Share your secret goals...WARNING, not for the modest!!!

NoWeighJose74

Since we're not being modest...

Having been heavy most of my adult life, I never really received "appreciative" looks from the opposite sex. During the few periods of time in my life when I DID start looking better, I notice those looks a little more. Does wonders for my self confidence.
Of course, my wife gives me appreciative looks no matter what my weight.

There are certain "activities" in bed that aren't conducive to being heavy and inflexible. As we go through this process, it's nice when my wife and I discover that we... "fit" better. :laugh:

hmm, I think this still came across as being somewhat modest lol.

sarah44254

1) I want to be fit enough to dress up like my favorite anime gals in conventions. They are in such awesome shape, of course, so I need to be, too!

2) I want to do way more races because I absolutely love giving to charity and racing while doing so is just plain awesome.

3) A sexy photo shoot is definitely in the future

Gretchen27

My secret goal is to be slim enough to justify surgery to get my baby flap removed,lol!!!! 3 c- sections is awful hard on a belly :huh:

PecanTanDiva

I'm loving the goals that are posted :happy:

Mine goes a little something like this...

#1 - I want to wear a thong bikini any and everywhere :smokin:
#2 - Have a nude picture of myself, along with my husband's guitar :bigsmile:
#3 - Wear an awesome Wonder Woman Halloween costume

AND DRUM ROLLLLLL PLEASE

#4 - Enter in a wet T-shirt contest, ok maybe not, but I can let my husband hose me down in our backyard :bigsmile: :laugh:

DixieDarlin1987

Ok my secret goal is to go out with my friends and be the center of the male attention. This is totally shallow and I am very happily married, but I would love to go out and not be the fat friend, and instead be the hot one. Oh and to wear a bikini and know that I look hot and not be worried about covering up and hiding, not sure about this one, there is quite a bit of stretch mark damage :grumble:

I have stretch marks also and at first I was very upset about them, but after whipping my butt back in shape...I actually kinda like them (weird, I know). They are a constant reminder to me of what my body is capable of....1. bearing a child and 2. physically recovering from bearing a child and looking even better than before, despite them. I say get your body to the point that you are happy with it, and then sport those stretch marks like no one else's buisness!!!

tereci

What is P90x ??

FunRun08

I want to be small enough and strong enough so that people don't hold back laughter when I say I want to become a personal trainer.

I'd also love to be on top for more than 10 minutes without getting winded.

Ohhh me too, Whenever I tell people I teach exercise classes and that I would like to be a personal trainer they always give the once over. I want to be sure that there is no doubt based on the way I look.

DowntimeDesigns

My secret goal is to be able to go to the beach and take my shirt off without feeling like an embarrassed beached whale...

T_R_A_V

Mine is to have abs like "The Situation"

Cblue541

Take a pole dancing class and show my boyfriend what I learned

TheKitsune6

I want to make my ex regret dumping me for a lesser woman

Definitely down with the skimpy halloween outfits

DixieDarlin1987

You know what? I am tall and big boned (for real)... my hands are bigger and taller than most men I know.

I just wish to feel more femine and weight less than the average man my height.
Just being and feeling delicate. No bumps over my pants and my bra...

Uh...yeah, I'm 6'4" and 180 lbs, so believe me when I say that I understand that! People always looked at me crazy when I said my goal weight was 180...for me that's thin, but for most it's very large. Stand tall and proud!

DixieDarlin1987

What is P90x ??

P90x is an extreme home workout plan that lasts for 90 days....It's the bomb! There are plenty of threads on here about it and lots of people doing it...just do a search....I'm really loving it!

taranj21

My goals are alot like most of yours

wear a bikini
to look the best out of my friends (i know shallow)
be fit and not running out of breath playing with my kids

N_BEAST_MODE_24_7

To have more of an " AWESOME BODY " ............

SheehyCFC

To look at myself and actually be impressed not disgusted (or at this point just "meh"). That can be more about self-confidence then anything else though

jennyb31

Ok my secret goal is to go out with my friends and be the center of the male attention. This is totally shallow and I am very happily married, but I would love to go out and not be the fat friend, and instead be the hot one. Oh and to wear a bikini and know that I look hot and not be worried about covering up and hiding, not sure about this one, there is quite a bit of stretch mark damage :grumble:

I have stretch marks also and at first I was very upset about them, but after whipping my butt back in shape...I actually kinda like them (weird, I know). They are a constant reminder to me of what my body is capable of....1. bearing a child and 2. physically recovering from bearing a child and looking even better than before, despite them. I say get your body to the point that you are happy with it, and then sport those stretch marks like no one else's buisness!!!

I have them too, I used to be really insecure about them but I got into shape and I just don't care anymore. You will get there!!!

A_New_Horizon

Ok my secret goal is to go out with my friends and be the center of the male attention. This is totally shallow and I am very happily married, but I would love to go out and not be the fat friend, and instead be the hot one. Oh and to wear a bikini and know that I look hot and not be worried about covering up and hiding, not sure about this one, there is quite a bit of stretch mark damage :grumble:

This is totally mine too. I have NEVER been the center of attention when it comes to males. I am also happily married, but I love the attention. I am starting to get it now, but I would like more of it. I would love to wear a bikini, but I don't think I ever will with all the stretch marks thanks to my babies (who I wouldn't trade for the worl).

I also like the Halloween costume idea - might have to steal that one myself.

LorinaLynn

I would LOVE to beat my 25 year old niece in a race. I don't think it'll happen. She's faster, younger, and stronger than me, and I can't see her EVER let me pass her. The closest I've gotten is 7 seconds behind her in a 5 mile race.

Pinup photo shoot. Definitely. And maybe do a great big pinup painting of it.

I wanna keep getting carded as long as humanly possible.

This Halloween, I'm going to rock the belly baring genie costume I made and wore when I was 19. Twenty years later.

jennyb31

I'm loving the goals that are posted :happy:

Mine goes a little something like this...

#1 - I want to wear a thong bikini any and everywhere :smokin:
#2 - Have a nude picture of myself, along with my husband's guitar :bigsmile:
#3 - Wear an awesome Wonder Woman Halloween costume

AND DRUM ROLLLLLL PLEASE

#4 - Enter in a wet T-shirt contest, ok maybe not, but I can let my husband hose me down in our backyard :bigsmile: :laugh:

#4 is so funny!!! Maybe I will have to try this too!!!

AliAliMay

My secret goal is too be able to strut around in underwear and heals before my boyfriend
and the ann summers outfit I brought and didn't fit into!

kirstyfromscotland

i havnt thot of goals like that but i am now...........

1..wear a mini skirt this year on a nyt out, havnt wore 1 for 6-7 years!

2..i also like the idea of a sexy halloween costume, had 2 copy that 1coz that would b real cool!

3..Beat ma male pal at work in an arm wrestle coz i almost beat him a few months ago and i would love 2 KO him!!!

My goals seem boring in comparison 2 yours!!!

notapromqueen

I just started today and was hoping to find someone who made a post like this! :laugh:

You will see in my profile that I have my secret goal listed as my "top secret mission". Well, I have been with my husband for over 8 years, and we've been married for 2. Since BEFORE my wedding, I wanted to surprise him with a boudoir album (sexy lingerie, half-naked, etc)!

I've kept changing the date when he'd get this album! First, it was our wedding night, then it was our first Valentine's Day as a married couple, then our first anniversary, then our second (you get the picture!) I kept pushing the date back, because I'm not comfortable or confident in my own skin to take sexy photos for my husband! I know right? How bizzare is that?! I mean he sees me naked daily when I shower or when we're intimate; but, I wont pose for photos until I'm confident and feel sexy in my own skin!

So, like you, that's my "secret goal". I want my husband to have sexy photos that he can secretly brag to his friends with. :devil:

rubianne1979

1.Pinup shoot in plans ... making a calender for my husband for Christmas.

2. Fit into the Supergirl costume that is iin the closet ... but it isn't to be worn out of the house. (Supergirl is for my husband only.)

rubianne1979

sorry about the double post.

PecanTanDiva

I just started today and was hoping to find someone who made a post like this! :laugh:

You will see in my profile that I have my secret goal listed as my "top secret mission". Well, I have been with my husband for over 8 years, and we've been married for 2. Since BEFORE my wedding, I wanted to surprise him with a boudoir album (sexy lingerie, half-naked, etc)!

I've kept changing the date when he'd get this album! First, it was our wedding night, then it was our first Valentine's Day as a married couple, then our first anniversary, then our second (you get the picture!) I kept pushing the date back, because I'm not comfortable or confident in my own skin to take sexy photos for my husband! I know right? How bizzare is that?! I mean he sees me naked daily when I shower or when we're intimate; but, I wont pose for photos until I'm confident and feel sexy in my own skin!

So, like you, that's my "secret goal". I want my husband to have sexy photos that he can secretly brag to his friends with. :devil:

I LOVE this idea

rgutie1

I am also working towards the skimpy revealing halloween costume.

ChristinaMarie85

Def agree w/the last one! And would love to leave the lights on or at least some lights w/o feeling like pulling the covers over my head, to take showers together, Lingerie, sexy pix... :blushing: . lol my list could go on forever. And one that's really silly is conquering the hula hoop!!:grumble:

I want to look good in my bikini and actually believe my boyfriend when he says he doesn't want me to wear it because he doesn't want guys gawking at me. And good enough where my friend says "Yea you look totally hot." Instead of "Well it doesn't make me want to claw my eyes out at least"

I want to be small enough and strong enough so that people don't hold back laughter when I say I want to become a personal trainer.

I'd also love to be on top for more than 10 minutes without getting winded.

BEERRUNNER

TO be able to run a 1/2 marathon at a 10 minute pace! I did it at a 12 minute pace last time

To be in prime shape for the summer!

Be able tot ake my shirt off at the beach with no worries!

exfatty89

1. being able to wear a 2 piece bikini
2. being able to pierce my belly button again and show it off!
3. be hotter than all those girls that love to hate :ohwell: