Your other half
Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home?
Cook for you?
Go food shopping?
Give you massages when you ask?
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome?
Buy his/her own clothes?!
Notice the dust?
Take the children off so you have some free time?
Arrange anything or is it all left to you?
Open his/her post?
Do any paperwork ever?
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home?
Cook for you?
Go food shopping?
Give you massages when you ask?
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome?
Buy his/her own clothes?!
Notice the dust?
Take the children off so you have some free time?
Arrange anything or is it all left to you?
Open his/her post?
Do any paperwork ever?
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Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Mostly
Cook for you? No, that would be awful, lol
Go food shopping? If I ask, that's usually my job
Give you massages when you ask? Sure
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? All the time
Buy his/her own clothes?! Yep
Notice the dust? Nope
Take the children off so you have some free time? Yes, he is wonderful
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? It's all me
Open his/her post? Not sure what this one means
Do any paperwork ever? No0 -
Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Mostly
Cook for you? No, that would be awful, lol
Go food shopping? If I ask, that's usually my job
Give you massages when you ask? Sure
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? All the time
Buy his/her own clothes?! Yep
Notice the dust? Nope
Take the children off so you have some free time? Yes, he is wonderful
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? It's all me
Open his/her post? Not sure what this one means
Do any paperwork ever? No
Sounds exactly like mine!0 -
Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? No. That's my job-but he does help randomly, usually when it is needed most. He also does all of the repairs and takes on the wacky projects I dream up. (This week it was a repurposed headboard made into a chalkboard and mounted onto the wall to write messages to our family on.) :laugh:
Cook for you? he grills like no other...and can cook the most perfect over medium egg. When i'm sick he makes me soup. Other than that, i'm the cook.
Go food shopping? He does with me. I'm the "manager" of the household so I try to take care of all that myself-but if we need to go shopping on his day off, he eagerly goes with me and helps put it all away when we get home.
Give you massages when you ask? All the time. He used to be a sports therapist and he gives the best massages! Almost every night I fall asleep while he is massaging me. It's so relaxing!
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? Constantly. He makes me feel like a queen.
Buy his/her own clothes?! Usually, because he is unusually large (6 foot 9 and 330 pounds) so it is difficult to surprised him and buy him something without having him try it on first.
Notice the dust? Never.
Take the children off so you have some free time? He would if I asked him, but he works so hard to support all of us that I very, very rarely ask him.
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? I do the planning and arranging of most things.
Open his/her post? yes, he likes to open his own mail. He is very organized and I have lost his bills once or twice.
Do any paperwork ever? He usually asks me to do it because he likes my handwriting better, but will not hesitate to do it if i'm not home.0 -
Mine did none of the above.
that's why he's gone.......................0 -
Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? yes
Cook for you? did last night
Go food shopping? i prefer to do it myself, but he would
Give you massages when you ask? when I'm pregnant. :laugh:
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? yes
Buy his/her own clothes?! yes
Notice the dust? sometimes...
Take the children off so you have some free time? yes!
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? I am in charge of our social life. By order of me.
Open his/her post? ...his what?
Do any paperwork ever? ...what do you mean?0 -
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? No but I don't work and he works full time.
Cook for you? Once a week he will.
Go food shopping? We do it together online.
Give you massages when you ask? Even when I don't ask.
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? Always.
Buy his/her own clothes?! He would but it's easier for me to do it and that way we can utilise his days off fully.
Notice the dust? Nope.
Take the children off so you have some free time? N/A
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? I arrange everything but it's part of my OCD. He used to arrange things but I would jut go over everything and change things so it became easier.
Open his/her post? Nope, I do it.
Do any paperwork ever? Nope, I do it.0 -
Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Not really. As a sahm he usually doesn't need to. Sometimes he'll do the dishes for me, which is nice.
Cook for you? He used to. When I was pregnant with my first he tried to have food for me when I got home from work, but I usually didn't like it (not his fault, just the preggo) so he stopped. But he does grill now that we have one. It is awesome. Especially during the summer
Go food shopping? When I ask him to or if I need to shop on the weekend he will come with me.
Give you massages when you ask? Usually, but they tend to be short, lol.
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? All the time, lucky me!
Buy his/her own clothes?! Yes
Notice the dust? Sometimes
Take the children off so you have some free time? Usually when I ask
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? Once in a while, but usually up to me.
Open his/her post? Yes, I generally will not open his mail.
Do any paperwork ever? He pays all our bills online.
I have an awesome hubby! :P0 -
My ex never did any of these and called me a lazy, stupid ***** all the time. Which is why I shed all 360 lbs of him!!0
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Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home?
yes, if not we both would fail!
Cook for you?
all the time
Go food shopping?
yes, he has a cart for the kids, i do the shopping!
Give you massages when you ask?
of course! i do him more tho bc he works harder
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome?
every single day.
Buy his/her own clothes?!
yes. ive tried and never get it right!
Notice the dust?
no, even i dont care abt that LOL if the floor is clean im good
Take the children off so you have some free time?
sure. but we both work full time so we tend to take the kids out and do fam things together
Arrange anything or is it all left to you?
Like where the forks go in the kitchen?? LOL No, i tend to do this but its because im picky.
Open his/her post?
? he doesn't go online so i guess no lol -- oh i see this means mail LOL he opens all the mail in the house thats rubbish to me.. i know what is due and when so no need for mail in my book!
Do any paperwork ever?
we dont have a lot of this but he does it more then I!0 -
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? - He does more, when he is home.
Cook for you? - Yes
Go food shopping? - Yes
Give you massages when you ask? - He would if I asked, but I don't ask
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? - Yes
Buy his/her own clothes?! - Yes
Notice the dust? - Yes
Take the children off so you have some free time? - Our kids are old so this doesn't apply
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? - It is usually left to me. He will make suggestions.
Open his/her post? - Yes
Do any paperwork ever? - No. I'm the paper work doer.0 -
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? - Yep.
Cook for you? - He makes a mean drink. Actual heat + food, I don't let him often.
Go food shopping? - He has done on occasion.
Give you massages when you ask? - Yes.
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? - Yeah, and the constant "hands on the breasticles" gets old sometimes.
Buy his/her own clothes?! - God no. He's a scientist. If I let him, he'd be wearing the same holey underwear until they disintegrated.
Notice the dust? - *wipes dust from her screen so she can continue typing her reply* Thankfully, no.
Take the children off so you have some free time? - Hardly ever. I love spending time with the annoying bugger though so I don't mind.
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? - Nope. I wouldn't trust him to.
Open his/her post? - Yep.
Do any paperwork ever? - I pay the bills. We do the taxes together.0 -
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Hell no
Cook for you? No
Go food shopping? Rarely
Give you massages when you ask? I can't tell him but he isn't very good at it so I don't ask.
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? Every day..
Buy his/her own clothes?! Nope - but that's ok.
Notice the dust? Nope.
Take the children off so you have some free time? N/A
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? I do it all .
Open his/her post?
Do any paperwork ever? Nope, I do it. I don't think he even knows what our checks look like.
BUT: I love him very very much.0 -
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? HA HELL NO
Cook for you? 4 TIMES IN 11 YEARS
Go food shopping? ONCE AND HE BOUGHT TWINKIES AND OREOS..I SAID WHERES THE REAL FOOD?
Give you massages when you ask? ONE MASSAGE IN 11 YRS
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? ONLY IF HE WANTS TO GET SOME
Buy his/her own clothes?! YES
Notice the dust? NO
Take the children off so you have some free time? NO
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? JUST ME
Open his/her post? YES
Do any paperwork ever? PAY THE BILLS0 -
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Well mostly, but he still refuses to clean the toilet it gets disgusting.
Cook for you? Yeah
Go food shopping? Yes
Give you massages when you ask? Not once
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? Not really
Buy his/her own clothes?! Yes
Notice the dust? Yes but doesn't do anything about it
Take the children off so you have some free time? N/a
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? Depends what it is
Open his/her post? he opens his own
Do any paperwork ever? Doesnt really have any
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Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? It's not an equal half since he pulls 10 hour days but he definitely helps
Cook for you? Yes. He actually does all the cooking since I'm the chick that can't boil water.
Go food shopping? Yup. We usually go together.
Give you massages when you ask? Yup all though he's not very good at it so I don't usually ask
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? Yup even though I think he's full of poo. I look FAT!
Buy his/her own clothes?! Usually we go shopping together but that's only because the fashion police would fill their quota if I let him go alone.
Notice the dust? Nope
Take the children off so you have some free time? Yes and I'm so thankful for it! I love that he understands how hard being a stay at home mom actually is.
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? What kind of anything are we talking about here? We plan together if we're going to do something or go somewhere. He arranges the furniture and I arrange everyone's doctor's appointments :laugh:
Open his/her post? Say whaaa?
Do any paperwork ever? Each Friday he does because he drives the van pool. He also helps me balance the checkbook but paying the bills is all me. Waaay better with numbers than he is.0 -
My ex never did any of these and called me a lazy, stupid ***** all the time. Which is why I shed all 360 lbs of him!!
Well done sista!~!!! :drinker:0 -
Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Yes, I do the bulk because he works, but he does what I would consider his fair share.
Cook for you? Yes, there are certain dishes that I cook and their are certain dishes that he cooks.
Go food shopping? We do it together.
Give you massages when you ask? Yes
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? Yes
Buy his/her own clothes?! We buy both of our clothes together
Notice the dust? Yes, but I notice it to, it doesn't bother him though, it only bothers me.
Take the children off so you have some free time? No children, only dogs, but he does take them for walks or
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? It depends on what it is, but mostly I do it because I like doing everything, and this is kind of a snow ball affect, if I start to arrange things than it makes more sense for me to just keep doing it because I know what has and has not been arranged.
Open his/her post? He opens his own but sometimes I get super excited when things come and I will open it first.
Do any paperwork ever? When paperwork does need to be done, I do it, but once again this is one of those snowball things that if I start to do it, I just keep doing it because I already know what needs to be done.0 -
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Sometimes
Cook for you? Yes
Go food shopping? Yes - we go shopping together
Give you massages when you ask? - Yes
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? - Yes
Buy his/her own clothes?! - Sometimes
Notice the dust? - Ern ... no, not at all.
Take the children off so you have some free time? - Our kids are quite grown up so no need, but if I want to go somewhere, yes he would help.
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? - I do all the organizing
Open his/her post? - Only when I hand it to him
Do any paperwork ever? - No0 -
Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? ~no because he has a full time job and i dont~
Cook for you? ~no i cook. i like to~
Go food shopping? ~no hes 20 years old he doesn't know how to ****ing grocery shop~
Give you massages when you ask? ~i dont like massages. i would punch him~
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? ~daily~
Buy his/her own clothes?! ~no me or his mom do that~
Notice the dust? ~no~
Take the children off so you have some free time? ~no kids~
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? ~if its his idea, he plans it~
Open his/her post? ~this is 2012 no ****ing post~
Do any paperwork ever? ~paperwork?~0 -
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Yep. A lot of times unasked as well!
Cook for you? Yep.
Go food shopping? We enjoy going together on that one.
Give you massages when you ask? All the time
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? Everyday. :blushing:
Buy his/her own clothes?! Yes.
Notice the dust? We both rarely notice that...haha
Take the children off so you have some free time? No kids, but he takes care of the dog a lot so I can have some alone time.
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? He's not very skilled at planning. :P
Open his/her post? He opens his own.
Do any paperwork ever? He handles his bills.
I find myself extremely fortunate.
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Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home?
Cook for you?
Go food shopping?
Give you massages when you ask?
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome?
Buy his/her own clothes?!
Notice the dust?
Take the children off so you have some free time?
Arrange anything or is it all left to you?
Open his/her post?
Do any paperwork ever?
Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? not without asking, pleading or nagging.
Cook for you? not lately because I am doing all the measuring etc. but he will.
Go food shopping? yes, if asked
Give you massages when you ask? most times
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? not often
Buy his/her own clothes?! no. and thank heavens no.
Notice the dust? no
Take the children off so you have some free time? yes, i am the more social, active and community involved.
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? all left to me
Open his/her post? yes
Do any paperwork ever? sometimes.0 -
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? - Yeah, and the constant "hands on the breasticles" gets old sometimes.
Buy his/her own clothes?! - God no. He's a scientist. If I let him, he'd be wearing the same holey underwear until they disintegrated.
SO get where you are coming from! About once a year mine goes clothes shopping and always comes home with 2 tweed jackets, 8 collared shirts and a pair of cord trousers. He's such a geek. I had to buy him socks for Christmas because he hadn't bothered getting his own in 5 years.0 -
YES to all....
been married for 25 year (26 on valentines day)...I'm a very blessed woman.0 -
Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? YES!!!!!! he does all the vacumming, all the dishes, a lot of the laundry, & most of the cleaning after we eat.
Cook for you? Yes, he usually cooks lunch every day
Go food shopping? No, I enjoy doing it, but he will go with me once a month so he knows prices of groceries and we can work within our budget each month.
Give you massages when you ask? yes
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? YES!!!
Buy his/her own clothes?! No, I have better taste than he does and he knows it lol
Notice the dust? Yes
Take the children off so you have some free time? YES YES YES
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? Usually left to me, but he does arrange little getaways as a surprise
Open his/her post? whomever checks the mail opens the mail
Do any paperwork ever? No, I'm better with filing and organizing0 -
Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? we don't live together
Cook for you? yes!
Go food shopping? yes!
Give you massages when you ask? definitely, even when i don't ask!
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? everyday
Buy his/her own clothes?! yes, but i'm trying to change that since his sense of style isn't all that great :noway:
Notice the dust? eh.
Take the children off so you have some free time?
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? arranges mostly everything
Open his/her post? huh?0 -
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Not equal, but he does laundry & empties dishwasher.
Cook for you? Yes, though not as healthy as me :ohwell:
Go food shopping? Not often, but since I work part-time out of home and he works F-T out of home, that's our arrangement
Give you massages when you ask? Yes
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? Yes
Buy his/her own clothes?! Yes
Notice the dust? Not really
Take the children off so you have some free time? Yes, definitely
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? Most to me
Open his/her post? Yes
Do any paperwork ever? Yes, he does most (though this is all electronic now, but still)
Mine is imperfect and awesome. 0 -
Just looking for a gauge really!
Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Yes. He cleans a lot.
Cook for you? Errrrr... Well... Sometimes. I'm getting more and more brave about letting him in the kitchen.
Go food shopping? Yes. Will buy chocolate to appease PMS'ed girlfriend.
Give you massages when you ask? Absolutely.
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? Daily.
Buy his/her own clothes?! Yes.
Notice the dust? Never. Well, except when he gets sneezy.
Take the children off so you have some free time? Yes. He will take the fur child away and play with her when she grates my nerves.
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? Arrange what? Furniture? Yes, he will put it where I tell him. He's very strong.
Open his/her post? Oh, that's British for mail, huh? :laugh: Yes, his mail is HIS. And sometimes he takes care of mine, depending on what it is.
Do any paperwork ever? Yes. Often his and mine. He is my PA. He manages my crap better than I manage myself.
With all this said, I highly recommend younger man.0 -
I have had no other half for many years.0
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Does your other half:
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Yes, we take turns. Like If I load the dishwasher he will unload and if he loads it I unload it. I fold the clothes and he puts them up.
Cook for you? sometimes
Go food shopping? We go food shopping together wtih the kids.
Give you massages when you ask? Yep
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? Yes, every single day!!
Buy his/her own clothes?! yes
Notice the dust? sometimes
Take the children off so you have some free time? Yes
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? we both do
Open his/her post? Not sure what you mean by this
Do any paperwork ever? Yes0 -
Filling this out about my boyfriend, we don't live together or anything but I'm bored :P
Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? He's offered to help me clean and do laundry before, so sure!
Cook for you? Yup!
Go food shopping? He brings me food, does that count?
Give you massages when you ask? Even when I don't ask
Tell you you are beautiful/handsome? Every day!
Buy his/her own clothes?! Yep
Notice the dust? N/A
Take the children off so you have some free time? N/A
Arrange anything or is it all left to you? He arranges more than I do!
Open his/her post? N/A
Do any paperwork ever? N/A0
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