Girls... Is muscle a turn off?

Suzieqt81

I dont prefer a really cut masculine man...there is a big difference between a healthy man and a man who cant even rest his arms at his side due to muscle build...

shasha_84

Id do dirty things to him

ZombieChaser

THIS is a turn on.




THIS is not.

OH MY.. i have some dirty *kitten* things running through my mind.. RYAN is gorgeous.. perfect in fact.. WOW!!

O_O Oh hell yes!

rml_16

So upon talking with most of the girls I know around 90% of them say that lean muscle and a guy having rippling abs is just pure gross!!!

I somehow think that these girls re misguided and just are not used to seeing a well built guy...

Do the girls here agree?? If not what is your ideal guy??

I know that there is more to a guy than a 'hot body' and that his personality plays a huge role... But who wouldnt want a guy with a hot body?? Am I right???

What is gross looking are those body building types with 7% body fat, steroid bloat and a fake tan all oiled up in speedos grinning, flexing and looking foolish. That's a far result from an athletic build and good physique.

And the ladies like a fit body just as much as we do - some don't like admitting that.

I love how you paint "all women" and "all men" with the same brush there. Cute how you did that.

Because, of course what ONE woman likes, ALL women like. And what ONE man likes, ALL men like.

We are programmed to like a fit person. ALL OF US. Just because we grow to look past that, doesn't mean we all don't like a "HOT" body.

Clearly, you can see into minds. Quick! What am I thinking right now?

Ambrogio1

ABS=Sexual Pleasures!

Any who tells you different is well lying!!

anjanettecomer

"Is muscle a turn-off?"

No.

TheLuSir

I've heard that guys with ripping muscles and VEINY bodies are gross. keyword VEINY.

HeidiMightyRawr

THIS is a turn on.




THIS is not.

I prefer the 2nd one myself. Maybe a little much on the biceps but I think that's just because he's pumped up/flexing. The rest looks amazing!

Smuterella

I like my fellas skinny, that undernourished look gets me every time.

haha what?

Yep, I like 'em slightly ill looking, like they can't cope properly on their own. I think its my motherly side. I want to look after them and feed 'em up. ;-)

nymphis

I am probably an exception. I don't like muscle at all ... I am quite into heavey metal / biker look ... long hair (it's very important) ... I don't mind skinny or a bit of beer belly ... Out of the pictures put in this thread I don't find any attractive ... but then that is just me ... *a weird one* :laugh:

TheLuSir

Ryan Reynolds = My Man Crush lol

ha.

Hugh Jackman = Bromance

Nitachi

I like my fellas skinny, that undernourished look gets me every time.

haha what?

Yep, I like 'em slightly ill looking, like they can't cope properly on their own. I think its my motherly side. I want to look after them and feed 'em up. ;-)

Adult diapers come to mind lol

TheLuSir

I like my fellas skinny, that undernourished look gets me every time.

haha what?

Yep, I like 'em slightly ill looking, like they can't cope properly on their own. I think its my motherly side. I want to look after them and feed 'em up. ;-)

I can't tell if you're serious or sarcastic, either way, I chuckled.

Stefanie7125

I like to LOOK at a well built guy, but I don't want to curl up with one.....

heartshines

Love muscles! All about the arms! Love muscular arms.
There's a difference between muscular guys and steroid junkies!
I love muscular guys! I know they care about their body and their physique.

We are all shallow and looks are the first thing we see. We are lying if we say we don't. It's all about being noticed.

My husband has huge arms...he has never taken steroids. He just works out. Sexy as hell!

carrie_eggo

THIS is a turn on.




THIS is not.

I prefer the 2nd one myself. Maybe a little much on the biceps but I think that's just because he's pumped up/flexing. The rest looks amazing!

I prefer #2 also...the first one is lean, but still too scrawny for my likes...

munkeyfunk

I like my fellas skinny, that undernourished look gets me every time.

haha what?

Yep, I like 'em slightly ill looking, like they can't cope properly on their own. I think its my motherly side. I want to look after them and feed 'em up. ;-)

So what happens when you;ve fed them and they're all good? :glasses:

Smuterella

I like my fellas skinny, that undernourished look gets me every time.

haha what?

Yep, I like 'em slightly ill looking, like they can't cope properly on their own. I think its my motherly side. I want to look after them and feed 'em up. ;-)

I'm totally serious, almost every guy I've dated has had a 30inch or smaller waist band looked like they hadn't eaten a vegetable or seen daylight in his entire life. I did date a very built rugby player for about three weeks and I found the muscle totally off putting. but then i'm bi, i like men that look like women and women that look like men. Each to our own!

I can't tell if you're serious or sarcastic, either way, I chuckled.

Smuterella

I like my fellas skinny, that undernourished look gets me every time.

haha what?

Yep, I like 'em slightly ill looking, like they can't cope properly on their own. I think its my motherly side. I want to look after them and feed 'em up. ;-)

I'm totally serious, almost every guy I've dated has had a 30inch or smaller waist band looked like they hadn't eaten a vegetable or seen daylight in his entire life. I did date a very built rugby player for about three weeks and I found the muscle totally off putting. but then i'm bi, i like men that look like women and women that look like men. Each to our own!

I can't tell if you're serious or sarcastic, either way, I chuckled.

that was me - clearly, not the poor chap i quoted! Ha!

rml_16

Love muscles! All about the arms! Love muscular arms.
There's a difference between muscular guys and steroid junkies!
I love muscular guys! I know they care about their body and their physique.

We are all shallow and looks are the first thing we see. We are lying if we say we don't. It's all about being noticed.

My husband has huge arms...he has never taken steroids. He just works out. Sexy as hell!

I agree that looks are the first thing we see, but we are not all attracted to the same looks.

And like I said, I notice a man's face before his body and by the time I've gotten to the body, I've talked to him and decided if I like his personality. The body is, quite frankly, the last thing I worry about. And if I'm attracted to the face and the personality, the body doesn't matter by then.

Nitachi

Love muscles! All about the arms! Love muscular arms.
There's a difference between muscular guys and steroid junkies!
I love muscular guys! I know they care about their body and their physique.

We are all shallow and looks are the first thing we see. We are lying if we say we don't. It's all about being noticed.

My husband has huge arms...he has never taken steroids. He just works out. Sexy as hell!

I agree that looks are the first thing we see, but we are not all attracted to the same looks.

And like I said, I notice a man's face before his body and by the time I've gotten to the body, I've talked to him and decided if I like his personality. The body is, quite frankly, the last thing I worry about. And if I'm attracted to the face and the personality, the body doesn't matter by then.

So what is your thoughts on body hair?

rml_16

I agree that looks are the first thing we see, but we are not all attracted to the same looks.

And like I said, I notice a man's face before his body and by the time I've gotten to the body, I've talked to him and decided if I like his personality. The body is, quite frankly, the last thing I worry about. And if I'm attracted to the face and the personality, the body doesn't matter by then.

So what is your thoughts on body hair?

I don't really have thoughts on it. Seriously, if you look at the guys I've dated in my life, you'll find a range of shapes, sizes, hair color (or no hair at all). Some had a lot of body hair, some have had very little.

If you've impressed me enough that we're to the point I'm finding out about the body hair situation, it's not going to matter whether you have it or not.

EDITED TO ADD: If he's naturally hair-free, that's fine. If a guy feels the need to wax his hair off, that's a turn-off. I like my men manly. The metro thing makes me ill.

cgrout78

This is hot....



This is not....

^^^^ This for me

grapenutSF

THIS is a turn on.




THIS is not.

#1 here.

and that bb.com poll? women choose their life partners by confidence>money>looks>height or some such thing? Life partners? Really? No. These are 20 year old women taking the poll. Or else the cast of Housewives of Beverly Hills.

munkeyfunk

I like my fellas skinny, that undernourished look gets me every time.

haha what?

Yep, I like 'em slightly ill looking, like they can't cope properly on their own. I think its my motherly side. I want to look after them and feed 'em up. ;-)

I'm totally serious, almost every guy I've dated has had a 30inch or smaller waist band looked like they hadn't eaten a vegetable or seen daylight in his entire life. I did date a very built rugby player for about three weeks and I found the muscle totally off putting. but then i'm bi, i like men that look like women and women that look like men. Each to our own!

I can't tell if you're serious or sarcastic, either way, I chuckled.

that was me - clearly, not the poor chap i quoted! Ha!

I see......iv got a 30 inch waist hahaha

each to their own, peace.

maryjay51

a guy could turn heads because he looks great and being toned and or full of muscles is nice but that doesnt do diddly to me if i dont like his personality.. he has a to have a great personality and some sense of intelligence for me to be attracted at all or forget it

Dragonwolf

Ryan Reynolds = My Man Crush lol

ha.

Hugh Jackman = Bromance

Ryan Reynolds (especially in Blade) = Drool
Hugh Jackman = Drool (and *melt* over his accent!!)

And I see your two and raise you Shemar Moore (Criminal Minds; http://spectacle.provocateuse.com/images/spectacles/shemar_moore_04.jpg )

Though I'm also rather partial to the kinda-scrawney-but-stronger-than-they-look nerdy guys, so The Big Bang Theory is my eye candy.

JennaM222

BRING ON THE JUICED UP GORILLASSS!!!!!!!!

hbrittingham

I like a man with a toned body. But I also like a man with a little bit of chest hair.

StrongGwen

I like muscle! don't go for the Mr Olympia look, all oiled and every little muscle popping--where do those guys buy shirts? or pants?? Strong arms , hard belly, nice thighs...that's a package of eye candy. For relationships, though, he needs more than muscle between his ears!