Is that THE ONLY thing he wants from me?

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  • bakebunny
    bakebunny Posts: 253
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    The best 'luck' I had in dating was when I stopped looking, and started going and doing things that I liked and had fun with. Wouldn't you know I met guys there that liked similar stuff I did? :noway:

    As for this guy... well, he's a lot of talk and talk gives you an idea of what's on his mind. But the may be all talk to get you to think in that direction. Tell him right out what your boundaries are, and stick to them. If he can't respect them, he won't respect you.
  • merlimax
    merlimax Posts: 57
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    If this guy really wants to be with you then he needs to respect your word. You don't want to become just another statistic on guys list of achievements . If he truly wants to date you then he will wait and make that first special moment together a memory that you will both cherish. But if he is persistent in trying to get you into his bed then I think it would be better to wait for mr right to come along.. And he will I promise
  • My3Rayz
    My3Rayz Posts: 373
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    Maybe this guy will stick around after he takes the skin boat to the Bermuda Triangle. Maybe he won't.

    OMG! I spit my coffee out on that way...freaking hilarious :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Smittyinthesun2
    Smittyinthesun2 Posts: 161
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    Some guys are horny because they haven't "hit it" since Bush was in the White House.

    Some guys are Horny cuz well they are just horny despite "Hitting it" last weekend with some Chicky LA LA.

    If a guy really likes you he is gonna stick around after sex, because he likes you and he thinks there is more sex available.

    Remember men are for the most part very simple creatures, We need, sex, food, and don't mess with the remote control when were watching the big game TV.

    SO remember F - US, Feed us and leave the F-ing remote alone and were pretty happy and do whatever you want !
  • JennDoesKeto
    JennDoesKeto Posts: 244 Member
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    Guys like sex. No really, like a lot. And we have an uncanny ability o turn anything into sex, so don't condem him for that especially if you haven't said anything about not liking it.

    Talk to him and tell him that you'd appreciate a slower approach. If he backs off and keeps taking you out like the gentelman he was before, then no, he didn't just want sex. But if he doesn't back off, or call, then yes, that's all he wanted. If he's a halfway decent guy when you talk to him he should tell you all he wants right now is someone to have sex with if that's where he's at. So talk to him, and then don't wait for his call, but if it comes be open to it.

    I agree with this. Talk to him. Its your best bet. Put everything out there in the open if he runs then yep thats all he wanted. But if he still wants to be around you and such maybe it was a fluke he was in the club. you never know everyone is different.
  • BEERRUNNER
    BEERRUNNER Posts: 3,049 Member
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  • phenrichs
    phenrichs Posts: 102
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    I know I am a little late here but I would have taken that time alone with his family to find out about him from those that know him best. Spent the time with them while he was at work. Then spend the night with him AFTER explaining you are not ready to just jump in the sack. If he responds well then you can decide how you feel about him based on the information you have compared to your gut. If he seems like a **** after you tell him to slow down then it is time to go.

    Men want to get laid. Period. All men. Period. Some are just more patient and polite about it. I don't buy the don't date from clubs business. I met my wife in a bar. Actually I was the bartender for ladies night. We have been married 7 years, have 3 great kids, and still can't keep our hands off each other.

    I would consider myself a good catch and I am one of the horniest people I know. I am just more patient and polite about it.
    Just tell him as long as he is willing to be patient you can promise him the best sex he has had since he lost his cherry. That oughta get his attention.
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,022 Member
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    Disagree with the notion that because guys think about sex all the time, you should be okay with them talking about it all the time.

    Grown men who actually like women and have respect for them are able to keep their sexual thoughts to themselves for a while. It's one thing to talk about sex to the extent of learning how each person feels about when is the appropriate time to begin a sexual relationship. It's entirely another for a guy to be talking about what he wants to do to you in bed and how much you'll enjoy it within the first week of dating him. I would also be suspicious of any guy who wants you to meet his family within the first week. It almost sounds like he's trying to convince you that he's serious about you so you'll give it up.

    He seems to be a guy who is used to getting what he wants ... he's good-looking, he probably makes good money ... he's not used to hearing the word no. But if he really respected you, you would've only had to say the "no sex" thing once.
  • marianne_s
    marianne_s Posts: 986 Member
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    Work on molding and crafting him into the guy you want. You got to make him want more than just the bedroom.

    See a guy with his girl out at a antique store looking at tea cups? I bet that girl spent a lot of hard work to get him to do that.

    Sorry... but that sounds like a job....

    Maybe this can work if you're late teens/early 20s.... but to work on molding a guy..... well....
    A man doesn't work on molding a woman, does he?


    Back to the OP.... I say trust your instincts.... because us women have an unerring knack of smelling BS a mile off....!
  • brewingaz
    brewingaz Posts: 1,136 Member
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    Work on molding and crafting him into the guy you want. You got to make him want more than just the bedroom.

    See a guy with his girl out at a antique store looking at tea cups? I bet that girl spent a lot of hard work to get him to do that.

    Sorry... but that sounds like a job....

    Maybe this can work if you're late teens/early 20s.... but to work on molding a guy..... well....
    A man doesn't work on molding a woman, does he?


    Back to the OP.... I say trust your instincts.... because us women have an unerring knack of smelling BS a mile off....!

    Ahhh you can't go into a relationship hoping to change that person. You're asking for trouble. I totally agree with marianne_s here.
  • BEERRUNNER
    BEERRUNNER Posts: 3,049 Member
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    Girl, if there is any doubt in your mind as to what time it is, let me break it down for you: It is time for you to get some big brown!
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
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    If I were you, I would have ran the other way as soon as the conversation became about nothing other than sex. F%&k that.

    Men that have nothing interesting to talk about other than sex are BIG LOSERS in my book. Granted I have more guy friends than

    girl friends that should say something, at least to myself it does.

    Disclaimer : I don't expect anyone to agree with me.
  • BEERRUNNER
    BEERRUNNER Posts: 3,049 Member
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    To make up for all the foolish things that man said.... tomorrow night, I will escort you to my crib, where I will prepare for you a romantic meal comprised of succulent lobster from the finest sea.

    Then, when we have each finished eating our meals, I will lay your body down on a bedsheet comprised of 100 percent silk, which I will purchase in advance from the finest store in this city. Then, just before we freak, I will inquire as to how you like the feel of the sheets. If you inform me that you do not like it, I will travel to other cities around the world until I locate a store that sells sheets that are more to your satisfaction. Then, I will purchase those sheets and return home to put them on the bed for you.
    It is then that I will hit you doggy-style.
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
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    To make up for all the foolish things that man said.... tomorrow night, I will escort you to my crib, where I will prepare for you a romantic meal comprised of succulent lobster from the finest sea.

    Then, when we have each finished eating our meals, I will lay your body down on a bedsheet comprised of 100 percent silk, which I will purchase in advance from the finest store in this city. Then, just before we freak, I will inquire as to how you like the feel of the sheets. If you inform me that you do not like it, I will travel to other cities around the world until I locate a store that sells sheets that are more to your satisfaction. Then, I will purchase those sheets and return home to put them on the bed for you.
    It is then that I will hit you doggy-style.

    That is the most corny comment I have ever read. I almost choked on my coffee. Sorry. XD
  • NobodyKnows
    NobodyKnows Posts: 764 Member
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    To make up for all the foolish things that man said.... tomorrow night, I will escort you to my crib, where I will prepare for you a romantic meal comprised of succulent lobster from the finest sea.

    Then, when we have each finished eating our meals, I will lay your body down on a bedsheet comprised of 100 percent silk, which I will purchase in advance from the finest store in this city. Then, just before we freak, I will inquire as to how you like the feel of the sheets. If you inform me that you do not like it, I will travel to other cities around the world until I locate a store that sells sheets that are more to your satisfaction. Then, I will purchase those sheets and return home to put them on the bed for you.
    It is then that I will hit you doggy-style.

    Please go back to the Insult thread where your posts can receive the appropriate response.
  • BEERRUNNER
    BEERRUNNER Posts: 3,049 Member
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    Its Friday people....lets have some laughs! ......hahahahahaha you guys made me laugh!
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
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    It is then that I will hit you doggy-style.

    That reminds me of the lyrics to "The Bad Touch" by the Bloodhound Gang

    "So if I capsize on your thighs high tide, B-5 you sunk my battleship
    Please turn me on I'm Mister Coffee with an automatic drip
    So show me yours I'll show you mine "Tool Time" you'll Lovett just like Lyle
    And then we'll do it doggy style so we can both watch "X-Files"

    Do it now
    You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals
    So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel
    Do it again now
    You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals
    So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel
    Gettin' horny now..."

    Love that freaking song.
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
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    To make up for all the foolish things that man said.... tomorrow night, I will escort you to my crib, where I will prepare for you a romantic meal comprised of succulent lobster from the finest sea.

    Then, when we have each finished eating our meals, I will lay your body down on a bedsheet comprised of 100 percent silk, which I will purchase in advance from the finest store in this city. Then, just before we freak, I will inquire as to how you like the feel of the sheets. If you inform me that you do not like it, I will travel to other cities around the world until I locate a store that sells sheets that are more to your satisfaction. Then, I will purchase those sheets and return home to put them on the bed for you.
    It is then that I will hit you doggy-style.

    I am sorry but just reading made me loose a few million brain cells. Seriously, it's hilarious!!! I can't believe anyone would find this any kind of romantic, sexy, or whatever... HAHA XD
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
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    :::::double post::::
  • NobodyKnows
    NobodyKnows Posts: 764 Member
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    You lost so many brain cells you posted your reply twice. :laugh:

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