OT: Falling For A Boy Makes You Crazzzy!

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MissGorgeous
MissGorgeous Posts: 394 Member
so im totally digging this new boy and im feeling all...... funny!
like when im around him...i dont feel like eating or drinking just want to talk to him ALL NIGHT
which is what we have done...the last few days
ive stayed up and talked to him untill i take my kids to school in the morning :noway:
and head to the gym and sleep later with the kids come home and nap!

i think i forgot what this felt like????
i keep forgetting to eat and all i think about is when im gunna see him again!

OH...and he told me..you look fine you dont need to work out...
omg he totally won my heart with that statment...lol

lol when does this feeling go away?????
its been about 2 weeks....and hes still got me all cought up
im not even that type of girl...most guys i could take or leave them
but this boy....yikes hes got me all cought up and i hate this feeling

even my husband never had me all cought up like this
i never cared if they called or texted and watched the clock
this boy has me excited to hear from him everyday

he calls me to say good morning! and goodnight and random calls or texts during the day
its really nice!

i think its the fact that he isnt throwing himself at me
hes playing it cool and most guys recently have been throwing themselves at me and i think thats unattractive
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  • MissGorgeous
    MissGorgeous Posts: 394 Member
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    so im totally digging this new boy and im feeling all...... funny!
    like when im around him...i dont feel like eating or drinking just want to talk to him ALL NIGHT
    which is what we have done...the last few days
    ive stayed up and talked to him untill i take my kids to school in the morning :noway:
    and head to the gym and sleep later with the kids come home and nap!

    i think i forgot what this felt like????
    i keep forgetting to eat and all i think about is when im gunna see him again!

    OH...and he told me..you look fine you dont need to work out...
    omg he totally won my heart with that statment...lol

    lol when does this feeling go away?????
    its been about 2 weeks....and hes still got me all cought up
    im not even that type of girl...most guys i could take or leave them
    but this boy....yikes hes got me all cought up and i hate this feeling

    even my husband never had me all cought up like this
    i never cared if they called or texted and watched the clock
    this boy has me excited to hear from him everyday

    he calls me to say good morning! and goodnight and random calls or texts during the day
    its really nice!

    i think its the fact that he isnt throwing himself at me
    hes playing it cool and most guys recently have been throwing themselves at me and i think thats unattractive
  • TamTastic
    TamTastic Posts: 19,224 Member
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    Hey. So you're not with your husband anymore??
  • MissGorgeous
    MissGorgeous Posts: 394 Member
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    Hey. So you're not with your husband anymore??

    nope
    i decided i didnt want to be married anymore
    i wanted to be single and take care of myself and kids
    but on mardi graw tuesday i met this boy
    he wasnt and isnt trying to get in my pants
    hesnot throwing himself at me and acting desperate
    hes just really chill and i like it alot
  • thejarviclan
    thejarviclan Posts: 465 Member
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    Mmmm, sounds like Classic Infatuation. :smile: But you need to take care of yourself and your children first and foremost. Get some rest, EAT, play with the kids, sleep at night. If he's as great as you think, he'll still be there later. :glasses:
  • kerrilucko
    kerrilucko Posts: 3,852 Member
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    hun you just ended a marriage, slow down on the whole falling in love thing.
  • MissGorgeous
    MissGorgeous Posts: 394 Member
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    hun you just ended a marriage, slow down on the whole falling in love thing.

    love?? *runs*
    i dont really believe in love...
    falling as in....starting to like him as more than friends

    i dont do that whole love junk...not for me
    im not a lovey dovey gushy person at all
    my husband is/was....it drove me nuuttts

    guys that "love me" creep me out
    im not into commitment and love and happily ever after stuff
    which is why everyone freaked when i randomly got married
  • kerrilucko
    kerrilucko Posts: 3,852 Member
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    hun you just ended a marriage, slow down on the whole falling in love thing.

    love?? *runs*
    i dont really believe in love...
    falling as in....starting to like him as more than friends

    i dont do that whole love junk...not for me
    im not a lovey dovey gushy person at all
    my husband is/was....it drove me nuuttts

    guys that "love me" creep me out
    im not into commitment and love and happily ever after stuff
    which is why everyone freaked when i randomly got married


    well ok but if you don't believe in love... or want to be in love... or whatever, then how come you're gushing over how this guy "won your heart" :huh:
  • MyaPapaya75
    MyaPapaya75 Posts: 3,143 Member
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    Wow that was a fast divorce..your kids are in school? I thought they were babies/toddlers...not any of my business of course but I remember you had mentioned the kiddies in a prior post....well whatever you do I wish you the best:drinker:
  • sassiebritches
    sassiebritches Posts: 1,861 Member
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    Hmmmmm, I personally think you should put the breaks on too......although I think that you are right by not being married, sounds like you are not ready for all the great things that marriage can offer a person/family. I agree with the other posts, you should focus on you and your kids, less on going out and a new "boy".

    My thoughts, but what do I know I have only been around the block a few times....:smokin:
  • MissGorgeous
    MissGorgeous Posts: 394 Member
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    Wow that was a fast divorce..your kids are in school? I thought they were babies/toddlers...not any of my business of course but I remember you had mentioned the kiddies in a prior post....well whatever you do I wish you the best:drinker:

    yes have preschool everyday
    8 to noon
    and talon has ju jitsu and pianno
    allison has dance class and a mommy and me class
    but the baby has nothing

    we arnt divorced...just seperated
  • MissGorgeous
    MissGorgeous Posts: 394 Member
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    hun you just ended a marriage, slow down on the whole falling in love thing.

    love?? *runs*
    i dont really believe in love...
    falling as in....starting to like him as more than friends

    i dont do that whole love junk...not for me
    im not a lovey dovey gushy person at all
    my husband is/was....it drove me nuuttts

    guys that "love me" creep me out
    im not into commitment and love and happily ever after stuff
    which is why everyone freaked when i randomly got married


    well ok but if you don't believe in love... or want to be in love... or whatever, then how come you're gushing over how this guy "won your heart" :huh:

    you cant take me so litteral
    won my heart as in....i thought he was super reet for saying that
    cause most guys are shallow...

    we are both a little bitter and hurt and ect
    so we are not rushing into anything
    just getting to know each other
    we both said dating anytime soon...is a def NO
    but hanging out and talking is fine

    we both have other things that come first
    i have kids...
    he has his busness to run and ect..

    but im just saying...i like this guy lots
  • yellow_pepper
    yellow_pepper Posts: 708 Member
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    I have erased my post to pre-empt the response it might have provoked.
  • keiko
    keiko Posts: 2,919 Member
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    I have erased my post to pre-empt the response it might have provoked.

    I wish I would have read that one!
  • sassiebritches
    sassiebritches Posts: 1,861 Member
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    I have erased my post to pre-empt the response it might have provoked.

    I wish I would have read that one!

    Me too :laugh:
  • johnblake
    johnblake Posts: 661
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    man I'm lucky I never fell for a boy :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    I say your young have some fun, BUT remember your young and having fun,

    Be careful:flowerforyou:
  • MissGorgeous
    MissGorgeous Posts: 394 Member
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    i found out this boys a loser.
    big time loser.
    huge loser.
    i think ill stick with my husband 0_0
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
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    I realize you are very very young. So I will be gentle.

    My mom used to tell me I could spend my entire life looking for what I had sitting in my living room.

    It sounds great out there..........but it really is all fantasy.

    Take your time, get some counseling and try to work it out.

    NO ONE is perfect.............but he may be perfect for you.

    Good luck and God Bless you and your babies.

    :flowerforyou:
  • Love_Conquers_All
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    i found out this boys a loser.
    big time loser.
    huge loser.
    i think ill stick with my husband 0_0

    Sounds like that husband has alot of patience and fortitude...er something.:noway: :huh: :frown:

    I'm sure glad you have your Mom looking after the kids and willing to do that...she's a Saint to be there for you when you drop them off.... again with the fortitude:drinker:
  • Marla64
    Marla64 Posts: 23,120 Member
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    I have erased my post to pre-empt the response it might have provoked.

    I wish I would have read that one!

    Me too :laugh:

    Me three-- !!!!!!
  • Love_Conquers_All
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    I have erased my post to pre-empt the response it might have provoked.

    I wish I would have read that one!

    Me too :laugh:

    Me three-- !!!!!!
    :tongue:
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