Share your secret goals...WARNING, not for the modest!!!

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  • MsLadyVirgo
    MsLadyVirgo Posts: 160 Member
    Here Goes!

    I was once the neighborhood hottie & so looking forward to the attention AGAIN

    1. BE THE HOTTEST CHICK AT WORK
    2. STUDY THE ART OF KAMA SUTRA & BELLY DANCING: PERFORM A PRIVATE STRIP TEASE FOR A SELECT FEW
    3. PERFORM YOGA MOVES ON THE BACK LAWN
    4. SILF (S stands for Sister)
    5. MILF, but I don't have kids now; however, I'm so looking forward to it.
  • TimesUp21
    TimesUp21 Posts: 12 Member
    I have ALWAYS been a chuncky monkey but I am determined to break out of that routine! The first thing I am going to do is buy me a mini skirt and a cute pair of some what high heels and hit the town with my hubby. Then I am going to take him home and give him that lap dance he has always wanted me to do, but because I am over weight I am ALWAYS to embarressed to do. And last but not least (Turning a bit red in the face) I want to SKINNY DIP LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:laugh:

    By the way how do you get you ticker to show up here?
  • pammbroo
    pammbroo Posts: 550 Member
    To release and embrace the confident vixen I know lives inside of me...

    Be happy and comfortable when wearing a bathing suit....

    Be the one who enters a room and demands attention just by being there...

    Have a toned body part that a small tattoo will look very sexy on...

    Meet the love of my life...
  • fitmom4ever
    fitmom4ever Posts: 130
    :blushing: :blushing: make a home movie (yeah, I said it) :blushing: :blushing:
  • jlanab
    jlanab Posts: 89 Member
    ok... halloween costume idea DEFINATELY! I actually still have mines from years ago and would love to pull them out and wear them comfortable for my BF
    BIKINI
    Bellydance for my bf (full costume and all)
    Take a pole dancing class and perform for my bf
    sexy lingerie -surprisingly thats for me!
    different positions... (ya know what im taking about):wink:
    to feel sexy even in jeans/jogging pants and a tee
  • ChantalGG
    ChantalGG Posts: 2,404 Member
    Sexy Halloween costume.
    Sexy bedtime clothing
    Bikini without cover ups
    Hoping to pick up some sexy latin dance moves and use then on the dance floor, i just need to find a club in my area that has that kind of music.
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    There are certain "activities" in bed that aren't conducive to being heavy and inflexible. As we go through this process, it's nice when my wife and I discover that we... "fit" better. :laugh:

    Yeah, I think there are a lot of opportunities with this one. I'm working on getting the bf to drop a few pounds too. Not only for a better "fit," but added confidence can really turn up the heat.

    I wonder how much weight the ceiling fan can support? Haha.
  • kimmerroze
    kimmerroze Posts: 1,330 Member
    First of all ladies! I did a Budoir Photo shoot for my husband for our wedding night.

    HE LOVED It and whats more is I LOVED IT! every moment. Totally boosted my self esteem.


    My goal is to be able to look good NAKED! in a pair of high heels. I also wanna have long slender legs that look super sexy in thigh high boots.
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    I. want. to. fit. into. my. jeans.
  • SunLovin1
    SunLovin1 Posts: 682 Member
    I have so many goals...some are pretty innocuous and common, but some are a little out there, so here goes...

    1. I want to get RIPPED to shreds! And by that I mean that I want the long, lean defined muscles that one can only get from a true commitment to health and fitness. I'm getting ready to start TurboFire to make this happen and someday graduate to p90x.

    2. I want to learn to pole dance. Any kind of exercise that makes you feel sexy while whittling your core appeals to me. Not to mention you get to wear cool shoes while you're working out! I just love to dance so belly dancing may also be an option.

    3. I want to acquire MILF status even at the advanced age of 46. I'm tired of people thinking women in their 40's have exceeded their shelf life.

    4. I want to show all the people who said I could never do it that you should NEVER, EVER say never to ME! :devil:
  • Triquetra
    Triquetra Posts: 270 Member
    My secret goal is to be slim enough to justify surgery to get my baby flap removed,lol!!!! 3 c- sections is awful hard on a belly :huh:

    2nd this one!!!
  • rubyrenga
    rubyrenga Posts: 402 Member
    Omg, LOVE all these!!! Definitely the sexy Halloween costume and pinup shoot. I want to be able to do a striptease for my man again without feeling horribly self conscious, and to be on the beach without feeling like I have to hide myself--confidently strolling on the sand! Also, to wear sexy clothes again and even though I'm so happily tied down, to get more looks from guys....
  • anubis609
    anubis609 Posts: 3,966 Member
    Okay, so everyone on this site has a goal...whether it's to lose weight, get in shape, build muscle, tone, fit in their old clothes, be healthier, live longer or what ever! They're all excellent goals, but does anyone have a secret goal or reward in mind? Maybe a sexy or silly one? (Waving hand frantically) I DO, I DO!!!! My public goals were to get back in shape after having my son..CHECK! Tighten and tone....CHECK! I'm looking and feeling great, and I just started P90x. When I finish P90x, I plan on rewarding myself with my secret goals which are:
    1.) Old school pin-up girl photo shoot!!! (Oh yeah, I said it) I don't plan on sharing them with anyone except my hubby....but I've always wanted to, so by gosh, I'm gonna!
    2.) Wear a sexy, revealing Halloween costume! Silly, I know. But again, I've always wanted to!
    3.) This is probably the most embarrassing one :blushing: ....ooooowwwweeeeee here goes.....install mirrors on my bedroom ceiling! RAWR!!!:devil:

    I want to hear you secret goals, I know I'm not alone here! lol

    I can help install #3. Just sayin'.

    ETA: I've used up all my secret--- I MEAN SECRETS!! Secrets..... I have no more to divulge. :indifferent:
  • angryguy77
    angryguy77 Posts: 836 Member
    You ladies could pull this stuff off already. Don't let your self consciousness ruin your fun.
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    I want to be the "hot chick" in my group of girls that goes out occasionally.. :)
  • BEERRUNNER
    BEERRUNNER Posts: 3,046 Member
    Have more sex appeal . I want these fine young women to find me even more attractive than I already am..... Feel me!?
  • aliciadjackson
    aliciadjackson Posts: 480 Member
    Bump so I can answer later!
  • hroush
    hroush Posts: 2,073 Member
    You ladies could pull this stuff off already. Don't let your self consciousness ruin your fun.

    I second this.

    i was fat all my life, so my ultimate goal is a six pack. I'm working on getting back the muscle I lost due to extensive cardio / inactivity and getting rid of the rest of my stomach. My arms are scrawny :noway:, so I'd really like to flesh them out more. I'd love to completely outdo some muscle head showing off for the ladies.
  • littlesuzieq
    littlesuzieq Posts: 103
    Great topic!!

    1. I want to be mistaken for a hot college chick on my motorcycle (I've gotten pointed at and laughed at by silly college boys saying, "Hey, look at the fat chick on the bike!")

    2. I really, really want to be the hot, sexy wife that my husband will be proud of (I know he already is but I want to FEEL that way!)

    3. When my boys graduate from high school, I want people to ask if I had them when I was 14

    4. Definitely the boudoir or pin-up photo shoot for my hubby. Oh, yeah. Definitely.
  • BrownEyedG1rl
    BrownEyedG1rl Posts: 625 Member
    Ok my secret goal is to go out with my friends and be the center of the male attention. This is totally shallow and I am very happily married, but I would love to go out and not be the fat friend, and instead be the hot one. Oh and to wear a bikini and know that I look hot and not be worried about covering up and hiding, not sure about this one, there is quite a bit of stretch mark damage :grumble:

    Exactly my goal too. Sounds shallow though, ya know?
  • toots99
    toots99 Posts: 3,794 Member
    Wear a skimpy top w skinny jeans and heels and not have to worry about any muffins
    Show off my new bod to my old flames like haha look what you no longer have :glasses:

    Annddddd be able to flaunt all this hotness to all my former friends/associates especially at my HS reunions when they come up, because I know they're all damn near fat now lol :drinker:


    ^All that! :drinker:
  • hanna1210
    hanna1210 Posts: 286 Member
    I LOVE this post!

    A few things...
    Halloween costume - doesn't have to be cute or skimpy, but would like to actually find it in a store
    Be thinner than one of my friends, she's always just under where I am... grr
    Eat what I want without the stares. You know, "she shouldn't eat that" or "surely, that's not all she's going to eat"
    To not be seen as the funny fat friend, not the wing-(wo)man
    Oh and to ROCK my collection of heels for longer than a couple hours
  • sillygoose1977
    sillygoose1977 Posts: 2,151 Member
    I want to be the girl at the gym that the other women look up to as motivation. I do the same thing so I don't feel bad about it. It's nice to have some babes at the gym to keep me in line.

    I also wouldn't mind rocking a Dallas Cowboy cheerleader uniform for my man.
  • rebelontherun
    rebelontherun Posts: 192 Member
    I've ALWAYS wanted to be able to wear a super sexy Halloween costume too lol and same with the photo shoot!
  • vampymegs
    vampymegs Posts: 39
    Hmm,..
    1) Meet a new BF
    2) Get into modeling
    3) Put my ex to shame xD
    4) Make my nemesis cry :)
    5) Be hotter than my mom...Love you mom! :P

    All so stupid, I know, but who gives a damn. I'm doing this for me!

    I think these are so cute! :)
  • Still_Sossy
    Still_Sossy Posts: 868 Member
    I want to be the hottest mom in town, no really I live in a small town. Vain, I know, but I do. Now that I have lost a little over 30 lbs people are starting to notice me, and I like it.
  • shybelle
    shybelle Posts: 254 Member
    I am glad I am not the only one who wants to be hotter than her friends...For once I would just like to feel pretty when we go out and not like the fat tag-a-long
  • LeeKetty1176
    LeeKetty1176 Posts: 881 Member
    i want to get a 1940s pin up tattoo on my leg

    I am also going to post a few on here and let people pick it !
  • kimber607
    kimber607 Posts: 7,128 Member
    Mmmmmm....feel good in anything that I wear w/ out having to worry about lumps and bump and taking sexy pics for my SO (whatever century that might be) and not worry about sucking it in
    LOL
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    I cant think of any
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