Dating/Relationship Dealbreakers...

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  • loristroud
    loristroud Posts: 138 Member
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    He has to be a video-gamer. Straight-up. :D
  • _GlaDOS_
    _GlaDOS_ Posts: 1,520 Member
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    Dealbreakers for me:

    Religious
    Republican
    Anti-choice
    Smoking
    Racist

    :flowerforyou:
  • missbeccaanne
    missbeccaanne Posts: 125
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    Speaks English poorly, I hate when I feel as if I am a grammar teacher mentally correcting everything he says.
    short tempered
    constantly compare themselves to others
    pretentious
    insecure
    undependable
    Republican (I already have one Dad)
  • sarah_ep
    sarah_ep Posts: 580 Member
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    1. Violent
    2. Controllong
    3. No Job/only works part time
    4. Lives with more than 1 roommate.
    5. Barfly
    6. Overly conservative/religious
    7. Addicted to drugs
    8. Bad hygiene
    9. Punctuality - seems trivial but it drives me mad!!!!.
  • brandimacleod
    brandimacleod Posts: 368 Member
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    Man, there are a lot of bad things about people I just never thought about. LOL!
  • MisterDubs303
    MisterDubs303 Posts: 1,216 Member
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    Pessimistic
    Reliant on drugs or alcohol
    Playing the victim in life
    unmotivated
    lazy
    unintelligent
    critical
    prone to passing on negative news
    unsupportive
    unwilling to communicate openly
    super religious or conservative
    judgemental
    homophobic/sexist/anti-choice
    violent
    easily angered
    Yikes! On a good week I hit about a third of these. On a bad week, more.
    No wonder I'm single.
  • juliesummers
    juliesummers Posts: 738 Member
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    Dealbreakers for me:

    Religious
    Republican
    Anti-choice
    Smoking
    Racist

    :flowerforyou:

    Agreed^
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,701 Member
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    Dealbreakers for me:

    Religious
    Republican
    Anti-choice
    Smoking
    Racist

    :flowerforyou:
    I could live with the first 2 (I do now). But not the last 3.
  • spiritcrusher
    spiritcrusher Posts: 326 Member
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    - Has kids
    - Religious
    - Gonorrhea
    - Vegan
    - Liberal/Democrat (I'd casually date one but never take her seriously)
    - Unemployed
    - Uneducated

    The last three usually go hand in hand.
  • Liquid741
    Liquid741 Posts: 292 Member
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    as a guy...i would copy the OP's post...and add that my girl must not be a alpha girl! dont want a woman that it has to be her way..someone that will listen and communicate and share everything.

    one that doesnt want to control the household, but work as a team for a common goal....shockingly that is hard to find.
  • maletac
    maletac Posts: 767 Member
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    can I just copy and paste yours?


    and then add:

    Must have their own place, preferrably not a jail cell.

    LMAO preferrably
  • maletac
    maletac Posts: 767 Member
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    im going to have to say:

    secretive
    stripper
    takes no blame for anything
    insane
    being afraid to speak when men are talking
    hairyer arms than me
    outrageous noses
    any drama with an ex
    drugs
    ALCOHOL
    no goals
    stuck up
    and im going to add religion now
  • artsymeholly
    artsymeholly Posts: 4
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    Pessimistic
    does drugs or is an alcoholic
    unmotivated/ no ambition
    lazy
    unintelligent
    looking for a mother (being taken care of) more than a girlfriend
    judgemental
    ignorant
    selfish
    cocky/ big ego
  • artsymeholly
    artsymeholly Posts: 4
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    bad manners is a big one too!
  • artsymeholly
    artsymeholly Posts: 4
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    Smoking.
    Racists (I had recent experience with this one...just plain ugliness).
    Not being able to let go of the past.
    No sense of humor.
    Not being active (maybe not as active as I am, but no couch potatoes).

    I'm sure my list is actually longer, but hey...I'm tired. :)

    One more from me: dog haters. My dog was here before you, and if you force me to choose, he'll be here after you're gone. :)

    I feel the same way!
  • juliesummers
    juliesummers Posts: 738 Member
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    I've broken three of these dealbreakers thus far: (raw)vegan, liberal and lives with parents or 2+ roommates
  • spyder_rose
    spyder_rose Posts: 193 Member
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    Has no back bone (doesn't have their "own" opinion)
    Is religious
    Lives with parents (unless they are caring for an ill parent)
    No job
    No brains
    No personality
    Takes drugs/smokes
    Has kids
    Has issues

    I'm sure there's plenty more... but it's only once you get to know someone that you realise what you do/don't like...
  • scarletleavy
    scarletleavy Posts: 841 Member
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    Religious
    Conservative
    Monolingual
    Racist/Sexist/Homophobic/Intolerant in general
    Doesn't like to travel/ Doesn't have a passport
    Picky eater
    Bad taste/ Incompatible taste *hard to quantify, but I think I know it when I see it
    Spendthrift/ In debt
    Needy, whiny and/or jealous
    Doesn't like the outdoors, sports or working out
  • Liquid741
    Liquid741 Posts: 292 Member
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    kinda surprised at the religious/conservative/republican hate...but to each his own. there is always someone for everyone out there.

    ill stay a proud conservative that believes...
  • Banks01
    Banks01 Posts: 985 Member
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    Needy/clingy
    Hairy
    No sense of humor
    Girls named Debbie or Angela

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