fit & butt ugly OR fat with and stunning??.

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  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    i'll go with fat and cute face, mainly because that's what i've been for several years and i've never had issues with lack of male attention
  • DarkNebula84
    DarkNebula84 Posts: 445 Member
    I've never met anyone fat who was "stunningly gorgeous." But I may have a different definition of "fat" than some people.

    Ugly is also subjective. If I think you're "butt ugly," that means I'm not physically attracted to you on any level, so your physique doesn't really matter.

    I am fat and stunningly gorgeous :happy:
  • BAMFMeredith
    BAMFMeredith Posts: 2,810 Member
    When I was in high school there was this girl who had like the most amazing body ever, but her face was just...poor girl. I mean really...she was just not blessed in that area. As I always say, God don't give with both hands.

    And of course, since it was high school, and we're all a-holes in high school, we used to call her butter face behind her back (her body's great, but her face...) :( I felt like a douche years later for calling her that.

    But to answer the OP's question, I'd rather have some extra junk in my trunk and a hot face. I can lose weight, ugly is forever.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    You can choose to be fit or fat. Can't choose to be ugly or attractive. Doesn't matter anyways. Beauty is totally subjective. Check out some of the dumbass threads in here. "Curvy vs Anorexic" "Ugly vs Pretty" etc etc etc

    Set your sights on what you want to be and move towards that goal. Anyone that derides you for choosing that path is not your friend. Screw 'em.

    Just don't run around constantly telling everyone : "Hey! Look at me."
  • Tangerine302
    Tangerine302 Posts: 1,509 Member
    I don't think it's really a cut and dried answer. Who is determining what the looks status is? You could have the most beautiful looking person and once they open their mouths, you might find out they just turned ugly. Can be the oposite as well. A person who isn't extremely gorgeous when talking turns extremely gorgeous. Just depends on what attracts each individual.
    Labels aren't good.
  • ChrisGoldn
    ChrisGoldn Posts: 473 Member
    I've never met anyone fat who was "stunningly gorgeous." But I may have a different definition of "fat" than some people.

    Ugly is also subjective. If I think you're "butt ugly," that means I'm not physically attracted to you on any level, so your physique doesn't really matter.

    I am fat and stunningly gorgeous :happy:

    Well your not Fat... but you definitely Stunningly gorgeous!! :)
  • DarkNebula84
    DarkNebula84 Posts: 445 Member
    I've never met anyone fat who was "stunningly gorgeous." But I may have a different definition of "fat" than some people.

    Ugly is also subjective. If I think you're "butt ugly," that means I'm not physically attracted to you on any level, so your physique doesn't really matter.

    I am fat and stunningly gorgeous :happy:


    Well your not Fat... but you definitely Stunningly gorgeous!! :)


    :flowerforyou: Thank you :blushing:
  • budhandy
    budhandy Posts: 305 Member
    I would be fit and ugly because I want to be around for my family, and if that means I am the elephant man i can live with that
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    fit and butt ugly.
  • wildcata77
    wildcata77 Posts: 660
    I don't know many fit women that are butt ugly (or men, for that matter).

    I still think that at my voluptuous, Amazonian, obese size I am more attractive than some of the skinny strung-out Mountain Dew chuggers I see around here.

    Confidence and kindness are what makes people beautiful. They will make a less attractive person radiate, while a snobby sneer will show a physically attractive girl's true colors.
  • elynnuh
    elynnuh Posts: 50 Member
    fat and stunning
  • SexyCook
    SexyCook Posts: 2,249 Member
    I would have to go for fit & Butt ugly....Someone that cares about their health and clean cut, nice dressed, and hygiene on point....with an awesome personality and cares about me...Yeah I will take that....
  • sandiki
    sandiki Posts: 454
    Never fat........it you are ugly or pretty that is what you are but fit is better than fat always!!!!!


    Perfectly said!
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    fit and butt ugly OR fat with a stunningly gorgeous face??
    my trainer and I got into screaming match over what men (and women) would prefer. We always debate topics like these because I understand both sides of the coin. So I am taking it to the streets of MFP. here's what my dad always used to say: Nobody wants a bone but a dog and even he wants some meat on it. :bigsmile:

    SIDEBAR: so I personally believe beauty comes in ALL shapes, sizes, colors. Who can define it? INSIDE beauty is MORE important than asthetic beauty. It's interesting to see what everyone's take is. WOW. WOW. WOW. Blown away.:huh: :bigsmile: :noway:

    Is it possible to have a gorgeous face while "fat"? To me, no. :/

    I'd take neither I think.
  • jenny95662
    jenny95662 Posts: 997 Member
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    *the best of both sides :)

    hahahahahahahahaha
  • Shanel0916
    Shanel0916 Posts: 586 Member
    I've never met anyone fat who was "stunningly gorgeous." But I may have a different definition of "fat" than some people.

    Ugly is also subjective. If I think you're "butt ugly," that means I'm not physically attracted to you on any level, so your physique doesn't really matter.







    Well u have obviously never met me!
  • wildcata77
    wildcata77 Posts: 660
    Wow- reading this whole thread just made me feel super depressed about the state of human beings.

    Well, then don't go reading the lady muscle thread b/c obviously I'm the worst of the lot. ;(
  • DarkNebula84
    DarkNebula84 Posts: 445 Member
    fit and butt ugly OR fat with a stunningly gorgeous face??
    my trainer and I got into screaming match over what men (and women) would prefer. We always debate topics like these because I understand both sides of the coin. So I am taking it to the streets of MFP. here's what my dad always used to say: Nobody wants a bone but a dog and even he wants some meat on it. :bigsmile:

    SIDEBAR: so I personally believe beauty comes in ALL shapes, sizes, colors. Who can define it? INSIDE beauty is MORE important than asthetic beauty. It's interesting to see what everyone's take is. WOW. WOW. WOW. Blown away.:huh: :bigsmile: :noway:

    Is it possible to have a gorgeous face while "fat"? To me, no. :/

    I'd take neither I think.

    Sooooo you think I am ugly?? I am fat but I think I am beautiful, but yes I need to lose weight, which is why I am on this site :happy:
  • I know a ton (no pun intended) of GORGEOUS overweight women.... Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. I'm very tall so my weight distributes better but I in NO way think I'm ugly. The same stars that hit on me when I was thin are still hitting on me now. We should all strive to be healthy, where ever that puts us on the scale. If eating healthy and working out still leaves you over what our society says you should be at, who cares. Love you and everyone else will.... but don't kill yourself eating twinkies or overdoing it in the gym because someone made a dumb *kitten* comment.

    xoxo
  • not that i think shes fat - but nigella lawson - curvy with the face of a naughty goddess :o)
  • chunkyme
    chunkyme Posts: 88 Member
    Hmm..... What part of the Butt? Fit Is Gorgeous & PHAT Is Gorgeous As long as They don't have A UGLY Attitude I'm good!
  • mandabarri713
    mandabarri713 Posts: 64 Member
    Fat and attractive. Too expensive to fix ugly. And... everything works the same in the dark.


    LOL YEAH THIS :)
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