Dating/Relationship Dealbreakers...

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  • kb455
    kb455 Posts: 679 Member
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    deal breakers for me:
    bad hygiene
    doesn't like animals/kids
    lazy
    rude to service people (like waiters, etc.). This bothers me big time and makes me really uncomfortable.
    overly shy/introverted
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
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    Lives in mom's basement
    Bad tippers
    Halitosis
    Watches Fox News
    Blonde
    Small cockadoodledoo, if you know what I mean

    Yeah, I'm vain, I admit.

    Watches Fox news is another good one!
  • JulieSD
    JulieSD Posts: 567
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    Lives in mom's basement
    Bad tippers
    Halitosis
    Watches Fox News
    Blonde
    Small cockadoodledoo, if you know what I mean

    Yeah, I'm vain, I admit.

    Watches Fox news is another good one!

    I lol'd at Fox news! Awesome.
  • foremant86
    foremant86 Posts: 1,115 Member
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    Lives in mom's basement
    Bad tippers
    Halitosis
    Watches Fox News
    Blonde
    Small cockadoodledoo, if you know what I mean

    Yeah, I'm vain, I admit.

    Watches Fox news is another good one!

    lol definitely!
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
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    Lives in mom's basement
    Bad tippers
    Halitosis
    Watches Fox News
    Blonde
    Small cockadoodledoo, if you know what I mean

    Yeah, I'm vain, I admit.

    Watches Fox news is another good one!

    WOAH, where do you get your nightly "LOLs" if you don't watch Fox News?!
  • glenr79
    glenr79 Posts: 283 Member
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    yay! I am not a dealbreaker!
    deal breakers for me:
    bad hygiene
    doesn't like animals/kids
    lazy
    rude to service people (like waiters, etc.). This bothers me big time and makes me really uncomfortable.
    overly shy/introverted
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
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    not emphatic

    Nail on the head. Some sympathy, honestly, can be useful too. Not in the bad way though.
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
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    Lives in mom's basement
    Bad tippers
    Halitosis
    Watches Fox News
    Blonde
    Small cockadoodledoo, if you know what I mean

    Yeah, I'm vain, I admit.

    Watches Fox news is another good one!

    WOAH, where do you get your nightly "LOLs" if you don't watch Fox News?!

    The Daily Show when it's mocked? lol
  • Goldenwoof
    Goldenwoof Posts: 535 Member
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    Smoking.
    Racists (I had recent experience with this one...just plain ugliness).
    Not being able to let go of the past.
    No sense of humor.
    Not being active (maybe not as active as I am, but no couch potatoes).

    I'm sure my list is actually longer, but hey...I'm tired. :)

    One more from me: dog haters. My dog was here before you, and if you force me to choose, he'll be here after you're gone. :)
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,455 Member
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    Pessimistic
    Reliant on drugs or alcohol
    Playing the victim in life
    unmotivated
    lazy
    unintelligent
    critical
    prone to passing on negative news
    unsupportive
    unwilling to communicate openly
    super religious or conservative
    judgemental
    homophobic/sexist/anti-choice
    violent
    easily angered

    Ill take your list and raise it a "doesnt like kids"
  • LixxiKitti
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    - doesnt like my cat
    - doesnt like animals
    - hunts animals
    - anti social
    - has cheated on any ex partner
    - constantly criticising me
  • foremant86
    foremant86 Posts: 1,115 Member
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    Smoking.
    Racists (I had recent experience with this one...just plain ugliness).
    Not being able to let go of the past.
    No sense of humor.
    Not being active (maybe not as active as I am, but no couch potatoes).

    I'm sure my list is actually longer, but hey...I'm tired. :)

    One more from me: dog haters. My dog was here before you, and if you force me to choose, he'll be here after you're gone. :)

    Indeed! I've had guys tell me I need to get rid of my dogs...haha yea right buddy!
  • DopeItUp
    DopeItUp Posts: 18,771 Member
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    I'm pretty simple. Dealbreakers:

    Kids (or plans for them)
    Religious
    Smoker
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
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    Lives in mom's basement
    Bad tippers
    Halitosis
    Watches Fox News
    Blonde
    Small cockadoodledoo, if you know what I mean

    Yeah, I'm vain, I admit.

    Watches Fox news is another good one!

    WOAH, where do you get your nightly "LOLs" if you don't watch Fox News?!

    The Daily Show when it's mocked? lol

    Second hand mockery will be accepted.
  • Goldenwoof
    Goldenwoof Posts: 535 Member
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    Smoking.
    Racists (I had recent experience with this one...just plain ugliness).
    Not being able to let go of the past.
    No sense of humor.
    Not being active (maybe not as active as I am, but no couch potatoes).

    I'm sure my list is actually longer, but hey...I'm tired. :)

    One more from me: dog haters. My dog was here before you, and if you force me to choose, he'll be here after you're gone. :)

    Indeed! I've had guys tell me I need to get rid of my dogs...haha yea right buddy!

    Been there! This one girl used to have a problem with the fact that I took my responsibility as a dog-owner seriously. For example, I had to make sure I came home to put them out, etc. She told me once, "You need to get rid of those dogs. They're ruining your life." That was the last time she and I saw each other. :)
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,701 Member
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    Hates the 49ers
    Is enamored by TMZ
    Eats her boogers
    Is a raw vegan
    Believes that the moon is made of cheese
  • 2stepz
    2stepz Posts: 814 Member
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    The two I'm dealing with right now: Communication and Honesty. You either have them, or you're out. In fact, I just gave "him" an ultimatum with a deadline. Either do something about it, or I'm gone. Hiding from the problem won't work this time.
  • ChristineMarie89
    ChristineMarie89 Posts: 1,142 Member
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    cant handle someone thats:
    violent
    doesnt like kids
    boring
    alcoholic
    whiney
    rude
    immature
    unfaithful
    and smokers(although tht one isnt a deal breaker rele)
  • Cakepiebeer
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    Hates the 49ers

    HAHA, Good one Niner!

    I know this is bad.. but I get really really turned off by people who eat fast food.. So if she eats fast food regularly, then deal breaker.

    Obnoxious
    Fancys herself a "Diva" (oh brother)
    Covered in tattoos
    heavy drinker, smoker and or pothead
    only listens to rap or R&B
    Short hair
  • ladycomix
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    Doesn't understand my love of things with blinky LEDs
    gets weird if I make more money than he does.
    No sense of adventure or need to travel and see new things

    the biggie: hates kids