Men...... Grrrrrr

Phroggygirl1

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

drog2323

i don't even get it. he complimented you, wants to be with you....and you think he's dumb? I'm stumped.

:grumble:

kesteele

get it girl!!! we can dothis!!!

stampede55

Enjoy the company of your cats.

King_Bee

I'm confused too I missed the part where he sweet talked you into the binge I guess. So... Of course it's his fault. :grumble:

luv_lea

I'm confused here.....

honeybadger175

Sounds like you have a fear of LTR...so you decided to eat to avoid starting a relationship??? Just throwing it out there cause I use to do the same thing.

Men...and they say we're confusing, pffft!

bry_all01

i don't even get it. he complimented you, wants to be with you....and you think he's dumb? I'm stumped.

:grumble:

I too am cofused on how he is dumb.... mayhaps because he didn't have or realize he had the same feelings for her when she did for him... ?

KatieCuth

baffling...

Schwiggs

Real life depiction of OP?

CastleMadeOfSand

Enjoy the company of your cats.

Yep. Women fascinate me. So many embrace the beauty of feminism and then do absolutely everything possible to negate anything the movement has done.

MissMaryMac33

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Schwiggs

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

Contrarian

What the balls is this about?

liftingbro

stampede55

Enjoy the company of your cats.

Yep. Women fascinate me. So many embrace the beauty of feminism and then do absolutely everything possible to negate anything the movement has done.

I have no idea what you're talking about. Please explain as I have been drinking since 8pm est. I have 2 cats and lots of lesbian friends btw.

_beachgirl_

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

Hey now, I resemble that remark!

Men, can't live with em, can't kill em!

MissMaryMac33

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

Here I;'ll make it logical for you too.

Lets say you like this girl and chase her all over.. she wants nothing to do with you.
A month later, you shave your goatee or get a raise at work -- and suddenly you're interesting to her again.
You're still the same person right? She was blew you off just because she didn't like your goatee.

That's all I was getting it.

(I am still just assuming this is what the OP meant --- the he didn't like her before she lost 15 lbs --- is he going to run away again if she gains it back? )

mrsdauer

to the guys that are "confused" and "dont get it"....im gonna TRY to explain....:)
So, the guy is all sweet and full of compliments and "i want you Back".....the binge of food and emotional upset is due to the fact that it took her to lose weight and possibly change her ways and Now she's lost weight, looks good, and he's probably lonely, (and needs "fulfillment" in his life) it ticks us off, *kitten* kissing does nothing for us, especially after we've been hurt. (clear as mud?!?!)

sweetheart, an ex, is an ex for a reason! no need to let him upset you and make you run back to unhealthy eating....

Ive been thru the same thing in the past, and i think getting compliments from a complete stranger does more for me than to hear it come from an ex, or someone who's hurt me in the past....

CastleMadeOfSand

I was agreeing with your quote then making a comment about the original post.

honeybadger175

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

Well of course we can! She has a deep fear of getting into a long tern relationship....so she did the first thing she knew to sabatoge it, emotional eating binge...
She just needs to come to terms with that.

CastleMadeOfSand

You're right. We should never let anyone realize the err of their ways and recant on previous decisions and statements.

stampede55

I was agreeing with your quote then making a comment about the original post.

See what happens when you drink heavily?! I'm still lost, but I will agree in an attempt to save face.

Schwiggs

to the guys that are "confused" and "dont get it"....im gonna TRY to explain....:)
So, the guy is all sweet and full of compliments and "i want you Back".....the binge of food and emotional upset is due to the fact that it took her to lose weight and possibly change her ways and Now she's lost weight, looks good, and he's probably lonely, (and needs "fulfillment" in his life) it ticks us off, *kitten* kissing does nothing for us, especially after we've been hurt. (clear as mud?!?!)

sweetheart, an ex, is an ex for a reason! no need to let him upset you and make you run back to unhealthy eating....

Ive been thru the same thing in the past, and i think getting compliments from a complete stranger does more for me than to hear it come from an ex, or someone who's hurt me in the past....

If you actually read the post, it said nothing about this being an ex. Only a guy she "liked."

liftingbro

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

Hey now, I resemble that remark!

Men, can't live with em, can't kill em!

Trying to figure out the mind of a woman is like trying reassemble a book that went through a shredder: It can be done but not without totally blowing your own mind in the process.

_beachgirl_

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

Hey now, I resemble that remark!

Men, can't live with em, can't kill em!

Trying to figure out the mind of a woman is like trying reassemble a book that went through a shredder: It can be done but not without totally blowing your own mind in the process.

I have blown many a men's....mind!

honeybadger175

What the balls is this about?

EMOTIONAL EATING....and that for us women, men are usually the reason why we do it.

Lol, sorry, just being honest!

Phroggygirl1

He didn't want anything more than a FWB with me BEFORE I lost any weight... And now suddenly I lose a little weight and he wants a relationship?

Fear of LTR, no, I want one. With the RIGHT guy.

Schwiggs

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

I totally get this --- this has happened to be and I told them to get lost too.
If didn't see it before you lost a little weight, he's not worth your time.

This SHOULD have spiraled you into an diet binge to make it regret it even more.

(I'm assuming this is what you're getting at...but I'm not sure)

Only a woman can make this logical...

Well of course we can! She has a deep fear of getting into a long tern relationship....so she did the first thing she knew to sabatoge it, emotional eating binge...
She just needs to come to terms with that.

Also, if you read what I just quoted, the person responding was trying to tell OP they "should" binge. Being someone who has struggles with binge eating since at least the beginning of high school, I think that's some bull**** advice.

d2footballJRC

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

This is why men go bald...

auntdeedee87

I do not miss being single.