I'm too sexual looking...........accusation from a gym membe

ritajean3

Can I ask why you don't get shorts over the top that have drawstrings? If you tie them up tight enough they won't slip as easily as non drawstring ones. Do them tight enough not to slip but not so tight they cut into you.

If you are covering your junk up with a shirt than there shouldn't be any issue except when you kick ect. I would say in all honestly she is just finding you attractive ect or has a issue with you in general or the gym and has taken it out on you by putting in this complaint. People are stupid and unless you get more complaints or you supervisor specifically tells you to I wouldn't bother changing.

TourThePast

Can I ask why you don't get shorts over the top that have drawstrings?

As a gym member, rather than an employee, I'll tell you why I personally wouldn't wear a second pair of shorts to go over the top of my shorts.

1. I've worked bloody hard from being obese, to getting this body and I feel entitled to show it off, plus it provides inspiration. If I can turn myself around and end up looking like this, so can anyone.

2. Wearing two pairs of shorts just because some random woman is apparently scared of seeing the human body is just bloody stupid. Maybe I should wear a bag over my head in case my smile beguiles innocents... *rolls eyes*

mea9

Your Boss needs to grow a pair and back his employee.

^^ This
You don't know who it is though. I'd be careful guessing as the grapevine is less than reliable and often invested... What if it was another employee? Anyone have an issue with you?

sleepytexan

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!

sorry.

HA HA HA HA HAHA HA!!!!

I'm too sexy for my work, too sexy for my work, so sexy it hurts . . . .

ooh -- do you think being sexy burns extra calories??

arewethereyet

maybe it's the tight *kitten* that offends. wear shorts over the spandex, or invest in some Lulu for men

Shirts I wear hang low enough to cover my butt and crotch area. Which is why I'm still wondering why she complained.

maybe you were giving her a neck ache from craning her head in that weird position so she could see under the shirt?

Just a suggestion:indifferent:

TheShelterCat

Maybe you should refrain from teaching classes in spandex with an erection.

hahahahahahaha

Johnnyswife

I got a warning from my Group Fitness Supervisor today to be aware of my clothing at the gym. In my avatar, I'm wearing the same spandex that I was accused of being "too sexual looking" in when a complaint was put in the suggestion box! I wear them because if I just wore shorts, every time I kick (and I kick high) in kickboxing instruction, you'd see my "junk". At least this way I'm "contained". Through the grapevine, apparently it's from a very "religious and conservative" woman who attends my classes.

So your opinion: If I wore that to an instruction class, would you be offended?

BTW, I have no choice but to "cover up" more.

Sounds like she's got the hots for ya. lol Your supposed to wear close fitting clothes at the gym..I'd rather not see your junk while working out...Do others wear the same clothes? She can't make everyone change their clothes.

JNick77

I got a warning from my Group Fitness Supervisor today to be aware of my clothing at the gym. In my avatar, I'm wearing the same spandex that I was accused of being "too sexual looking" in when a complaint was put in the suggestion box! I wear them because if I just wore shorts, every time I kick (and I kick high) in kickboxing instruction, you'd see my "junk". At least this way I'm "contained". Through the grapevine, apparently it's from a very "religious and conservative" woman who attends my classes.

So your opinion: If I wore that to an instruction class, would you be offended?

BTW, I have no choice but to "cover up" more.

Thinking about this from a pure business stand point. Because one lady made that complaint there are probably even more women that come to the class just because of how you look and that would drive business which as a gym manager I'd tell this lady to deal with it that you're a fitness professional.

mnerfariousl

if she was focused on her workouts she would have no time noticing your spandex goodness...i mean i would love some eye candy when i work out...:blushing:

jenny95662

Well, if you wore some white spandex with taint stains that should avert those sexual predators' eyes from staring at the crotchal area.

omg i love you thats great

AlsDonkBoxSquat

I totally would not be offended, unless you didn't occassionally turn around and bend over (I'm an *kitten* girl). I think she sucks.

adross3

I don't Care what you wear....BUT, in a profesional environment clothes must be worn not to offend anybody. You work at a business that is not yours. You do not have the right to wear offensive clothes. If you owned the business you have the right to refuse service.

snowintx

Your reply made me laugh.

snowintx

Your reply made me laugh.

billsica

only made it though part of this thread. I'd ask to see the dress code policy of the gym so you know what is appropriate.

SMarie10

want to read this - Bump

infamousmk

I'm being sexually offended right now. You should take your top off, though.

Umeboshi

I don't Care what you wear....BUT, in a profesional environment clothes must be worn not to offend anybody. You work at a business that is not yours. You do not have the right to wear offensive clothes. If you owned the business you have the right to refuse service.

I'm offended by shirtless men and bare legs. I shall complain and make all of the people in the gym wear pants and shirts.

Umeboshi

Fabulous double-post powers, activate.

Cait_Sidhe

I'm thinking a fire-shooting cod-piece, like Blackie Lawless of WASP used to wear.

Best idea yet!

Definitely! A cod piece seems to be the only logical option here. Bonus points for a flame shooting one!

ninerbuff

Can I ask why you don't get shorts over the top that have drawstrings? If you tie them up tight enough they won't slip as easily as non drawstring ones. Do them tight enough not to slip but not so tight they cut into you.

If you are covering your junk up with a shirt than there shouldn't be any issue except when you kick ect. I would say in all honestly she is just finding you attractive ect or has a issue with you in general or the gym and has taken it out on you by putting in this complaint. People are stupid and unless you get more complaints or you supervisor specifically tells you to I wouldn't bother changing.

Not saying that I can't wear shorts over them. But during a high intensity workout, it gets uncomfortable wearing layers of clothing. With just the spandex, at least "air out" and not build up lots of heat around the area below my waist.

suzycreamcheese

remove the sparkely codpiece?

myofibril

I don't Care what you wear....BUT, in a profesional environment clothes must be worn not to offend anybody. You work at a business that is not yours. You do not have the right to wear offensive clothes. If you owned the business you have the right to refuse service.

True, but you cannot extrapolate a trend from a single complaint. The aim of a private business is to maximise profits and to do that you cater to what the most number of people want, not the least.

Maybe the majority don't actually mind (and hey some may actually prefer it...) In addition there maybe more complaints or dropouts if the intensity of the workout suffers because they instructor is forced to cover up.

A good business decision would look at the overall trend before formulating policy NOT retrograde, reactionary steps based on imperfect information.

MrsBlobs

This seems silly to me. When I've taken classes I'm more worried about my own jiggly bits moving around (earthquake alert) and not hurting myself to be studying what the instructor is wearing.

Sounds like you are the victim of someone elses neurosis, unfortunately. It's their problem and not yours, but you are performing a service for paying clients so it's a difficult one. But I do agree with the others, I would rather catch an outline in spandex than meet the meat and veg in person.

You can get shorts with an inner bit that holds you in and covers you up - which may mean you could dispense with the lower spandex all together. At least that way you won't be layering to such an extent.

InfamousQ

Think it is amazing how the opinion of one or a small few change everything for everybody else.......

kimmie790

Threaten them with wearing a man-kini!!! Borat style!!!
That should shut them up!!!!!

Gotta love the fashion police!!!!

BrettPGH

I got a warning from my Group Fitness Supervisor today to be aware of my clothing at the gym. In my avatar, I'm wearing the same spandex that I was accused of being "too sexual looking" in when a complaint was put in the suggestion box! I wear them because if I just wore shorts, every time I kick (and I kick high) in kickboxing instruction, you'd see my "junk". At least this way I'm "contained". Through the grapevine, apparently it's from a very "religious and conservative" woman who attends my classes.

So your opinion: If I wore that to an instruction class, would you be offended?

BTW, I have no choice but to "cover up" more.

Easy fix. Explain that you're a devout muslim and you demand that woman cover herself completely.

If she's smart at all she'll get it.

swordsmith

Find a new gym

ninerbuff

So got an email from my supe and she said that I am in compliance with dress code and that I can choose to cover up the spandex or not. Let's see if I get another complaint!

Kate6868

They look like gym clothes to me. When I'm at the gym, I expect to see gym clothes. Now, if you showed up at a nice restaurant like that, I might be concerned.