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  • audigal2008
    audigal2008 Posts: 1,129 Member
    somewhere in the middle, but overall it depends on the man and his personality.
    I agree, muscle men can get cocky and that is such a turn off
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    My ex husband was far from fit, and he was a cocky jerkface and an *kitten*. There are bad dudes in all shapes and sizes.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    how about I be even more specific and say guys that look like you? :tongue:

    Oh my...well, yeah that's specific lol. And yes Von, I caught yours too, but you've said it before, this caught me by surprise lol.
    ok, ok, so then I like athletic guys. Is that better? lol

    Haha! As if you haven't been specific enough since right?

    =D

    Odus...I'm adding my stamp of approval...Swimgoddess is completely fantastic btw...lol...but obviously you're aware of that fact.

    Taso...touche =D.

    Swimgoddess...I'm not particularly fond of my own chin, but I don't let my facial hair grow any longer than the hair on my head...no illusions there =p. And yeah...Mr. Matthew is pretty awesome in that movie...one of his best parts really. He plays pure, undiluted male much better than I'd have expected.
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    how about I be even more specific and say guys that look like you? :tongue:

    Oh my...well, yeah that's specific lol. And yes Von, I caught yours too, but you've said it before, this caught me by surprise lol.
    ok, ok, so then I like athletic guys. Is that better? lol

    Haha! As if you haven't been specific enough since right?

    =D



    to be fair, I responded the athletic guy first, then I said a guy who looks like you, especially since I decided to do my first Ms. Bikini competition and am working out, etc.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    how about I be even more specific and say guys that look like you? :tongue:

    Oh my...well, yeah that's specific lol. And yes Von, I caught yours too, but you've said it before, this caught me by surprise lol.
    ok, ok, so then I like athletic guys. Is that better? lol

    Haha! As if you haven't been specific enough since right?

    =D



    to be fair, I responded the athletic guy first, then I said a guy who looks like you, especially since I decided to do my first Ms. Bikini competition and am working out, etc.

    Well, either way I'm honored, and thank you. It really did catch me by surprise lol. People like Von and others tease me about being 'hot'...and I'm very proud of my hard work of course. But truthfully...the camera does nice things for me...to my eye at least, I don't look a lot like that in person lol. Seeing the pictures is awesome motivation to keep pushing as hard as I can though, until the person in the mirror matches the person in the pictures.

    By the way...best of luck on your debut bikini competition :)


    ~edit - smart phone typos.../sigh
  • mandeiko
    mandeiko Posts: 1,657 Member
    Lean and fit? But if I had to choose, I'd rather a little extra in natural fluff rather than monster body builder.

    For the record, this is how I perceive lean and fit.
    side_lean.jpg

    And I would date this guy....
    tumblr_lofosba2eE1qb1utno1_500.jpg

    Before this guy....
    Muscle-Builder.gif
  • maria1113
    maria1113 Posts: 508 Member
    Natural, defined muscles here too.
    ditto
  • ohwhataday
    ohwhataday Posts: 1,398 Member
    Lean and fit? But if I had to choose, I'd rather a little extra in natural fluff rather than monster body builder.

    For the record, this is how I perceive lean and fit.
    side_lean.jpg

    And I would date this guy....
    tumblr_lofosba2eE1qb1utno1_500.jpg

    Before this guy....
    Muscle-Builder.gif

    I would definitely date Adam from Man V. Food. hottttttt!! Even if he can't bend over in his jacket..
  • ladysandy
    ladysandy Posts: 82
    I like them natural!
  • SweetTeaBlossom
    SweetTeaBlossom Posts: 57
    As long as a man has a gorgeous face and nice looking man parts I don't care about his body at all. As long as he can wipe himself and stay clean like Swimgoddess mentioned.
    Lean and fit? But if I had to choose, I'd rather a little extra in natural fluff rather than monster body builder.

    For the record, this is how I perceive lean and fit.
    side_lean.jpg

    And I would date this guy....
    tumblr_lofosba2eE1qb1utno1_500.jpg

    Before this guy....
    Muscle-Builder.gif

    I would definitely date Adam from Man V. Food. hottttttt!! Even if he can't bend over in his jacket..

    I would date the first guy because he has the best looking face and features.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Somewhere in between for me.

    Adam Levigne
    David Beckham
    Rian Reynolds

    Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm :love:
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    Naturally fit. Every time I see a guy that is REALLY pumped with huge thick arms the only thing I can think of is..... "How the hells does that guy wipe his *kitten* after #2?"
  • cmbradfield
    cmbradfield Posts: 90
    I prefer fit and toned.
  • luscadero
    luscadero Posts: 92 Member
    I've always been attracted to tall, skinny boys. They're always the naturally skinny type.
  • BrownEyedG1rl
    BrownEyedG1rl Posts: 625 Member
    I can't stand men that are all beefed up with muscle. Too much is unattractive to me. I like muscles, don't get me wrong! Being nice and toned is good for me. Just not too skinny. I like some meat to hold on to. Wait...that sounds bad, LOL! You know what I mean! :laugh:
  • BrownEyedG1rl
    BrownEyedG1rl Posts: 625 Member
    Somewhere in between for me.

    Adam Levigne
    David Beckham
    Rian Reynolds

    Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm :love:

    This!! Totally agree!
  • BrownEyedG1rl
    BrownEyedG1rl Posts: 625 Member
    Here you go:

    2165291.jpg2165290.jpg

    This was a few years ago...and he has a Mountain Dew belly, thus the cropped pictures (he cropped them lol).

    Anyway, I thought getting some pictures in here for comparison will help =p.

    To be honest, that's actually a bit too big for my liking.

    I'd still do him... but just sayin.

    Agree! He is cute!
  • UpEarly
    UpEarly Posts: 2,555 Member
    I find lots of muscle definition/size to be a turn-off (especially when all their body hair is waxed off). I like an average build on a guy.
  • jenniferg83
    jenniferg83 Posts: 278 Member
    In between. Muscles are nice but not the kind where your Tshirt can't fit. Regardless just healthy looking
  • jenniferg83
    jenniferg83 Posts: 278 Member
    As long as a man has a gorgeous face and nice looking man parts I don't care about his body at all. As long as he can wipe himself and stay clean like Swimgoddess mentioned.
    Lean and fit? But if I had to choose, I'd rather a little extra in natural fluff rather than monster body builder.

    For the record, this is how I perceive lean and fit.
    side_lean.jpg


    And I would date this guy....
    tumblr_lofosba2eE1qb1utno1_500.jpg

    Before this guy....
    Muscle-Builder.gif

    I would definitely date Adam from Man V. Food. hottttttt!! Even if he can't bend over in his jacket..

    I would date the first guy because he has the best looking face and features.

    None of them. The 1st one looks like a jerk, the second one is way unhealthy from all that nasty food he eats and how much he eats, and the last is clearly full of him self and doesnt make time for anything but working out
  • krash999
    krash999 Posts: 476 Member
    so i guess us really big guys are just sol until we get down to a semi "healthy" looking build.... dangit....
  • mandeiko
    mandeiko Posts: 1,657 Member
    Somewhere in between for me.

    Adam Levigne
    David Beckham
    Rian Reynolds

    Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm :love:

    YES!!
    adam-levine-naked.jpg

    Yes!!
    david-beckham-shirtless.jpg

    YESSSS!!
    ryan%2Breynolds%2Bshirtless3.jpg
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Somewhere in between for me.

    Adam Levigne
    David Beckham
    Rian Reynolds

    Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm :love:

    YES!!
    adam-levine-naked.jpg

    Yes!!
    david-beckham-shirtless.jpg

    YESSSS!!
    ryan%2Breynolds%2Bshirtless3.jpg

    Adam Levine looks like a crackhead lol...I know his ex btw...serious issues =p.

    The other two I can see though...well built, and healthy looking guys.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Somewhere in between for me.

    Adam Levigne
    David Beckham
    Rian Reynolds

    Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm :love:

    YES!!
    adam-levine-naked.jpg

    Yes!!
    david-beckham-shirtless.jpg

    YESSSS!!
    ryan%2Breynolds%2Bshirtless3.jpg

    Adam Levine looks like a crackhead lol...I know his ex btw...serious issues =p.

    The other two I can see though...well built, and healthy looking guys.

    They're all delicious. I'll accept the crackhead lovingly.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    They're all delicious. I'll accept the crackhead lovingly.

    Delicious is such a great word lol...particularly when used about something other than food.

    Yes m'am.
  • cmbradfield
    cmbradfield Posts: 90
    Somewhere in between for me.

    Adam Levigne
    David Beckham
    Rian Reynolds

    Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm :love:

    YES!!
    adam-levine-naked.jpg

    Yes!!
    david-beckham-shirtless.jpg

    YESSSS!!
    ryan%2Breynolds%2Bshirtless3.jpg


    Adam and Ryan....YES to both!
  • juliesummers
    juliesummers Posts: 738 Member
    Trim, fit and toned.
    Not super muscular (hyper-muscular guys are a total turn off to me, because it just tells me that they're so insecure with their masculinity that they have to try so hard to prove that they're "manly" and Alpha. Gross).

    (I like bodies like the one my friend Bobby has:
    http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/5374_128403820860_671485860_3425000_4392587_n.jpg )
  • thegymbunny
    thegymbunny Posts: 602 Member
    Trim, fit and toned.
    Not super muscular (hyper-muscular guys are a tota turn off to me, because it just tells me that they're so insecure with their masculinity that they have to try so hard to prove that they're "manly" and Alpha. Gross).

    (I like bodies like the one my friend Bobby has:
    http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/5374_128403820860_671485860_3425000_4392587_n.jpg )

    Thats a good one!
  • albinogorilla
    albinogorilla Posts: 1,056 Member
    Trim, fit and toned.
    Not super muscular (hyper-muscular guys are a total turn off to me, because it just tells me that they're so insecure with their masculinity that they have to try so hard to prove that they're "manly" and Alpha. Gross).

    (I like bodies like the one my friend Bobby has:
    http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/5374_128403820860_671485860_3425000_4392587_n.jpg )

    Thats what we call a "stereotype"..............i thought those were bad?
  • looking4au
    looking4au Posts: 85 Member
    I know this may not be helpful, but there is something attractive about both body types. Seriously, bottom line for me is how you treat me and your personality and sense of humor. Those three things make a man sexy and attractive no matter what kind of body type you have.
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