For the perpetually single

Live2InspireHope

After my engagement Fell Apart long Story. I just Feel i became Jaded plain and Simple. Did not Try to Date. to have fun and date you need to make a effort i have not for about 10 years. now over that time i got to a point where i hate myself so because of that i started doing amazing things for other people Creating Scholarships for local kids in schools and giving money to charity's. in many ways to make myself feel better about who i am who i was becoming. i ignored the Fact that i was already a good person who just did not love himself. so for the first time in years i am making a effort to create a better ME. i feel by doing that other things will fall in place. being alone is not a bad thing its just not the right thing. we are meant to have and share love in our lives. i have chosen to be alone last 10 years or so. my choice to be that way. to change that its my control to do something else.

AmberJo1984

I've always been single. I've never found anyone... Never been in any type of relationship... And never even came close. As a child, I was molested. I also witnessed my parents' poor relationship. As a result of both of these... I'm terrified of finding someone that will hurt me. But at the same time, I'm also terrified of remaining alone. I don't know how to handle both of those fears. So... with me, I guess I am just defective. But... I'm trying to learn how to be ok with that.