Share your secret goals...WARNING, not for the modest!!!

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  • mykismitty
    mykismitty Posts: 23 Member
    Spend my 40Th birthday in a tiny bikini and not be embarrassed to step out of the bathroom!:wink:
  • Airbear3
    Airbear3 Posts: 335 Member
    Def agree w/the last one! And would love to leave the lights on or at least some lights w/o feeling like pulling the covers over my head, to take showers together, Lingerie, sexy pix... :blushing: . lol my list could go on forever. And one that's really silly is conquering the hula hoop!!:grumble:
    I want to look good in my bikini and actually believe my boyfriend when he says he doesn't want me to wear it because he doesn't want guys gawking at me. And good enough where my friend says "Yea you look totally hot." Instead of "Well it doesn't make me want to claw my eyes out at least"

    I want to be small enough and strong enough so that people don't hold back laughter when I say I want to become a personal trainer.

    I'd also love to be on top for more than 10 minutes without getting winded.:tongue:

    hahah my hubby doesn't make 10 min! guess that one can't be my goal!:laugh: :noway:
  • mamijujuphat
    mamijujuphat Posts: 407 Member
    Well for starters ...I want to do a pole dancing class...after I lose more weight because I feel like I going to bend the pole now....lol...second ...wear a two piece suit ....although the picture session does sound cool too
  • CommittohealthCHANGED
    CommittohealthCHANGED Posts: 436 Member
    Ok I use to bea able to put both legs behind my head, at 242pds that crap was not happening. When I hit my goal weight or less will give it a try again. LOL
  • am_last10lbs
    am_last10lbs Posts: 41 Member
    To look amazing at a wedding in September....Who says the bride you can't outshine the bride?
  • MaysMom
    MaysMom Posts: 103 Member
    I am SOOOOOO with you on all 3!
    I will add:

    1) I always wanted to take one of those lap dance/pole dancing classes, belly dancing or something that I could perform for the hubby.

    2) A sexy tattoo...probably on my side or a tramp stamp.

    3) I want at least one my husband's friends to tell him how hot his wife is! I want to be a M.I.L.F.!
  • KickassYas
    KickassYas Posts: 397 Member
    Well for starters ...I want to do a pole dancing class...after I lose more weight because I feel like I going to bend the pole now....lol...second ...wear a two piece suit ....although the picture session does sound cool too

    i have this exact same one but i fear dislocating my shoulders and arms and wrists and anything that attempts to support my weight. same with the rope dancing. LOL

    i want to have a beautiful back. i've never had one. i want to wear a backless dress and men drool over my spine.

    i want to wear funk me heels the hottest i could find... to work. just be one of those crazy womenz.

    i want to take a burlesque class. i want to do the bubble dance!

    i want to accidentally leave my curtains open as i walk around naked (this wont ever happen as long as i have roommates.)

    i want to take a cheesecake photoshoot.

    i want to look like a rockabilly queen and not an orchabilly queen (inside joke)

    i want to be able to walk miles in high heels.

    i want marathon sex. the kind that makes the room look like we just got robbed and i can't find my bra for three days.

    i want to feel beautiful striaght out of bed/gym/pap smear appt. yeah i know askin for too much.

    i want my sisters to admit that i am beautiful.

    i want to wear anklets. and not the ones i had to add like 40 extra links too. same with watches.

    i want to rule the damned world with my brains as everyone gets lost staring at my beautiful body.

    oh and i wanna eat what i want when i want and know i'm gonna burn the hell outta the cals later. :)
  • AnaNotBanana
    AnaNotBanana Posts: 963 Member

    i want to rule the damned world with my brains as everyone gets lost staring at my beautiful body.

    LOVE THIS!!!
  • annacataldo
    annacataldo Posts: 872 Member
    Go to halloween parties wearing the skimpiest outfit cuz I know exs would be there..

    Be skinner than ex husbands fat new wife.

    Use a sex swing (I own one, never used it, thought I looked like a heffer).

    Have sex in a shower (him beable to lift me).

    Be able to buy sexy bras (cuz finding 52H cup sexy bras is impossible).

    Buy sexy lingerie, like corsets, etc and not worry about if they r long enough to cover my entire sagging belly bulge.

    Go into fredricks of hollywood or victorias secret type places and actually beable to buy something...other than lotion or perfume..

    Be able to dance sexy like I like to and not worry if people r laughing at me cuz im a fat girl dancing like a skinny girl should.

    Have sex in my bf's truck (small ford ranger).

    Sex in public places and who cares if we get caught cuz ill look good doing it.

    Wearing things like a corset type top or tight tank top with skinny jeans and not worrying about wearing a jacket/sweater at all times over it so it covers my fat arms, the rolls on my back, and the rolls on my stomach.

    Doing some type of photo shoot and not worrying about angles that will be flattering to a 325lb figure..

    Do suspension bondage.

    Im sure there's plenty of others, ill end it there.
  • monkeybuttsmommy
    monkeybuttsmommy Posts: 343 Member
    I want my male friends to look at me differently. When they look at me now its "Hey jo how are ya?" with a smile and a hug. I want them to see me thin and be like, "Oh damn, you look so different!" and I want to catch them staring... and maybe see even a lil drool! LMAO!
  • monkeybuttsmommy
    monkeybuttsmommy Posts: 343 Member
    Well for starters ...I want to do a pole dancing class...after I lose more weight because I feel like I going to bend the pole now....lol...second ...wear a two piece suit ....although the picture session does sound cool too

    i have this exact same one but i fear dislocating my shoulders and arms and wrists and anything that attempts to support my weight. same with the rope dancing. LOL

    i want to have a beautiful back. i've never had one. i want to wear a backless dress and men drool over my spine.

    i want to wear funk me heels the hottest i could find... to work. just be one of those crazy womenz.

    i want to take a burlesque class. i want to do the bubble dance!

    i want to accidentally leave my curtains open as i walk around naked (this wont ever happen as long as i have roommates.)

    i want to take a cheesecake photoshoot.

    i want to look like a rockabilly queen and not an orchabilly queen (inside joke)

    i want to be able to walk miles in high heels.

    i want marathon sex. the kind that makes the room look like we just got robbed and i can't find my bra for three days.

    i want to feel beautiful striaght out of bed/gym/pap smear appt. yeah i know askin for too much.

    i want my sisters to admit that i am beautiful.

    i want to wear anklets. and not the ones i had to add like 40 extra links too. same with watches.

    i want to rule the damned world with my brains as everyone gets lost staring at my beautiful body.

    oh and i wanna eat what i want when i want and know i'm gonna burn the hell outta the cals later. :)

    I Effing LOVE you!!! I am so glad were MFP friends!!!
  • simplycindy07
    simplycindy07 Posts: 13 Member
    I want to make a calendar for my husband for in his garage that he iproud to show off.
    Take a pole dancing class, then out a pole in our house for his private viewing.
    Wear a sexy bikini.
    wear a sexy skimpy halloween costume.
    Wear skinny jeans, cute top and heels.
    To go out with my husband and have guys look at me (every time we go out he has women all over him...time for role reversal.)
    To FINALLY be comfy around my skinny friends.
  • DerGraf
    DerGraf Posts: 40 Member
    My secret goal (don't tell anyone) is to finally meet an alien.
  • SayLiLIG
    SayLiLIG Posts: 197 Member
    OMG, my secret goal when I hit my target and tone is to do a pin up photo shoot tooo! :smile:
    And wear the skimpiest bikini possible on sexy Miami beach, lol.
    Maybe even go to a nude beach. :wink:
    Sexy halloween costume
    Wear a skimpy top w skinny jeans and heels and not have to worry about any muffins
    Show off my new bod to my old flames like haha look what you no longer have :glasses:

    Annddddd be able to flaunt all this hotness to all my former friends/associates especially at my HS reunions when they come up, because I know they're all damn near fat now lol :drinker:

    Hell, I worked for it, and if I got it may as well flaunt it before I get old and it all heads south lol:laugh:

    YES!!! This is what i wanna do too!! To the freggin T! I was always big...but im bound determined to not be the fat girl anymore. 5 years til my 10 year reunion.
  • To not look at a flimsy plastic chair and think "Will my butt fit in that?" or "If I set in that, I just can't breathe cause it might break?" :blushing:

    And DEFINATELY the Hot Halloween Costumes! Can't wait for that! I LOVE HALLOWEEN!!:happy:
  • Well for starters ...I want to do a pole dancing class...after I lose more weight because I feel like I going to bend the pole now....lol...second ...wear a two piece suit ....although the picture session does sound cool too

    i have this exact same one but i fear dislocating my shoulders and arms and wrists and anything that attempts to support my weight. same with the rope dancing. LOL

    i want to have a beautiful back. i've never had one. i want to wear a backless dress and men drool over my spine.

    i want to wear funk me heels the hottest i could find... to work. just be one of those crazy womenz.

    i want to take a burlesque class. i want to do the bubble dance!

    i want to accidentally leave my curtains open as i walk around naked (this wont ever happen as long as i have roommates.)

    i want to take a cheesecake photoshoot.

    i want to look like a rockabilly queen and not an orchabilly queen (inside joke)

    i want to be able to walk miles in high heels.

    i want marathon sex. the kind that makes the room look like we just got robbed and i can't find my bra for three days.

    i want to feel beautiful striaght out of bed/gym/pap smear appt. yeah i know askin for too much.

    i want my sisters to admit that i am beautiful.

    i want to wear anklets. and not the ones i had to add like 40 extra links too. same with watches.

    i want to rule the damned world with my brains as everyone gets lost staring at my beautiful body.

    oh and i wanna eat what i want when i want and know i'm gonna burn the hell outta the cals later. :)

    I am with ya on the anklets! And every one of these! haha :drinker: Cheers!
  • Huffdogg
    Huffdogg Posts: 1,934 Member
    can't wait to go to a nude beach or wear my speedo suit sunbathing without any self-consciousness. I will know I have the body I've been chasing when the last bit of belly/love handle goes away and I mark the spot with a yoga tattoo design I have picked out ;)
  • lifeinpink09
    lifeinpink09 Posts: 87 Member
    Omg these goals are awesome!

    I wanna buy me a new corset and look FANTASTIC.
    I wanna look AMAZING naked.
    I know a photographer and I sorta wanna take it all of and do a nude (ARTISTIC!!!!!!!!) photoshoot.

    Ohhhh so many more reasons lol <3
  • 1.) Well, when I am older I'd love to be the hot housewife so that all of my future husbands friends can be envious of him :laugh:
    2.) I want to be physically fit. I want to be an "athlete"
    3.) I want to be the hot girl in the group.
    4. I'd love to do a sexy photo shoot as well.
  • curvygirl512
    curvygirl512 Posts: 423 Member
    I want to turn every guy's head when we go to the beach. And make sure my husband sees those heads turning. And then play hard to get.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    Im doing a pinup shoot the second I get to my goal! thats what the profile picture is for!

    Im a tshirt and jeans girl - I really want to look fabulous in some snug jeans and curve/boob hugging tshirt. Simple!

    Ive never been to a beach and actually worn a swim suit. Always have a cover up or clothing over it. I want to rock the beach!!!

    I soooo want some 'make my legs a mile long and my *kitten* perfect' F-me pumps!

    To go to the club with my girls and be the one getting the attention. Total MILF in the making over here! haha

    Ive got a handful of naughty reasons too..... :blushing:

    Mostly it comes down to confidence!!
  • aliciadjackson
    aliciadjackson Posts: 480 Member
    My "secret" goals :
    - Wear sexy lingerie
    - Strip for my next (serious) boyfriend and feel completely sexy while doing it
    - Buy and wear a super sexy swim suit without feeling the need to cover up.
    - Another round of sexy/risqué photos
    - to walk into a room and feel as though I've turned some heads
  • muriah2
    muriah2 Posts: 143 Member
    I love this thread!

    I'm so with you on the sexy halloween costume...

    Get a tattoo down my side...

    Get in and out of the bath tub easily, and to have my entire body covered while in the tub!

    I want my boyfriend to be able to lift me without straining a muscle...

    Umm...yeah...sex without my belly flapping around...

    I want people to say "man I wish I had a body like that!"

    Have a poster of my before and after on my gym's wall....
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Oh and I want my fiance to think I am hot. Not just "cute" but hot. I want him to be proud to be marrying me! He doesn't really see me like that now... but it's definitely motivation to get there!

    TOP SECRET THOUGH!!!

    Not anymore hun lol, they're officially blasted across the internet =p.

    Oh, and by the way...I just looked at your profile pictures...and if those two bikini ones of you in the mirror are current, he's absolutely crazy for not thinking you're hot.

    Just sayin!

    Cris
  • muriah2
    muriah2 Posts: 143 Member
    Oh yeah, and I wanna be able to sit with my legs crossed, see my collar bone, and have my thighs not rub together!
  • pyro13g
    pyro13g Posts: 1,127 Member
    You don't need mirrors on the ceiling to see if the bed is made.:bigsmile: :bigsmile:
  • DixieDarlin1987
    DixieDarlin1987 Posts: 553 Member
    Wow! Lots of really awesome secret goals..I may have to steal some of these! Love the stripper pole idea, I definitely want another tattoo, and I'm so down with making ex's miss me, getting envious looks from other women (and their boyfriends), looking amazing at an upcoming wedding (there will be many old high school buddies there), and I totally want to be a MILF! Keep sharing folks, I'm really enjoying reading all the responses!
  • cindy4mica
    cindy4mica Posts: 777 Member
    yes, yes, and YES! wish we could all go out and do this together (not the photo shoot or mirrors thing, obviously. lol)!
  • ok..........here goes............to look like one of the guys from the movie "300"...........then to hit the beach an learn to surf..........been living in Cali for 2 years now and it's something I always wanted to do........can't do it if I can't get up on the board.........and lastly to go to my 30 year reunion next year and blow the minds of all the girls that wouldn't even look at me in high school.kind of lame I guess....but it would be fun.......
  • Zombielicious
    Zombielicious Posts: 246 Member
    Okay, so everyone on this site has a goal...whether it's to lose weight, get in shape, build muscle, tone, fit in their old clothes, be healthier, live longer or what ever! They're all excellent goals, but does anyone have a secret goal or reward in mind? Maybe a sexy or silly one? (Waving hand frantically) I DO, I DO!!!! My public goals were to get back in shape after having my son..CHECK! Tighten and tone....CHECK! I'm looking and feeling great, and I just started P90x. When I finish P90x, I plan on rewarding myself with my secret goals which are:
    1.) Old school pin-up girl photo shoot!!! (Oh yeah, I said it) I don't plan on sharing them with anyone except my hubby....but I've always wanted to, so by gosh, I'm gonna!
    2.) Wear a sexy, revealing Halloween costume! Silly, I know. But again, I've always wanted to!
    3.) This is probably the most embarrassing one :blushing: ....ooooowwwweeeeee here goes.....install mirrors on my bedroom ceiling! RAWR!!!:devil:

    I want to hear you secret goals, I know I'm not alone here! lol

    Um...I like ALL of these ideas!! These aren't silly in the least! I've always, ALWAYS wanted to do number 1! Definitely a secret goal of mine...and number 3 - oh yes...haha...I was just talking to my boyfriend about this today.

    Good luck on all your goals!!!
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