We are losing the wrong inches here, ladies...

Iamfit4life

I don't understand the how or a why of somebody lets another womans wardrobe or costume get under their skin.

I think there are bigger fish to fry in the world.

That said, it's awfully presumptious to just write it off as jealousy or insecurity.

VeganInTraining

Of course it's the parents' job to enforce. I'm certainly not going to approach every teenager and tell them they're dressed inappropriately for their age. I'm suggesting it is wrong of a parent to allow their daughter to dress slutty, Halloween or not.

I understand and respect your opinion. There's a whole bunch more I could say regarding who exactly should be enforcing those values and at what point it becomes an issue that might require outside involvement, but at the end of the day I don't see anyone truly changing their mind on this stuff.

very true!

macpatti

I don't understand the how or a why of somebody lets another womans wardrobe or costume get under their skin.

I think there are bigger fish to fry in the world.

That said, it's awfully presumptious to just write it off as jealousy or insecurity.

You can dislike something without letting it get under your skin. If I'm at a nightclub, then it's MY problem if I don't like how people are dressed. If I'm at the grocery store with my kids, then I can complain about people dressing like tramps. At the end of the day, my complaining and not liking it isn't going to change anything and I don't think the OP here thought she'd change anyone's mind either.

macpatti

So, let me get this straight: If someone expresses a dislike of turning children's characters or other Halloween costumes into trampy/slutty ones, she's jealous and/or should move to the Middle East? Whatever. We all know some people use Halloween as an excuse to dress trampy. I don't buy that it's "the one time of year" that people do this. I know plenty of people who choose to dress like this for an adult Halloween party, but it's the people you'd expect to. To each his own.

If you're an adult who 'doesn't care what people think of you', then cool. But, if you're a mother of a teenager and you're teaching your daughter that same mindset and okay with her dressing trampy for Halloween, then there's a problem.

You, the OP and anyone else do not control other people. We live in a free society and people can dress as they choose. You can accept this and worry about your own life. Or you can continue to complain, you certainly have that right. But anyone trying to tell other people what they can/can not wear will always get an argument from me. I see it as standing up for their right of freedom of expression. It's not an argument I'd want to be on the other side of.

You're also the one who said we should move to the Middle East. I would think that because you're a "standing for rights of freedom of expression" kinda guy, that you also respect that we have the right to say what we think is in bad taste. I don't see where anyone suggested making a law to prohibit dressing like that. Regarding worrying about my own life: duh....that also includes the society in which I live.

Seeing as you all keep saying "I never said they CAN'T dress like that!" like it's some kind of defense maybe you should re-read because I never said they SHOULD move to the Middle East. I said they CAN. Of their own free will, not forced, by choice. Don't accuse me of making a strawman argument (which I didn't) and then do it yourself.

Everyone has the right to say and feel what they want. It's a right I'd defend with everything I have. The flip side of that is that you can and will have your argument challenged by those who feel differently. If you can't handle that you shouldn't speak up in the first place. Becuase that's what going to happen.

And as angry as I sound in this post please understand that I'm not. I very much enjoy spirited debate. I'm a member of a forum where this kind of thing is all we do. It helps people to learn. So before the mods start with the locks and the bans maybe we could all just talk to each other and sort out our differences, learn a few things and walk away agreeing to disagree.

Thank you all.

I always enjoy a mature, reasonable debate!

bry_all01

I don't understand the how or a why of somebody lets another womans wardrobe or costume get under their skin.

I think there are bigger fish to fry in the world.

That said, it's awfully presumptious to just write it off as jealousy or insecurity.

^^THIS.

We all wear what we want, but just as others should not make assumptions about our actions based on our clothing (or lack thereof), we should not make assumptions as to why they do not like the outfits we choose to wear.

Funny enough, I can't recall the last time I dressed up for Halloween, but if I were going to an adult party, chances are fairly likely I would 'sex' it up a bit. Of course, I'm married, so I wouldn't be giving out the "goodies".

pain_is_weakness

dang your telling me that my husband cna't be my ho tonight while I am the pimp?

or are you just against girls letting it show because guys don't bother you? I guess i could see how some people might say they get offended when really they feel insecure and intimidated

OMFG I am so tired of people saying that she is insecure/intimidated/jealous! All she is doing is stating her openion. Also, asking women to have a little self respect. I used to dress like that for halloween and my actions matched my outfit. I'm not saying that anyone is wrong for dressing that way, however, my choice to stop dressing that way came because I found myself worthy of respect and to be treated like a lady not a piece of meat.

Anyone is free to dress that way all they like, but i would prefer they not subject my family to it when we are in a "family friendly" environment. And if one is going to dress like that then don't get upset when guys only want you for your body.

so because you "actions matched your outfit" you feel that others will be the same way? I perosnally have a lot of friends that wear whatever they wanna wear and they don't get mad when guys "only want them for their boot" because it is not an issue, we don't have men constantly bugging us all night and if someone does say something like we look good or whatever does it really matter?

Seems like you jumped on this with a lot of frustration and anger, maybe your past actions that matched your outfits still haunt you? Seems like it is more of a personal problem with just a few women, not really a problem I hear a lot of confident and secure women talking about.

not say you personally are insecure but maybe you should check out why you are so passionate about women not dressing in ways you don't approve of?

macpatti

dang your telling me that my husband cna't be my ho tonight while I am the pimp?

or are you just against girls letting it show because guys don't bother you? I guess i could see how some people might say they get offended when really they feel insecure and intimidated

OMFG I am so tired of people saying that she is insecure/intimidated/jealous! All she is doing is stating her openion. Also, asking women to have a little self respect. I used to dress like that for halloween and my actions matched my outfit. I'm not saying that anyone is wrong for dressing that way, however, my choice to stop dressing that way came because I found myself worthy of respect and to be treated like a lady not a piece of meat.

Anyone is free to dress that way all they like, but i would prefer they not subject my family to it when we are in a "family friendly" environment. And if one is going to dress like that then don't get upset when guys only want you for your body.

so because you "actions matched your outfit" you feel that others will be the same way? I perosnally have a lot of friends that wear whatever they wanna wear and they don't get mad when guys "only want them for their boot" because it is not an issue, we don't have men constantly bugging us all night and if someone does say something like we look good or whatever does it really matter?

Seems like you jumped on this with a lot of frustration and anger, maybe your past actions that matched your outfits still haunt you? Seems like it is more of a personal problem with just a few women, not really a problem I hear a lot of confident and secure women talking about.

not say you personally are insecure but maybe you should check out why you are so passionate about women not dressing in ways you don't approve of?

Can you not debate without the personal attacks?

auntdeedee87

dang your telling me that my husband cna't be my ho tonight while I am the pimp?

or are you just against girls letting it show because guys don't bother you? I guess i could see how some people might say they get offended when really they feel insecure and intimidated

OMFG I am so tired of people saying that she is insecure/intimidated/jealous! All she is doing is stating her openion. Also, asking women to have a little self respect. I used to dress like that for halloween and my actions matched my outfit. I'm not saying that anyone is wrong for dressing that way, however, my choice to stop dressing that way came because I found myself worthy of respect and to be treated like a lady not a piece of meat.

Anyone is free to dress that way all they like, but i would prefer they not subject my family to it when we are in a "family friendly" environment. And if one is going to dress like that then don't get upset when guys only want you for your body.

so because you "actions matched your outfit" you feel that others will be the same way? I perosnally have a lot of friends that wear whatever they wanna wear and they don't get mad when guys "only want them for their boot" because it is not an issue, we don't have men constantly bugging us all night and if someone does say something like we look good or whatever does it really matter?

Seems like you jumped on this with a lot of frustration and anger, maybe your past actions that matched your outfits still haunt you? Seems like it is more of a personal problem with just a few women, not really a problem I hear a lot of confident and secure women talking about.

not say you personally are insecure but maybe you should check out why you are so passionate about women not dressing in ways you don't approve of?

I already stated why I am passionate about it. I think it makes you look trashy. We're women, and while I love being 'sexy' just as much as the next lady, that's not what the majority of these girls are achieving. It's tasteless, and the fact that the same style is being offered to the younger generation is disgusting.

It's not creative. So yes, I am very likely to roll my eyes at you if you're strolling around anywhere but a costume party or your bedroom, flaunting around your goodies like they're for sale, because you look like a carbon copy of nearly every other woman in the room.

To me, it tells me THOSE girls are insecure, because they feel like they need to take advantage of a day where they can be whatever they want, and choose to be sex objects.

Secret_Agent_007

Damn, I was looking forward to some slutty costumes.

bry_all01

dang your telling me that my husband cna't be my ho tonight while I am the pimp?

or are you just against girls letting it show because guys don't bother you? I guess i could see how some people might say they get offended when really they feel insecure and intimidated

OMFG I am so tired of people saying that she is insecure/intimidated/jealous! All she is doing is stating her openion. Also, asking women to have a little self respect. I used to dress like that for halloween and my actions matched my outfit. I'm not saying that anyone is wrong for dressing that way, however, my choice to stop dressing that way came because I found myself worthy of respect and to be treated like a lady not a piece of meat.

Anyone is free to dress that way all they like, but i would prefer they not subject my family to it when we are in a "family friendly" environment. And if one is going to dress like that then don't get upset when guys only want you for your body.

so because you "actions matched your outfit" you feel that others will be the same way? I perosnally have a lot of friends that wear whatever they wanna wear and they don't get mad when guys "only want them for their boot" because it is not an issue, we don't have men constantly bugging us all night and if someone does say something like we look good or whatever does it really matter?

Seems like you jumped on this with a lot of frustration and anger, maybe your past actions that matched your outfits still haunt you? Seems like it is more of a personal problem with just a few women, not really a problem I hear a lot of confident and secure women talking about.

not say you personally are insecure but maybe you should check out why you are so passionate about women not dressing in ways you don't approve of?

I already stated why I am passionate about it. I think it makes you look trashy. We're women, and while I love being 'sexy' just as much as the next lady, that's not what the majority of these girls are achieving. It's tasteless, and the fact that the same style is being offered to the younger generation is disgusting.

It's not creative. So yes, I am very likely to roll my eyes at you if you're strolling around anywhere but a costume party or your bedroom, flaunting around your goodies like they're for sale, because you look like a carbon copy of nearly every other woman in the room.

To me, it tells me THOSE girls are insecure, because they feel like they need to take advantage of a day where they can be whatever they want, and choose to be sex objects.

See, I disagree that THOSE girls at the adult costume parties are insecure. They are just doing what they want to do, no big deal. But, I also don't think you are insecure for thinking they are.

VeganInTraining

dang your telling me that my husband cna't be my ho tonight while I am the pimp?

or are you just against girls letting it show because guys don't bother you? I guess i could see how some people might say they get offended when really they feel insecure and intimidated

OMFG I am so tired of people saying that she is insecure/intimidated/jealous! All she is doing is stating her openion. Also, asking women to have a little self respect. I used to dress like that for halloween and my actions matched my outfit. I'm not saying that anyone is wrong for dressing that way, however, my choice to stop dressing that way came because I found myself worthy of respect and to be treated like a lady not a piece of meat.

Anyone is free to dress that way all they like, but i would prefer they not subject my family to it when we are in a "family friendly" environment. And if one is going to dress like that then don't get upset when guys only want you for your body.

so because you "actions matched your outfit" you feel that others will be the same way? I perosnally have a lot of friends that wear whatever they wanna wear and they don't get mad when guys "only want them for their boot" because it is not an issue, we don't have men constantly bugging us all night and if someone does say something like we look good or whatever does it really matter?

Seems like you jumped on this with a lot of frustration and anger, maybe your past actions that matched your outfits still haunt you? Seems like it is more of a personal problem with just a few women, not really a problem I hear a lot of confident and secure women talking about.

not say you personally are insecure but maybe you should check out why you are so passionate about women not dressing in ways you don't approve of?

after clicking post, I realized how that came across and I almost deleted it but I try to treat my written words like my spoken words rather than just not letting people see them. My frustration was over you saying that the OP was insecure for thinking that women should cover up a little.

I am actually not frustrated or angry at all regarding my past actions. They are my past and they brought me to where I am now. that is why I said "for me" that is why I stopped dressing that way. However, i feel like it is a good idea to access why we do the things we do. If we can say "I like the attention" then cool. But I have also heard people complain about the attention they have gotten and if you don't like it then don't dress that way.

Also, if I were just going to a party with a bunch of my adult friends I may be inclined to dress a little more skanky, but I wouldn't dress that way in a bar or at a family party.

oh and it's not at all that I "don't approve of" how they dress. It's that I'm not OK with them dressing that way around my family or it being implied that I am insecure because I don't like them dressing that way

auntdeedee87

dang your telling me that my husband cna't be my ho tonight while I am the pimp?

or are you just against girls letting it show because guys don't bother you? I guess i could see how some people might say they get offended when really they feel insecure and intimidated

OMFG I am so tired of people saying that she is insecure/intimidated/jealous! All she is doing is stating her openion. Also, asking women to have a little self respect. I used to dress like that for halloween and my actions matched my outfit. I'm not saying that anyone is wrong for dressing that way, however, my choice to stop dressing that way came because I found myself worthy of respect and to be treated like a lady not a piece of meat.

Anyone is free to dress that way all they like, but i would prefer they not subject my family to it when we are in a "family friendly" environment. And if one is going to dress like that then don't get upset when guys only want you for your body.

so because you "actions matched your outfit" you feel that others will be the same way? I perosnally have a lot of friends that wear whatever they wanna wear and they don't get mad when guys "only want them for their boot" because it is not an issue, we don't have men constantly bugging us all night and if someone does say something like we look good or whatever does it really matter?

Seems like you jumped on this with a lot of frustration and anger, maybe your past actions that matched your outfits still haunt you? Seems like it is more of a personal problem with just a few women, not really a problem I hear a lot of confident and secure women talking about.

not say you personally are insecure but maybe you should check out why you are so passionate about women not dressing in ways you don't approve of?

I already stated why I am passionate about it. I think it makes you look trashy. We're women, and while I love being 'sexy' just as much as the next lady, that's not what the majority of these girls are achieving. It's tasteless, and the fact that the same style is being offered to the younger generation is disgusting.

It's not creative. So yes, I am very likely to roll my eyes at you if you're strolling around anywhere but a costume party or your bedroom, flaunting around your goodies like they're for sale, because you look like a carbon copy of nearly every other woman in the room.

To me, it tells me THOSE girls are insecure, because they feel like they need to take advantage of a day where they can be whatever they want, and choose to be sex objects.

See, I disagree that THOSE girls at the adult costume parties are insecure. They are just doing what they want to do, no big deal. But, I also don't think you are insecure for thinking they are.

Exactly.
And no matter what I think, I realize that I'm wrong-- at least part of the time. I don't know these girls.

I realize I have no control over what you wear, and if you have a bangin' body and wanna show it off, I'm not about to stop you.

But just because I don't wanna see it doesn't mean that I'm somehow insecure. I know I'm beautiful, and I'm sorry if you think otherwise.

bry_all01

dang your telling me that my husband cna't be my ho tonight while I am the pimp?

or are you just against girls letting it show because guys don't bother you? I guess i could see how some people might say they get offended when really they feel insecure and intimidated

OMFG I am so tired of people saying that she is insecure/intimidated/jealous! All she is doing is stating her openion. Also, asking women to have a little self respect. I used to dress like that for halloween and my actions matched my outfit. I'm not saying that anyone is wrong for dressing that way, however, my choice to stop dressing that way came because I found myself worthy of respect and to be treated like a lady not a piece of meat.

Anyone is free to dress that way all they like, but i would prefer they not subject my family to it when we are in a "family friendly" environment. And if one is going to dress like that then don't get upset when guys only want you for your body.

so because you "actions matched your outfit" you feel that others will be the same way? I perosnally have a lot of friends that wear whatever they wanna wear and they don't get mad when guys "only want them for their boot" because it is not an issue, we don't have men constantly bugging us all night and if someone does say something like we look good or whatever does it really matter?

Seems like you jumped on this with a lot of frustration and anger, maybe your past actions that matched your outfits still haunt you? Seems like it is more of a personal problem with just a few women, not really a problem I hear a lot of confident and secure women talking about.

not say you personally are insecure but maybe you should check out why you are so passionate about women not dressing in ways you don't approve of?

I already stated why I am passionate about it. I think it makes you look trashy. We're women, and while I love being 'sexy' just as much as the next lady, that's not what the majority of these girls are achieving. It's tasteless, and the fact that the same style is being offered to the younger generation is disgusting.

It's not creative. So yes, I am very likely to roll my eyes at you if you're strolling around anywhere but a costume party or your bedroom, flaunting around your goodies like they're for sale, because you look like a carbon copy of nearly every other woman in the room.

To me, it tells me THOSE girls are insecure, because they feel like they need to take advantage of a day where they can be whatever they want, and choose to be sex objects.

See, I disagree that THOSE girls at the adult costume parties are insecure. They are just doing what they want to do, no big deal. But, I also don't think you are insecure for thinking they are.

Exactly.
And no matter what I think, I realize that I'm wrong-- at least part of the time. I don't know these girls.

I realize I have no control over what you wear, and if you have a bangin' body and wanna show it off, I'm not about to stop you.

But just because I don't wanna see it doesn't mean that I'm somehow insecure. I know I'm beautiful, and I'm sorry if you think otherwise.

You should never apologize for what you think or feel. I will agree that there is a time and a place for that type of wardrobe. I don't think you are wrong for thinking what you think, but so long as they (I, whoever) is in an appropriate setting, then, by all means, enjoy what you've got.

BrettPGH

Exactly.
And no matter what I think, I realize that I'm wrong-- at least part of the time. I don't know these girls.

I realize I have no control over what you wear, and if you have a bangin' body and wanna show it off, I'm not about to stop you.

But just because I don't wanna see it doesn't mean that I'm somehow insecure. I know I'm beautiful, and I'm sorry if you think otherwise.

Great post. We're ALL wrong, most of the time. Keeping that in mind makes it a whole lot easier for us to talk to each other. There's no shame in it. Only by admitting when you're wrong or uninformed do you learn anything. I have to do it ALL THE TIME. But I'm a man who talks mostly with women. That's part of the territory.

VeganInTraining

dang your telling me that my husband cna't be my ho tonight while I am the pimp?

or are you just against girls letting it show because guys don't bother you? I guess i could see how some people might say they get offended when really they feel insecure and intimidated

OMFG I am so tired of people saying that she is insecure/intimidated/jealous! All she is doing is stating her openion. Also, asking women to have a little self respect. I used to dress like that for halloween and my actions matched my outfit. I'm not saying that anyone is wrong for dressing that way, however, my choice to stop dressing that way came because I found myself worthy of respect and to be treated like a lady not a piece of meat.

Anyone is free to dress that way all they like, but i would prefer they not subject my family to it when we are in a "family friendly" environment. And if one is going to dress like that then don't get upset when guys only want you for your body.

so because you "actions matched your outfit" you feel that others will be the same way? I perosnally have a lot of friends that wear whatever they wanna wear and they don't get mad when guys "only want them for their boot" because it is not an issue, we don't have men constantly bugging us all night and if someone does say something like we look good or whatever does it really matter?

Seems like you jumped on this with a lot of frustration and anger, maybe your past actions that matched your outfits still haunt you? Seems like it is more of a personal problem with just a few women, not really a problem I hear a lot of confident and secure women talking about.

not say you personally are insecure but maybe you should check out why you are so passionate about women not dressing in ways you don't approve of?

I already stated why I am passionate about it. I think it makes you look trashy. We're women, and while I love being 'sexy' just as much as the next lady, that's not what the majority of these girls are achieving. It's tasteless, and the fact that the same style is being offered to the younger generation is disgusting.

It's not creative. So yes, I am very likely to roll my eyes at you if you're strolling around anywhere but a costume party or your bedroom, flaunting around your goodies like they're for sale, because you look like a carbon copy of nearly every other woman in the room.

To me, it tells me THOSE girls are insecure, because they feel like they need to take advantage of a day where they can be whatever they want, and choose to be sex objects.

See, I disagree that THOSE girls at the adult costume parties are insecure. They are just doing what they want to do, no big deal. But, I also don't think you are insecure for thinking they are.

Exactly.
And no matter what I think, I realize that I'm wrong-- at least part of the time. I don't know these girls.

I realize I have no control over what you wear, and if you have a bangin' body and wanna show it off, I'm not about to stop you.

But just because I don't wanna see it doesn't mean that I'm somehow insecure. I know I'm beautiful, and I'm sorry if you think otherwise.

You should never apologize for what you think or feel. I will agree that there is a time and a place for that type of wardrobe. I don't think you are wrong for thinking what you think, but so long as they (I, whoever) is in an appropriate setting, then, by all means, enjoy what you've got.

I feel all warm and fuzzy like there was just a debate and everyone (ok, a few of us) found common ground LOL...I agree if people wanna have fun at adult parties then freakin do it! But I was beautiful and creepy as a well covered, dead doll....untill my dress blew up...oops

macpatti

And the thread didn't get locked or anything!!!

VeganInTraining

And the thread didn't get locked or anything!!!

lol truely amazing

BrettPGH

Talking rationally really is a wonderful thing. No one may have changed their mind, no one may have learned a single thing. But at least we didn't need to be separated like a bunch of damn children. That's what I hate the most.

You have nothing to fear from anyone else's opinion.

pain_is_weakness

Talking rationally really is a wonderful thing. No one may have changed their mind, no one may have learned a single thing. But at least we didn't need to be separated like a bunch of damn children. That's what I hate the most.

You have nothing to fear from anyone else's opinion.

and that is why I love you!

auntdeedee87

And the thread didn't get locked or anything!!!

lol truely amazing

Right?

FearAnLoathing

dang your telling me that my husband cna't be my ho tonight while I am the pimp?

or are you just against girls letting it show because guys don't bother you? I guess i could see how some people might say they get offended when really they feel insecure and intimidated

OMFG I am so tired of people saying that she is insecure/intimidated/jealous! All she is doing is stating her openion. Also, asking women to have a little self respect. I used to dress like that for halloween and my actions matched my outfit. I'm not saying that anyone is wrong for dressing that way, however, my choice to stop dressing that way came because I found myself worthy of respect and to be treated like a lady not a piece of meat.

Anyone is free to dress that way all they like, but i would prefer they not subject my family to it when we are in a "family friendly" environment. And if one is going to dress like that then don't get upset when guys only want you for your body.

I dress like "adult" alot and have TONS of self respect,and when people get out of line with me due to the way im dressed they learn their lesson REAL fast

pain_is_weakness

dang your telling me that my husband cna't be my ho tonight while I am the pimp?

or are you just against girls letting it show because guys don't bother you? I guess i could see how some people might say they get offended when really they feel insecure and intimidated

OMFG I am so tired of people saying that she is insecure/intimidated/jealous! All she is doing is stating her openion. Also, asking women to have a little self respect. I used to dress like that for halloween and my actions matched my outfit. I'm not saying that anyone is wrong for dressing that way, however, my choice to stop dressing that way came because I found myself worthy of respect and to be treated like a lady not a piece of meat.

Anyone is free to dress that way all they like, but i would prefer they not subject my family to it when we are in a "family friendly" environment. And if one is going to dress like that then don't get upset when guys only want you for your body.

I dress like "adult" alot and have TONS of self respect,and when people get out of line with me due to the way im dressed they learn their lesson REAL fast

haha WTG!

PZlady

PERFECT!
:laugh: :laugh: Someone posted this on Facebook and I thought it would be perfect to post here. :bigsmile:

FearAnLoathing

This was my costume Sat...totally unorginal yes but I liked it and it was a size large,I have not been in anything other than an XXL for 5 Halloweens so I was very excited. I will NOT be wearing it to take my daughter trick or treating. I bought it for a bar party and a strip club. Im sure I will wear it again for special time with the hubby lol

VeganInTraining

This was my costume Sat...totally unorginal yes but I liked it and it was a size large,I have not been in anything other than an XXL for 5 Halloweens so I was very excited. I will NOT be wearing it to take my daughter trick or treating. I bought it for a bar party and a strip club. Im sure I will wear it again for special time with the hubby lol

And you look smashing in it an are wearing it to the proper venue! Have fun and be safe

PZlady

WOW! Since you're on MFP, your weight loss must have been profound! Good for you on the weight loss and good for you if you've got bail $$.

I'm gonna go as a nudist this year...how about that?

Lemme know how that works out for you.

FearAnLoathing

This was my costume Sat...totally unorginal yes but I liked it and it was a size large,I have not been in anything other than an XXL for 5 Halloweens so I was very excited. I will NOT be wearing it to take my daughter trick or treating. I bought it for a bar party and a strip club. Im sure I will wear it again for special time with the hubby lol

And you look smashing in it an are wearing it to the proper venue! Have fun and be safe

Thanks,I couldnt imagine wearing it anywhere else or trick or treating,for one i wouldnt make it a block in the 5 inch heels lol

VeganInTraining

This was my costume Sat...totally unorginal yes but I liked it and it was a size large,I have not been in anything other than an XXL for 5 Halloweens so I was very excited. I will NOT be wearing it to take my daughter trick or treating. I bought it for a bar party and a strip club. Im sure I will wear it again for special time with the hubby lol

And you look smashing in it an are wearing it to the proper venue! Have fun and be safe

Thanks,I couldnt imagine wearing it anywhere else or trick or treating,for one i wouldnt make it a block in the 5 inch heels lol

LOL I made it through a whole night in heels a few years ago then wiped out on my way to the car in the middle of the street in SF

macpatti

This was my costume Sat...totally unorginal yes but I liked it and it was a size large,I have not been in anything other than an XXL for 5 Halloweens so I was very excited. I will NOT be wearing it to take my daughter trick or treating. I bought it for a bar party and a strip club. Im sure I will wear it again for special time with the hubby lol

You look great, and as Emily said, you wore it to the right venue. I would say your costume is more 'sexy' than 'trampy', though. It's not like you took Little Miss Muffett and made her a prostitute!

FearAnLoathing

I once did a gothy sexy version of Pipi longstocking lol