiapetty
    claudiapetty Posts: 5 Member
    I LOVE your goals! I'm glad I'm not the only one who has these type of goals in mind. My secret one is to enter an Over 40 Modeling contest in a magazine. And the Sexy Halloween costume. And the lingerie! Ohhh the lingerie.... ;-)
  • DixieDarlin1987
    DixieDarlin1987 Posts: 553 Member
    I like all your goals minus the mirrors on the ceiling. LOL Instead of that one I would go for a pole and take the stripper classes to learn how to rock the pole for my hubby.

    BTW, how far along on the p90x are you and which version are you doing?

    I am on day 25 of a modified lean version.... Basically I am doing the classic with one less weight day for a core workout. I am on my rest week and I plan on making it doubles next week.

    I am only on day 4 of the classic version. I have already reached my weight loss goal doing Jillian Michaels dvds. I decided to give P90x classic a try because I mostly want to gain a little muscle...I am also hoping that it will lean out my legs a little more. I love the stripper pole idea too...that would be fun!
  • MarieAnneN
    MarieAnneN Posts: 205
    You know what? I am tall and big boned (for real)... my hands are bigger and taller than most men I know.

    I just wish to feel more femine and weight less than the average man my height.
    Just being and feeling delicate. No bumps over my pants and my bra...
  • chanstriste13
    chanstriste13 Posts: 3,277 Member
    i totally want to strip tease! preferably with a pole. i have my song picked out too: lovin' touchin' squeezin' by journey - great for slow pelvic rolls...
  • BethanyMasters
    BethanyMasters Posts: 519 Member
    I want to look good in my bikini and actually believe my boyfriend when he says he doesn't want me to wear it because he doesn't want guys gawking at me. And good enough where my friend says "Yea you look totally hot." Instead of "Well it doesn't make me want to claw my eyes out at least"

    I want to be small enough and strong enough so that people don't hold back laughter when I say I want to become a personal trainer.

    I'd also love to be on top for more than 10 minutes without getting winded.:tongue:
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