Men...... Grrrrrr

Phroggygirl1

Thank you

stampede55

I love how everyone is responding and answering FOR the OP. I like to make up stories about people, too. Generally, I'm watching them when I do it, though. Makes it easier to give them a story. :flowerforyou:

Once upon a time there was a girl.....nvm

and she grew up to become godmother of the threads. The End. :glasses:

Bless you godmother. Can I borrow 5g's and a throw away .38?

no doubt. The interest is 1,543%. If not paid back in time, ack! :smokin:

It's a deal!

stampede55

No one said penis, it was typed.

I said penis. Out loud. To myself.

Actually, I liked the term "penis people". I might start using it.

I said it louder than you, so you owe me a beer.

Phroggygirl1

I was still all pent up with the left over anger.... And after getting better can't stomach eating too much... So I just typed and forgot the extra info.

Sorry

taeliesyn

He didn't want anything more than a FWB with me BEFORE I lost any weight... And now suddenly I lose a little weight and he wants a relationship?

Fear of LTR, no, I want one. With the RIGHT guy.

Well he obviously found you attractive before you lost the weight, so you can't hold that against him.
Did you ever think that with your 15lb loss, you might be acting more confident or something along those lines and that is what has made him decide he wants a relationship.

Gigi_licious

You're into him, he actually wants a real relationship instead of a booty call. He might even love you and treat you with respect. I could see how that would be a problem???

ABetterBalance

. I wonder if passing notes is okay? Wait..that is probably how this frail egosystem started. We should ban note passing for it is the gateway into adult conversation and compliments which leads to the dark path!

note passing is directly responsible for me getting pregnant and dropping out of college 9 years ago. If my then-friend (now-husband) hadn't passed me notes in the hall 11 years ago, I would have never gone down that very dangerous path of dating, falling in love, eloping, and having kids.

Damn note passing!

Phroggygirl1

No he wouldn't..... He might would try, but he isn't capable... I can tell... And I lost interest in him shortly after realizing I wouldn't be anything more than a booty call...

lor007

I am curious about this thread's title. Have all men harmed you in some way? It really isn't fair to make a blanket statement about all of them. Some men are quite delightful.

As for the original post, I have nothing to contribute.

McKayMachina

Guys. Women are not any more or less nuts than you are. OP is just...I don't even know. :noway:

auntdeedee87

I am curious about this thread's title. Have all men harmed you in some way? It really isn't fair to make a blanket statement about all of them. Some men are quite delightful.

As for the original post, I have nothing to contribute.

Same.

I'm a big fan of men. Some weren't the right ones for me but I learned things, at least.

Phroggygirl1

I honestly do not know what motivates him, but after knowing him getting into a relationship would not be the smart thing to do.

The eating binge was a stress breaker. The emotions I was trying to deal with were rollercoaster at best, but there isn't enough material there between us to making any type of lasting relationship, And one or both of us would end up hurt, again.

stampede55

Guys. Women are not any more or less nuts than you are. OP is just...I don't even know. :noway:

Please don't take offense to this. I'm married with kids. I love the ever loving holy spirit out of my wife. Those shoes you have in your avatar are fuggin smokin hot! Got damn! I'm drunk too btw....just in case my morality is being questioned. :happy:

Akjenn89

Guys. Women are not any more or less nuts than you are. OP is just...I don't even know. :noway:

Please don't take offense to this. I'm married with kids. I love the ever loving holy spirit out of my wife. Those shoes you have in your avatar are fuggin smokin hot! Got damn! I'm drunk too btw....just in case my morality is being questioned. :happy:

I'll take that as a sign that I no longer owe you a beer then.

stampede55

Guys. Women are not any more or less nuts than you are. OP is just...I don't even know. :noway:

Please don't take offense to this. I'm married with kids. I love the ever loving holy spirit out of my wife. Those shoes you have in your avatar are fuggin smokin hot! Got damn! I'm drunk too btw....just in case my morality is being questioned. :happy:

I'll take that as a sign that I no longer owe you a beer then.

What? Yes, you absolutely still owe me a beer!

Akjenn89

Guys. Women are not any more or less nuts than you are. OP is just...I don't even know. :noway:

Please don't take offense to this. I'm married with kids. I love the ever loving holy spirit out of my wife. Those shoes you have in your avatar are fuggin smokin hot! Got damn! I'm drunk too btw....just in case my morality is being questioned. :happy:

I'll take that as a sign that I no longer owe you a beer then.

What? Yes, you absolutely still owe me a beer!

Oh, alright, alright...

stampede55

Guys. Women are not any more or less nuts than you are. OP is just...I don't even know. :noway:

Please don't take offense to this. I'm married with kids. I love the ever loving holy spirit out of my wife. Those shoes you have in your avatar are fuggin smokin hot! Got damn! I'm drunk too btw....just in case my morality is being questioned. :happy:

I'll take that as a sign that I no longer owe you a beer then.

What? Yes, you absolutely still owe me a beer!

Oh, alright, alright...

If you don't have beer to give, I will accept donations from taco bell. Mexican pizza.....nachos bellgrande....chicken gordita. All will suffice. Are we still on the weight loss forums?!?!?!

MîîśÊmÿłõü

TAKE A COMPLIMENT CHICK!!
seriously i say your feeling this way becuase your not used to being complimented..take a leap of faith
you like him he likes you, go for it =]

cajunlady56

You're into him, he actually wants a real relationship instead of a booty call. He might even love you and treat you with respect. I could see how that would be a problem???

I agree! Sounds like you were okay with him wanting you as a FWB but when it tries to make it something real you get mad at him! I am confused.

I would be more upset that he only wanted a booty call and not a real relationship>

d2footballJRC

You're into him, he actually wants a real relationship instead of a booty call. He might even love you and treat you with respect. I could see how that would be a problem???

She should just probably cut ties with him and other friends they shared. Maybe he texted her too much.

Schwiggs

The worst possible scenario is that you get some nookie. (well there are worse, but I'm assuming you're a big girl that knows about protection).

SoulNeedsBeauty

Enjoy the company of your cats.

LOL good one

Scott613

Ohhh Ohhh I know the answer I just need a pencil

bluecollarfrench

My favorite thing about this whole post is that she keeps on talking and everyones mind is blown, then start making fun of what she is trying to say. Then we start talking about penis penis penis.

Now we have Penis people. My mind is completely blown.

sunkisses

So someone thinks you look better after having lost weight.
Well....my mind's officially blown too!!

PBJunky

So this guy that I liked a few months back came to me Thursday or Friday of last week and we hung out watched movies and chilled. Nothing new.... Until he tells me that he needs to talk to me.... He goes on to say how good I was looking and how much he liked me and couldn't stop thinkin about me... And wants to start a long term relationship. So this event should have kicked or encouraged me to keep going, but NOOOOOOOOOOO, it spiralled me into a 5 day eating binge that left me sicker than a dog....
Well I am back and not going to be side tracked again by a dumb guy who thinks a lil sweet talk will work...

Lesbian?

sunkisses

Lesbian?

Fail. Lesbians don't hate men. They're just not attracted to you.

Yakisoba

Ohhh Ohhh I know the answer I just need a pencil

Your post makes sense.

OP's post... not so much.

Bahet

OK, let's see if I have this right.

Guy wants nothing more than a booty call = you like him.

Guy compliments you and wants a real relationship = jerk who somehow forces you to binge eat.


Yea, I have a headache.

Iamfit4life

Did the OP ever say anything else other than the confusing initial post?