Question for women

klynn81

Definitely cut with medium muscles and a low body fat percentage and NOT at all bulky! I'm not into bulky guys at all.



This guy is super hot and can pull it off, but any bulkier than this and it's a major turn off for me.


I generally go for guys with a build more like this:

exactly what she said to a T. I'm not into bulky at all either.

thekateb

Extremely cut and NOT bulky BUT not too skinny

cdickinson607

my man is more bulky then cut but he has an amazing body. He is in the military so he stays in shape i would love his body no matter what it looked like.

erojoy

too much muscle creeps me out. no woman wants to be with a guy that is too fit. imagine the pressure that puts on us, but also it's just not really attractive.

erojoy

Definitely cut with medium muscles and a low body fat percentage and NOT at all bulky! I'm not into bulky guys at all.



This guy is super hot and can pull it off, but any bulkier than this and it's a major turn off for me.


I generally go for guys with a build more like this:

exactly what she said to a T. I'm not into bulky at all either.

100% agree

SergeantSunshine_reused

Whatever body type my boyfriend has

He is a hockey player, and a little more "bulky" The cut look is okay I suppose, but I think he looks perfect the way he is. Flat tummy, no 6 pack, but still very strong

Bikini27

I prefer when a man looks like he doesn't spend all of his time in the gym, but his body comes from physical work.
However it's done, that's your secret. Like it's a woman's secret how we're so hairless.

lumina0o0

more cut less bulky

sml1231

I dont care if theyve got a body like yours :P

I prefer more bulky, less cut

Seconded on both accounts

I'll add a hearty AMEN to both!

carlie_carl

I think there is alot of double standards tbf, alot of men get accussed of adding pressure for women to be slim but its exacly the same as women saying they like there men cut witch in reality is just slim with deffinition, Im not saying thats wrong to desire that but men shouldnt be slain for saying the exact same thing as women lol

Bikini27

I think there is alot of double standards tbf, alot of men get accussed of adding pressure for women to be slim but its exacly the same as women saying they like there men cut witch in reality is just slim with deffinition, Im not saying thats wrong to desire that but men shouldnt be slain for saying the exact same thing as women lol

Agreed. We all want a specific thing, a thing that gets the juices flowing, and it's different for all of us (see all the posts!). So no, I don't hate men for wanting out of women what women want out of men.

losingtwenty4miami

less bulky, more cut

itgeekwoman

Alive!

Ok for real, CUT, but since I can't have that, I'll take Alive!

SergeantSunshine_reused

I think there is alot of double standards tbf, alot of men get accussed of adding pressure for women to be slim but its exacly the same as women saying they like there men cut witch in reality is just slim with deffinition, Im not saying thats wrong to desire that but men shouldnt be slain for saying the exact same thing as women lol

Agreed. We all want a specific thing, a thing that gets the juices flowing, and it's different for all of us (see all the posts!). So no, I don't hate men for wanting out of women what women want out of men.

Exactly my thoughts. Which is why I love how my boyfriend looks - he works hard, doesn't obssess and I love him. No need to be super ripped. Huge double standard here on mfp

carlie_carl

I think there is alot of double standards tbf, alot of men get accussed of adding pressure for women to be slim but its exacly the same as women saying they like there men cut witch in reality is just slim with deffinition, Im not saying thats wrong to desire that but men shouldnt be slain for saying the exact same thing as women lol

Agreed. We all want a specific thing, a thing that gets the juices flowing, and it's different for all of us (see all the posts!). So no, I don't hate men for wanting out of women what women want out of men.
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same here, I agree, I have strange taste as it is so my opinion wouldnt count lol, there seems to be alot of emphasis on how people should look on these forums and alot of shallow responces (not everyone of course some lovey people and answers) I find quite ironic considering the majority of us have experienced been frowned upon because of our weight, I agree each to their own

itgeekwoman

I don't think there's a double standard here. Most people want healthy. That's what this is about. I think it's more appropriate to say, it's equal. And this is an opinion question.

XXXMinnieXXX

Your just right!

theoriginaljayne

I'm inclined to say more cut, less bulky, but you know what would help? Lots of pictures, so I can pick my favorites. *wink*

HeidiMightyRawr

More bulky, less cut.

Not that fussed though, as long as it's not too extreme on either side.

HonkyTonks

Neither.. for some reason I like kinda chubby

fiberartist219

I'm not exactly sure on what we are referring to by bulky or cut... My husband is generally a big guy, and he's super hot. He's muscular, and he makes me drool! I don't really care for scrawny guys, and I don't like the kind of muscular that gets shown on TV either. I don't go for the hairless perfectly chiseled look, because it makes me wonder how the guy gets so big but doesn't have chest hair.... A man needs to be manly for my level of taste, but any extra steroids or that kind of thing makes the muscles start to look gross and freakish.

There is a competitive body builder that works at my job, and he's not hot at all to me. I don't think he is on the juice or anything, but he works out non stop, and eats stuff like raw meat all the time because he simply can't consume enough protein to keep up with his build. It's kind of gross.

My hubs works out, but he does it for about an hour or so, a few times a week, and he also runs. He doesn't lift all day every day like the body builder guy does.

A little bit of pudge doesn't bother me, but a spare tire does. If a man has boobs and looks pregnant, he's not attractive to me. I don't mind a little layer of fat though. My hubs just lost 50lbs, and I was still plenty attracted to him before he lost the weight... and I still am!

gumigal82

Just curious, do you prefer a man's body that is extremely cut and slightly less bulky or someone that is more bulky & slightly less cut?

I do like abs a lot on a man--but he doesn't need to be "ripped". Too much muscle is not my thing. More cut, less bulk. I am a petite lady (5'2) after all;)

gumigal82

Your just right!

Ha ha;)

paulamarsden

this is super hot, shaky knees hot.


so god only knows.

SergeantSunshine_reused

I don't think there's a double standard here. Most people want healthy. That's what this is about. I think it's more appropriate to say, it's equal. And this is an opinion question.

There is a double standard on mfp - not talking about only this thread. Women would yell at a man posting a picture of a model because "I want more curves, I actually want to eat, thats a lot of pressure on women" but then if a woman posts a pic of a 6 pack she gets 4 pages of >swoon< as put by another poster

Bellyroll

Dont really care. I would just like to know he can lift me and take care of me.

YukonJoy

More bulky. I don't care if a man has a bit of extra fat on him, in fact, I prefer it. I like big guys. I mean BIG like...linebackers.

Yum yum yum.

itgeekwoman

I don't think there's a double standard here. Most people want healthy. That's what this is about. I think it's more appropriate to say, it's equal. And this is an opinion question.

There is a double standard on mfp - not talking about only this thread. Women would yell at a man posting a picture of a model because "I want more curves, I actually want to eat, thats a lot of pressure on women" but then if a woman posts a pic of a 6 pack she gets 4 pages of >swoon< as put by another poster

That's a shame then, because men have the same challenges as women. I don't objectify men. My first response was Alive . I want one that cares, has a heartbeat and loves me. If there was a grocery store where I could choose, I have no idea how I'd make that choice.

aippolito1

I just like a tad bit of cut. Like Adam Levine. He doesn't have a six pack poppin' out, but he's cut in all the right places.

tmarie2715

Just curious, do you prefer a man's body that is extremely cut and slightly less bulky or someone that is more bulky & slightly less cut?

I don't understand the question.

Are we talking skinny but with muscle definition vs. muscles and bulk?

It is hard for me to wrap my mind around a REALLY skinny guy, like one who doesn't eat very much or runs a little too much, if you know what I mean. I like a decent set of shoulders on a man.