cruel people

tattooedtwiin

The emotional abuse I keep reading (especially from the parents to their kids) is horrible.

servilia

The emotional abuse I keep reading (especially from the parents to their kids) is horrible.

Yeah I agree.
Forgot to add my own dad's gems - if I'm a little bigger, I'm "thunder thighs". If I'm thin I'm "chicken legs". Sometimes you just can't win!

karenjoy

A man who I didn't know well, told me that I was a *kitten*, ran a pornographic website, was well known and despised in my own small community,Accused me of theft and assault and then he turned to my Daughter, who had recently had a very difficult time and had taken an overdose and said to her 'do a better job of killing yourself next time'

My Father now lives with this man and has nothing to do with me or my Children. That is the cruel part. My own father chose a man that said these things over us.

oh and by the way...none of the things he said are true..just in case you thought they might be

gumigal82

My ex boyfriend used to talk about his ex- girlfriend (before me) having the "skinniest tiniest waist ever...and she did Turbo Jam just like you do"
Also, how my legs and butt looked too old for my age. (Way too flabby)

gumigal82

the cruelest person in my life has been the person in the mirror.

No one has said more mean things to me than myself.

That's been the hardest thing in this journey- UNfriending THAT person.

Wow--that would be me as well. I am my own worst critic. It is always tough shaking off my need to be "perfect"...whatever that is;)

khubbard1207

I've never had someone say anything really nasty to me and I like to think I have pretty good self esteem. I actually used to love it when my great-grandmothers would say something about my weight. They could come up with the funniest stuff. It never bothered me because I didn't care what they thought about my weight. One of them asked me if I was growing a bay window. I still die laughing over that. Where do they come up with this stuff?

HornsUT32

My ex of 5 years...he was cheating on me and I found out about the "other woman". I ended up communicating with her, to make sure she knew the kind of guy he was.

She sent me an email where he told her "he would never date someone that looked like me, and that I only wished I was his girlfriend."

The funny thing is, he still pops up out of the blue, asking for another chance and telling me how badly he messed up. Now that I am smaller, it's like my slap in the face to him. I would never date him again...5 years was 5 years too many.

Darkskinned88

never really had too many ppl pick on my weight...being a big black dude has its perks, i was more teased on being a nerd/hopeless romantic/dark (damn chappelle/charlie murphy for "darkness")

ahelsel1970

I can't imagine wanting to "deck" someone saying nice things.

What would you do if she said something nasty?

Just be grateful!!

catshark209

From the other end of the spectrum:

1. Ohmygawd are you sick?? What's wrong?
2. Youre hella sucked up looking, wtf, are you tweaking monica?
3. Ummm not to be mean but you look like a skeleton
4. I bet on Halloween you guys don't put skeleton stuff out, cuz you're enough.
5. You need to eat a cheeseburger
6. Seriously you and your friend look like Laurel and Hardy, what does she steal your food? Is that why she's so fat and you're so bony?
7. Men don't like women that look like boys, no wonder you haven't remarried.

weighlossforbaby

My ex-husband told me one time that the reason we didn't go out anymore is because I was too fat to be seen in public. :frown:

What a jerk! :mad: I am glad he is yor EX now!!! Nobody should say that to you!!!!!!!! :flowerforyou:

caraiselite

i call myself worse things than anyone else ever has. (to my face anyway)

i'm my best motivator.

wolverine66

In 5th grade a teacher told me, in all sincerity, that I was the worst kid she had ever had in her class.

Trechechus

I was bullied a lot when I was younger. I was always artsy and dreamy and not really coordinated or sporty. People used to get angry and vicious when I could catch a baseball or run fast. People would hit me in the head with dodgeballs on purpose (after that game had ended.) I wasn't a pretty kid, I was a dork so the pretty girls used to make snide comments behind so I could hear them, or talk trash on me in Spanish as though I couldn't understand...

Now, they can screw themselves. I'm comfortable with the woman I have become and if I could see them again, I'd tell them that I forgive them because resentment is only hurting me, and I don't need any more negativity in my life.

isabel88g

I work in a hospital, and a patient asked me if I knew where the stairs were, and to be honest I dont know, cuz I work on the first floor, I told him that I did not know where the nearest stairs where but the information desk would gladly tell him where to find them, he then responded by saying, I didnt think you would know where the stairs where, you dont look like someone that uses them much, but you could afford to use them a couple times a day!

delaney056

A man who I didn't know well, told me that I was a *kitten*, ran a pornographic website, was well known and despised in my own small community,Accused me of theft and assault and then he turned to my Daughter, who had recently had a very difficult time and had taken an overdose and said to her 'do a better job of killing yourself next time'

My Father now lives with this man and has nothing to do with me or my Children. That is the cruel part. My own father chose a man that said these things over us.

oh and by the way...none of the things he said are true..just in case you thought they might be

Woah.

Trechechus

No matter what, remember this!

Gallen67

From the other end of the spectrum:

1. Ohmygawd are you sick?? What's wrong?
2. Youre hella sucked up looking, wtf, are you tweaking monica?
3. Ummm not to be mean but you look like a skeleton
4. I bet on Halloween you guys don't put skeleton stuff out, cuz you're enough.
5. You need to eat a cheeseburger
6. Seriously you and your friend look like Laurel and Hardy, what does she steal your food? Is that why she's so fat and you're so bony?
7. Men don't like women that look like boys, no wonder you haven't remarried.

#7 must of been said to you by another woman, amiright?

catshark209

From the other end of the spectrum:

1. Ohmygawd are you sick?? What's wrong?
2. Youre hella sucked up looking, wtf, are you tweaking monica?
3. Ummm not to be mean but you look like a skeleton
4. I bet on Halloween you guys don't put skeleton stuff out, cuz you're enough.
5. You need to eat a cheeseburger
6. Seriously you and your friend look like Laurel and Hardy, what does she steal your food? Is that why she's so fat and you're so bony?
7. Men don't like women that look like boys, no wonder you haven't remarried.

#7 must of been said to you by another woman, amiright?

Yeah lol. But 1 & 2 were guys. So was 6. I had an overweight friend in middle school. I was very skinny back then. The jokes about us two were horrendous.

kansasbelle

I was in NYC 3 years ago and a woman asked me "When is your baby due? " I Miscarried 6 months ago but thank you for reminding me you heartless *****! I bet she will never ask that question again.