Guys is it really a turn on?
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I had all that stuff for the honeymoon. (almost 11 years ago) own nothing now. He doesn't seem to care. T shirt and lace undies is all that's in the drawer now. I tried to bring myself to buying something today and the stuff just isn't flattering for all body types.
Trust me he does care. If you go out of your way to do it he knows that you want to feel sexy for him. Here's an example, let's say you purchase a used car (not calling you used...although past history does dictate n this situation. just sayin') and it's a really great car but the dealer you buy it from bother to shine that baby up. I mean sure it's still fast and has great curve but...Eh! :ohwell: I'll drive I guess:grumble:0 -
I absolutely love it!! No doubt about that. Any of you that think it gets in the way, it is a waste, etc well go on with your missionary position only point of view.0
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Yes! It's a "huge turn on" for me all of the reasons already posted.
If you're a woman and you're questioning whether or not you should make the effort, I say YES, every time.
What makes the whole experience even better? ... If we go shopping together and I help you choose what you're gonna be wearing.0 -
Ouch! Your husband should like every part of you... Oppisite of what lingerie should be for imo. Ultimately you should be naked. Thats sad hes not completely attracted to you.My husband loves lingerie... but if I put it on, he likes me to leave it on throughout - partly because he just thinks it's sexy, partly because it covers up the parts of me he doesn't like very much
Just to comfort you, even though I don't have rolls, my hubby doesn't like my body shape. He prefers no curves at all and big boobs. I am an hourglass shape with lots of curves, I don't want him to lie to me ever so it doesn't bother me when he tells me this.
I know where he stands and he loves me very much and I him even though I don't like his big stomach and he knows that too. We have very few fights and a lot of respect each other. We have been married for 4 years now and we have promised our selves to each other for the rest of this life and the next two on several occasions...
Love is more than skin deep and I am thankful I have a wonderful sweetheart who loved me the same when I was 6 sizes bigger than I am now (when we got married), when I was almost 300 lbs (a year and a half ago) and then as small as I am now. Even if he doesn't like my curves he will always love me and adore me for who I am to him.
I wish you all the peace, happiness and joy in the world for you and you sweetheart!0 -
The helping me choose part is fun. We go in and he gets to pick, and then I get all ready for him later in what HE chose. I dont wear it to hide any parts of me, I feel like it kind of exaggerates some flaws. But I feel sexy in it knowing how much he likes it and seeing the look on his face when I just walk into the livingroom with some new outfit he hasnt seen, heels and some sexy DVD from our collection that I picked out for us to watch (for a few minutes and then have playing in the background.). It drives him wild and THAT makes it worth the effort. One time, early in our relationship, he said to me "I want to thank you for all of the work you put into making sure you look nice even though I am the only one who will see it. And for when we go out and everyone can see it and see that you are on MY arm and wish you were on theirs." After he said this, it made me feel really good about it, and I always feel better when I am put together, so it made me want to ALWAYS look my best for the both of us. Especially when I am in some new naughty nighties.0
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It's not a must, but quality lingerie is definitely a turn on, it enhances the body contours and looks pretty and provocative simultaneously - a neat trick.
Tacky cheap lingerie though, and you may as well not bother, just cheapens the wearer.0 -
Forget the guys ... it should be a turn on for YOU! I wear sexy items under my clothes ... or nothing at all underneath when the circumstance warrants it ... because it makes ME feel sexy as hell. The fact that he likes it too is just a bonus in my book.
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To be frank sometimes one of my tee shirts, a thong(thong optional), or my dress shirts will work do the job!0
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My ex boyfriend loved it! But he also had a thing for pjs as well lol.0
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To be frank sometimes one of my tee shirts, a thong(thong optional), or my dress shirts will work do the job!
Yes!! Throw in a loosely knotted tie (that could come in handy later) and some spiked heels and the dress shirt becomes an instant hit!!0 -
It's like unwrapping a present.
The beautifully wrapped gift is a joy to behold.
Imagine a gift in an old plastic bag as opposed to lovely wrapping, bow and special care taken.
That's just my opinion!
Beautifully put!
Lingerie also makes me feel super sexy, confident and hot!
It must be a winner!0 -
after 20 years of marraige, I've totally forgotten. All I get is white cotton bikini bottoms and sprots bra tops. sexy in its own right but I'd rather play with the presents than unwrap them.0
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We love it all, ladies!To be frank sometimes one of my tee shirts, a thong(thong optional), or my dress shirts will work do the job!
Yes!! Throw in a loosely knotted tie (that could come in handy later) and some spiked heels and the dress shirt becomes an instant hit!!
Lingerie? YES!
Sweats? YES!
Business attire? YES!
Heels only? YES!
Just panties? YES!
Naked? YES!
YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! :drinker:0 -
To be frank sometimes one of my tee shirts, a thong(thong optional), or my dress shirts will work do the job!
Good answer!0 -
hhahahahahahhahaha! love the sense of humor! But....if I FEEL sexier, I am sexier. If he thinks I am.....grrreat! whatever it takes.All this talk about lingerie just got me turned on. And I'm still at work for 6 more hours. This sucks. Might as get some ice cold drink and hose this down.0 -
We love it all, ladies!To be frank sometimes one of my tee shirts, a thong(thong optional), or my dress shirts will work do the job!
Yes!! Throw in a loosely knotted tie (that could come in handy later) and some spiked heels and the dress shirt becomes an instant hit!!
Lingerie? YES!
Sweats? YES!
Business attire? YES!
Heels only? YES!
Just panties? YES!
Naked? YES!
YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! :drinker:
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To be frank sometimes one of my tee shirts, a thong(thong optional), or my dress shirts will work do the job!
Yes!! Throw in a loosely knotted tie (that could come in handy later) and some spiked heels and the dress shirt becomes an instant hit!!
This is a favourite. Definitely goes over well.0 -
I want to know what you guys think about lingerie. Is it a must? Like it? Hate it? Don't care as long as you get some? I really have never liked the stuff. What's the point when it's coming right off?
i haven't ever really found lingerie appealing.0 -
IMO putting it on is sexy. Knowing you are wearing sexy lingerie all day or at least part of it on and then revealing it is tres sexy. And removing it slowly is even better, esp with a confident look on your face. Even better when its completely off and you feel confident enough to show us your all...0
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It's like unwrapping a present.
The beautifully wrapped gift is a joy to behold.
Imagine a gift in an old plastic bag as opposed to lovely wrapping, bow and special care taken.
That's just my opinion!
this. my ex used to text me during the day at work and describe what she was wearing that day. couldnt wait to get home to unwrap my present!0
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